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He basically said “if that’s what I think I should do.”. No fighting for me, no trying to change. Nothing. I think that hurt the most
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:36 PM
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Well I told him every time he did something I didn’t like and he still did it. So I told him today that I’m leaving, packed some stuff after work and now I’m currently sleeping in my new room
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:55 AM
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I just bought the bed covers I want and I’m so happy! I bought that fluffy rug he said he hated and bought white decorations even though he wanted black ones. It’s only night one so I can’t say I feel a lot of grief but time only tells how it all goes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:07 AM
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100% gonna use this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:13 PM
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Omg that is the WORST!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:43 AM
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I NEED to have this statement FUCKING NAILED TO MY HEAD! I am 100% guilty of this! I am expecting the "oh my god... I had no idea I hurt you so much. Please forgive me, here's some fucking roses". It never works, yet I still attempt it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:40 AM
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Not positive but I think in the next week or so. I suck at surprises because I always ruin them by clicking on too quickly. I remember seeing him planing things last week with a mate of his and finding him looking at rings as well as finding the ring sizer band kinda sealed the deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 10:27 PM
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Oh 100%! He knew I was serious the moment I told him my ultimatum. In typical aussie fashion "I ain't here to fuck spiders" which means I am not here to waste my time. I am here for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:57 AM
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Oh I love this so much! Haha! Unfortunately, I was LITERALLY in this situation. Pretty much said to him straight "I am not going to stay with someone who is unsure about me. Its either yes or it is a no. Cya!" And he did a complete 180, we started dating, have animals together, bought a house together and I just found him looking at engagement rings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:42 AM
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I have never seen this movie but by god, this is the most truthful statement about men and marriage I have ever seen!! Mary: Virgin and gives birth, perfect - Some praise God: Absent, no involvement in childs' life, does nothing - Praised on high as the almighty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:39 PM
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And if they get custody, they'll complain that no one praising them for cleaning up after themselves or doing the bare minimum...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:12 AM
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One thing I hate the most is I actually have issues with both my parents. And apparently this is the only reason I do or say anything that is not to society norm. Um no, I do and say shit because I want to not because men think i am damaged goods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:45 AM
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Women are expected to do all the above as well as be athletic, have big boobs, a big ass, be pornstars in bed but has only slept with less than 5 men. Men? If the clean up after themselves we should feel blessed!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:02 AM
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I was told that me valuing and expecting my partner to do something on our anniversary and valentines day is unreasonable......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:09 AM
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Because the TP can get stuck inside, fester and give you toxic shock or a vagina that smells like death due to the toilet paper rotting inside you. It effects your PH levels and is much more dangerous than wrapping your undies in toilet paper. I didn't down vote you but this would (I think) be the reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 01:40 AM
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No idea. They think women are weak and cant stand the sight of blood yet they cry at the first mention of periods. Periods have LITERALLY been around since humans existed.... why is it taking so long for men to see that it is normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:34 AM
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I have NEVER made a tampon out of toilet paper haha a pad? yeah of course but a tampon?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:23 AM
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Jesus. That is so upsetting. I don't understand how fathers can be upset at something we have no control over. My situation was quite the opposite. My father wasn't around and my mother never told me that women get periods.... so I got mine (at home thank god) and cried thinking I was dying.... I was so scared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:21 AM
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Tell ya what, she can keep her boobs big if you can satisfy her during sex........ oh wait.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:43 AM
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I think abortions are only demanding and gruelling on your mental health. In some cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:36 PM
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The ironic thing is that men have breasts too and also do get breast cancer..... And no one said you cant have an opinion. We only said you cant have the right to force a woman to do anything with her body she doesn't want to. Literally can't understand how men say this shit. It is the same with women not wanting to be cat called and sexually harassed. And the top comment from men is "oh Jesus, take a compliment" or "Now I am scared to compliment any woman because it could be harassment!". If yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:31 PM
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How do I go about this? I fucking leave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:31 AM
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Oh and my favourite!!!!: "I have needs too!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 04:02 AM
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100% They'd say: "well what do you expect? Your deathly ill and cant give me a blow job so I went elsewhere.... if you think about it, it is your fault I cheated!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:43 AM
