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1

ah so let’s ignore the plight of those under 30 because it is inconvenient to your argument. young men absolutely do want companionship and to act otherwise shows you aren’t being objective. edit: you even allude to this dynamic at the end of one of your recent comments. paraphrasing but “of course the young men are at the losing end of that dynamic”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:03 PM
1

ah so let’s ignore the plight of those under 30 because it is inconvenient to your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:24 PM
1

you’re spouting off opinions, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:28 PM
1

usually people who make a claim first present the evidence first. but ok bro. be so sure of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:07 AM
1

Can you prove the opposite? Men under 30 are not mostly paired. It’s just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:43 PM
2

You're wrong, 41-year-old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:45 PM
3

Then exercise is needed to be able to increase your caloric intake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:33 PM
10

No body is exempt from the laws of thermodynamics. It’s calories in and calories out. That’s not to say to starve yourself, your body needs food to function. But it’s quite a simple, albeit difficult, formula.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:31 PM
1

There is no rebutting with nihilists lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:55 PM
1

Ah, the old “we all suffer so we must go extinct for there to no longer be suffering”. I’m not a buddhist and don’t subscribe to that belief
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:56 PM
1

with that logic let’s just start WW3 and get it over with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:42 PM
1

to you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:44 PM
0

I care because it leads to suffering. You can’t fathom the scope of suffering that will happen if our culture of no kids continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:30 PM
-4

I mean, Iran made it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:26 PM
-2

Yeah we're definitely going extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:16 PM
3

I'm terrified to even look but I know I have no success anyway, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:10 PM
1

…yes. Every social movement needs solid justification for its existence otherwise nobody takes them seriously. That’s kinda how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:09 PM
5

This post is like 50 years late to the party
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:46 PM
1

Well the jury’s still out on that one I guess because it’s very common to seek military men out here. I’ve been wanting to go back to the bars but I still do not know how to really flirt for the life of me. Most of the time I end up just making a new friend for the night instead of a potential partner, then meet their friends who aren’t interested in me, then I feel kinda ostracized lol (although i’m a pretty different person now). And yes this is has happened to me before, it kinda burned me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:58 PM
1

I live right next to a base, actually, but I’m not military. Women sure do love them some army guys though 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:16 PM
2

Oh well. I know they’re out there, but I guess I gotta outlive the cultural moment we’re living in and just be happy alone. I’m not doing OLD to be further degraded. And women travel in packs so I’m not going to deal with the social risk of approaching one of them just to get torn apart by their friends. Trying to be optimistic lol, but there’s just not much to be hopeful about lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:09 PM
3

I’m 29. I had my time in school, had plenty of flings and whatnot. But after covid, everything changed. I am suddenly not good enough anymore. I haven’t really changed. I think women have. but that’s just my opinion. No idea where I’d go to find women with a similar level of education who are actually looking for a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:56 PM
3

Probably not. My mom taught me an idealized view of women and harshly corrected any digressions from that view. My sister is also a lesbian. So, that’s probably a definitive no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:46 PM
1

I think I’ve withdrawn from trying to befriend women because I feel they don’t want to be my friend. A lot of women view single men as the “other” and I definitely get that vibe frequently. Otherwise I feel they’d try to get to know me. With guys it’s a lot easier this way. So yeah I just don’t bother unless I wanna shoot my shot, which doesn’t usually go anywhere. Oh well, that’s the price I pay for being guarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:40 PM
1

No - I agree that I wouldn’t try to fuck a woman that bored me. I’m saying that before that physical threshold is passed, I wouldn’t even consider being a friend to them, much less trying to romance them. But that drive to prioritize looks is strong and I want my future woman to have a similar drive towards me. Then everything else can fall into place. I don’t think that’s that crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:27 PM
1

I’m just giving you my unfiltered opinion. Is there something wrong with that? Maybe. I should probably talk to my therapist about it. But yeah, I haven’t really liked girls for those reasons. It’s been attractiveness first and foremost. I feel like it’s how I’m wired. Like I’ve never considered any other reason for pairing before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:20 PM
1

It really feels like debasing yourself to accept being a friend at any point. We want someone who is attracted to us. This is not the way to find that person. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:13 PM
2

Respectfully this strategy is an excellent way to waste a whole bunch of time getting friendzoned. Express your interest, if she doesn’t like it, keep it pushing. But sure as hell don’t sit around waiting for her to finally be comfortable and ready for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:05 PM
1

If men really didnt talk to women who are strangers you and I would not exist to be typing on this godforsaken app
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:30 PM
2

Okay you just wanna argue
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:13 PM
1

I thought women had the freedom to choose what they want to do. So that goes against women’s rights, somehow? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:12 PM
1

