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Let them be free
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:25 AM
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I’ve been working on it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:42 PM
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A busty woman is a measure of success. Men here only care about fucking then complain about the type of women they attract
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:29 PM
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Lol you realize how immature people are on this sub when you read some of the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:20 PM
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Now you know the truth. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:41 PM
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All of you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:41 PM
4

They fuck women they don’t really want just to get their dicks wet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:36 PM
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Pretending they wouldn’t ride the pussy carousel if they had the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:35 PM
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Lol. They are but they’re desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:35 PM
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Yeah. I thought she was losing interest but turns out she was just genuinely tired from working a lot. We’ve been fine ever since. In fact the relationship has improved a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:21 PM
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Lol it was not to brag. I wanted an opinion from the pills. She doesn’t seem fickle just judging by how she’s approached things in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:03 PM
-10

Men do too by pretending to be holier than thou
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:01 PM
1

If someone wanting to constantly see you, touching you, have sex with you, calling you randomly (during their workday), prioritising you, buying you gifts, forgiving you for your mistakes, listening to your advice and following your authority/instruction is a lack of attraction then I can’t wait until I find someone who really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:01 PM
-14

It’s not derailing. A lot of people are shallow. I don’t know why this guy was expecting better of women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:20 PM
-22

Men are also very shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:59 PM
1

A bit too well adjusted. I actually complemented her on it whilst she was still with her ex. She seems to have a healthy view and approach to relationships. Even notices her own flaws (which I wouldn’t even consider flaws but minor speed bumps).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:56 PM
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How am I overestimating it? Someone is either attracted or they aren’t. Plus I think I’ve experienced enough women to know how attracted someone is to me. What’s a high level of attraction in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:54 PM
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Thank you. I’m working on getting back in shape, making more money and dressing better so she’s only going to get a better version of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:52 AM
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How do you deal with lust? Let’s say it’s summer and women are out in leggings, short skirts etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:50 AM
1

