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Presuming a lot about me. I would say the same thing if the genders were swapped. I didn't say nothing was his fault. I said it's problems you are going to get by proxy. You're already having drama. Much higher chances of breakup in stressful environments. Trauma takes a lot to heal and not everyone manages to stay functional.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 02:49 AM
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Oh my god girl leave this man. If you marry him his diaper son and murderous ex are also in your life. Are there literally no other men left that you like? All those problems will be your problems, you think they won't now, but marriages are long and for life. Never forget your current partner let all of this happen and go on to this almost unbelievable point. You're going to hw the one defending him and trying to help a person that didn't help themselves at all, and it will all be up to you. I'…
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 08:38 PM
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No I don't. I do very boutique work for a premium price now People get my number with references, and I don't take people I don't like, so I don't think this is going to work out. I'm not lacking business. I'm also Portuguese white
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 04:02 PM
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Take a print of your reaction and take to a therapist, there's some free advice. That's a way to strong of a reaction. Seems to me you got some underlying issues there you might want to work on
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/25 02:47 PM
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So you giving me business is your revenge? Oh no! How could you! You should get me 6 social hours a week, that will really show me! My friend half my livelyhood is divorced men, you think you're the first one? Ahahhahahahahahhahahaha
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/25 02:46 PM
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Well I can see why your wife left you
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 03:06 PM
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I thought we shouldn't date 20 year olds at that age because it's sad, ridiculous and creepy, but sure
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/25 04:25 PM
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Well here many men wills at for you to "go out and get a 20 year old" and I don't see people calling them sluts. She just took their advice, that they said would help.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 03:05 PM
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So you took a woman with no children and made a mom out of her, to "take care of you" as you put it, and you're surprised she left? Those ain't her kids and she was already doing so much work. Those are your kids. Take care of them.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 05:43 PM
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But I don't understand, do you have custody of the kids and she is not taking them in her time?
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 02:15 PM
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Aren't you the guy that got CPS called on him by strangers?
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/25 11:02 AM
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What is the silver bullet?
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/25 07:35 PM
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They both wanted, I didn't say they didn't. But she didn't manipulate him to gain advantage and that makes a whole lot of difference..
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 12:54 PM
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Like she wanted to do it and it was her Idea, and she was taking advantage of it to her own gain and his detriment
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 11:42 AM
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He didn't accept, just to be clear, he is the one that asked and insisted, I don't know what this need to frame his wife like that.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 06:24 AM
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Yeah man, woman here, I do think you got betrayed and played. If I was her the minimum was to pay you back for your investment in me Edit: with no prenup she will get half the stuff anyway, I don't know if it's worth the fight. Now you can make her loose her job, an idea for you. So those 25k will disappear for her fast. If you don't get the money no one gets the money
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/25 12:16 PM
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Maybe... The counselor had a point? Surely seems like she thinks that. Does she get to do fun things? Do you do things with her before prioritizing yourself?
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 02:29 PM
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Same for me. If I like my husband as a person I can't get off of him. We go twice a day because it hurts him to go a third. Married for 5 years. Now if he is being insufferable because he is defensive as we use the communication skills we got in therapy, my attraction goes negative. You said you were going to do the dishes and take the trash next. You agreed. Then the next day it isn't done, and I don't hear any commentary relating to it, like "oh I'm sorry I forgot I was very tired". That is fi…
/r/BlackPillScience29/07/25 09:45 AM
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i hope you pay pension happily. You took a woman that wanted to be a companion, lied to her that you wanted that and you were sure (you weren't, you just wanted, as you said, the best available) then you change her mind and waste good years of her life, but you gotta look out for number 1 right? At least pay that woman pension. Good that she was a little part of your heroes journey, but in her story you will be a villain. She won't change because she doesn't want that. She married that guy in th…
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/25 07:47 AM
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You married a woman that you treated as a dad because, as you said, gave you self esteem. Now you want to change that dynamic. But what if she married a guy with hat intention? You are the one wanting to change the dynamic. You didn't look well in what you wanted for a partner when you chose her, but she doesn't know that. She's been the same and now she is not enough for you? It's ok to change. But talk about it being more honest and also more empathic. This "what's worth to talk to her?" Bulls…
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/25 09:03 AM
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I told him that is non negotiable for me form the start. If he doesn't take any measures, and I gave a deadline, I will leave. I take improvement, not only results, but no effort is a divorce. He promised me he would match me to wed me, if he doesn't deliver I won't be able to stay married, because I will resent him so much it will destroy any love. It's not up to me. It's up to him. I communicated clearly, I offered therapy, I helped him in many ways to build his confidence.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/25 08:35 PM
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Woman lurker here. The "control" that the plan gives is who is making decisions. Women don't want to make all the decisions, and they don't want to make no decisions in general. Of course there are people in the extremes. Is not about dominance. My relationship suffers front his issue. I'm a planner. My husband follows my plans. But ai don't want him to follow me, I want another person to hold me accountable, to see if I make any mistakes, to spitball. I want my life to go somewhere and not stay…
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/25 03:22 PM
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So let me see. A guy left his pregnant woman while she was pregnant. Because 2-4 times a week wasn't enough for her to fuck him. he also cheated . And that's how you talk about him?
