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datingapppro/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:56 PM
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Or the same height. Have heard women say that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:40 PM
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I agree with this. The number “6” is more a status symbol than anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:39 PM
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There’s a number of reasons. Body shape isn’t ideal. At that height you’re likely to be very gangly. Clothes fit poorly. Kissing can be awkward. Talking to people involves crouching down. Body moves don’t look normal “Awkward” is 9/10 used to describe someone as tall. Even worse with things like dancing. Every inch after 6’2 hurts you. With anything 6’6 and above making you worse off than a 5’10 guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:38 PM
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Not in terms of weirdness vetting. Many people , especially men, don’t have instagrams. No one doesn’t have a Facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:36 PM
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Lol at thinking any of this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:35 PM
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Reddit is also a time sink waste. Agree you need a social media but only facebook. You don’t need an Instagram or that’s other shit. And you definitely don’t need to update it weekly. Just some pics of you doing cool stuff so you look interesting. Anyone without a Facebook will draw red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:34 PM
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Haha every woman has a rape story. They’ve taken the teeth out of the word
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:11 AM
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Lol maybe a butt squeeze at a club or by some bum on a bus but nothing too over the top Yes dealing with low smv trash males is a shitty thing women have to deal with. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:10 AM
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Lmao 2016 proves you entirely wrong and 2020 will as well. It’s the left who has lost touch
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:08 AM
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Same with pregnancy. You get knocked up you have no right to kill a fetus
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:06 AM
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What's IT?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:59 AM
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Yes. 6 fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:14 PM
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Yea was about to say, redditors on those subs have much more in common with incels than they realize
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 10:43 PM
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Google is your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 10:41 PM
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That’s been a saying for a while and it’s actually pretty crazy to see the decline right before our eyes. Internet culture is often a good proxy about issues that aren’t yet mainstream, but will be. This phenomenon is no different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:49 PM
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Glass cliff lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:33 PM
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Anything after 6’2 for sure. That’s the top of the bell curve. That said you can be tall and it work if you carry it well. But a 6’6 string bean will not get women at sll
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:29 PM
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Tinder data: Most right swiped single word on a woman’s profile by men? The word “love” Most right swiped single word on a mans profile by women? The number “6’” Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:14 PM
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Also dumb how 5’11 and 6’ are the same thing by nearly all accounts but a big difference in perception
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:13 PM
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Lol lanky 6’5 guy is not the ideal. Firstly at that height every inch actually hurts. Secondly, he needs muscle. A skinny lanky guy is not going to kill it with the ladies compared to a well built tall guy. Trust me, I’ve been both
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:09 PM
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Having an emotional connection, real or perceived, with a woman and then getting heart broken is probably the similar example as sex for women. Men can have sex no strings attached much easier. But man when you go through enough breakups you just don’t give a shit anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:43 PM
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It's not even a subconcious thing. Most people have no idea of that relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:40 AM
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not all, but PPD and Reddit in general ( the ones who comment here at least) are almost all that type
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:39 AM
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haha you really havent heard of the "Where have all the good men gone" types? Big cities are filled with women who think their big paying job makes them highly valued in the sexual market place. It doesnt at all. Thats a lie that was told to women by women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:38 AM
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I'd posts your conversations on a reliable forum where you trust their advice, or ask your friends who do get laid what you're doing wrong. If you have the approach and get the number part down then that's the hard part - so be relieved. It means you are good enough looking and have balls. What sucks is likely your game and ability to escalate ​ ​ Also harassing isnt an option. Probably why you are failing. You need to learn to FLIRT. Flirting IMPLIES everything sexual but leaves plausible denia…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:36 AM
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Yep. I remember in my blue pilled days saying shit like "i love you" to girlfriends too much, getting flowers for dates, etc. The kind of stuff women say they want but will repulse them if not done with the proper 'push' beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:29 AM
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The one good thing Blue Pill gave you was hope. What it took away was agency. ​ Blue Pill life was hope that a woman would come along and love you for you. "the one". And the universe would make it happen. Maybe she would be your neighbor in college. Maybe a girl you shared a bus ride with. Maybe someone in line at the grocery store - whatever it was it would happen. ​ Red Pill life is giving you the tools to not just get your one, but many, and hell you can even take 'the one' away from other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:20 AM
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lol in my Blue Pilled days I knew damn well that "when young women like to party around, but when older they settle for stability, and Ill be that guy and 'win' by marrying her in the long term" and was not just fine but HAPPY for it. ​ So much women speak is "oh we fool around when young, but you got married and WON the game". Absolutely hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:15 AM
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Yep. Had to challenge the status quo. When a girl who is sweet and nice says she cares about personality but dates the school bully because he is good looking, or when the feminist says she cares about equal rights but dates the misogynistic alpha male, most move on. But like with The Matrix we had that growing self doubt about the entire system
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:09 AM
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lol you know absolutely zero about the Red Pill. TRP says women are tied to their biology, and thus are AMORAL. Not bad and especially not 'always bad'. Men are as well, but we are much more open and honest about what we are attracted to. You are seeing a blue pill lie about male preferences start to form but it's being pushed by feminists (get that career! sleep around! wait until 30 to get married!) and NOT men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:07 AM
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Meyers Briggs Type. Basically everyone on Reddit. We arent your average population. We like to examine and analyze things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:04 AM
