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| 1 | The shocking story of how a church group girl cried rape and what it tells us about Britain.The level this reporter went to is kind of weird. He quotes messages by her friends on facebook. He goes into detail about her pictures, man I was even uncomfortable reading it. Absolutely what she did is terrible and wrong, but she's a minor and it's gross to stalk her and her friends online. They're kids! It's not really surprising to anyone that they are sexually active. Get off their facebook pages. My heart goes out to the poor boy, but this reporter is a freak. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/11 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Preparing for massive downvotes, but would like to share my opinionYou could call yourself egalitarian instead. Few egalitarians give other egalitarians a bad name. I've yet to hear of a case of 'radical egalitarianism', except in the sense of excessive political correctness (which I do believe violates free speech). But if you're having trouble fitting into the feminist movement because of the way many feminists have made it, it could be because you are more egalitarian in your views, and they are not. I think many mens' rights activists are egalitarian also, … | /r/MensRights | 15/01/11 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Remember: BOYCOTT Valentines DayAs we are roughly one month away from another shopping extravaganza for the sake of pleasing women, it seems an auspicious time to remind readers that Valentines Day is to be avoided for what it is; a socially coerced day of hyper-entitlement for a generation of princess leeches. Most women I know celebrate Valentine's by cooking a nice meal or baking something sweet for their boyfriend, including buying gifts for him. Besides, what about same sex couples? Valentine's isn't about pleasing women … | /r/MensRights | 14/01/11 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Adult Sexualization of Justin Bieber is Absolutely Not OK.Don't forget the Twilight moms. A bunch of middle aged women lusting after a teen aged boy. If it was reversed, if it was a bunch of forty year old men raving over a seventeen year old girl, shit would hit the fan. But because so few people see women as capable of being sexual predators, no one bats an eye. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/11 05:15 AM |
| 18 | Oakland County, Michigan: Police arrest father on sex assault charge, jail his wife, put kids in separate foster homes. Cop accuses and interrogates son with no adult present. Prosecutors admit zero evidence in case except forced statement given by autistic girl via facilitated communication.The videos of the detective interviewing that boy are heart breaking. He went so far as to accuse the boy of assaulting his sister which he had absolutely no evidence for... my face is red I'm so outraged by this. I can't imagine the trauma this boy and his family have experienced as a result of somebody's careless accusations. The family themselves pushed for facilitated communication to be used in the hopes that it would help their daughter in school, and this is what they get out of it, out o… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/11 04:28 AM |
| 1 | This sexist program is offered at most state funded colleges. It enforces stereotypes of men and women and is not healthy to social development.Is this because men are attacking other men, or are you saying it is related to domestic abuse? | /r/MensRights | 06/01/11 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Unwed Fathers Fight for Babies Placed for Adoption by Mothers - New York TimesAs far as I can tell, the bill was referred to the Finance Committee, where it was dropped. Most bills begin by being considered by one or several congressional committees which may "report" the bill favorably or unfavorably to the Senate or House as a whole allowing it to receive consideration by the full body and move forward, or may fail to consider a bill at all preventing the bill from moving forward. Most bills never receive any committee consideration and are never reported out. Along wit… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/11 12:56 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else notice that media portrays female on male violence daily but never displays male on female?Good point. Just curious, but have you (or anyone else really) seen the movie 'Mr and Mrs Smith'? I know it's a low brow movie, but as an example of domestic violence portrayed in popular media, I'm wondering how MRA might look at it. Is it a fair representation of both genders perpetrating domestic violence, or is it offensive in that it makes light of a very serious issue? Or something else? | /r/MensRights | 03/01/11 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Feminism has solved many men's rights issuesAdvocating against benevolent sexism is kind of egalitarian I guess, since it is a case of women rejecting some benefit in order for things to be fair between men and women, but not all feminists do it. In all honesty, feminism is too varied a movement to claim it has done much good in any direction. Some feminists will advocate for women to stand trial just as men do, and others will advocate for female criminals receiving lighter sentences. Some feminists will work with victims of rape, others… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/11 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Are women unhappier because of money?This. Just like men, women go through a midlife crisis; it's why there are cougar bars and anti aging cream and botox treatments. Menopause is just the nail in the coffin for a woman sexually. Also its the case in modern society