I don’t think she’s better than me but she is objectively more attractive. I’m not playing any mind games. I just feel free. I text her as frequently as I want. I spend money on her without worrying whether that’s all she’s there for. I compliment her as I see fit. I don’t feel like playing any games with her and yet it hasn’t backfired.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:50 AM
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She doesn’t know this. I’ve mentioned it in passing but she dismisses it and tells me not to listen to toxic advice or to be pessimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:48 AM
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She’s never told me why she likes/fell for me. She only found out my bad traits after and she either didn’t see them as that bad or didn’t see them as bad at all. She just seems to really like me for whatever reason. I haven’t gym’d for ages and I’m starting again next month. When I gym I tend to see good results and get mistaken for a personal trainer/athlete so my body is about to get better. I’m getting a new wardrobe. I’m working on getting a new higher paying job soon. Last thing she mentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:45 AM
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Lol I nearly did but we took plan b. We both can’t afford a child right now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:38 AM
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She is very much sexual. She initiated the discussion (indirectly) and even complained when I wanted to wait. I think you’re taking awalt too literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:38 AM
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I’m currently acting extremely beta in my current relationship but it hasn’t changed how she treats me. She’s still into me and wants to spend time together. She’s also more objectively attractive than me and she’s well aware and confident of it (receiving validation). She has also attracted interest from models scouts. I by contrast have been called ugly by both men and women and I realise that I am. I’m not saying that she’s the hottest prettiest woman in the world but by all accounts she shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:37 AM
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Q4MEN. If your girlfriend initiates sex, calls you frequently, forgives our weaknesses (e.g. crying in front of her) and always wants to be around you does it matter if her ex was a cheating Chad (he was good with women by her own words). Please note the Chad wants her back but she’s not entertaining him because she’s now with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:20 AM
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Most people are victims. Do you really want to be like the average man? No? Then improve yourself. Don’t give up so easily. Just because the average man struggles doesn’t mean you have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:37 AM
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I am a man. Read what I said again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:17 PM
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Lol. I don’t understand men on this sub. Then they accuse women of having high standards when the majority of people are 5/6s. Isn’t the argument that men can’t or struggle to get an average woman because they want Chads/Chadlites. Then when a man says his dating life is fine despite being short/ethnic/fat/bald/broke etc he’s accused of dating 5/6s (which would theoretically be his looksmatch or higher).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:59 PM
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Lol. I don’t understand men on this sub. Then they accuse women of having high standards when the majority of people are 5/6s. Isn’t the argument that men can’t or struggle to get an average woman because they want Chads/Chadlites. Then when a man says his dating life is fine despite being short/ethnic/fat/bald/broke etc he’s accused of dating 5/6s (which would theoretically be his looksmatch or higher).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:59 PM
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Lol bro you’re 19. Marriages fall apart. People get bored, fail to communicate, get tired of each other’s shit etc. This happens to alphas as well. I’ve seen women leave even the most alpha of men. The women that change straight after the ring were pretending all along or the signs were there but the men chose to ignore them or failed to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:13 PM
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That’s a plausible theory
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:54 PM
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If you say so… What are asian men complaining about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:30 PM
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and you’re black. How’s that going for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:30 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:09 PM
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It seems like Asian women in USA prefer white men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:08 PM
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Asian men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:28 PM
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Is it really that hard to get a woman in the USA? I’m an incel in my own country but when I visited the US I had some women expressing interest. Also everyone I know that moves to the US gets hitched quickly. I understand Tinder makes things a lot more difficult and cold approaching is not the best method but I’m starting to think the men that struggle are just not attractive in any form and or way. That or they’ve got extremely high standards relative to where they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:28 AM
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I think some are sub 5 men of color living in predominantly white countries and where their own women aren’t really attracted to them for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:25 AM
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She brought up the topic of and initiated sex first and was actually upset when I wanted to wait. She even felt a bit guilty about ‘pressuring’ me into sex. She also almost always offers to pay or split and only gave up because I kept rejecting her. She also doesn’t ask for money and pays when it’s her own bills. She’s bought me a gift and offered to take me out. I’ve also been very vocal about how broke I am with her. It’s just that I go out of my way to spend or treat her when I can. She also …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:06 AM
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As someone who’s somewhat redpilled/blackpilled themself I believe these guys also attract the worst kind of women possible. Most people are already shitty but their goal to sleep with as many women as possible in addition to their tactics filter for these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:09 AM
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It’s possible she’s going for the anti-Chad. He didn’t treat her well but she said she would be lying if she didn’t admit there were times of happiness. Turns out she was into me long back but I thought I was friendzoned. She also didn’t want to entertain me until she was sure that she was completely over her ex which she says she is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:05 AM
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Redpill is not necessarily wrong but not to the degree you guys make it out to be. I’ve actually not had trouble being open with women. I’ve lost more women from trying to be too alpha than the opposite. I think redpillers’ results are a combination of them going for the shitiest women around (most people are shitty to begin with) and them displaying their weaknesses in the worst way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:00 AM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:20 AM
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It just happened
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:20 AM
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Trust me I am
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:05 AM
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A week and a half ago in the car. She had an urgent deadline, then got on her period then she got sick (I gave it to her).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:08 AM
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I’ve confessed all my insecurities to the girl I’m seeing. I’ve cried in front of her. I’m incel tier ugly. She’s conventionally attractive and she’s still around. Her ex was a Chad if that matters. He wants her back but she’s not interested. What could be going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:01 AM
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Original poster
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:28 AM
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Prime trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:09 PM
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I knew it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:08 PM
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It’s in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:03 PM
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You’re right. I need to stop worrying. She tried talking to me today about my negativity. I’ve decided to work on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:02 PM
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Maybe I should dump her. I think she’s into me… She initiated the kiss, sex and our first hangout.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:55 AM
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She’ll just ask to see me. She set aside food for me once/twice. Bought me a phone cover for my birthday. Offered to take me out to dinner (that never happened but I think it was just timing).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:45 AM
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I don’t know. What if I’m not her Chad? I don’t think she settled for me because she has options and is conventionally good looking whilst I’m not but what if she doesn’t like me as much as she could?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:00 AM
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She shows me that she likes me. This sub, blackpill, redpill and some of the stories I’ve heard make me paranoid so I struggle to trust her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:27 AM
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She’s not so clear. She seems like she likes me but I’m never too sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:09 AM
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Please give me an example
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:07 AM
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My gf seems like she desires me but I want her to be crazy about me. To show true desire and passion. I don’t know if I get it with her. I think she likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:17 PM
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How can you test a woman’s level of attraction to you? Assuming she really likes you and is in a relationship how can you ensure that she likes you as much as is sanely possible. A woman told me today that whilst she loved her previous bf’s her current bf is the ‘love of her life’ and she’s never had it this good. She feels a spark and fire with him. She left her previous bf for him. The previous invested so much into her and they loved each other but it’s not the same as it is with this new guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:08 PM
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How can you try true love? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:06 PM
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Please send me $150
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:30 AM
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r/FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 06:30 AM
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I come from a country with one of the worst education in the world and even I know that. Besides that’s a minority of Americans. Most of ya’ll are smart enough. That’s why you have such successful companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:30 PM
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Until they have adequate competition
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:29 PM
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How long will that last?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:10 PM
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What type of social circles do you roll in that someone is not numerate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:05 PM
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More masculine, few protected, feel smaller etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:56 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:33 AM
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Lol how often does this happen? You guys need to make better choices in women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:31 AM
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Lol. My lats are very well developed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:39 PM
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Don’t get involved bro. It’s not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:33 PM
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Lol yeah. I’ve lost attraction for a woman who constantly complained before. You just have low standards. Besides we’re different. Suck it up and man up. You’re the type of guy who’d probably expect your girl stick up for you in a fist fight or physical altercation. Sure it would be nice if she did but it’s not a requirement. They’re the ‘fairer’ sex. Imagine having a complete bitch for a bf. Men here want all the benefits of being a man without being manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:30 PM
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She probably still would
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:51 PM
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That’s why finding the right woman is even more important
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:51 PM
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Lol. I’ve displayed emotions (fear, sadness etc) and confidence at the same time (risk taking, a thirst for adventure, facing up to a bully or fear, talking about how I intend to succeed or meet my goals, how I don’t want to lose her but I’m prepared to if need be at the same time, almost zero approach anxiety) to the same women and they still thought highly of me. These traits are not mutually exclusive. Obviously if you’re going to wallow 24/7 then you might not be compatible with her. Would y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:29 AM
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Generic looking white woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:54 AM
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Generic looking white woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:53 AM
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You must have some decent pussy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:53 AM
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Well congrats to you. You’re so smart
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:52 AM
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Probably most
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:11 PM
0

