darktydez Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	She keeps asking me to help her do stuff Yeah the people who buy into their victim nonsense are known as the flying monkeys. They are usually just as toxic as the professional victim. 🤣🤣🤣🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/21 12:59 PM
1	She keeps asking me to help her do stuff Oh yeah definitely. Just Stay focused on you and the kids. She has to become as irrelevant to you as last week's weather. Then you heal. Once they are no longer taking up your head space, life begins to looks at lot more fun. Anytime ya need a chat buddy just hit me and if I'm online I will respond.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/21 12:57 PM
2	She keeps asking me to help her do stuff This is the way forward. Spot on buddy.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/21 12:55 PM
3	She keeps asking me to help her do stuff Yeah your not a bad person buddy, believe it or not you are actually a victim, just like everyone else who gets close to a person with BPD. You could be the worlds strongest Man but these people are really fucked up and they can break anyone if you stay to close, they will make you question your own sanity and they do this through projection. They try their best to project there shame onto you, which is why you ended up telling ya self your an evil bastard, it's her projecting her thoughts and n…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/21 11:25 PM
2	She keeps asking me to help her do stuff You actually just quoted a therapist I know. He says, hell hides beneath the mask. I feel for you buddy, I was there for 13 years and these disorded individuals really do a number on ya health. Stay strong buddy, your doing the right thing getting out.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/21 11:07 PM
2	She keeps asking me to help her do stuff Yeah they are all the same, they just wear different masks buddy.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/21 11:04 PM
1	Do what YOU want...?? Try to see it like this: The bike will make you happy and anything that instill happiness in you, will make you a more joyful person to be around, therefore it's essentially an investment in yourself. Buy the bike, it's productive. 😉 😎	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/21 01:45 PM
1	Is this abuse? SBTX living in the home with me and non-stop drama. This is abuse buddy, emotional abuse, verbal abuse, mental abuse. Abuse comes in many forms, physical, mental, emotional, verbal etc. So, yes, it is abuse in a sense.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/21 01:37 PM
2	What Keeps You Up at Night As you Go Through Your Divorce? This is so spot on.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/21 01:31 PM
2	She keeps asking me to help her do stuff They are literally all the same personality wise, which translates to: they actually have no personality just traits lol. They all do the same shit, well 99.9% of em anyway. I'm sure there is one or two out there who are different, but they are few and far between. The majority of them usually gaslight, project, wear masks, mirror others, and lack an individual identity. They are hard work to be around. I feel for you my friend. Has your divorce gone through?	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/21 01:07 PM
2	She keeps asking me to help her do stuff 🤣🤣🤣. Thanks YouTube doc. I'm sorry I shouldn't laugh buddy but that cracked me up. Yeah I know where you are coming from with the complete flip in personality. It's just all mirrors and masks. I had my ex tell me she's perfectly fine after discarding her son for a month and then coming back a month later, pretending she's normal, and mirroring her new favourite person, apparently she's didn't have BPD anymore. Me: erm ok I'm glad you are feeling better but wasn't you threatening to stab me a mon…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/21 09:40 AM
2	She keeps asking me to help her do stuff Yeah been through it all buddy, 13 years with a cluster b, they are all habitual liars and cheats and Psychiatrist sometimes refer to the BPD disorder as the professional victim disorder. I got full custody of our kid when he was 3 and he's now 6, we have spells where we have to go complete no contact with his mum for a while due to her abusive episodes. They just can't regulate and process their emotions in a healthy manner. The quicker you are away from her the better buddy. Here's a fun fact …	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/21 09:35 AM
3	She keeps asking me to help her do stuff If she's BPD. Definitely part attention, it's known as (supply) to them in psychology terms. They need attention to regulate, she also probably believes that if she can keep you engaged enough with her you wont move on and she can have her cake and eat it.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/21 01:02 AM
5	She keeps asking me to help her do stuff This. Spot on.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/21 12:57 AM
1	Need to stop going over to the ex’s Lol this made me laugh. Thanks buddy.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/21 06:05 PM
2	Is this verbal abuse? Someone's been married to a cluster b..... 👊🤣🤣🤣🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/21 05:58 PM