where at that age, children have either grown up and have left the nest (empty nest syndrome) or a woman has waited too long to have kids and now realizes she has missed her chance. Divorce comes back to bite women in the ass too. Despite it all even an older man can fin… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/11 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Feminism has solved many men's rights issuesThere are mixed opinions on the issue of female criminals even within the feminist movement. Some may be trying to lessen sentences for women, other feminists have viewed the reluctance to charge women or to serve them the same sentences as men as a kind of benevolent sexism or a weakness on behalf of a male-dominated justice system to protect those they perceive as 'weaker'. Other times feminists have argued that women receive harsher punishments than necessary for violating gender role expecta… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/11 03:49 AM |
| 13 | Anyone else notice that media portrays female on male violence daily but never displays male on female?Female on male violence is culturally accepted. Male on female violence would stir up a shit storm even if it was fictional. One thing that really gets me is this ad. Why doesn't it say at the end "all forms of violence are wrong". Why doesn't it explain that men and boys are also the victims of domestic abuse? Here's a line from the site (on the 'if you have committed intimate partner violence' page): Many men have a problem with violence learned from childhood and supported by society. Since w… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/11 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Are there feminist trolls down voting posts to this Reddit? Seems like a lot of down voting is going on.Oh no, I'm not judging harshly at all. I understand your confusion. Coming from a world where political correctness is status quo, discovering the MRM is a shock. One thing you have to consider is that the misogynist language is part of the rebellion against feminism. You sometimes have to develop a sense of humor about it and just wade through the mire that is the MRM to find that one good article or one really solid argument. It's like that quote from Voltaire: "I do not agree with what you ha… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/11 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Are there feminist trolls down voting posts to this Reddit? Seems like a lot of down voting is going on.Not trying to offend. Just pointing out that it may be the case that many men may have valid reasons to be angry, but could be lacking the education to express their needs and frustrations in intellectual terms. That doesn't invalidate their experience; we just need to be open minded and fair enough to listen to them without feeling personally insulted. This may be a very bad example, but in the era of slavery you wouldn't have told a young black man with no education that his hatred of white me… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/11 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Unwed Fathers Fight for Babies Placed for Adoption by Mothers - New York TimesEven for registered men, the system is flawed. Because the registries are state by state, a registration means nothing if the father or mother has moved — or if the baby was surrendered for adoption in a different state specifically to avoid a challenge. Senator Mary L. Landrieu, Democrat of Louisiana, will address that problem in the Proud Father Act, which would create a national registry and is to be introduced in Congress later this year. The Proud Father Act never came into law. ): | /r/MensRights | 03/01/11 01:11 AM |
| 4 | womens' rights used as an excuse to increase military presence in Afghanistan (PDF - marked CONFIDENTIAL / NOFORN)Very good point. I feel that if women or men are to be liberated in Afghanistan or anywhere, it should be by human rights groups or non profits with permission from the local government, and not by a government seeking to use human rights abuses as an excuse for occupation or invasion while simultaneously committing human rights abuses elsewhere. That's insincere to say the least. Would it be foolish if I jumped at loud knocks for a while? | /r/MensRights | 03/01/11 12:46 AM |
| 9 | Poor boy marries rich girl, family beheaded in BiharIs this a case of gender inequality, or class warfare? Either way it is horrific. What did they hope to accomplish by such a thing? It makes me sick | /r/MensRights | 03/01/11 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Afghan women: Don't exclude our men (for fear of backlash)So much of what I read here simply serves to drive a wedge between men and women; there's so much cause for us to be at war with each other. Finding good news is a pleasant shock. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/11 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Penis size and the pressure to perform.As a woman the only advantage I can see for a woman to desire a larger penis is that her lover will find her tighter than a guy with a smaller penis. That may remove some anxieties on her part. Otherwise the inside of the vagina is not that sensitive. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/11 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Girl, 16, sentenced to six months' detention in UK over false rape claim | Herald SunThis. I've often thought that the MRM were going to have a tough time selling people on the false rape accusations issue unless MRA also advocated for the use of rape kits and immediately reporting rape cases as soon as they happen. The thing is, there is a huge gray area on the issue of rape claims where some may be true but there is no evidence to support the claim. This leaves feminists able to argue that MRA are 'doubting the victim' or that they are 'pro rape groups'. To them it seems like … | /r/MensRights | 31/12/10 11:35 PM |
