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| 3 | [deleted by user]Id straight up tell him that you are trying to flirt with him. A lot of us guys are stupid and we can't tell, I know I can't tell the difference between flirty and friendly and have been wrong almost every time I have guessed flirty (was right with only one girl). Just tell him would be my advice | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 01:31 PM |
| 2 | What's the best way for me (F20) approach an older man?If I was him I would be direct and say you are interested and see how he responds. That's me though, the only relationship I've ever had she approached me, doesn't seem to work when I try it | /r/seduction | 25/01/21 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Personality vs. looks - Some truths you need to readEven if I somehow get inner peace again and love myself I'm still gonna get rejected if I so much as mention my past or screw ups, not to mention I'm living with my parents. So what if I'm for forward about my past screw ups, at least I'll own up to it, plenty of people don't. People are so judgemental too. I'm not perfect myself in that either but again ill admit it at least. The way I see it im screwed no matter what | /r/seduction | 30/12/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Major helpI'm 31 and have less experience than you, wish I could help but I'm woman repellant no matter how I act or change, dating scene is crap anyway | /r/seduction | 30/12/20 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Personality vs. looks - Some truths you need to readGreat, I'm beyond screwed, most women don't look look twice at me and even if I get a match, I say one wrong thing and they don't answer, like wtf? Who knows what women want.... | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 02:37 AM |
| 1 | What am i doing wrong? M18 gave me her number off tinderId be happy if I'd get matchs, I get nothing over almost 30 year age range and max km, sucks ass and pretty depressing. Even when I get a match they don't talk, like wtf do women want? Sorry I'm not mister bloody perfect but Jesus who is? Don't know wtf women want other than someone "perfect" so rich, car, house, body of Greek God, etc... | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Don’t decide for others that you are not good enough. Let the other person make that decision. Don’t disqualify yourself prior to even trying.I'm screwed no matter what I do. I could be the most confident and positive guy in the room and it has never done a thing for me and I'm 31 now and pretty dam depressed cuz I don't stand a chance regardless what I do. Unless you do/look exactly what the woman wants, in my experience you are screwed. Might be embellishing a bit but it sure feels that way | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 12:24 AM |
| 1 | The HIGHEST Level Of Attracting WomenYeah I don't get it...... | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Stop trying to be funnyI'm screwed either way so it makes no difference to me how I come off | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 06:12 AM |
| 1 | How to create chemistry and attraction.I've tried it on tinder and snap too, still nothing | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How to create chemistry and attraction.Ah ok. I do that sometimes when women actually talk to me but it never goes well when I give it a try | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How to create chemistry and attraction.I don't get how this would work... please explain more if you can | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | How to always be improving your game.Everything I've ever tried hasn't worked so I doubt this will | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 11:28 PM |
| 0 | I have no charisma and am not hooking sets due to it, helpGood question, I'm 31, been with 2 women, had sex once before age 28....... Yeah it's complete crap but women don't give a shit I exist, even when i was younger. Dude I would of liked to have a fraction of what you did | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 02:26 AM |
| 2 | You need to face rejection head onWell, I'm screwed no matter what I do, so woot lol | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Is our future really going to be us being banished to dating apps?Dating apps or meeting in real life in public, I'm screwed either way so it's nothing new for me | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid A LOT regularly without hiring escorts?I'd be happy get to get laid by one woman on a regular basis. 2 or 3 on a regular basis is like a dream I could only experience on a holodeck from star trek, so non existent. Be happy to get one, I find women are picky as fuck too | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | I have tried everything.I'm not much help but I can relate, it's sucks man. Hang in there | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 07:13 PM |