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plenty of men played the Blue Pill game with success who werent attractive. They are just unknowingly walking a tight rope where a year break from the gym, an untimely job loss, or their wife catching the eye of a better guy will ruin them completely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:03 AM
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When I found the red pill there wasnt a MGTOW alternative and I am happy for it The idea of just checking out or not pursuing women didnt even seem like an option ​ I am just glad that the TRP and MGTOW camps hate each other
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:01 AM
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the authority figure piece comes from the physical piece. Women AND men look to the taller guy or more dominant guy in the room. The money stuff is inconsequential. I guarantee you no woman sees a tall guy and thinks "oh, statistically taller guys make more money. I am into him"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:58 AM
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haha whatever cope you want to believe. I went from a kissless virgin in college to a high tier 'plate spinner' (for lack of a better term) in my 20s. Women that meet you dont know your backstory. They see you as fit and social then they assume you were in a frat in college and played sports in high school. Sure, you may not have the true confidence that those things can build but you can develop it in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:57 AM
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agree with that much. The visual threshold for a girl to be interested in a guy without knowing other details about him is MUCH higher than the same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:55 AM
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society (as in media, movies, etc.) absolutely love a chance to rip on what they perceive as entitled white men. Frat boys are successful counterpart who have a target on their back, and incels are their loser alternatives. ​ What's interesting that if you look at rate of virginhood more and more incels are minorities. Indians, asians, hispanics, etc. who dont do well with white women or women of other races in America. This can be tough because they often are culturally different as well as phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:54 AM
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WSJ and Economist have both done stories https://www.economist.com/briefing/2018/08/18/how-the-internet-has-changed-dating behind a paywall but in summary office relationships have PLUMMETED among the current generation, used to be a leading way people met now it's like 6th or 7th
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:50 AM
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When I found the Red Pill incels and MGTOW werent a thing. In another life myself and many other successful TRPers might have gone that route. ​ I was a loser and still wanted women to like me. TRP seemed the only way, especially once discovered. The idea to check out and give up didnt even seem like an option, but now so many are taking it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:38 AM
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possibly a good comparison. SJW was an internet only weirdo term that is now mainstream. Incel isnt yet mainstream but getting close
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:35 AM
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lol name one instance where women were a scapegoat as a society falls that didnt involve something like religion as a proxy (aka muslims)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:32 AM
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Hope you're right. But currently have plenty of beta schlub friends being snatched up by women nearing or at the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:31 AM
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I'd argue it's a marker for fitness in so much that taller men, all things equal, are more stronger and powerful. Again all things equal and in normal interactions. Not referring to world class boxers or fighters who have advantages by being smaller
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:29 AM
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Not true at all. Mostly - because most people lack agency or awareness that they can be changed. But you can absolutely take the red pill, gain this awareness, and in time become alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:27 AM
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That girl is a worthless thot as well. Will give her props for being honest and hopefully red pilling other guys out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:25 PM
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Most people happy or not don’t question that stuff. It takes NT types
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:22 PM
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Possibly. Is a Christian happier than an atheist? Most likely. But if you’re strong you would want the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:18 PM
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Easy. Want her to be a family girl, the kind that loves family vacations and hanging out at home. Obviously social, but understands the importance of class. I’d want her to be smart and ambitious. Go to school, get a job that interests her. But i also wouldn’t feed her the female blue pill of the world revolves around you, you can be anything and have it all, and you’re a victim. I’d consider myself disappointed if anything if i found out any of the following: she has casual sex out of relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:17 PM
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A lot were just lonely guys. The fact that everyone needs to insult FAs and incels is pretty telling
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:18 PM
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Be interesting, be assertive, be masculine, dress well, own your shit, be non-committal, work out, do cool hobbies, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:18 PM
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It’s well documented. Office relationships have dropped like 80% from a generation ago
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:17 PM
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Were there involuntarily celibate people before? Yes Was it a community with group think like it is today? Not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:16 PM
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I feel online dating has accelerated this trend. ​ Easy to say stuff like "women arent hypergamous", "women care more about things other than height or looks", "80/20 rule? Sounds stupid" until you see firsthand tinder data and realize the average guy is skullfucked in the dating world unless he has strong social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:59 AM
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TRP has no intention of being accessible. Sure it wants to get the word out, but it isn't about mainstream. It's blunt for that very reason. ​ ​ TBH I'm not sure I would like it if every guy was red pilled (even though most would reject it for one reason or another). Right now the competition is TERRIBLE if you're a man, easy to make a killing if you know how the game works. Bad for our gender as a whole though, and maybe even society
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:57 AM
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yes that's absolutely correct. Those men could get a girlfriend that likely would have left swiped them at first, I see it all the time. ​ But that's still a tough pill to swallow for most men who just assume male and female attraction are similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:51 AM
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That's a good point actually. Now the question is - will society praise it as they did with women or mock it? Because odds are the guy you are describing is likely IT or STEM professional who makes $$$ but has 'lame' hobbies and physically not attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:49 AM
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a problem is though people are becoming more withdrawn in other areas. Take meeting someone at work - now mostly avoided due to HR policies and potential for lawsuits ​ But once upon a time was a very common way to meet a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:42 AM
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The current feminist girls can do anything movement is awful for society AND women ​ Not because of the message of empowerment - that alone is great. But because it is teaching women that they are victims when it couldnt be further from the truth. Also giving them societal lies to the point that a red pill for women will be needed soon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:35 AM
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I mean the incel phenomenon is entirely new though. Sure previous it might have been labeled something else (remember Forever Alone?) but that didnt have near the vitrol incels do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:17 AM