| 5 | New UN agency - UNWomenSince the Sex for Food scandal my faith in the UN has expired. Nothing they do has any meaning. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/10 10:45 PM |
| 4 | Man asks for love. The answer is: "man up".Now, I'm very well aware about how things work: men are attracted to young, sexy in a word beautiful women. What I don't really understand why they have to be, every single time, so merciless to the ones who aren't. I think it's clear to everyone that nature's been trying to fuck with us for eons now and that, if we want a better society, it's time to get a hold of our primal instincts and stop to be dragged by the hair from them. I think men do their fair share about it, and have been done it f… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/10 10:21 PM |
| 1 | My view of men's rights: What all this arguing boils down to IMOMen and boys have it worse precisely because of systematic oppression by the feminist lobby. Feminists have set up an ideology whereby females are always victims and males are always oppressors. They acquire special benefits for women, such as receiving alimony or child support despite the fact that women are independent and make up most of the work force, hiring based on gender rather than ability, advocating for female victims of domestic violence while excluding male victims, and excluding fa… | /r/MensRights | 27/12/10 10:45 PM |
| 6 | My view of men's rights: What all this arguing boils down to IMOfemale rape victims are still being handled horribly by society as well as the legal system Just want to address this. For the record I am female. Male victims of rape have it worse than females. Male victims of statutory rape may be forced to pay their rapist child support if their female attacker becomes pregnant. The study even records one instance of the state of Colorado attempting to collect child support payments from a man who was 12 when he became a father with an older woman. source Fe… | /r/MensRights | 27/12/10 02:26 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone else heard this remark? What was your reaction?Well, if my boyfriend's father came in and saw me doing dishes and said the same thing, I would be pissed, so yeah, it's offensive no matter what your gender is. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/10 12:31 AM |
| 4 | One of the most disgusting articles I have ever read, "Why men act out against women". More top notch journalism from CNN.This is disgusting. The comments are disgusting. People are still oblivious to the fact that the government and media use the threat of female oppression to push men further and further down the ladder. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/10 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Women take their propaganda to askmen.comThis is exactly like the Good Wife's Guide from 1955, something feminists have held up as the epitome of sexism for decades. It is a horribly offensive list! Look at number seven: 'She Keeps you honest. Newsflash: sometimes men lie.' WTF? I'm pretty sure lying is common to all of us. It's not a uniquely male trait. Look at number eight: "Maybe you’re a jealous guy or you periodically struggle with confidence." There are probably more jealous and insecure girls than there are guys. None of these … | /r/MensRights | 25/12/10 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Per My Agreement With aetheralloy: So, You're A Feminist In Mensrights (Redux)All the points are labeled as number one. Otherwise thank you for this. I initially had trouble settling into this subreddit, mostly as I was trying to feel it out. This is a pretty quick crash course in what the culture is like here. The first two especially; there are a lot of potential for nasty arguments here, but with a little tact, anyone can avoid unproductive personal attacks and just stick with debating the issues at hand. I want to post something one member said to me that really helpe… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/10 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Converted.It's full of anti feminism, but anti feminism does not equate with misogyny. You can learn how to tell the difference between hate speech and disagreement based on moral and intellectual grounds. If you do see a very angry comment which you can definitely attribute as being sexist, please keep an open mind. It could be someone who is hurting after being fucked in a divorce settlement, struggling with child support or can't get custody of his kids. The anger wouldn't be there if victims did not e… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/10 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Explained (now in cartoon form!)I agree. The woman's argument was really dumbed down. This was barely even a contest. It was just too one sided. The reality is it would not be that easy to corner someone in conversation. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/10 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Kevin Myers: Women's obsession with victimhood exalts failure and generates nothing but excusesI think it's a good article. It's a call for women to be more competitive in the labor force rather than playing the victim card yet again. There was another article posted here http://www.boingboing.net/2010/12/23/lesbians-make-more-m.html about lesbians making more money than straight women. I think it goes to show that (for numerous reasons, such as expecting to be dependent on a man) many women are not competing hard enough in the work place, and then complaining when their lack of effort ho… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/10 03:40 AM |
