| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | Be careful if you join TelegramTelegram is awful and the only men I've ever known to use it were predators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:46 PM |
| 313 | How much debt are you in as a direct result of a LVM ex?My mom had to pay off her LVX's stupid disgusting environment destroying and ugly AF Hummer as part of their settlement agreement because he was such a loser. He'd filed for bankruptcy twice and bought the stupid car to relive his military glory. I once asked her how she could stand making the payments every month (this was long ago- it's been paid now) and she said that every time she signed the check she reminded herself that was she was really paying for was getting him the fuck OUT of her li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:45 PM |
| 46 | Husband eats all of the food in the house leaving his wife and children hungry. Gets mad at wife for not giving him more food when she replaces what he ate that night.Imagine being so selfish that you're fine with your children going hungry. Imagine treating your wife and life partner like this. And the amount of consideration that would make this situation not a shit show is so minimal. HE could have called in takeout food for his family to replace the food he ate.... Or he could learn to control his fucking self | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 12:34 AM |
| 97 | I'm going to end it with my abusive bf, please pipe me up"Closure" is what abusers use to try to reel you back in. It's a made up concept. Once you're done, be DONE. Block, delete, and get that "closure" by not allowing him to take up any more real estate in your amazing life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:47 PM |
| 504 | At least the cat won't care about the hair between your legs 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️This man will go down on his partner exactly once per year and she will never cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 08:31 PM |
| 4 | Men pretend they're clueless and incompetent to avoid being self-sufficient and accountable. This is how women end up doing most of the house work. The "mental load" of organizing and managing falls to the women. Link in comments for more about the invisible labour of "mental load".I think so! Marriage is hard enough when you're doing it with a best friend and supportive partner. It's not worth it when your partner is just dragging you down instead of helping you forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 05:05 AM |
| 39 | The Male GazeI recently met a fascinating, brilliant, beautiful female photographer who does "intimate portraiture" and showed me some of her work. It was stunning to see the difference between a male gaze and an intentional female gaze behind the camera. The women she shot were vulnerable, sexy, comfortable, and wholely THEMSELVES. The pictures weren't about appealing to a man or being sexy for a partner, they captured these women and celebrated them as they are. I was so impressed and so happy to see how f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:20 PM |
| 18 | Men pretend they're clueless and incompetent to avoid being self-sufficient and accountable. This is how women end up doing most of the house work. The "mental load" of organizing and managing falls to the women. Link in comments for more about the invisible labour of "mental load".My NVM ex and I got into a huge fight once in a hardware store about paint. I was trying to involve him in decorating our apartment and he was being an asshole, insisting we paint each wall a different neon color because, and I quote, "who are we trying to make the house look good for?" I left in tears and our roommate took me aside later to tell me to GTFO out of the relationship. Still took a little while but seeing how he actually enjoyed making me cry in public was one of the final straws th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:04 PM |
| 31 | Takeshi Kaneshiro: Example of aging well take note scrotes! Not bald/balding and fatMen who take care of themselves can actually age as gracefully as women. But men who pride themselves on never eating vegetables and never using moisturizer because "fur girlz" are gonna hit the wall HARD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:55 PM |
| 61 | We hit over 160k! Thanks for driving traffic here, scrotes.Yup! Came here to gawk at the "female incels" and stayed because I've never felt more validation and support in an online community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:44 PM |
| 16 | GUYS!! his girlfriend found FDS and left him‼️ 👑 😎Being the "joke" of Reddit is pretty validating that this is the place to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 02:28 AM |
| 81 | If your man doesn't touch these then you've failed to properly vet... How would you edit this? Swipe left to see mine 👈🏼The scrote who made this original meme believes in going 50/50 and worries a "gold digger" might take him for all he's worth (his original pokemon card collection and the weed dust in his never-vacuumed carpet) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 100 | I’m so disgusted and sad for his wifeLot of words to say "I fetishize women with trauma but don't actually care about them." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:21 PM |
| 12 | FDS is more supportive towards single mothers than the actual single parents subIt's the exact same sick patriarchal mindset. Husband/partner/father runs out on the family because he's an irresponsible scrote? oMYgOD LeTs ShAmE thE sINGle MOm foR BEinG ThERe. Dad left or treated you like garbage? Let's blame the "crazy women" for their "daddy issues" instead of doing any critical thinking about men's responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:10 PM |
| 26 | world travel vs stabilityThese scrotes can say all they want that it's about biology blah blah. It's about control. Women in their 30s and 40s have the self confidence that women in their 20s don't. Just turned 30 this year and I already feel myself giving less and less of a f*CK. In my 20s, I would've bought the bullshit. These days it just stinks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:56 PM |
| 83 | world travel vs stabilityThings we could do to "fix" the plummeting birth rate: pay women more provide 12 months fully paid maternity leave (at the expense of the government if the company is too small to provide leave) provide 6 months fully paid paternity leave socialize young boys to be fathers and not just soldiers birth expenses are free (SERIOUSLY why should it cost a family tens of thousands of dollars?) childcare is provided by the state, childcare workers are paid and trained appropriately. provide a "birth box… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:51 PM |