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You’re a woman, you’ll have inherent value based on that alone. Even if it’s with low smv men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:22 PM
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Lmao nope. Go to the ask men sub and look at their dating app experiences. What you just said is mere table stakes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:09 PM
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Women and men are different plain and simple. The lock and key may sound tacky but it’s true. Men are the pursuers or “hunters”. A man who can sleep with many woman is a rare breed. Hell just look at dating app information on data is beautiful subs An average woman can have sex with hundreds of men Only 1 in 100 type men can do the same with women. Women also look down on their fellow women who sleep around. Men praise their fellow men that can do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:07 PM
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Sure height is a marker of fitness, but then why would there be depreciating returns both on height (once you’re over 6’2-6’3 every extra inch HURTS you with women) or strength (the biggest guy at the bar isn’t the one scoring often. Being cut beats being bloat status)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 08:38 PM
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Generally “fixed upper” types are alpha fucks they try to turn into a something better. They stick with the lowlife type guy in hopes he’ll change Very rarely do they try to take a beta bucks and turn him into an alpha bucks. Generally women and relationships erode alpha traits in men, not build on them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 08:06 PM
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Agree with that concept, though the black pilled is flawed. I can speak firsthand as someone who took a few years to apply RP principles and went from not being able to get a date to very successful with women. But our generation in general is pretty coddled and there are just so many alternatives to pursue instead of women. Cant really blame them too much either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 07:07 PM
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lmao you're 26. Give it a few years and wait and see
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 07:04 PM
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fair enough. It's reddit so I always assume the average SMV of the person talking is dog shit until proven otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 07:02 PM
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lmao this is a red pill in itself. ​ Top word men look for in women: "love" Top word women look for in men: "6' " ​ fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 07:01 PM
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I laughed when I saw her as well. ​ A man's SMV is determined by whom he can get casual sex with ​ A woman's SMV is determined by whom she can get commitment from ​ Because of this women have an inflated sense of worth and rarely ask what they bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:59 PM
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It's why RPW strategy is finding 2nd tier alphas and try to establish them as LTRs. Those are men who if they made a tweak or two could absolutely slay but currently arent, so dont know their own value as plate spinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:32 PM
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Kind of missing the mark here. Height is a MASCULINE trait. Women like tall men because they can feel 'protected'. Women like the idea of a physically bigger and stronger man having their way with them. ​ Men not preferring tall women is as much hypergamous as men not preferring muscular women. You could take a trait that men care about that women dont as much - a partners age - and flip this analysis on its head
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:25 PM
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Lmao not a flattering pic but that girl looks like a 5.5 to 6 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 12:26 AM
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Called having kids boyo. You want to raise a family then marriage is the price of admission. So vet well and brace for impact
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 12:23 AM
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Explains my experiences 100%. I’m a huge romantic at heart but sadly have to do a mix of treating women like shit and then reeling them back in to keep them extremely interested Never had an anger phase from the red pill. But sometimes I still have a sad phase. I can get almost any woman I want but have to be someone who I’m not to get them, and they all respond to the same stuff too. Truly AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 12:21 AM
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Had women in my office joke about a short mans suit being bought in the women’s section Can’t imagine how much it’d suck being that size
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:08 PM
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You left off fashion. The average man has no problem going to a bar or social setting in athletic shorts, tennis shoes, and a graphic t shirt like some hobo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:07 PM
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Probably just someone who hasn’t matured
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:01 PM
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Lol I have a friend like this. What age is yours? Try to tell him subtly that it’s pathetic especially in your late 20s, but he isn’t one to challenge his comfort zone or take control of life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:00 PM
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Too many Self depreciating jokes it makes me cringe. Being able to laugh at yourself is confidence. Making frequent jokes at your own expense is a sign of rock bottom self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 12:58 PM
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Lol you don’t know women if you think they have more fun together than men do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:21 PM
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On soy boy Reddit world it means you exchanged 2 messages with the girl and she stopped talking to you But yea, always two sides to every story
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 04:45 PM
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Majority of working class women aren’t thaaaaat bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 02:13 PM
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Investing in their future hahahahaha More like investing in anxiety pills, wine nights, and a dog to give them love that no one else will
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:13 AM
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A pencil neck professor talking about sex is always hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:11 AM
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This is a watch what they do not what they say. Most women would say its “cute” if a guy nervously asked them out or asked permission for a kiss Most women would be repulsed if this actually played out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:48 PM
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It’s because the dating subs are full of passive losers who think a girl not replying after 4 texts is “ghosting” Ghosting is only a shitty move if it’s been several dates or you’ve had sex or something intimate. One date and she/he ghosted you? take a fucking hint
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:47 PM
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If I like her and it’s a few weeks? Yes, no problem. Had a girl try it for 3+ months and I cut the cord. Was banging other girls at the time so didn’t mind as much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:17 PM
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Was posted here some time ago, makes sense with my experience. Girls compliment girls beneath them as it’s harmless. They won’t boost the ego of the hot girl more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:14 PM
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I doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:29 AM
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Research actually shows ugly girls get more compliments than attractive ones from women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:29 AM
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that's not how reality works. Sorry, but life isnt a movie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:37 AM
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You live in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:39 PM