Genuinely everything that compels human behavior is coercive, but these little girls never connect the dots
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:58 PM
2

do you have another dose of that nuance pill? asking for a friend 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:46 PM
1

I was just using your post to make a further conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:57 PM
5

Because it’s not the men’s fault at all. Women’s sexual strategy is to lead with their pussy a lot of times but that gets them burned easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:42 PM
1

Ah so it’s okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:40 PM
2

Now I know why women hate being set up. There has to be a purpose to their pairing. Has to be a story. It’s really strange to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:34 PM
1

Not my problem. Unless you wanna keep yelling at the cloud. That will definitely help with others seeing you as crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:43 PM
1

benevolent sexism aka privilege. call it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:23 PM
1

Seek mental help. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:05 AM

i think women just lie to themselves first then try to delude everyone else. they didn’t get the guy they really wanted so they’re coping by saying that whatever their man is is hot. it’s all a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:55 AM

I’m with you. I was never into mom bods lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:29 AM

hookups are opportunities that lead to LTRs and marriage. More opportunities is what we call privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:25 AM

Sounds like a personal problem. A skill issue, if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:17 AM
8

they’re both anti-social behaviors so I don’t really care beyond that distinction for this argument. if we allow everyone their antisocial behaviors based on their individual desires we will no longer have a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:10 PM
0

Lmao you need serious help
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:39 PM
1

Most men understand no empathy will be given to them so they have no problem showing no empathy to others. It’s an equal give-and-take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:58 PM

Maybe women should be honest with themselves and their desires for once. Have they thought about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:46 PM

Yeah your brain is cooked. Sorry not every woman can have their own chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:28 PM
6

So? Should we allow pedophiles their personal choices? I personally don’t give a shit if it prevents people from anti-social behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:22 PM
3

Gee you really are slow
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:15 PM
3

She can’t answer the question bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:18 PM
4

oh honey, you’re always competing, whether you want to think about it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:11 PM
1

Not an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:43 PM
1

Like you said, men aren’t the deciders so it doesn’t really matter if that was the case as it is a fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:44 PM

Honestly this checks out because I’ve never considered it possible to rate anyone below a 4, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:18 PM
4

to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:47 AM
4

Nobody brought up those topics on this post; good job arguing at the cloud
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:27 PM
1

It’s the women who don’t want men with the same conditions as them lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:56 PM

that allows women to bat out of their league, of course they won’t be for it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:48 PM

Sounds like a personal problem. The government legislated away men’s power. Time to do the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:46 PM
4

Or it’s a Venn diagram and it’s both. Personally, I hold the people engaging in pro-social behaviors together in higher regard than individualistic idiots who can’t see past the tip of their nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:45 PM
13

you do not speak for women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:14 PM
1

Women do not think Amber Heard is a bad person despite all the shit that came out during JD’s trial lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:14 PM
3

All this does is make the woman feel entitled to demand more because the “loser” she was with wasn’t good enough, despite her choosing to be with that loser in the first place. It’s a fundamental lack of being accountable for your own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:12 PM
7

If exercising free will causes society to collapse then don’t be surprised when some don’t care about your right to said free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:08 PM
14

The sooner you stop listening to what women say, the happier you’ll be, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:41 AM
5

It appears the blackpill has become mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:37 AM

I see the blackpill is becoming mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:33 AM
1

after they get brought back down to earth, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:25 PM
2

Women absolutely know they’re gauging our answer regardless how aloof they want to play it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:17 PM
1

it’s crazy how male/female dating dynamics have completely flipped like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:49 AM
4

they never stopped to consider that incels wouldnt have anything else worth losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:56 AM
-1

neither can women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:32 AM

she already knows the answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:23 AM
1

very arbitrary ass graph
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 11:06 PM
2

That is a privileged viewpoint that many aren’t afforded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:53 PM
1

I’m sorry you don’t have the attention span to look at the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:17 PM
5

1) Read the data. I’m not gonna hold your hand. 2) Women had their chances when they were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:12 PM
3

It’s a widely cited stat from pew research. I’m sorry you don’t know what you’re talking about. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/#share-of-adults-who-are-single-varies-by-race-age-education-and-sexual-orientation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:55 PM
1

I was blackout on campus one night and the next thing i know i wake up next to this busted ass bitch in her dorm room. That’s creepy as fuck. And rape. But she’s a woman so I guess it’s ok and not creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:51 PM
10

black men or black pill men? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:44 PM
2

So it just doesn’t happen then! Great argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:37 PM
0

They still have that companionship though lol. That counts for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:28 PM
5

but only 33ish% of young men are in a relationship. let’s stop looking at men overall because men overall are not struggling. it’s the young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:54 PM
5

We do not have to make ourselves available to women for their leisure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:38 PM
2