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This man: Here, let me lose some weight so you can have my kidney so we can still grow old together because I love you Other men: oh you could die? That sucks...... can we still fuck though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:29 AM
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I can't believe men like this exist..... this is incredible. The thought he puts into taking care of his wife is crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:22 AM
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That’s a great idea!! I might try implementing this tactic to see if it helps. Thank you so much for commenting. It’s really nice to speak to someone who knows how you feel. Really made my day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:02 PM
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I am in the same boat!! I had a hefty dose of emotional abuse from my mother and it’s shaped me into the person I am today. I shut down when I’m in an argument with a partner, I invalidate my own feelings and cry at the drop of a hat. With my mother it was always sit quietly whilst she screams at you. And if you start crying, she will have a go at my crying as well. Which made me cry even more. Trying to push through this and recreate my emotions is so hard. I struggle so hard just to not cry be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:39 AM
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I just love how not having fake nails means you are low maintenance. I literally cannot stop myself from peeling the skin around my fingers unless I have fake nails that are blunt. I am not high maintenance, i just have ADHD and cant sit still haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:36 AM
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Is he a backward LVM???? Most ask you to smile more.... this is so confusing haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 11:04 PM
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Because if someone is single and attractive it MUST mean there is something wrong with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:57 AM
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I just changed to the mirena so still working out the kinks. But I have always been this way. It sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:04 AM
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I hate when people call a good man "P$$y whipped". He ain't whipped, he is just a HVM who actually gives a shit about his woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:22 AM
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I hate my lack of emotional control. Whenever I am angry, I cry. Frustrated? Cry. Disagreement with partner? Cry. It's fucked. No one takes me seriously if i cry during every argument. I am slowly training myself. As well as stopping myself saying sorry for everything. My new response is "I am not going to apologise for blank " instead of going straight to "sorry" about everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:18 AM
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I was told by a man that i am a 5/10. That I look like the most basic and average woman he has ever seen. This made me realise that I shouldn't give a fuck what people think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:53 AM
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Queens be like: "I'm glad you can admit you are toxic. Cya later!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:48 PM
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When I am sad, the most I want is a hug. I'd have snot running from my nose, puffy eyes, a head ache and feel awful. The last thing I want is some dude comfort-fucking me haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:05 AM
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Agreed! I wish most other movies would follow suit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 10:46 PM
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One film that pissed me off is Muriels Wedding. She is literally crying because her mum died and over comes the strapping swimmer boy and they fuck. Like CMON!!! The last thing I want when I am grieving is a dick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 06:47 AM
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(I am a pick me girl and still struggling) It takes forever to change a mindset and change something you are completely used to doing. And when you do try and change, having an opinion and the ability to say "No" is scary to men. I am still struggling to put me first and stop doing shit just to fit in or so that men "pick me". But we will get there in the end. It takes time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:58 AM
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In other words "let your partner do whatever they want because your happiness is a buzz kill"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:56 AM
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I don't understand how people don't get how he is the ass hole! Ill give you an example: 2 humans are going on a 2 day hike. I own 2 apples and my partner owns 4 apples. The tax to cross the bridge is two apples. Should we split the cost and I have to make one apple feed me for 2 days? Whilst he still has 3 apples to last him 2 days?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:00 AM
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Split bills 50/50? Sure! If you split the entire income that comes in 50/50. A relationship is a partnership.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:34 AM
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I don't think I have ever met or been treated by a HVM. It is quite disheartening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:40 AM
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"If you can't decide between me or another girl then let me make it easy for you, I drop out of the race! If I am not your first and only choice, then I don't want to be any choice. I am not an option and I am too good of a woman to put up with this shit" This was after I found out he was messaging other women in the double digits. So after this comment I kicked him out, moved town and started new. He is still with this chick 3 years later.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:22 AM
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I've always wondered how these "kinks" came to be. Mostly because porn has evolved from just sex to beating, group sex, scat porn etc. How have women been conditioned to believe being smacked in the face is a sexual act and not abuse. Like, women in these situations never stop to ask "why does this man want to hit me in the first place?". One kink I still don't understand is how men think a threesome is innocent. Having a threesome is not just a "fun time", it is the woman being okay with watchi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:50 PM
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