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The difference is abundance. If my girlfriend cheated on me I would be upset, not devastated, and I certainly would end the relationship Most men get into a relationship and go on cruise control. You should ALWAYS be able to attract women. Same with your employer. If you get fired and are panicked then you’re a fucking loser Stay employable. Own your shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:37 PM
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Whoever that OP was is a clown. Women don’t have to be perfect, they have to be classy. Being classy means you don’t cheat. It means you don’t get blackout drunk all the time or piss in the yard at parties. The benefit as a woman is you don’t have to be productive. You can get terrible grades, make terrible money, and never have to worry about lacking a partner or starving. That isn’t perfect. Men don’t have to be classy. We can curse, scratch our ass, and wear t shirts to dinner. But we have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:34 PM
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The phrases aren’t meant to be accepted by the general public
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:29 PM
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You overestimate a woman’s strength. If she had a sharp object then yes, stabbing will kill them. But a woman can get a freebie hit with a blunt object like a rock and all it’ll do Is piss the guy off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:02 PM
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Oh I have, that’s how I know it doesn’t work. But once you internalize red pill you realize the buck stops with you. When you have full agency of your life you don’t rely on many for advice, especially women If you’re in a relationship your girlfriend or wife will probably cry anywhere from 15-30 times a year over something dumb. Nearly every girl I work with has cried at work before, which is fine. Men and women are different But could you imagine if a guy was that weak? Women can cry several h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:01 PM
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What did you get drunk and “raped” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:59 PM
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Military men are usually beta males. Beta does not equal bad or weak or soft. The military attracts people willing to self sacrifice, take orders, put the team first, etc. those are beta traits but admirable in its own sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:32 AM
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Yep my reply was basically in agreement. One thing I’ll personally add is women will shit test alphas as well , as long as those alphas are similar SMV to her. And you’re right if they keep on passing tests they will get more until the woman submits. But if you’re in a LTR you will almost constantly get shit tests and have to internalize how to respond If the guy submits to her as in answers the question directly, gets flustered, whatever then she will lose attraction Shit tests were one thing I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:30 AM
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Dude probably gets steamrolled
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:26 AM
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Think banter, when guy friends insult each other for reaction. Women do something similar. MOST men fail these miserably A shit test could be anything like her saying “I don’t usually date short men” while on a second date, “who taught you your sense of style”, “how many women have you slept with”, etc The wrong thing to do is answer the question directly or react in any way that an average person would react. The correct way is to flip it and make her seem silly for asking it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:26 AM
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Nope. Women don’t shit test beta males. They shit on beta males. Women shit test men to determine if they are alpha or beta
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:22 AM
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Women often don’t shit test beta men. Common misconception is that shit tests are a bad thing, or that receiving them means you’re weak in some capacity. Every turbo Chad has received shit tests from some woman at some point It’s her way of seeing if you’re as good as she thinks. Goes like this: Alpha with measurably higher SMV = likely won’t shit test. Women will bend over backwards for this guy. But remember it’s relative, you can bet your ass Tom Brady’s been shit tested by his model wife mul…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:21 AM
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No one says those women deserve it. They just say have some accountability for your actions. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:14 AM
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lol what religious guys are looking to fuck on the first date. Not adding up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 12:27 AM
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oh but not at all Katy. If you are single at 32 and meet the man of your dreams tomorrow that is what, AT LEAST 18 months of dating before proposal? Once engaged another 6-12 months until the wedding. Want to spend time together before having a kid? That's another year. And this is just to have kid #1, if she wants a family that adds to the mix quite a bit ​ So a single woman who wants kids at 32 will be looking at trying to conceive at 35 at the earliest and that's IF she meets her future husba…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 12:27 AM
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Disagree in my circles. A man will often wonder if she put out the first date that if she does that often. High caliber men care GREATLY about class. If she can put out and display classy traits otherwise (hard line to walk) then yes, it's possible. But if she has tattoos, exotic piercings, is a sexual freak early on, smokes cigarettes, gets sloppy drunk on a first date then no high caliber man will keep that trash around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:07 PM
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Yes it's sad. It's sad that a single woman wanting kids at 32 might be screwed while a man is relatively ok. There are shit hands dealt to both genders. In an ideal world we can pretend like it's all perfect but we are tied to our biology and that isnt changing anytime soon. So instead of mellowing about it you have to move on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:05 PM
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hahahahahahaha a bitter feminist posting on Reddit oh dear god who knows what you look like lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:42 PM
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that's a good question. I never do because that argument is pointless. There is 'blue pill' i.e. society and 'blue pill sub' which is just ultra left losers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:32 PM
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As president that's a fair criticism. But the brigade saying "men dont talk like that" or people like Lebron saying "Ive been in plenty of locker rooms and no one talks like that" is simply not true. Hanging with your guy friends, at the frat house, in the locker room - that is HOW men talk. Again, it's less dangerous and more posturing. Of course would be decried by many today as 'toxic masculinity'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:31 PM
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The ones that take the RP and 'spin plates' absolutely are. Are they natural alphas? No. But they are likely highly in shape, fashionable, masculine, have interesting hobbies, and somewhat ambitious. Top 1% of men? No, but certainly 'top men' in general. You wouldnt know a successful TRPer in real life because they dont go around like neck beards crying about mens rights. Now if you took a sample of the posters at the red pill would they be top men? Probably not. TRP has men in all stages and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:10 PM
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The reproduction imperative* which happens to be female focused
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 04:05 PM
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BP is mainstream as in it's the default view of men raised by women and media. BP posters are NOT mainstream however.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:04 PM
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it's a well known quote
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:03 PM
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It is a commodity in that womens value derives from it ​ why buy the cow when the milk is free?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:02 PM
