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The second camp is where I stand but not with a lot of the points you make. The reason most men fail at online dating is that they think only their photos matter. Everything matters. Studies prove this. Your username, your photos (most critical), your free text section (2nd most critical) and the options you choose (kids, pets, education). Add emailing women to that and you have to realize that all work together. Why do women have high standards? Because they get a flood of emails from men. Anyo…
/r/seduction27/04/16 04:38 PM
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Nope. It's not like that at all. You just have to have a job. That's important to women here but it doesn't mean they are looking for sugar daddies; just stability. Also depends on your age. You are thinking LA. I would think Boston has a lot of attractive women. Big cities generally do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 03:39 AM
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Where do you live? I am in San Diego and I can assure you that the women here are not 3's. Sure there are average ones but there are a lot of gorgeous hot women looking for men. Just my two cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 03:28 AM
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Just google "Online dating pdf" and you'll get a ton of studies. You can filter through there.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 05:26 PM
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It's easy to get caught up with so many options but you already know the problem, they will lose interest because there are many other men chasing them. You need to just focus on a few; say 5, or whatever you are comfortable with and your schedule allows. As you lose one you can pursue another and add her to your rotation. Any calendar tool will work, outlook or google. You just need to scale back my friend.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 11:12 PM
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It depends on what you are looking for. Hookups would be a wider net because it's just a fling. You don't care if she wants kids, education, goals, hobbies, etc... But in terms of a relationship I am more focused because I'm not wasting my time on someone who has different goals than me. I always get the number within 4-5 exchanges. Anything more is just an email buddy and women aren't on dating sites for email buddies. I'll know if they are serious or not. It's not like my first email is on a M…
/r/seduction08/01/16 10:27 PM
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Here are facts: POF found that men who have at least 8 profile pictures or more have the most responses. So have 8-10. Match.com found that 50% of women will pick a guy based just on his photos alone. So, here's what you do. You need 8 good pictures. No selfies. You need to be in all the pictures and you alone aside from one group photo to show you are social and have friends. Be sure to put yourself in the center to show you are Alpha. You don't want to be on the far left and have the woman hav…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:02 PM
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Women respond to men who these type of pics. Boxing, actual rock climbing, starting a fire outdoors such as at a campground, swimming across a river. You stumbled upon something good. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 10:12 PM
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Online dating is the best way to meet women period. The problem is most guys don't know what they are doing. Other options are meetup groups.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 07:41 AM
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Your username needs to change. You need better pics. The rock climbing one is good but ditch the family photo. Also, lose the bread rule picture. Your pictures should all have you in them. Guitar pictures are cool. Women dig them. It shows creativity. But you should have an intimate one of you in your living room. Not playing in some band. Ditch the professional photo too. You need a pic of yourself smiling for crying out loud. As in showing teeth. A group photo with friends to show you are soci…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 07:24 AM
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You either have it or you don't. Be confident, show some humor, and keep it light. Shoot to get a number in 4 - 5 emails maximum. Ask open ended questions and give a little information about yourself in the process. Avoid physical compliments of any kind. You'll come across like 99% of all the other guys if you say something about looks.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 10:26 PM
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"I'm fully aware bio's don't matter more than 20%." Wrong. They are very important. Almost as important as your pictures. You need more than 4 pics. Tons of studies show the more pictures you have the more successful you'll be. You need 8 - 10 photos. If you have women in any photo delete them immediately. You can't have any women in your profile photos. You may value your privacy but not having a photo with male friends makes you look like a loner and not sociable. You need one. Lastly, the maj…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 10:46 PM
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Online dating is way better. I'm in San Diego. It's 1:20 pm and there are hundreds of women online right now in San Diego I can contact across all the dating sites. Where will I find that many at this given time??? A bar? The beach? The gym? You can't contact 20 women in seconds at those places like you can on a dating site. Guys who don't like online dating aren't good at it. It's not hard if you know what you are doing. I've had my share of hookups and long term relationships on dating sites s…
/r/seduction16/09/15 08:21 PM
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Check meetup.com. Join some groups. Most cities have singles groups there or you can join other groups and meet people.
/r/seduction15/09/15 11:38 PM
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I will just present facts. POF indicates that men who put on their profile they are "seeking a relationship" receive more emails by some huge margin over men who are seeking something "casual". Another study found men who put they are seeking a relationship receive 42% more emails than men who don't. What does that tell you? You are on a dating site. Sure some women are there to hookup but most want a relationship. It doesn't mean you can't have casual sex with women on PoF, it's just more diffi…
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:07 PM
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If you do online dating you are going to get rejected at some point. And you will reject someone as well. It's the nature of the game. You'll get over when you get that home run be it a relationship with the woman of your dreams or hooking up with some 10 you meet. Keep at it and you won't worry about the rejections. In fact, the rejections will go down as you are able to filter out those women you have no connection with in the first place.
