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Fathers/Custodydarren559/r/MensRights30/04/15 01:16 PM
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Dude is on point, the facts as to why it is a bad idea (their traumatic life) is laid out by this man.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 07:43 PM
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Hahahah, exactly, every damn time.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 07:22 PM
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You can invest in it for one night at her place, then vanish. All holes are accessible in that one night in any order you wish, no problemo, every damn time.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 07:21 PM
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I really like one point you made. Date a single mother and realize what it is to be a third wheel in which you find your truly have no say in the family unit. Kids screaming, etc. You will definitely have an eye opening experience and truly realize how wonderful it is to have your peace and tranquility, that is not loneliness, that is freedom from chaos. ​ I have my own kids and raising them is natural and you get to be a true father. Get into a relationship with another person... well it's not …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 07:37 PM
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PASS.... seriously, pass the fuck up on this deal. Your place is your place and your place alone. If you love to deal with shit tests 24/7, then go ahead and let her move in. It may not be now, three months, or even two years down the road, but eventually the nagging and shit tests will be showered down upon you daily with such force that you will barely be able to stand. Sure you might still be holding frame and passing them all, but just simply dealing with the shit tests on a daily basis is s…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:54 PM
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I concur my friend. The warm fuzzys they feel from a new relationship start to fade and then it's over in their minds. I remember when the most current LTR came over when we first started dating she would clean the hell out of my place and cook me gourmet meals every fucking night. Now, I new that she was just doing this because of the heroin high that women get off of new relationships with the warm fuzzys are about to burst from within, and I took advantage of it for as long as it would last (…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 12:42 PM
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Yes, the reason I am ending it is the "manning up" part. Actually took me a minute after she said this and I was like "WTF?" I actually went beta for a second thinking "what does she mean?" Took me a second to throw that blue pill up real quick (emotional investment) and just throw her out and move forward in my life without the noise.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 07:55 PM
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God damn, that was dead on accurate. I am actually getting out of a recent LTR to see if I could get it to work knowing how women truly were after I took the redpill after my divorce four years ago, and no matter what, relationships are not meant to work in today's society. If you are truly Alpha (current long term relationship which I am ending), they will love it in the beginning, but if you never ever change from being Alpha then they will eventually come to resent that shit because the fear …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 04:51 PM
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I guess I got the saweeeet end of the deal, I only have 50% of my income going to alimony and child support, time to celebrate!!!!
/r/MGTOW28/11/16 04:43 AM
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It is a remarkable gift, is it not? My intuition has been dead on accurate every time. The first time it happened I had never felt it so I did not know what the hell it meant, just that something was off in life. A week later the ex-wife broke down (literally, like passed out, hit her head on the floor, and woke up crying because of her cheating ways, at least the bitch felt guilty) and now I know exactly what that spider sense means. From that point forward I always knew.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:26 PM
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The world is how it is and nothing can change that, tell her to stop bothering you with this trivial shit and just live life.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:20 PM
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Hahah, yup, Batman will find out and he will kick her the hell out of Wayne manor because he was smart and didn't marry, and he knows he can replace her in a quick second if he wanted.However, he will probably relish the idea of peace and quite for a period of time before finding another woman. Alfred will then give Robin a beat down and Robin will then have to get a janitorial job.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 02:49 PM
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What happens is that when a woman finds out that she can not transform you from an alpha into an obedient beta dog, she will begin to get frustrated and lose interest once she finds she has no control over you. She will go on to find another alpha to try to transform or find a pre-made beta. They all have the same outcome, she loses respect for the transformed alpha or premade beta or is frustrated that she can't control the alpha. All end with either her leaving or you having a miserable existe…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 09:03 PM
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Nope the fuck out man, no woman is worth marriage in the first place, and someone withholding sex as a punishment is pushed off the side of my boat immediately, she can find another fish in the sea as I keep living the life I want to live, so I will just fish another out of the sea and throw it back when it goes bad. I like my women, don't get me wrong, but I like to live a life of peace and tranquility. If they go beyond the boundaries I have set, which I explain to them, it's two strike and th…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:39 PM
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Yes sir. I have no problem dating, but she pays for her own stuff and I pay for mine. Those are the boundaries I set, and if she doesn't like them then that is fine, it is her choice to move on to find some provider. We are independent beings that share a life. As soon as one or the other becomes dependent on the other, well then it's all downhill from there and I nope the fuck out as quickly as possible.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 06:21 PM
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True, true, and true. Also, don't forget to listen to your gut. Before I was aware of the red flags of cheating, I just remember feeling in my gut that something was very wrong, even though she was acting very right. Well, my gut was right.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:04 PM
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I must add, that it does not matter even if you hold the most balance alpha frame in the world and act like the perfect alpha, if someone else comes along down the road who may be a little more beta then you but also makes about twice what you make financially and wants to spend all of what they make on the girl, well the girl is gonna jump ship to the extra money. Been there done that. The good thing is that the alpha traits will keep bringing the women in long after she is gone.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 09:33 PM
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Prenups fail 75% of the time. The judge has the right to throw the prenup of the window at his discretion, and typically does. I learned this during a mandatory class that divorcees need to take to get a divorce in my state. I'm noping the fuck out of marriage from now till the day I die.