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You are right. I think Trumps power though made him not care. He has literal FU money so he doesnt care what others think
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:01 PM
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Become red enough and you realize women’s advice to your problems is useless anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:29 PM
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Lol had to laugh at that comment. As a male sex wins that battle easily
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:24 PM
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To a man yes I’d rather be sexually attractive than receive comfort from the women in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:20 PM
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Women are fine with men sharing feelings. If a man shares his emotions and leans on her for emotional support that is a role women are fine playing. BUT when a man does this with a girl he likes she will no longer place him in the ‘guy I want to have sex with’ bucket. It’s an absolute attraction killer. She is fine giving support and being your friend still, but no she won’t want you in the way men want to be wanted If it’s a woman you’re married to or dating she will lose respect, and for good …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:18 PM
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In a one off event? Absolutely not. But if pushed men absolutely are capable of violence. In the event of two on an island I’d say it’s only a matter of time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:06 PM
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And absolutely shows just how much slut culture has grown in America “Short term relationships” were never a thing. How do you choose someone for a “short term relationship”? Do you actively go into this relationship knowing it has a short shelf life? It’s just a classier way of using the word relationship to cover anything from a summer fling to a one night stand to giving a guy head in a bathroom in a European night club. Also lol’d at the unironic use of heteronormative. Liberals will never l…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 11:24 AM
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Hated seeing all the weasels lash out at trump for his locker room talk quote. Pathetic. It’s absolutely true if you’re in an area with all men and they can express themselves without worry. Men posture and talk like that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:08 AM
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Women are much more status focused about their husband than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:05 AM
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Lolnplate school. Not at all. That’s modern feminism. RPW is all about how to get LTRs with top men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:04 AM
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Like #5. Everything in life is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:01 AM
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Problem is too many women give up sex after date 2-4. If a girl isn’t putting out but wants a relationship most high caliber men simply won’t accept that trade off
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:00 AM
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Sex today comes before exclusivity in dating. Pretty crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:59 AM
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There isn’t a red pill for women because men are straightforward with what they want. This however has changed with the rise of feminism and “you can have it all” culture. But that is spread by women to women, not men. Women learn very early what men are about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:58 AM
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Lmao calling BP posters normal. Try low smv soyboy losers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:56 AM
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Not that long for sure. Maybe relationships but certainly not sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 12:27 AM
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Zero smv
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 12:24 AM
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City bike whore lol Know the type though. Sleeps around. “Wants” a family “someday” but puts no effort in it. Looks for a mr perfect who doesn’t exist. Focuses nothing about improving themselves. Drinks wine with friends several days a week. Etc
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 12:23 AM
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Attractive, feminine, wants to start a family, good values, intelligent, classy (that’s a big one most lack) and in my opinion but others will disagree - somewhat ambitious Just hot doesn’t equal high quality Successful career doesn’t equal high quality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 12:22 AM
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Someone’s salty lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 12:20 AM
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lol no not at all. Beta does not equal sexless loser man child. Beta Bux are the MAJORITY of men and likely the MAJORITY of your social circle. ​ Man-children are omegas for the most part
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 06:43 PM
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Man children exist but notice that there is no equivalent to women? You can't be a deadbeat woman. Watching TV or being on instagram all day are fine hobbies but video games arent. ​ Double standard you got to deal with. You can never pull and be a gamer at the same time once you enter adulthood. Keep those hobbies to yourself because society will shun you for it
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 06:32 PM
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I've had women that were crazy for me until I committed too fast. Basically convinces them that you are lower value than they thought. ​ Women LOVE the chase and LOVE games. They want you to wait hours to text them back. They dont want shit like flowers on dates or you being a gentleman. They want the push and pull. ​ They will never, ever, admit to this but it's sadly true to anyone with dating experience. Push her away, pull her back in, always leave her guessing.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 06:30 PM
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And if they tried it would likely be a disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 06:27 PM
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The 7 partners is being skewed though by men with higher n-counts (20, 30, 40+) ​ Most men have less than that and most men dont have FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 06:26 PM
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As a man since your SMV incorporates looks, personality, and achievement it is arguably the most important metric defining your life. So if you can pull multiple high quality women it does in fact make you much better than the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 06:25 PM
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Yea this is MOSTLY true - except for the finding a girlfriend in one month part. I have many friends, most average/betas, some 'chads' (very few, myself included) , no omegas BUT know a couple. ​ Average chumps rarely get sex. If they are able to have a one night stand with a girl from a party or bar then trust me itll be a story they will tell over beers 5 years after the fact which is pretty pathetic. Sexual relations outside of relationships for them is rare. Because of this they often relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 06:09 PM
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Any man here that cries how easy women have it while not acknowledging areas that men have it easier (such as what you listed above) are generally angry low smv twats (sorry dudes). ​ There are benefits and drawbacks to both genders and boo hoo life isnt fair. Where I get frustrated is when it becomes a 'who has it worse' pissing contest. If you're posting here you are alive in a western nation with internet access in 2019 - you're life isnt bad, change your god damn perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 06:03 PM
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Men will still fuck women in their 30s, 40s, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:36 PM
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Or that men just lack the foresight for, which happens because a lot of less intelligent people don’t think about the future. Have a buddy who married a bartender and now they have a family but are always in financial problems. Acts like life gave him a bad hand but no shit you married at bartender Another friend makes a ton of money but blows it all because the wife is extremely high maintenance. This also revealed itself when dating but the guy lacked abundance and tolerated it. But what becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:35 PM