| 5 | Converted.If things are really to be equal we need to take custody battles on a case by case basis rather than always painting the male parent as being the most likely to abuse or neglect kids (especially since this is not true). If things are really to be equal, where women are now more than half of the work force and more than half of college and university graduates are women, we need to stop looking to men to provide for us in divorce settlements and child support. Women can go to work just as men can… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/10 03:11 AM |
| 5 | The date rape drug mythWell you're assuming that they know they are lying. The truth is they don't know whether their drinks are spiked or not; they are told growing up that this stuff happens, so they fall back on the myths they have heard before. If you are told 'if you are at a bar and you pass out and are sexually assaulted it could be because someone put something in your drink', naturally when that scenario occurs, you believe the myth even if the drug involved is only alcohol. Educating women about the myth of … | /r/MensRights | 24/12/10 02:17 AM |
| 2 | There are many women nowadays who say, “I am not a feminist.” But, as Laura Wood points out, merely disowning the feminist label means nothing, if one does not actually oppose feminism.I guess not. Thanks for that. It was illuminating. I think I understand a little better now. I'll put away the attack womb. :O heh And yeah that link really shook me up. I mean, it's not a problem for me if these women want to stay at home and live the quiet life, but that they judge other women for wanting something different, and then suggesting we should be barred from pursuing our interests. Hurtful to read ): | /r/MensRights | 23/12/10 01:46 AM |
| 2 | There are many women nowadays who say, “I am not a feminist.” But, as Laura Wood points out, merely disowning the feminist label means nothing, if one does not actually oppose feminism.Well, I'm only here to learn. It does seem to be the case that there are things posted in MR that hurt the cause or are meant to be inflammatory, but I know you're right that I can't stereotype those views as being typical of all MRA. I would hardly be any better if I did that. But thanks for calling me on my bs hey. :D Have an upvote | /r/MensRights | 23/12/10 01:01 AM |
| 2 | An Important Announcement from the Foundation for Male StudiesNot a raging feminist I hope, just curious: do you think it would be better for boys if there were segregated schools? | /r/MensRights | 23/12/10 12:36 AM |
| 2 | There are many women nowadays who say, “I am not a feminist.” But, as Laura Wood points out, merely disowning the feminist label means nothing, if one does not actually oppose feminism.I don't think you understood me. I was trying to apologize for the double standard, not actually saying I think MRA are chauvinists. I think you have a valid reason to be angry, otherwise I wouldn't be here myself. And by 'ignoring posts' I meant the stuff on MR that make the movement look bad, not your post. Damn. I guess it's not very clear. Sorry. ): | /r/MensRights | 23/12/10 12:19 AM |
| 1 | The elephant in the room that feminists and men’s rights advocates ignoreOr they would just say they were forced to sign it after the fact. Maybe | /r/MensRights | 23/12/10 12:01 AM |
| 2 | There are many women nowadays who say, “I am not a feminist.” But, as Laura Wood points out, merely disowning the feminist label means nothing, if one does not actually oppose feminism.I suppose you could rewrite that as "I don't need a bunch of sexist house wives blanketing me as a chauvinist because I want equal rights." Apologies. I'll try ignoring posts like these. le sigh | /r/MensRights | 22/12/10 11:34 PM |
| 4 | There are many women nowadays who say, “I am not a feminist.” But, as Laura Wood points out, merely disowning the feminist label means nothing, if one does not actually oppose feminism.It's stuff like this, MR subreddit. I am trying really hard to research and be supportive. I don't need a bunch of misogynistic house wives blanketing me as a feminist because I go to work. I want equal rights for men and women, not a return to the Victorian era. This post sucks. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/10 09:24 PM |
| 2 | the rise of feminism has occurred at the expense of sexual equalityThanks for the link. It does seem to be the case that feminism is stalling, continuing to serve the needs of industrialized women, when the whole time there are far more urgent matters elsewhere that deserve more attention. Feminism needs to get its priorities straight. Yeah it is kind of inconceivable that feminists can't unite on the most pressing matters in other countries but continue to crack down on male culture at home even as that begins to affect and drag down women, girlfriends, wives … | /r/MensRights | 22/12/10 12:43 PM |
| 5 | the rise of feminism has occurred at the expense of sexual equalityIt would be great if feminists could take the fight to countries where women are seriously in need of protection, rather than milling around and hurting whatever progress they've made in the west. There's a level of detachment in feminism; the idea that men 'aren't us' so what affects men won't hurt women and that men deserve what they get. Continuing to vilify men at this point is hurting women also: daughters who can't see their fathers, brothers who don't perform as well in school as sisters,… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/10 05:45 AM |