/r/seduction26/08/15 09:13 PM
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This is pretty sound advice. Especially avoiding negativity. Too many men write sentences like "I don't like drama so don't message me if you have drama" or "I don't play games so if you play games you can pass my profile" What the hell is that anyway? Never list what you aren't looking for.
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:03 AM
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Don't worry about soft hits. The men who are the most successful are the ones who send the most emails. Don't wait for women to come to you, seek out the women you want and email them. What type of pictures do you have? You may think you have good picture but the reality is most men don't. You want a good headshot, a few body shots, show a passion (playing guitar, cooking, volunteering), an outdoors shot, the group shot with you in the center. No pictures of anything but you with the exception b…
/r/seduction18/08/15 04:48 AM
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Skip the "Hi" or "How are you" nonsense and never comment on anything physically. Find something in her profile and comment on it. Ask open ended non-personal questions. Give some info about yourself for a question you ask. For example, if she like to cook you could write "I see you enjoy cooking. Are you creative in the kitchen or do you need a recipe like me?" Add some humor. "I make a mean XXXXX that's rated highly on Yelp." The key is show her you read her profile. Add some humor and confide…
/r/seduction14/08/15 03:41 PM
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Well, you can do the singles ones. I've never done them. I just do the others ones because I want to be active and meet people in general. And there are single people in those. Just find something you enjoy doing. You may meet a woman who has friends. Women who are taken have no problem setting you up with their friends if they think you are a good guy. Just explore all your options. Try something new.
/r/seduction06/08/15 05:17 PM
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Do both. Online dating to me is much easier. I live in San Diego and can go on Match.com tonight and there will be 300 women on at 7 pm. I can't go to some bar and have as many options. What area do you live in? If you are tired of it, take a break and do what you gotta do. But I see no problem doing both. You could try a meetup too. I have recently done those for business related and activity related things (hiking, wine tasting) and there are a lot of single attractive women in those. Explore …
/r/seduction06/08/15 04:32 PM
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Pictures are critical but so is how you describe yourself. Women will look for similar interests and not just pictures. It looks like you are an outdoors guy but kind of extreme. You may find a few matches but you'll scare off more women because of the "60lb pack around the middle of nowhere" and "traversing rapids.". Women want to picture themselves with the man they are looking at and those are some extreme activities. You need to add some basic stuff like you love to hike and name some areas …
/r/askTRP19/07/15 11:42 PM
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All your points are so true. The hotter women get an inbox full of messages with "hi" or "You are hot" or "Wow you are beautiful." Guys need to use a different approach. Lazy, desperate, needy, men who lack confidence never do well in online dating.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:01 AM
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What dating sites are these? Seems like you are using apps. I don't agree with some of your points but others are spot on. Good job on the post. You put a lot of work in obviously. What's the age range of women you are meeting?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 05:54 AM
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I disagree with you 100% on online dating. You can meet tons of women who are looking for relationships and hookup as well. First of all, you mention 2 am. You don't email women on dating sites at 2 am. Also, confidence matters. Men who are confident do the best. It's how you present yourself on a dating site and how you email women. Everything matters, you pictures, what you are looking for, how you write about yourself and the type of women you are looking for as well as the messages you send …
/r/seduction14/07/15 04:47 PM
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Post several good pictures. Write 2 - 3 paragraphs about himself in a positive, confident, humorous way. Be sure he focuses on women he matches with (does she want kids, education, lifestyle). Most guys blindly email any hot woman even though they have nothing in common. Don't just write "hello" or "How are you" in the first message. Show her you read her profile and comment about something. Ask open-ended questions. Nothing that can be answered with a simple "yes" or "no".
/r/askTRP08/07/15 04:09 AM
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There have been studies that show there is no proof any datings site algorithm works. In fact, dating sites won't even share how they match people up. Add to that people tend to present their "ideal" self online you have to go in knowing that most people misrepresent themself. If you know what you want, seek it on whatever dating site you use. Don't rely on the site to match you up correctly.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/15 07:35 PM
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He's not your friend. Any guy who needs to put down others to make himself look better is insecure and has zero confidence. It's one thing to give each other grief among friends. That's what guys do when clowning around But not in front of women. A friend doesn't put down their friend in front of others. If you wanted to keep him as a friend you should have said "Do not put me down in front of anyone again. Period." and left it at that. If he continued the drop him.
/r/seduction02/07/15 04:35 PM
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Getting dates on dating sites can be easy once you know what you are doing. You should use a standard dating site; Match.com, OkCupid, POF, etc.. It depends on where you live. Just check which has the women you want and sign up. From there it's pretty simple. Load some quality pictures, create a solid "about me" section, and start emailing women. You will get better as time goes on. Just be positive, confident, and show a sense of humor. Avoid appearing "needy" at all costs. Social media has no …
/r/askTRP01/07/15 03:33 PM
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