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Most men are idiots though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:33 PM
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I’m very good at rating people honestly and fairly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:11 PM
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No way that dude is an 8, especially if average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:07 PM
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Closing in on 1000 hinge matches before dating current broad, cant go out to bars with friends without generally being approached at least once by a woman, and get hit on at work frequently. Probably a high 7.5-8 out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:06 PM
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Yep. Go to any major urban environment and women outearn men now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:05 PM
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Personal experience triumphs all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:00 PM
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To be a man and to be noticed you need to be 8+
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 09:59 PM
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Put him upper 5s at best. 6 depending on height
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 09:57 PM
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So most men? Vast majority of incels could slay if they weren’t so pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 09:56 PM
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Sounds like a pregnancy bear trap but that’s just my paranoia
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:22 PM
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For sure. But TRP is all about sexual strategy. Men hide stuff all the time, but sexually we do not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:20 PM
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Odds are that post was actually written by a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 05:05 PM
1

Disagree completely. If I hear some story about a guy being cheated on I absolutely want to know the type of girl.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:05 PM
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Cheating goes both ways. Women will monkey branch to someone with higher status, men to someone younger
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:15 PM
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Most women know AMALT as men are straightforward with what turns them on However, a woman blue pill base is growing as feminism (other women) and weak undesirable men are lying to them about their ideal sexual strategy. Any grandma out there knows how men work. Increasingly young women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:14 PM
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Fair enough
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:28 PM
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She’s not confused. She’s a woman. Feminists are all like this - they say one thing but do another, and can’t escape their biology Every feminist I’ve smashed still wanted a masculine man, they still wanted to be dominated, they wanted a man to lead, and they are hypergamous as anyone (want a man to make more $$$ for example). These women are usually toxic in LTRs because of their victim mentality and need to interject their stupid opinion in every little thing. If you define yourself by being a…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:26 PM
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It’s a good way to prevent divorce rape though
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:21 PM
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Lmao way to set yourself up as a beta provider. This is NOT the life path you want to go down so I’m glad you’re here asking this. If you are valued for your money women will just spend it and want more. If you’re valued for your money women will just fuck it and want more Real talk though all you need is a career and enough money to do interesting shit comfortably. This is probably around 45k with upward mobility long term. If you travel, have cool hobbies, are in shape, etc you will so much be…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:21 PM
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Only apologize if you truly did fuck up by all accounts. Not her hamstering you fucking up
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:17 PM
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Once you understand and internalize the pill there’s really no need to go back often because there are no “new” discoveries. It’s useful to revisit to stay sharp, or to get thoughts on new trends like dating apps, feminism, etc but it’s meant to teach you and let you move on
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:16 PM
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Those rules are needed though. Many guys before the red pill overdo it with emojis, lengthy texts, responding immediately, etc. So hard rules like that which are obvious now are needed. In my blue pill days I would do stuff like always text good night and bring flowers to girls before a second or third date. No woman will EVER tell you not to do the above because it would make them look like a cold bitch, so you need the red pill to slap sense into you
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:14 PM
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Those are my least favorite part lol I have no idea how hot these women are when described, and almost certainly less attractive than the OP is acting
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:11 PM
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Always said TRP should have age next to each posters name. Women dont change much throughout their age (they like hot guys and status) but what constitutes hot and what constitutes status absolutely changes. Similarly, game is completely different across generations The thought of a divorced 50 year old male on the red pill taking advice from some 17 year old and not knowing it is hilarious though
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:09 PM
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Doesn’t happen. If you are getting hit on by 9s and 10s then you are famous and attractive (musician, well known athlete, instagram celebrity, model, actor) so you know your worth. You are truly a 1 in several thousand type man and a complete rarity. If you’re asking this question then you likely are overestimating the women in question
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:22 PM
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To be fair guys do this to when judging women. Jennifer Lawrence or whoever “isn’t attractive” even though they are dating a lard But you’re right and you can even observe this behavior on reddit (where women have low SMVs on average). Women claim they don’t like fit, assertive, strong dudes but the fact is those women never had a chance with such men so adopt a “You can’t fire me I quit!” Mentality
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:10 PM
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Any man that gets hit on at a semi decent clip is in the top 20. Even if those hitting on him are just average
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:04 PM
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Yep. A good rule of thumb but if a woman is the one to approach you she “generally” will be at least 1 SMV point lower maybe more. Women your level or slightly above will give IOIs that are subtle for you to act on. Women above you will act uninterested and likely are until you can raise your value or prove it in non visible ways via status
/r/askTRP14/08/19 12:47 PM
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If you’re constantly increasing or hell even maintaining your SMV you’ll be ok. 99% of dead bedroom type shit can be explained by a guys smv plummeting. Always be good enough to grab another girl. Women want what other women want
/r/askTRP14/08/19 12:45 PM
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You don’t need to be anywhere near that big to be aesthetic. What you just said is pretty difficult to do natty without devoting a couple years to the craft.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 11:14 PM
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Close, but not quite. Chad at an ivy would absolutely own some shit state cool But you’re right that he would be a fish out of water at a community college
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:13 PM
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nope. Just a term made up by people who think the entire world is about them and that somehow people they interact with are all masterminds trying to fuck them over
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:51 PM
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Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:50 PM