Are you attractive and interesting yourself? Answer honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:27 AM
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That one doesn’t work because the women are either in relationships or don’t know you that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:21 AM
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Things are going well between us right now
/r/ExRedPill20/03/22 11:51 PM
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Lol. The question was about whether or not having previous experience with a tall guy affected them in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:48 PM
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Most do care about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:03 PM
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So women don’t have height preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:17 AM
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It could be that those guys stick out or are more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:42 AM
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Really now? What makes you believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:40 AM
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I’ve noticed that most women simply require that you don’t be short and being tall is a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:39 AM
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So women who date shorter men are settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:01 AM
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You’ve made me see the second perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:02 AM
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I guess it depends on perspective. Less pressure to be manly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:50 AM
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but you’re basically picking a weak man. No man wants to be picked for his weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:42 AM
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What makes them so much better?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:33 AM
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Oh damn. I deleted my Instagram just yesterday. I didn’t want to look at things that were messing with my perception of things. So porn and/or Instagram profiles. Plus I’m not really active on Instagram (posting wise) so I’ve got a ghost account. That would probably creep you out. I could quickly reactivate it just to see your pics or you could pm me? (pretty please)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:33 AM
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This has to be one of the most emasculating and embarrassing reasons for a woman to be with you. She thinks she could actually beat you up if push comes to shove. That’s a really lame reason. That means she can’t even count on you to defend her against other bigger men or opponents. Do short men a favour and stick to tall men. Secondly women are far weaker than men. I know someone who’s my height, very fit and trains martial arts. By all metrics she should beat me but I’m able to subdue her fair…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:30 AM
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The honesty here…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:26 AM
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Yeah when these questions are asked online these height preference women disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:24 AM
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I read your description and went into your profile hoping for pics :/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:23 AM
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So fuck your current bf’s feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:12 AM
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Does your current bf know that he’s not the love of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:11 AM
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Funny thing is I’ve read one or two stories where the woman on fds messed up and slept with a guy on the first night. She obviously regretted it because she got pumped and dumped. Her excuse for deviating from fds principles was that the guy was really handsome and she made the mistake of getting drunk. Another where the woman said her best and most memorable date was with this guy who put in effort and planned everything. It didn’t go anywhere because she had just levelled up and was exploring …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:19 AM
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You’re also in a very good position. You just don’t see it yet. You have a good career, living in a first world country and I’m assuming you have most of your needs met. Finding a partner is relatively easy in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:02 PM
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Approach and join some activities. Join your local toastmasters, rock climbing, dance class, cooking class, language m, yoga class etc. Whatever works for you. You should love being a man. It’s tough dating wise but overall it’s not all that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:01 PM
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Do you dress well? Are you interesting yourself? Do you invite them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:37 PM
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Women are all over. It’s hard not to meet them. My suggestion is to talk to them like you do any other person but take interest in their lives. Ask them how things are going and what their interests are. Invite them out to a mutual interest. If you aren’t meeting women then join a cooking, language or dancing class. Approach them out in public (this takes practice and I wouldn’t recommend it as a first port of call). What do you do in your spare time?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:32 PM
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You did the right thing. It’s just that you either don’t know where to meet women or how to interact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:20 PM
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lol. I’ve seen that but people have the capability to learn you know. Even if they don’t they could still learn if they are willing to put in the time and effort. You starting to sound a bit elitist tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:19 PM
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Pump and dump then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:37 AM
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Thank you! You also don’t have to settle for being a beta bucks. Rather stay single or find someone who genuinely likes you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:49 PM
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Lol she doesn’t. She offers to pay most of the time. I just don’t let her (I can be a bit conservative in that way). The actual date would cost $50 but I was hoping to get lucky and load up on gas, clothes etc You don’t know if you don’t ask :D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:26 PM
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It’s stronger than ever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:13 PM
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No. You’re in a good position if you’re making more than your peers. Playing catch up career wise is not nice. You can always approach a lot and join social clubs. Dating is mostly luck and you could get lucky tomorrow. It’s unlikely I will just get lucky and find a better job tomorrow. I need to consciously work on it. I’m not saying not too focus on dating but not to make it too much of a priority. Nothing wrong with sleeping around. Just don’t make it the be all and end all that some guys her…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:09 PM
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As someone with hindsight I can honestly say to prioritize your career and resume building. This doesn’t mean to be a complete shut in but don’t sacrifice your grades for women. I have next to 0 approach anxiety, can talk to women and have slept around a bit (would not recommend) and I can honestly I would have rather focused on the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:59 PM
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That’s not a big a deal as you make it out to be. Most people would understand basic statistics. If they don’t then you would just need to explain it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:49 PM
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I’m guessing you’re the type of liberal woman the other commenter was referring to… I don’t know how important a person’s credentials are. I’m guessing a lot of men just want to have a good time with someone who’s into them and fun to be around whether that’s a lawyer, doctor or a cashier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:31 PM
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There are lots of women. Focus on your studies and becoming successful. You can use the beta bucks to lure unsuspecting women whom you can pump and dump. Good women will also be drawn to you whom you can choose to wife up. Don’t listen to this advice men. This is a scarcity mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 12:38 PM
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I’m ugly and believe in the blackpill. Getting laid now and again doesn’t change that
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 10:01 PM
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with your wallet yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:00 PM
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Look. I got lucky. I wouldn’t have stood a chance otherwise
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 10:00 PM
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I agree with everything you except for the go overseas. That’s just prostitution with all the extra steps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:29 PM
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There is no hope. Looks are all that matters
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 03:48 PM
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There’s a bit of hope but looks count for the most
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 03:27 PM
1