| 4 | When girls approach and show interest is it easy for a lot of guys to not pick up on the signs?If a girl is interested she should straight up just say it. Most of us guys are dumb, I know i am. Unless you say you are interested we won't always know, no one is a mind reader. | /r/seduction | 09/09/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Completely angry at my self and angry at the world also, is this normal part of self improvment?. to stop chasing others validation the only way to start is loving my self right? but how??I can relate to that all too well. I'm having a rough time myself and I'm 31, really sucks 😔 | /r/seduction | 04/09/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | How MEN Impress Women WITHOUT Money, Looks, or FameGreat, I'm screwed then 😔 | /r/seduction | 04/09/20 12:13 AM |
| 9 | Been offered a threesome, but have little sexual experience and premature ejaculation, what do?I would just go for it. I've never been offered one of these and I'm 31 now so I doubt I'll ever get a chance. Just do it 👍 | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 03:03 AM |
| 1 | What age did you lose your virginity?Yeah I'm not counting on it for me, I'm still trying but yeah I don't expect anyone to give me a chance | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | How to Stop Giving Your Power Away to GirlsGrooming and fitness, decent enough unless they want someone with the body of a Greek God (seems like that's what they want 😒). Losing my hair and I'm a redhead (I swear that seems to be a deal breaker, maybe I'm just paranoid here but it seems that way), but otherwise fine there. Not perfect on tidiness but not horrible I think. Financially I'm more than fine, but when my ex threw me out I'm back with my parents till I get my own house. Social life, ok I guess, very low success when trying to a… | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How to Stop Giving Your Power Away to GirlsI'm still screwed whether i try to talk to a girl or not, the answer is always the same, ignored. Any tips I've tried have blown up in my face. So this doesn't really help. Unless the girl talks to me first and is interested in me, I have zero chance. Wish i was kidding but I'm not. The only relationship ive had she approached me and I still screwed it up. Me approach them? Success rate is zero and I'm 31 and getting pretty depressed more and more each day 😔 | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 08:45 PM |
| 4 | Need a perfume that men find attractiveAs long as you are showered that would be enough for me 👍 | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Does sex with hot, new women ever get old?Ill take all the luck i can get. I have a decent job for where I live so that's good. Looking to get my own house and im good with my money. I try to get out and do stuff when I can. Otherwise I don't know what else to do. Mentally im not great. Even when I was with my ex i was depressed at times but not this bad. Just feels like no matter what I do/think/say/want/feel women don't respond to me and if they do I'm still a dumbass. I seem to get blocked for unknown reasons too sometimes when it fe… | /r/seduction | 25/08/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Fear is just really a state of the mind.It's all good. I know i have issues I need to figure out, they were a big reason I lost my ex 😔 | /r/seduction | 25/08/20 03:32 AM |
| 0 | Fear is just really a state of the mind.Oh I know i have issues. Getting constantly rejected by women has contributed to a lot of them | /r/seduction | 25/08/20 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Does sex with hot, new women ever get old?I'm just wondering, how you get that many in one weekend? I'm 31 and you have had more women in one weekend than I've had in my life | /r/seduction | 25/08/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Fear is just really a state of the mind.I'm actually looking into my options now for that | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 01:24 PM |
| 23 | Fear is just really a state of the mind.I Can show that I'm scared or not, my success rate is non-existant so far, not for lack of trying. I swear women are beyond picky despite what everyone keeps saying. If they approach me it sometimes works, but I'd I approach them my success rate is zero and I'm 31. It's pretty depressing 😔 | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Girls don’t expect you to be perfect.That's funny, cuz every girl I've met expect me to be basically perfect...... | /r/seduction | 23/08/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Advice on women?I could do all the things that you guys are saying is a win for a women, it doesn't matter what I do/Think/say/want/feel, nothing I do works works for getting/keeping women. | /r/seduction | 23/08/20 06:59 PM |
| 1 | IF YOU could only spend four hours a week to get laid, how would you spend it? [Serious]And, what am I supposed to do in those four hours? | /r/seduction | 23/08/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | IF YOU could only spend four hours a week to get laid, how would you spend it? [Serious]I could have 40 hours a week, I still wouldnt get anywhere | /r/seduction | 17/08/20 01:11 PM |