| 3 | rape statistics... helpMmm, she's fallen victim to the same trap I did when I started university. It's exciting at first, taking women's studies and feeling like you're contributing to something useful, and it's easy to be offended when somebody laughs off the fact that you've been taking women's studies. You brush it off as them being sexist without a second thought as to whether they have good reason to be bitter. Now that I've been out of university for a while I've been doing a lot more studying on my own, and I f… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/10 05:09 AM |
| 4 | Even 'I’m sorry' Is Too Much to Give a Man Falsely acused of RapeI think one step forward may be to allow the accused to remain anonymous until a conviction can be made. It could protect an innocent man from stigma in the event his accuser is lying. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/10 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Is Misandry Protecting Mothers Who Murder and Maim?This freaks me out because I did a Classics course in university at one point; in it we studied Euripides' 'Medea' and the overwhelming reaction from the class was one of sympathy with Medea. But I was always more freaked out by what she did with the kids. To this day Medea is viewed as a protofeminist piece sympathizing with the plight of women in Greek society, but it could just as easily be viewed as a piece on child abuse and the role of the mother in abusive cases, which in Greek literature… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/10 01:57 AM |
| 9 | Even 'I’m sorry' Is Too Much to Give a Man Falsely acused of RapeGood article, really shows what the consequences can be regarding this issue. Change is long overdue. As for some of these sexist comments, women are interested in men's rights too. The issue is important to me and I won't be turned away from supporting mens rights by such remarks, but some might. You need to spread awareness, not chase people away. This is why no one takes feminism seriously anymore; come on people, don't hurt your own cause. ): At least most of the comments are reasonable thou… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/10 01:28 AM |
| 4 | Looks like Christmas aloneHey, hang in there. ): You have to stay strong and fight back against shit like this, otherwise it won't change. Try to end things with her on a positive note if you can, it might make custody and visitation go more smoothly. I realize depending on how unreasonable she is this may be very difficult. But don't give up; you deserve to spend time with your son. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/10 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Dangerous pedophile vigilantes cheer German Dad, 47, for castrating the boyfriend, 57, of his 17-year-old daughter | Human Stupidity: Irrationality, Self DeceptionI can see how it would be an uncomfortable situation for the father. Still no one deserves to be castrated for anything. Ultimately I feel like if parents are uncomfortable with the age of consent in Germany, as in they feel like their children are not being protected, then maybe it is too low. But it doesn't justify extreme violence. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/10 05:33 PM |
| 1 | i have no idea anymore what words like 'feminism' and 'rape' mean. The common meanings are long gone and they've become Orwellian doublespeak: language that deliberately disguises, distorts, or reverses the meaning of words.http://androidheadlines.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/molson.jpg Sweet nectar of the gods. Sorry though. I do believe the draft should be abolished. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/10 10:32 PM |
| 1 | i have no idea anymore what words like 'feminism' and 'rape' mean. The common meanings are long gone and they've become Orwellian doublespeak: language that deliberately disguises, distorts, or reverses the meaning of words.Thanks for the correction. For the record I don't see men's right activism as detracting from women's rights issues at all; I would much rather argue on both sides until all things are equal as possible between the sexes. I guess I should call myself an egalitarian. I don't like the implication that, if I am a feminist, that means I must be anti-male. I guess shaming language is happening on both sides. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/10 04:46 PM |
| 9 | i have no idea anymore what words like 'feminism' and 'rape' mean. The common meanings are long gone and they've become Orwellian doublespeak: language that deliberately disguises, distorts, or reverses the meaning of words.Why is it some in the MR subreddit are afraid of feminism? I'm a feminist and in absolutely no way do I desire to have more rights or privileges than men; myself I am also a MRA. I just want things to be equal; I love both men and women. And just because I'm a feminist, I don't view MRA as enemies. I guess there are just crazies on both sides, but myself I don't see the two movements as incompatible. Their are inequalities on both sides that need to be addressed. On the issue at hand, obviously … | /r/MensRights | 20/12/10 02:12 PM |
| 9 | Husband's a nurse, and I'm pissed on his behalf. Men =/= child molesters.I was thinking about this yesterday and I was kinda pissed we don't have a positive word for a men's rights activist; the opposite of a feminist is still a misogynist or a chauvinist. It isn't right. BTW I'm a woman and a feminist but I also support men's rights, such as fathers' rights to have custody of their kids, and creating awareness for men in domestic abuse situations etc. Basically I support human rights and believe that people need to be treated fairly and equally on every issue regard… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/10 12:16 PM |
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