I called her and we spoke. Things are ok again…for now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:55 PM
1

The blackpill is real. One exception doesn’t mean anything
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 02:54 PM
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I spoke to her over the phone. She still wants us to talk frequently and wants to meet this weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:23 PM
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Which makes me an incel
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 12:23 PM
-2

It’s called luck
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 12:22 PM
1

If I’m redpilled I can at least have zero attachment to her. I usually just go in with zero expectations and attachment.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 10:18 AM
-2

Still an incel
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 10:15 AM
0

I’ve been told I’m ugly and ghosted
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 10:15 AM
1

She reciprocated and the energy was good. She has Instagram but I don’t think she’s obsessed with social media
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:51 AM
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She’s not a bad person. She’s actually very kind and reasonable. I don’t want to do that to her. I would rather be upfront about why I’m leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:02 AM
0

That’s what I’m thinking. She said she wants a 2 day break. I’m going to bring this up if she ever tries to get more commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:00 AM
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I will communicate with her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:59 AM
1

but I didn’t even finish. I lasted long until she said she’s tired, rolled over and went to sleep. She wasn’t even interested in a round 2. She dismissed my attempts to initiate. I’ve also gone down on her before. I feel like things aren’t reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:42 AM
2

I’m scared to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:39 AM
1

No. We just recently had sex and only once
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:39 AM
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It’s not the oral itself. It’s what it represents
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:38 AM
1

Maybe. I will let her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:38 AM
2

She seems very into it. She was grabbing me and scratching my back. It’s the reciprocation part but I don’t know how to bring it up. I will have sex a few more times and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:34 AM
2

I would need to hear her explanation. I don’t really care about the actual acts themselves to be honest. It’s what they represent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:31 AM
0

Well she wanted a movie with her flatmate last night so it can’t be that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:27 AM
2

Oh look a ppd veteran. She’s interested in sex itself. I was just wondering why she doesn’t seem to do any ‘giving’ acts in bed. I’m a paranoid that she either doesn’t care about me or did them with her ex. I doubt that she didn’t ever do these things with her ex in their long relationship but I also told her I don’t want to ask about her past so as not to compare or judge her but now I’m curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:26 AM
1

She just said she doesn’t want to see me for the next 2 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:15 AM
1

Well it’s not going too well. I’m very insecure and paranoid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:05 AM
1

She’ll miss me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:01 AM
1

I’m thinking of ghosting her for a month
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:58 AM
2

There it is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:57 AM
3

Nah uh. You’re crazy gimpgirl but let me humor you. She’s late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:57 AM
1

Lol. You’re subscribed to the series?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:57 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:56 AM
1

3 weeks into a new relationship. Let’s say you spent nearly everyday of a particular week together (not the whole day but evenings). She then says that she doesn’t want to see you tomorrow or the day after because she “needs to breathe”. Should you be worried?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:39 AM
1

3 weeks into a new relationship. Let’s say you spent nearly everyday of a particular week together (not the whole day but evenings). She then says that she doesn’t want to see you tomorrow or the day after because she “needs to breathe”. Should you be worried?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:38 AM
3

Let’s say a woman has never given you a blowjob or a handjob but participated in sex enthusiastically. She doesn’t check to make sure that you came and is mostly on the receiving end of foreplay except for some reciprocated neck kisses. Is it worth finding out if she did these things with an ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:36 AM
0

She seemed genuine and attractive inside and outside. This is why I’m paranoid about letting my guard down. I don’t like false hope.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 06:05 AM
0