| 1 | GIRLS ARE EASY, THIS IS ALL YOU NEED... ‼️Maybe so. Just in my experience it always seems to backfire no matter if I'm confident or not. It's a major piss off | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | More than anything I'm getting tired of losingSounds like me, doesn't matter what I say or do, I don't get a dam thing either/lose what I have. I lost my ex recently and she replaced me rather easily twice already. It's fucking bullshit and women are a big reason why I'm depressed as fuck and hate myself | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 04:39 AM |
| 3 | GIRLS ARE EASY, THIS IS ALL YOU NEED... ‼️I could show all the confidence in the world, doesn't do a dam thing for me with women... | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Why is this so hard?And I turned 31 2 months ago | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Why is this so hard?I know the feeling all too well. I fucked up, lost my girl and what became my family (kids) of over 2 years and I'm back in the same boat as you bud, while she's on her at least 2nd boyfriend in just over 2 months. I hear bud, it sucks ass | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | I feel inferior to other guys in dating. There are always bigger, more handsome, richer etc. dudes and I feel insecure. How should I overcome this feeling?Don't be me? Other than that I dunno man. I'm 31 and have been rejected my whole life. Still have no clue in hell what to do, other than be full of shit. That seems to attract women for some reason | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Too late to startI hear you man. I was 23 when I lost my v card and then didn't have it again til 28 (fuck it sucked waiting) and been back out in the cold last few months. I can relate man it fucking sucks | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Problem: I'm good at texting girls I'm not interested in, shit at texting ones I amI have the same problem dude. I'm not any good at talking to girls and I'm shit at getting their attention. I can't even get matchs on tinder even though some girls say im cute (I'm thinking that's bullshit but that's me). Wish i could help but I'm not helpful at all here. | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Fear of awkward and creepy interactionsWell I'm fucked lol. I'm stupid with girls and still have no idea how at 31 if it makes anyone here feel better. Unless the girl approaches me interested I'm screwed. I'm too boring or awkward but I'm not gonna act like I'm full of shit just to get them. Feels like I have to though just to get their attention, and if I have to do that then the girl isn't worth my time | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 03:35 AM |
| 1 | How can I overcome shame during moments of anxiety when dating?I can relate to that all too well. wish I had some advice but I have hard time myself dealing with it. Sorry man | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 12:33 AM |
| 0 | Good way to approach a woman at the gym?Other than don't be me, I have no game and women don't give a fuck about me, I have nothing to offer unfortunately | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 02:39 AM |
| 1 | I'm 23 and starting to feel like a virginI've been there most of my life man. I'm 31 and recently lost my gf cuz I'm a fuck up (though she could of been more understanding). I can relate, been alone most of my life and it's fucking depressing. No one gives me a chance if it makes you feel better, it's fucking bullshit, but that's been me most of my life. | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 02:37 AM |
| 1 | You attract the qualities you admire in yourself...Well, great, I'm fucking screwed then 😔 | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 02:31 AM |
| -4 | Friendly reminder that women are peopleThey are, but I wonder if they treat me like I'm a person, none of them give me a fucking shot in hell | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Is there an optimal time to use a sexual pickup line? Or doesn’t matter whenFor me it doesn't matter when I try one, it has never worked for me, maybe with my ex, but that's it. For me, if I'm even talking to them and they respond some of the time it's an accomplishment. | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 12:06 AM |
| 14 | What age did you lose your virginity?At 23 for me. Had it once then didn't have again till i was 28. Saw boobs for the first time when I was 19 but it didn't escalate any further. 31 now and still only been with 2 girls so far, though not for lack of trying.... | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Solid strategy for improving response rate from sliding into DMsWell, I'm glad it worked for him. Me, I'm 5'6ish, hairy chest, little gut, redhead with thinning hair, and I'm back with my parents after my ex threw me out. I'm still fucking screwed even if I tried this. I can't even get nearly enough matches on tinder to bother trying this. I get friend zone even if I match and talk to them for a awhile. Fuck it sucks being me 😔. | /r/seduction | 23/07/20 03:46 AM |
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