/r/MGTOW30/09/15 03:30 PM
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Wow, their rationale makes it all ass backwards in my case. So, ex-wife cheats on me behind my back and then files for divorce after 14 years of marriage. Didn't find out about the cheating until after divorce. She moves in with the man with whom she was cheating with into a nice lavish house in an upscale neighborhood a month after the divorce, this guy bought her the house as soon as we divorced. So she is living a very posh lifestyle, which of course my kids are, and that's all cool for my ki…
/r/MensRights04/09/15 03:17 PM
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Holy shit man, props to you for rolling through all those punches, but it's a great learning tool for sure, life kicking your ass that is. You are the man!! And yes, thank you for clearing this up. I think this whole child support issues is broken and needs to be remedied in some way. I mean, here we are as men busting our ass to provide for our family, and due to the fact that women get bored of the relationship they can leave any time they want and be financially well off, while we are financi…
/r/MensRights01/05/15 07:30 PM
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Awesome Reply! So, let me make sure I understand what you are saying about language that requires going back to mediation before court action. Are you saying that if something happens in either of our lives that before any changes are made there needs to be another mediation session before we can make any changes to the agreement?
/r/MensRights01/05/15 02:51 PM
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I gotcha. To make it clear, I never talk negative about her to my kids, which means if me and the kids talk about her or anything going on in their lives involving her it is good. Nahh, it was a good thing, I have been let off the ball and chain and have found an incredible woman to be with. If she didn't leave I wouldn't be where I am today, relationship wise. All one can do is go with the flow of life and do everything possible to better yourself every day.
/r/MensRights30/04/15 08:22 PM
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Hmm... maybe it won't work then. Are you saying that a judge would not approve of the agreement in your state no matter what?
/r/MensRights30/04/15 07:37 PM
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I understand I can't stop paying completely, that is not my goal. Just enough to get out of this hole is all I ask. And if not, well then so be it, that's just the way the dice roll. I am about $20 under what that calculator says I should be paying, this was agreed by the ex and I. That would be too bad if we came to agreement and the judge said "no, this isn't going to happen", but at least we tried.
/r/MensRights30/04/15 06:32 PM
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Ya it is raping me financially. That's why I am hoping that she can come to some sort of compromise that can get me out of my current situation, for the kids. However, there are tons of guys in my situation. The courts really have to start looking at whether or not the parent can afford a place to live after paying child support. There are many stories where the man actually has to live out of his car because there is not enough left to pay rent, even though the man may be making $50-$70,000 a y…
/r/MensRights30/04/15 05:44 PM
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You are absolutely correct. But like I said, it doesn't matter if she or he marries Bill Gates, you have to pay your child support based on your income, your payments will not rise or fall in the least bit no matter who they marry, even though she and the kids might be living the most lavish lifestyle, posh cars, million dollar home, etc.. and you are living in a dump because all the child support is equal to a house payment. It's a bit odd, because one can see how it is fair and unfair at the s…
/r/MensRights30/04/15 05:20 PM
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Nope, lets just say that close to 40% of my net pay goes towards child support because that't the way Georgia Child Support Spread sheet says is fair and correct. And I could understand that if she didn't have a place to live because I would rather live on the streets then my kids and her, but considering that she lives in a community that has nothing but million dollar homes in it, and I am being serious when I say that, well, it just sucks for me, lol.
/r/MensRights30/04/15 04:48 PM
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Nope, that doesn't matter to the U.S. court. Fact is she could marry Bill Gates and own half the world, but the fact that you are the father of the kids, you still owe your percentage of the kids monetary support no matter what financial position she is in, even though it's over forty percent of your income and not even .0000000000000001% of what she now makes. That's that, just like life, it's not about fairness, it just is what it is.
/r/MensRights30/04/15 04:44 PM
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Absolutely, I would thank her myself, a great act of kindness. I just wanted to say, I in no way bad mouth her in front of the kids what so ever, that's the mother of my children. I do have many reasons to resent the way in which she left me, but it's life, it moves on, what ever.
/r/MensRights30/04/15 03:26 PM
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To speak honestly, I really do not know. We came to an agreement that her lawyer wrote up, and I was able to get the child support down a little from what the state calculations said it would be. The judge pretty much just asked if we agreed to the said contract, we said yes, the judge said ok, and we were done, it took about five minutes. And no, I just write her a check and she deposits it into her account, simple as that.
/r/MensRights30/04/15 03:12 PM
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Let me be clear that she is "thinking about it" and this deal has not been agreed upon yet, but I am astonished just the same as you that she is thinking about it, I'm actually impressed. In the mean time I am trying to collect as much information as possible just in case this deal does work out.
/r/MensRights30/04/15 02:03 PM
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Interesting. I wonder if I can continue writing a check for the $700 and just have her give me back $200 in cash, that way my checks still show that I am giving her the court ordered amount, and I get $200 back voluntarily. However the problem still might come up later down the road that something happens and she no longer will give me the cash back and I will lose the place.
/r/MensRights30/04/15 01:59 PM
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Thank you for the response. As a father, I want the kids to have as many good memories of their childhood as possible. This includes many camping trips, fishing, hiking, exploring wilderness, etc.. you know, the dad stuff. Anyhow, I expected that I would definitely need an attorney at the end, but going in armed with as much information as possible usually cuts down on the costs because I will be armed with viable information and cut right to the chase, thus decreasing time and money. Thank you …
/r/MensRights30/04/15 01:43 PM
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