No when I tried it in the past
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 06:04 AM
1

It was with regards to something else
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 10:09 PM
1

I spoke to her about this
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 10:09 PM
1

I would rather sleep around if a breakup is high likely
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 10:09 PM
3

I’ve spoken to her. Things will be okay
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 10:08 PM
-3

It’s because I try and fail a lot. I have next to no approach anxiety. I get zero matches on tinder
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 06:24 PM
-12

I also believe in the blackpill and struggle to get laid
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 06:16 PM
1

I don’t like things ending although that might be a possibility. It’s why I tend to prefer sleeping around to relationships
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 06:13 PM
1

I’ve now spoken to her and told her about my worries. She understands and we’ve agreed to continue being vulnerable with each other going forward. On a side note I’m not insecure about being less attractive than her. I’ve accepted it. It’s just a matter of fact.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 05:51 PM
1

I’ve spoken to her about the stuff in this post. We’re going to be alright.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 05:47 PM
2

I’ve spoken to her about the stuff in this post. We’re going to be alright. Thank you
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 05:46 PM
3

You’re making complete sense. That’s me right now. I was tempted to cheat even though I had already cut other women out of my life. I just spoke to her and explained how I have toxic influences but I’m not going to let that affect us. We will be okay.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 05:46 PM
1

I’m ugly
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 05:43 PM
1

I’ve spoken to her about all this. I told her about all this. We’re in a better position now. Thank you
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 05:43 PM
1

Thank you
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 05:41 PM
1

I’ve spoken to her about this. We’re good again.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 05:41 PM
-4

Well she’s here now and I have to deal with it
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 02:16 PM
3

Thank you for your response. Why do you think he felt the need to use redpill tactics on you?
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 02:01 PM
1

Is this a rebound? She was in her last relationship for 6 years. We started seeing each other a day after they broke up but it had been heading downhill for a while. She said he cheated on her multiple times and she had a low self esteem. The last straw was when she caught him with another girl after her trying to reconcile. She assured me that she no longer talks to him. She even warned against us going to a particular spot because we might bump into him or his friends and she didn’t want to ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:56 AM
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I can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:43 AM
2

I know but from my interactions with her she seems like a genuine person. Usually I know what I’m dealing with but she seems to be the real deal which means my abundance is switched off. It’s not that I don’t believe I will replace her. It’s that her personality and demeanour make me naturally want to invest time and money (I pay for everything) into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:53 PM
2

I have abundance with most women unless I choose or end up committing for some reason which is super rare. We’re not official and I’m already afraid to cheat on her or hurt her. She seems so genuine. She makes me want to invest into her even with the little I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:51 PM
2

A combination of this sub and red-pilled friends have made me paranoid. I’m in a new relationship (well more of getting to know each other) and I’m paranoid about her losing interest due to me being too nice or available. She seems cool but anything that makes it seem like she’s losing interest makes me paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:36 PM
1

She doesn’t seem like the type to just leave because of that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:39 PM
1

I want us to wait
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:38 PM
1

How do you think it will go? She still seems interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:38 PM
1

I don’t know. Do you think she will dump me? She seems to still be into me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:38 PM
8

So today I broke down crying in front of the woman I’m seeing. So people on PPD are always posing hypothetical questions especially to women. Today I broke down crying at this woman’s place. We were hooking up but decided against sex. We were extremely close and she insisted on us doing it but I wanted to wait. We had many close encounters including one where my tip was starting to enter her but I stopped myself. I eventually just went down on her. Later in the morning we were discussing somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:56 AM
2

I picked this girl (maybe even gf but not offices) I’m seeing from night school. There’s a nearby park where I used to play competitive sport. I went and greeted my ex teammates. She suddenly became uneasy and when I asked her why she said it’s because there was a high chance of us running into her ex and his friends. We discussed it later. She didn’t want my feelings to be hurt as her ex is unpredictable. I don’t know the guy but our last encounter with him was when we were walking and someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:16 AM
2

Tip for men This is going to sound weird but I think going the friend or platonic root actually works . Let me explain. I’ve spoken to quite a lot of women (especially those with some pronounced feature(s) like a big butt or boobs) and they all seemed to find it refreshing that I didn’t bring in or sneak sex into the topic. I’m not saying not to flirt or show intention but it seems a lot of guys objectify these women, want to make the conversation topic sexual very quickly or make it obvious tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:15 AM
1

Where are you based. The below poster is in Texas. Fly her over and just hang.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:30 AM
1

Cape Town (stay in the safe parts and the cost of living will be far lower)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:15 AM
1

We’re not having sex yet. I can tell she wants to but I want to wait. I’m actually scared. She kept wrapping and squeezing her legs around me randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:57 AM
1

It does for me. I’ve gotten rejected so many times just because of my face
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:52 PM
1

She doesn’t seem like it. I’ve known a lot of people and am good at reading them. She genuinely seems like just a nice person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:51 PM
1