| 38 | My boyfriend is contributing nothing but wants all the say in our new house. How do I nicely ask him to be reasonable?There's a post on AITA right now about a young woman whose husband quit his job on her and is now emotionally and financially abusing her while she works to support his dream. I guess I'm officially "brainwashed" because I literally can't stop seeing examples of these deadbeat men in the wild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:01 PM |
| 3 | What does giving yourself what you deserve look like for you?Printing this out and keeping it with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Weird Red Flags?Midsommar is one of my favorite movies. Such a headtrip. Hereditary is very different but also very much about women (though from a motherhood/daughtherhood perspective rather than as a growing young woman and a partner). I really think Ari Aster does an incredible job capturing the trauma of family life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:52 PM |
| 30 | Scrotes act like we have a biological clock as though adoption doesn't exist.This is so cool! You are exposing these kids to a new culture and givin them a safe landing spot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:41 PM |
| 33 | Scrotes act like we have a biological clock as though adoption doesn't exist.Flip the switch. You're a mother and a martyr. You're raising a child by yourself and you have this opportunity to give a woman all the strength, courage, confidence and power that you didn't have. Don't hate who you've been -- love who you are and who you are becoming. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 177 | Scrotes act like we have a biological clock as though adoption doesn't exist.In case this comes off a bit privileged: I would be adopting through foster care if the time comes and I am in the right position. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Weird Red Flags?If you're not into horror, I recommend starting with Ready or Not. It is definitely gory, but it's also so hysterically funny that it's a great ride. The female protagonist is taking NO SHIT. I love the movie and I always recommend to my friends who want a spooky thrill ride but don't like traditional horror movies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:41 PM |
| 35 | Men are such crybabiesMy NVM ex: "Why am I the one who ALWAYS has to change??" Idk, bro. Maybe because you're the one with no job, no motivation, no goals, no money, not putting in effort in the house, treating your friends like shit, treating me like shit, hitting on other women, punching walls, and throwing temper tantrums? Unsurprisingly, he has only positive memories of our wonderful relationship while I vomit in my mouth a little every time I think of that period of my life and what I put up with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:30 PM |
| 30 | but women are the gold diggers 🙄Scrotes out here calling women "gold diggers" when they'd be lucky to find nickles buried in the backyard. In 2017, women 41% of US women were the primary or sole breadwinner in their households (Source) Mothers in low income families are even more likely to be the breadwinners -- about 70% in the lowest income quartile (source from same article). Scrotes are KIDDING THEMSELVES. NVM and LVM are just as, if not more likely to be the ones financially dependent on a female partner, and that doesn't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Weird Red Flags?I actually LOVE horror movies, but I still have red flags in the genre: Guys who LOVE "Mother!" like to watch women being tortured and think they're a super intellectual. "A Cure for Wellness" is another red flag. Personally, I love inviting my horror-loving guy friends over to watch "Teeth" (an excellent film, but TW for SA that does get justice) to see whether they actually like horror or whether they just like seeing women being tortured. One of my favorite things about the horror genre is ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:06 PM |
| 6 | Weird Red Flags?This had me dying. "Please, oh please, can't I find a man who will put me on a pedestal but then put zero effort into being romantic, helpful, or even listening to me. But like... we're so endgame!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:57 PM |
| 10 | Weird Red Flags?Totally -- again, it's not Jim persay, it's the guys who idealize Jim and want a "Jim and Pam" relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 33 | Weird Red Flags?This might just be my own thing/my own experience, but here's what sucks about Jim. Jim's a bully. He's cute and quirky and that's why he gets away with it, but he's an absolute, complete, bullshitmonster bully. Jim's relationship with Pam before she breaks up with Roy is toxic and unhealthy. After she breaks up with Roy he makes no effort to reach out to her. Jim's treatment of Karen is abysmal, as is his treatment of Katie. None of the women other than idealized Pam deserve his respect. Hates … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 09:01 PM |
| 45 | Weird Red Flags?Elon Musk is a run as fast as I can away from you, you soulless monster, level red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:57 PM |
| 5 | I literally don’t understand how this is supposed to be heartwarming or romanticTLDW: "He couldn't give me what I needed so I decided I could need less for him." I would absolutely eat that food but the bullshit she's serving is inedible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 04:50 PM |
| 5 | Any online self defense resources you can recommend?The self protection that I have that makes me feel safest these days is my dog. Obviously that's not an option for everyone. I also carry a taser but I hope to never have to use it, as I worry it could be easily turned on me by someone stronger. What I like about it is that it makes a very frightening sound and lights up, so if I ever use it I envision myself using it to demonstrate that I'm not an easy target rather than actually using it on a person. Honestly what's worked best for me in the p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 8 | I finly turned a cornerCongratulations! You deserve to feel this good, this treasured, this pampered. You deserve fresh flowers and leisurely mornings and beautiful sunsets and soft fabrics and comfy socks and great music and kindness from the people who are lucky enough to be in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 04:08 PM |
| 6 | Strong women you admire in your family stories.... and go!My grandmother. Survived extreme poverty in rural Maine (her father used to poach deer for food), an abusive mother, father, and brother. Dropped out of high school at 14 and had three children in rapid succession with a pedophile that my family still can't admit was a pedophile because he was also a genius military strategist (and pedophile!). Divorced his ass when she wanted to make more of herself and realized he wanted her barefoot, pregnant, and 14 forever. She went on to become a bellydanc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 04:04 PM |
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