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/25 04:01 PM
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Great advice, I bet your ex took.the same. If she did or not a mistake having the affair right? Who doesn't do little mistakes like that ahahhah
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/25 07:57 AM
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I don't think that's true. And I think men have similar conditioning to other ways, that gender wars is just class propaganda. What I tried to highlight is that there are a million explanations of things and the truth is their collectiveness. Also doesn't mean people are not sentient. Men are even more vulnerable to social conditioning due to how men are raised.
/r/BlackPillScience21/06/25 04:25 PM
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Ansternative social take: men behaved exactly like this, with men with more resources being able to choose women almost exclusively by their appearance and traits, what included sometimes intelligence (but gotta have both). That's what men with money did. When women join the labor force, the buying power they now have is gonna mirror the behaviours they saw from men. Kinda like how in the women casted Ghostbusters they make Chris Hemsworth a dumb blonde. This mimicry is a well studied phenomenon…
/r/BlackPillScience18/06/25 02:19 PM
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Look she is clearly lying. Like clearly.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/25 07:52 AM
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Honestly this all is a description of a person that really doesnt like you and also has to live with you. Did you ever ask your wife why she hates you?
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/25 03:43 AM
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Well she did tell you she is scared of dying of cancer because her whole family is dying of cancer, and you told her to stop being afraid or else you'd ruin your life. Also, you're not giving her what she wants (not only when you refused to empathize with her and talked about yourself) but also the other things that make her life so boring she feels being with you is a prison. If you just listened to her instead of telling her to stop having feelings this could have been solved by taking some ri…
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/25 12:44 PM
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You. Have. To. Do. The. Pushing. You remember how in women's marches there were women marching? Go march. Schedule. I will show up. It's your movement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 11:48 PM
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We should probably calculate if the number of women and men in total is equalizing and not only on upper middle class for profit universities, as that's the majority of the population. That is the expected result. Now men are not going to university also for cultural reasons, not competition. Many influencers and coaches are promoting get rich quick schemes directly to men, like finance bros. That part you guys have to change yourselves, go to schools, counter influence, ask for public policies …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 11:25 PM
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I hold and have held many women accountable. And gay men, that like to harass straight dudes as a "joke" and comment on their bodies. I held women accountable when they mock men for height. You can literally go through my comments on reddit and see this. I even got kicked out of two groups for doing it. I did it when I was amkilitant, and got called a pick me many times. I defended men in court against their ex wives, two, for free, when they were using restraining orders to withhold children. M…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 10:42 PM
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Yeah I'm sure he fears for his goddamn life. It was great when I asked the men around to stop him and everyone pretended it wasn't with them. I have to deal with it alone, you go deal with it alone. Bye.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 10:20 PM
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Ah shut up. I just got home after a guy put his hands under my dress in a bus and no one didn't a single things spare me the internet talk.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 10:15 PM
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I love that some stuff is a "fact" with no proof, but weaponized incompetence was very critically assessed. If you don't have enough research to say weaponized incompetence is real, you also don't have it to say that women want mind readers. You bias is dripping on the floor.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 06:30 PM
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They have extreme privilege, those traitorous snakes. But they don't have the political power, and that's why the oligarchy is also referred as the patriarchy. Now we're getting some women evil capitalists, like the Kardashians for example, but still the minority of the power controlling wealth.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 06:27 PM
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Ir doesn't make her an oppressed member and I didn't say that Jesus. I said she has no political power to be included in the notion of patriarchy. She benefits greatly from it, but cannot diverge or change it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 06:06 PM
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But you're right, and they are wrong. Hold strong and keep paddling. We reconvene when in both sides this is not the majority. Till it is, both the criticisms are valid, as we are the minority.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 06:05 PM
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I am accountable for the circumstances that affect my life, to recognize them, and to stop others from using them to inflict harm. I even defended a dude for free because a woman was using a restraining order to keep him from his kid.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 05:52 PM
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I am holding every woman I can accountable, and so are many other activists. I want to see my male counterparts in man's right activism, going to schools like I did to say the redpill is dangerous. Back in the 2010's I was there! I was in the slut walks. I was telling young girls you shouldnt marry rich dudes and you should want a real relationship. You shouldnt put other women down. You shouldnt mock men for being short. I still do that. But I have never seen or heard a straight man stop his fr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 05:50 PM
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Funny you should say that. You can try researching next time. Your friends don't do it, but men do it. Other men don't go and shun them. A Brazilian goal keeper literally fed his pregnant lover to dogs and is now hired again with a fanclub. Andrew Tate is a sex trafficker and I am not seeing any upheaval. Anyone gets to go on fox news in your country and talk about taking rights from women. I Sorn see no men lining up the picket line to stop it. So you stand with them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 05:43 PM
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It's so funny to me that you think america is a feminist country. Donald trump is literally president. Norway is a feminist country.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 05:39 PM