I am but that’s because I also have 0 approach anxiety and usually lower my standards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:51 PM
2

She might just be advertising
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:26 PM
1

I’m ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:25 PM
3

Teanna trump actually enjoys her job?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:01 PM
7

Incel here who ended up with a conventionally attractive woman. Things are still going well. She accepts me for who I am and seems to genuinely enjoy spending time with me. I think I’ve found a good woman. She offered to pay for drinks/dinner last night but I still won’t let her. I don’t do 50/50 with someone this cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:58 PM
1

I’m curious. What do they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:57 PM
1

Thank you. She met with a female friend of mine and the friend said it’s up to me to mess it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:51 PM
1

Yeah he’s being a lame. She’s cool and if she’s not I’ll find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:50 PM
1

What are you those bad moves?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:31 PM
1

Me too :D
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:31 PM
1

Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:13 PM
1

I know what you mean. I’ve turned off a few women that way but it’s not simply black or white. I’m never just nice. I say what’s on my mind and even tease them. It’s just some get turned off when they realize that beneath the cockiness etc I’m going to treat them relatively well. With her I thought I was friendzoned so I never bothered to put on the bad boy facade. She seemed to fall for me just being me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:34 PM
2

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:31 PM
2

If she has then I haven’t seen it. She seems to be very confident in herself. Even if she doesn’t know something she doesn’t hide it or pretend to know more than she does. She also seems to have a healthy view on relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:31 PM
0

Well. You seem to be cool. I think we’d get along
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:28 PM
1

Work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:27 PM
1

You’re right but she seems to genuinely like the personality part and still wants to get physically intimate with me. I don’t know…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:26 PM
1

I still don’t know. She seems to have actually fallen for my personality. She knows that she’s attractive, dresses really well and has gotten interest from a model scout so it can’t be low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:10 AM
2

I’m surprised you don’t have an OF link
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:36 AM
5

So I’m the incel who managed to get a (conventionally attractive) gf. She actually to communicate and for me to call her as often as I’d like. I was afraid of being perceived as needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:35 AM
1

Now I’m paranoid. I’m giving my current space but I know she could just lose feelings at any moment but she seems healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:12 PM
1

The last woman was interested because she mistook my confidence for being a player and cockiness. She lost interest once she realised I’m going to treat her well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:11 PM
1

It’s just that this sub has made me a bit insecure. Like I’m a beta bux or I will lose her attraction by treating her well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:36 PM
1

I don’t know if that should make me feel uneasy. She hasn’t mentioned a relationship at all. We’ve just been going on a date or 2 and making out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:28 PM
1

She wasn’t hiding anything. This is information I got from a guy who’s known for a long time. She doesn’t know that he told me this. She seems to have been in 1/2 LTRs with nothing in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:26 PM
2

I’m definitely as ugly as I think. Even uglier as I’ve come to find out I’m not tall. Maybe frame I can’t argue with this one I would say it’s a possibility but her last relationship was a long steady one she wanted to hang out way before I paid for anything. She even told me when she felt a connection and it was whilst we were still talking (long before a single date took place or I paid for anything). She also insists on contributing when we go out. I’ve just being declining. she was inviting …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:15 PM
1

I know this. I’m just wondering what she wants from me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:09 PM
2

I know it’s my looks 50% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:09 PM
1

I think so…We haven’t had an in depth conversation as yet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:53 PM
1

I don’t know. She seems to have a healthy opinion of relationships though and doesn’t claim to be perfect .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:53 PM
2

Black. I’ve also been rejected by tons of women. It’s a wonder I still have the amount of confidence that I do. I also received 0 matches on Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:00 AM
1

Trust me. Even when I used to be in shape (single digit body fat, bench nearly twice my own body weight and mistaken for a personal trainer) I still got rejected by most women. One female friend told. Me that the problem is my face
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:43 AM
2

She’s definitely good looking. She been offered to model a few times (even recently from an agency). I thought she was unaware but she laughed and said “I know I’m good looking!” The better looking guys are relationship orientated. The Chad cheats but he presents himself as relationship orientated. She’s high maintenance herself (looks after herself l, works out and dresses extremely well to the point where even straight men notice her fashion sense). She hasn’t indicated any desire for any effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:37 AM
1

Real story. I posted a thread a while back about identifying when someone likes you because I thought I was friendzoned for the last few months. Turns out she was waiting for me to make a move which I did in the last few weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:09 AM
2

I’m very selective about when and with whom I pay. I’ve actually been the one insisting. She usually takes out her own money. It also seems she liked me long before any date or me paying for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:08 AM
1

Met her at work but there are other guys (all better looking tbh with one being a Chad) trying to get her attention. We are late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:05 AM
1

I’m conventionally ugly I haven’t been working out for the last 3 years so I’m out of shape as well I took a blue pill approach to a woman (paying for everything, listening to her talk about her feelings, asked her out on a date, opened doors for her, talking about how we felt etc) she’s been offered opportunities to model and is well aware of her looks I strongly suspect from background information received from other guys that she’s extremely low n-count (possibly and most likely even 1) We’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:16 AM
2

