darthkennedy815 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	What was dating like after being divorced? Oh same here. That was a horrible feeling. It ended up working out in the end, but it still makes me wonder how my ex wife was able to ignore that feeling to actually cheat.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/26 04:32 AM
8	Anyone else holding onto anger at their ex years later? Yes. It’s lessened over time, but it’s still there. I try and be civil with her for our child’s sake but I really wish I would never see her or speak to her again. She is a total stranger to me now.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/26 03:30 PM
6	Warning Signs? Went through the same thing. It was the worst case scenario. Trust your gut and protect yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/26 06:56 PM
11	How long did you wait to be intimate again? I waited til 6 months after the divorce was finalized, which is at least a year longer than she waited	/r/Divorce_Men	30/03/26 01:02 PM
15	Birthday parties Ahh, she's just throwing a fit for not getting her way. She can go cry to her "friend" about it!	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/26 03:43 PM
14	Birthday parties I don't think you're being unreasonable. I did joint parties with my ex the first two years after she left me for another guy. She picked expensive places, I paid for half, and she made both parties miserable. Beginning this year I decide she can do her own party and I'll do my own party from now on. Our kid is cool with it because he gets two parties, and nobody has to be miserable. If you can, I'd do something yourself for your child, and that way, you both can enjoy the day. In regards to you…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/26 03:33 PM
3	Co-sleeping with children This breaks my heart. Get a lawyer today. You have to protect yourself and the kids now because your ex is setting you up. I'm sorry man.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 02:51 PM
2	Angry and need to vent It is possible, I had a separation agreement signed the week of Thanksgiving, and the divorce finalized by the following valentines day, even with a child in the picture.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/26 03:34 AM
2	How do you get enough courage to pull the trigger You're exactly right. OP, you can't be the best dad you can be while you're miserable. And good chance she's getting her ducks in a row while shes using you as a maid, and good chance she uses that extra time to focus on the guy she's planning on leapfrogging to next.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/25 05:27 AM
3	Pre Divorce Are you me??	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/25 10:50 PM
1	New House Rules What did I just read....shoes in the dishwasher too? What??	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/25 02:53 PM
13	Men who got walked out on, is it offensive when your STBX says they mourned your marriage during it? It's incredibly hurtful for sure. Mine told me that women tend to mourn before they initiate the divorce, as if it was supposed to make up for her breaking my heart out of nowhere. If she had just left me when she had initially decided to, I could have been so much further into the healing process, but she stole that from me out of selfishness.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/25 03:30 PM
1	Anyone have this weird empty sensation when you are not with your children Yes. It's an absolute void. I have 50/50 and I don't even open the door to my kids bedroom when he's not with me, if I can help it. I avoid being at home when he's not here and will pick up as many hours as possible at work. The silence is deafening. Then there's the worry of whether or not he's getting enough attention, care, and love when he's not with me.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/25 01:28 PM
7	Have to meet the "new man", how to approach this? If it makes you feel any better, their relationship statistically won't last long once they get past the honeymoon phase. If your ex jumped to the next person without taking time to work on herself, she's just carrying her half of the issues that ruined your marriage onto the next relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/25 06:39 PM