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Lol nope. The directional state school Chad at the party would be laughed at 9/10 in circles like a prestigious university
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:53 PM
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You really have to ask? Men can be cruder. Men can be more assertive. Men can sleep around. List goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:50 PM
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Please stop using terms from teeny bop magazines and speak like an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:49 PM
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BP is guy number 1 is a jerk, and guy number 2 should be sweet and buy flowers for some girl That’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:49 PM
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This. Maybe classier how they handle it but these women are usually feminists and live a hedonistic lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:48 PM
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You sound like me. I was always tall but was skinny fat and had zero style with clothes or hair, along with lame hobbies. Solid face but no dating experience (first kiss was at 19 in college lmao) But the above gave me a high ceiling. Once the red pill was applied it’s night and day. Sadly I kind of live on the attention now. Dating apps are fantastic, match with almost everyone i swipe with. It’s rare for me to go to a bar with friends for a night and not get approached by a decent looking woma…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 04:19 AM
2

Lol no it isn’t you plebe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:53 AM
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Joe Rogan might be the perfect example
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:53 AM
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As much as lift heavy is promoted here - and it’s good advice - if you aren’t able to do stuff like mud runs, play basketball, soccer, whatever you might be entering bloat lord status. Keep your body fat low. It’s impossible to get “too big” for women without steroids, but you can get too big if you become a power lifter or a strong lifts 5x5 meme junkie. I keep my body fat between 10% and 16% depending on the bulk or cut. Yea it makes progress take longer at times but never stop being aesthetic
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 02:42 AM
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Not true at all lol same muscles but can be in different spots entirely.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 02:40 AM
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Achievement earns entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:29 AM
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Get in better social circles
/r/askTRP13/08/19 02:28 AM
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Hate to break it to you but the Chad in your fraternity wouldn’t be Chad in a more high caliber group. It’s all relative mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:26 AM
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Gaslighting lol fucking stop it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:26 AM
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Thanks for this. There is a hierarchy, and almost all women fall under it in some way. Yes women have different preferences but the assertive tall handsome guy will do well across groups. But SMV is relative. That Chad you know? I know women that would never consider him a Chad. Hell im likely a Chad to your Chad. And someone else here is likely a Chad compared to me. Goal is raising your own potential as much as possible. A complete Chad is a mythical creature
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:25 AM
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lol that was the same math I gave as well. So of the half that arent divorce you have a SIZABLE portion where there is either an affair going on (by man or woman) OR a complete deadbedroom. Excluding those you run the risk (and so does your wife) of your partner changing, becomming fat/slob/lazy, an ass, etc. ​ A lot of my friends are married. The ones I 'envy' in which everything seems like a good fit from the outside are about right - 1 in 10. The rest are split between two people just existin…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 09:32 PM
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Half end in divorce. Of the ones that dont how many do you think have an affair going on, are dead bedroomed, or have other resentment? ​ ​ I'd put 1 in 10 marriages as actually healthy. Not 1 in 400, but still not good odds
/r/askTRP12/08/19 09:29 PM
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Manspread your life is great haha ​ Seriously. Be you, be big, and never apologize for it
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 09:22 PM
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Disagree. Debating with friends is fantastic mental exercise, as long as people can handle the discussion.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 09:18 PM
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Not only that it makes you look bad. You can be absolutely 100% right but if you come off as an MRA type you will lose big social points in most circles
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 09:11 PM
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if its a friend and its one of those nights you want to talk politics then by all means do it, but it wont help you get laid. ​ Agree 9 times out of 10 amused mastery works wonders.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 09:11 PM
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if you are legitimately arguing with a feminist you are doing it wrong. mock their beliefs why maintaining frame, and fuck them later if you wish. Nothing feels better than meeting a 'feminist' only to prove how much of a hypocrite she is by sucking your trump supporting dick. ​ Here is an example of how you respond (assuming at a bar or social event, not a work place where you might have to be PC). ​ Woman: "I believe in the wage gap issue" Men: "I do too, it's a good thing" Woman: "what!" (any…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 09:10 PM
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Sad to hear you werent born with those values. I wasnt either. Only by taking charge of my life and improving it myself did I realize how toxic traditional liberal victim complex messaging is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 08:58 PM
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Because it is the victims fault. Take charge of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 08:20 PM
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Loser think. Everyone has agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 08:20 PM
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Spot on. Until the world behaves in the way it says it should (and spoiler alert it won’t) non masculine will suffer. These men believe what they are told and that’s to behave well, be sweet, caring, put others first, and they’ll get a pat on the head and rewarded But I’ve seen countless women who decry toxic masculinity in one breath insult non masculine men in the other and go for the strong “asshole” with relationships, professional respect, etc Once you go from unmasculine to masculine you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 08:16 PM
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Men are plenty sensitive and vulnerable. Women don’t recognize those men though, and they DEFINITELY don’t want to sleep with them or have a relationship with them. Yea they want guys to open up to them more but it’s a one way ticket to sexless purgatory if you’re a guy. Women will always go for the man who seems unfazed, it’s a leadership quality people are attracted to. So if you’re a guy your options are be an emotional and vulnerable friend or be stoic and fuck her. Your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 03:16 PM
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It ain’t fair but it cuts both ways. A lot of things men get away with that women can’t. Though of course media only cares about rectifying one of them But as a man you just have to deal with the bitching and chuckle at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 03:11 PM
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It’s possible but I haven’t seen it since entering adulthood. Girls deal with what they consider creeps all the time, they will NOT go out of their way to talk to them or engage with them or insult them generally If a girl is giving you insults she is much more likely to be into you than not
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:47 PM
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Who said anything about not letting them live pathetic lives? They are free to do so as I, and society, am free to judge Continue to convince being a loser video game slob makes you happy though. Deep down inside you know it isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 03:45 PM