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I'd you don't have access to the bank account you're a spoiled slave. What was the case for all women before we manage to get a bank account in the mid 1900. Roman prostitutes had more rights. Now we do have more women oligarchs. Still a tiny minority. Look at the us government! How many women and men? How many women presidents? The oligarchy isn't fucking gender neutral.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 05:36 PM
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That is such an American white person comment. Let me tell you a tale about my country. They creates quotas for black poor people in universities. every single white boy had the same thing to say as you do now, together with "it's humiliating for THEM" or whatever. However, in reality, most low income black families didn't even see university as something black people do, back in 2009. They didn't get prepped for the SATs by the teachers in the black majority public schools. I convinced my black…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 03:43 PM
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That is stupid and disproven. Go read. Affirmative action saved the black community in Brazil and many other places. There is no meritocracy without equal opportunity. And you call yourself left wing with this right wing propaganda in your mouth? Gross
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 03:27 PM
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Oh yeah. Melania trump has a loot of power in that marriage. Kkkkkkkk
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 03:26 PM
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Men don't hold each other accountable. When men hold each other accountable, this commentary will be fair.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 02:51 PM
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Any real feminist will do that. People using talking topics of feminism to enrich themselves or obtain advantage are called grifters.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 02:50 PM
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I didn't say backlash. I said overcorrection, meaning that the mechanisms are obsolete, and end up creating inequality on the other side, or just becoming bureaucratic weights. But it needs to be more widespread before it's taken down. The middle class feels it first, always.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 02:46 PM
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Sure. Women join the labor market. Women suffer prejudice in hiring and acquiring positions. This becomes statistics. The statistics are used for political activism. Political activism with time translates into affirmative policies. In this case, for example, tax discounts for companies that hire an equal number of men and women. University quotas where women are less represented. Those actions work very well, just takes half a generation to promote culture change. In 10-15 years, They are not n…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 02:42 PM
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Not true. Like really not true. Plenty of early societies are some form of matriarchal. Some still exist to this day. Women imprisonment really starts when men fight each other for stable resources, such as breeding spouses to repopulate after all those conflicts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 02:19 PM
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There is a patriarchy. Thats one of the names we use to we call the upper class. This name just focused more on the fact that the upper class is almost exclusively white men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 02:17 PM
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Hey now. Affirmative action always ends up having a bit of an overcorrection. Doesn't mean it was bad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 02:16 PM
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Woman here, this is the absolute best defense. I don't understand why men don't use feminist discourse itself to put women in their equal place. "Why you want me to pay your date? Are you unemployed?" "Sorry I only date feminists"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 02:15 PM
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You put yourself in a really easily solvable knot my friend. Class warfare above all else. Powerful upper class men control the patriarchy. If you're upper middle class below you have just as power as anyone there, that is almost none. Even the barbie movie covered that one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 02:14 PM
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83% of the cases were women.
/r/BlackPillScience17/05/25 11:24 AM
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So you're going to bail? Gonna leave her alone with the baby most of the time when it's the hardest time? Babies are hard. Don't abandon your "best friend" in the worst of it
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/25 03:05 PM
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Yeah I can yes. It's just shocking to me that guys look like you, then they look in the mirror and say "`well men age like fine wine!" You're bőr aging well even for a man, and I bet the best of that sentence was women age like milk that's why we need the younger ones it's been biological or whatever. And they all are delusional like you, it's crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 07:04 AM
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Saw your profile pictures and let me tell you this with no malice: you didn't age well. I can see you take care of your body, but the lack of moisturizer or creams shows. You're bald and don't shave your head, also your clothes are dad clothes. Your skin looks almost 50. My mom is 64 and her skin looks less old then yours. Maybe...grow beard if you can (helps the baldness loads), put some Botox or at least pick up some vitamin C and retinol. Sunscreen. Your face is waaay more aged than most 40 y…
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 09:40 AM
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Thats why you're getting so many likes right?
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 09:33 AM
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I have a question for OP. I'd you noticed something is wrong, did you go talk to her about it? This type of small affection is really important for not only women, but people. Women just do it for men, but I noticed you guys... Don't notice it? I had the same complaint to my husband. That he wasn't paying enough attention. He said he doesn't even know what I mean. Then I gave him some examples. When he was burned out from work, I noticed almost immediately (he made some unusual clerical mistakes…
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 08:32 AM
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All spitting tacks is amazing
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 08:11 AM
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Please follow through this logic. What do you want? How can men solve this issue proactively?
/r/MensRights27/03/25 11:29 PM
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Woman here, I think you're absolutely right. That is positive effort! My husband relies on me heavily for companionship, what I don't mind of course but I think it would be good for him to have healthy male relationships. He struggles with that a lot because he has a bad impression of other men. He tried to find some man spaces but it's filled with hatred and vitriol, so he refuses to engage. I don't understand why this post is empty.
/r/MensRights27/03/25 08:33 AM
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