I agree with this. Although I have seen a situation where the guy was fuckzoned. The girl had a crush on someone else and would only use the guy for sex. He badly wanted a relationship but she refused.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:48 AM
1

I agree with your last statement. I don’t know about hating women. I know too many men who think very lowly of women but are very successful with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:42 AM
1

I have. That’s why I’m giving the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:41 AM
2

Lol. We’ve gone out 3 times. In those 3 times: she asked me out for lunch (as a friend) and when it was time to pay she was ready to split but I insisted on covering. She said that the next one was on her. on the second time I heard her stomach growling and asked her if I should get her food because it was my fault she hadn’t cooked already . She refused and said the ingredients were already ready. I insisted and she still refused. In the end I told her to just get in the car. Even when we got t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:05 AM
3

It’s not so simple. A lot of luck is also involved. These are just ways to increase your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:47 AM
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As an incel who recently got a gf here are my honest comments/advice/observations: you should be exercising, dressing well/decently, working on your career regardless if you believe it will get you a woman or not. You should also priorities yourself. actually enjoy spending time with women. I realised that she liked me when I stopped worrying about being friendzoned and just enjoyed the moment. I was ok with any outcome. Just make sure it’s a balanced friendship. You should dictate what type of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:17 AM
1

Lol I don’t get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:17 AM
8

Damn…I actually got a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:13 AM
2

I would break off the friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:35 AM
1

It depends. You have to be a bit more specific. We’re anonymous so feel free to give me exact scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:50 AM
1

Just companionship in and of itself. They’re just people at the end of the day. The women I’ve been hanging with don’t complain a lot. The conversation is usually balanced. I paid the last 3/4 times when I went out with a female friend but that’s because I insisted. Previous to that I had female friends pay for me (e.g. the last one took me out to go watch Spider-Man at its opening). They didn’t expect it or feel entitled to it. In fact tried to stop me or pulled out their own card/money but I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:32 AM
2

In terms of overall package (looks, finances, style etc) I see more women punching up. In terms of looks it’s fairly even but for the cases of rich or above average income men with below average women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:40 AM
2

You see them as people. They’re not these foreign things or aliens. Friendzone aside it’s sometimes nice just to talk to a woman. There’s something about a feminine presence. They really make for some enjoyable company. You sometimes get to see what really does through women’s minds. At the end of the day they’re just people. This obviously depends on the woman in particular. Some are not even worth being friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:37 PM
1

Even if I knew how to make women orgasm it’s not like they give me the chance to show it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:04 PM
16

As someone with lots of female friends I can honestly say the improvement in social skills has done zero good for my dating prospects. If she’s rejected you then chances are that her friends also won’t find you attractive. There’s no pre-selection benefits. Everyone can tell she’s just your friend. I’ve only had 3 female friends offer to introduce me to their friends. I took 2 of them up on their offer. One introduced me to her extremely slutty friend who had just been burnt by a Chad and was lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:54 PM
1

I’m not too shy or nervous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:05 AM
1

Yeah and some men like hoes. So you’re sorted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:36 AM
1

You’re a self professed big booty hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:19 AM
1

You’re probably single by choice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:49 AM
1

because they could see the rejection coming a mile away. Guys could sense that unless they were tall millionaires it wasn’t worth even trying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:48 AM
1

Lol I will report back
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:47 AM
0

No it’s not. It’s because they want tall millionaires
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:06 PM
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On a side note I think if I had to fuck you you definitely wouldn’t be able to handle my thick dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:06 PM
0

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:52 PM
-1

I’ve got a female friend who’s fresh from a break up. I don’t know if she’s completely over her bf but she’s been trying to spend a lot of time with me lately. Maybe I’m the rebound. I could just be friendzoned. I think I will bring out the heavy artillery and gift her a rose. I won’t invite her out or say anything. Just a rose. Let’s see what happens…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:11 PM
2

Yes for relationships as well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:08 PM
2

Men are desperate. You can be a complete loser and still date as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:42 PM
2

The ones who are successful are really successful and the ones who aren’t really aren’t. All the women are successful in dating though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:41 PM
1

I know a lot more single men than women or the proportion of single men is higher
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:23 PM
2

Women really don’t like men so they…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:24 PM
1

Women complement them and they have multiple fwbs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:24 PM
2

Possible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:35 PM
2

Even the attractive male friends are single
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:35 PM
5

Nah even the very unattractive ones
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:35 PM
8

So let me get this straight. You have to approach and get rejected by multiple women and the day you succeed and get one (assuming you don’t get flaked on or ghosted) then you have to put up with her potential mood swings, cheating, subpar treatment and some of you might even suffer some retroactive jealously if you feel that she isn’t really into you. Are you guys actually enjoying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:00 AM
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Almost every girl I know is either is either in a relationship, just coming from one or entering one. A lot of the guys I know are single. How is this possible? I already know that 80/20 or whatever is supposedly a redpill lie so how is this happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:58 AM
0