1

Nope. Women admire it. Men respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 03:43 PM
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Textbook women “rape” 101. Doesn’t want to be held accountable for her actions so acts like this was forced I imagine none of the reddit comments actually call her out on being a ho and say it’s “possible rape”
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 03:42 PM
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Yea at 250 you lose chubby status lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 03:32 PM
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Lol at gaslighting. If you want to be taken seriously don’t talk like a 16 year old girl in her first relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 03:24 PM
1

Agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:58 PM
1

I’m a man and can’t tolerate weakness, especially from those who refuse to change
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:58 PM
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Give the best red pillers a week and I doubt they could craft a better response
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:54 PM
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Currently seeing a surgeon. Her shit tests are similar, but your responses have to be different You also have to know the weakness of your target well. This girl was a trash sloot and deep down inside knows she is inferior to a doctor, has a ticking clock, and usually goes for hot but dumb guys. With medical students those girls are often all huge nerds whether they show it or not. To dominate them in these tests you can’t come across as wealthier or smarter, just capable. But you do have to com…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:50 PM
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This. Being a doctor doesn’t make you alpha. Most doctors I know would get steam rolled in this situation. So if Ed was a beta he isn’t anymore and hasn’t been for a while.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:47 PM
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Yep, and to see if you’re the real deal. Shit tests are a good thing, it’s an IOI
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:46 PM
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Girls don’t shit test if they despise a guy. They’ll avoid him and give him short, conversation ending answers This isn’t a movie or high school. Girls that go up to a guy they despise and just openly roast him is exceptionally rare among people not teenagers. Now they will roast him behind his back though
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:45 PM
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Yep, the fashion one was probably a 10/10 response. The successful one was good as well, erred on being too much offensive but if handled with a smirk it works wonders If you go nuclear on a shit test it’s the same as failing.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:43 PM
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Common misconception people have about shit tests. They are a GOOD thing. It means a girl has interest in you, if she truly thought you were beneath her she wouldn’t even talk to you or give you one word answers. Yes “chad” gets shit tested all the time, he just internalized confidence so much that he hits the tests right back at her with a smile. You will never not be shit tested no matter how much you lift or how much you make. The only thing that’ll change is the tier of woman shit testing yo…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:37 PM
2

So what. You are an adult. You have agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:45 PM
2

Only threatening if you break fame. Women are dying for a strong man to tell them their feelings on toxic masculinity are bullshit Source: am that man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:44 PM
2

Yes the wealth is concentrated at the top. There is a huge hole for real masculine men that few fill but those that do can literally get sex with a hot women with a swipe of the phone, absolutely unprecedented But as women have risen economically so have their standards. Having a job used to cut it as a man but not anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:43 PM
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Men will never help each other out until it reaches critical mass failure. Men will happily undermine one another to earn the favor of a woman. Beta men I should add* who make up the majority. Anyone with enough life experience knows these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:35 PM
1

I’ve noticed a rise in this, but not close to mainstream. Also seen a fall in men that are masculine. I work in an office of close to 1000 people and am maybe the 2nd or 3rd strongest male despite only being able to bench 225 which in the scheme of things isn’t that much. The good news is IF you are masculine you can make a killing right now. The amount of white collar college educated men who can work with their hands, take charge, be assertive, etc is tiny. It’s a great market right now for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:34 PM
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Our generation as a whole is pathetic. Even worse are those that blame baby boomers for everything. We are the first generation that’s allowed to never grow up. A 35 year old marvel movie fanatic is normal. In the 90s someone like that would be ostracized from society. The comfort of our life has just produced weak men These men often have very little sexual experience. They think the best way to earn female favor is to just line up and listen to them. They are very weak and often lack self conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:32 PM
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They do their jobs, go home, and lead their pathetic lives either dedicated to video games, tv, computers, or other usually sedentary hobbies. The MGTOW that uses the free time to build himself is a myth, they are just losers who don’t want to put the work in Though I do think a growing number of these incels will become radicalized and get prone to violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:02 PM
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Men do care, just show it in different ways. Historically that meant providing for the family. If both have money it means enjoying the comforts of the house (watching tv, relaxing, neither of which will turn someone on though) Most men aren’t nightmares that will leave their food plate on the couch for days on end. But they might leave it on the kitchen counter until later in the evening to clean because there’s no point in doing it sooner. Or they may be less organized with the closet because …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:49 PM
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Lol frame or no frame that doesn’t matter, she realized you’re a loser and this trip probably broke the camels back Alcohol addiction is a pathetic trait. Mouthing off to people while drunk is a pathetic trait. Both scream low class and low potential. The fact that she put up with you this long probably makes her somewhat low SMV herself Take the loss and move on. Focus on yourself and dropping that addiction plus any other trash ones you have. If you get your house in order you can upgrade girl…
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:43 PM
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LTRs are only good for the experience if you can get out if it, but rarely is that experience worth the opportunity cost There is a big difference in courting women/honey moon phase success and leading a relationship. If you have never seriously dated someone before and you’re in your late 20s you are likely broken in some way. But I absolutely agree with the notion that you should get your n count > 20 before marriage or a serious LTR. You need to learn and internalize abundance, understand wha…
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:36 PM
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There are big differences in how they work though. Men can quickly change ladders for women due to importance of status and personality in attraction. For men, women rarely ladder hop. It’s all appearances based. Similarly though alpha and beta is relative. It’s why “chad” in the manosphere is such a shit example. It’s all relative
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:32 PM
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Do none of you guys ever marry a girl with a decent income ? Easiest way to prevent being divorce raped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:11 PM
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This is 100% true. Men focus on utility of a home, women on appearances. So a women will dust or vacuum once a week and be upset the man isn’t doing his “share” but the man flat out doesn’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:11 PM
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