Nah. He deserves everything he’s getting Mxolisi that’s what you get for being a pussy who’s too afraid to leave the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:04 AM
1

How am I boring? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:31 PM
1

I think I’d like you. Unfortunately you’re far and we met on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:28 PM
1

Does this stand for age, sex and location?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:27 PM
1

Oh my gosh you’re gorgeous :o
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:19 PM
1

I don’t know if you’re being sarcastic or…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:17 PM
1

Are you really black with a booty?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:12 PM
2

Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:07 PM
1

Haha. Where are you based?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:07 PM
2

What type of engineering?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:06 PM
3

Not even. If I treat them badly they’re more likely to stick around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:04 PM
1

I’ve got friends. I approach lots of women. I’m in shape (get mistaken for a personal trainer or athlete). I still get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:03 PM
4

I’ve realized that I treat my female friends a lot better than the women that I sleep with. Like if my strategy is to sleep with or date you then I can’t treat you with the same respect that I treat my female friends. It’ll turn you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:29 PM
1

Sorry :(. This entire time I thought you were practicing. I hope things work out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:27 PM
2

Nah. I’ve kept my confidence up and I still get 99.99% rejections
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:21 PM
1

You’re an engineer? What type? Are you male/female?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:12 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:11 PM
5

Wow. So we’re supposed to find a good relationship and job in life but it’s so hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:27 PM
1

I like how you mentioned white
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:31 PM
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Well I’ve decided I’m going to give every woman a fair chance at marriage from now on. If she should not meet one of my standards or requirements she will be promptly let go. It will take me a few months to assess these with each woman. I also need to be with her for at least 6months to know her properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:43 AM
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How is it unethical? They don’t know whether or not I had any intention of dating them long term. It’s like taking out a woman on thoughtful and/or expensive dates only for her to ghost or reject you. Who’s to say she was using you? Maybe she discovered one of her dealbreakers in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:33 AM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:04 AM
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I personally just lie
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:02 AM
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I always advise this strategy for men. Just because you’re a beta Billy doesn’t mean you can’t get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:52 AM
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because you know that it’s impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:37 PM
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set it as a goal to remain single for the rest of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:05 PM
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Just try stay single and see what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:41 PM
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Trust me I am. I’ve been told so my many men and women. I get rejected a lot but I’ve found the moment I decide to give up opportunities present themselves to me. It’s hard to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:34 PM
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Yeah. Try to stay single and see how hard it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:32 PM
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How am I far removed if I’m a guy myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:31 PM
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I know dating can be quite difficult for men especially those who may be below average in conventional looks however I often find that it’s difficult to stay single. At some point someone will express interest in you. It may only be one girl or woman a year but if you get outside, have decent hygiene and present yourself well than it shouldn’t be that hard. For the record I’m a a man myself and I could be considered ugly by conventional means.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:14 AM
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Yeah I can believe that. The founder is black but most of the women are not. A lot of black owls will probably go the way of FDS soon. The writings on the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:42 PM
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I think some are. The main one is black though. u/TheOGJammies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:20 PM
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That’s going to be me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:48 PM
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Someone tagged me. I’m relevant :D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:47 PM
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A black woman is the main (only?) founder of FDS. Do you want me to link her username as proof? She’s apparently banned from this sub though. Black women also tend to spout a lot of FDS rhetoric. It’s the same way the redpill in its current incarnation may have been founded by white men but some of the most popular YouTube channels are by black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:43 PM
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This…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:36 PM
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I’ve met a few FDS woman. They’re usually crazy and overinflate their achievements.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:30 PM
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According to FDS the mere fact that you even questioned them makes you low value
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:24 PM
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I didn’t realize you’re a woman going on a friend date. I thought you were some guy being taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:51 AM
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You deserved every minute of it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:51 PM
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What!?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:43 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:49 PM
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but is that what women are thinking? I’ve got women who think I’m ok looking and have a great body but not attractive enough to date. If women were truly as horny as men then these women would at least consider fucking me. They trust me enough to come over late at night and aren’t afraid to fall asleep or be alone with me by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:25 PM
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That’s nonsense. It’s not the same. There are some guys women know are harmless and average but will still not sleep with them. Why won’t a woman sleep with an average looking guy friend who she trusts and who’s willing to use a condom then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:37 AM
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Lol. I’ve driven into dangerous areas in the hopes of getting laid. I wouldn’t do it ever again but the fact that I’ve risked my life multiple times for pussy tells you a lot about male thirst. I’m also willing to bet most men wouldn’t mind being raped by a moderately attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:19 PM
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You’re blackpilled? Impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:05 PM
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I’ve interacted with both in real life. Men are usually redpill with blue pill beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:37 AM
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More women are representative of fds than incels are of men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:00 PM
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Most r/FemaleDatingStrategy are childfree/already single mothers/infertile
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:49 AM
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