I didn’t make that point my guy, but I hope you feel better for yelling at the cloud
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:03 PM
1

You’ve been whining for about 5 replies now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:34 PM
1

They should marry and have kids with whoever gets them to shut the fuck up the quickest. Just my two cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:29 PM
1

Yup, cooked. Better find a man quick, the decline tends to not favor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:22 PM
1

Your comment is proof we’re cooked. Enjoy the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:06 PM
2

Women are not entitled to an approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:48 PM
2

And we never have for all of human history. We aren’t wired that way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:46 PM

yeah femoid’s brains are cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:38 PM
2

Because it is. It’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:35 PM
1

I have a house slave, I couldn’t possibly hate blacks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:31 PM
1

First question is B, easily. Second is a false dichotomy, I do not want or need kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:27 PM

Talk with your fellow ladies then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:19 PM
1

I’m sorry you’re autistic and can’t make social inferences from how people respond to your questions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:09 PM
1

and watch how they respond. hope this helps chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:00 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:07 PM
0

this is why you ask questions and watch how they respond
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:50 PM
0

I misread actually - I agree with the second part. Not sure what you’re going on about with public schools
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:16 PM
2

having a queen doesn’t make the society any less patriarchal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:06 PM
0

Ah so the matriarchal taliban. No wonder you were banned
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:59 PM
3

Why can’t they advocate for both?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:54 PM
1

Ask parents nowadays. They want girls. It’s clear as day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:53 PM
7

It’s a privilege that they always reframe as a relic of more sexist eras
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 03:17 PM
5

A whole lot of men voted republican because of the entitled attitudes of the women around them. I’m not one of them, but I know many who did. Maybe it’s about power. Or maybe young men have no power and are clinging to some semblance of it that they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:42 PM
1

Men aren’t the ones who started viewing the other as “sacks of shit.” Maybe look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:57 PM
1

Yes, what does a relationship with a woman offer me? That’s what I keep hearing from women about men. Those are generic platitudes that I can do without.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:47 PM
5

friend arguments and relationship arguments arent even close to the same and you’re disingenuous for suggesting they are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:43 PM
1

Give me a reason I should care? What benefits would I get?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:32 PM
7

that attitude is why the men in power are “yanking back” now. so self-fulfilling prophecy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:26 PM
1

There’s no incentive to like there used to be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:41 PM

I live in a college town and have ridden more than a few bikes. That’s how things are around here. You can put your head in the sand all you want my man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:31 PM

And you’re a sucker to think that things haven’t changed rapidly since that stat was normalized. Also what women are gonna tell the truth of their body count? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:25 PM
1

We need something to not be cynical and pessimistic about then :) and we’re absolutely in a decline so there’s nothing you can do other than to have a good time while it’s happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:16 PM
1

show me a criminal who has willingly and gleefully served their sentence. and turning yourself in doesn’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:09 PM
1

I agree but that aint happenin anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:08 PM
2

I agree. I stopped giving them my empathy many moons ago
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:35 PM
0

That’s not what they said
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:26 PM
1

society is designed to make everyone desolate and dependant lmao it’s not a gendered issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:24 PM
4

We really gotta learn to not listen to their critiques. It’s not like they listen to ours anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:19 PM

having options of differing behavior available to you that aren’t afforded to others is the definition of a privilege, not some machiavellian bargain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:38 PM
2

what purpose would there be to lowering testosterone levels?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:09 AM
4

I’m cool as long as we reduce women’s estrogen levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:29 PM

Because they’re slow?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:59 PM
2

personal attacks and contentless rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:48 PM
3

It’s a whole lot more viable for a woman to find a man with more resources willing to mate with them than the inverse. Surely you can agree with that, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:47 PM
0

I disagree. I just think women are too high on their own farts and think their shit doesn’t stink. They need to be starved out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:29 PM
2

LOL “trad” women are anything but nowadays. They’re conservative with modern equal rights. That’s anything but “trad”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:25 PM
3

another option men do not have the luxury of having
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:22 PM
1

Doesn’t address that no one listens to radical male advocates regardless of how good faith they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:13 PM
2

Radical feminists were able to change peoples minds though. Radical male advocates aren’t. Women are generally considered a sympathetic class. Men aren’t. It’s all gendered expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:57 PM
1

The men who actually have something for themselves don’t care about helping other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:55 PM
6

Let’s pump you with 20-30x of testosterone you have now and see how you act. It’s not a fully conscious decision to be sex-obsessed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:48 PM
4

searching for a unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:24 PM
1

You must have been born yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:56 PM
1

pseudoscience. hot women also make hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:09 PM
7

and so many unworthy women want chad. yet here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:17 PM
1

revisionist history
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:44 PM
1

Here we go again, gender reductionism. I don’t particularly care about engaging with these lazy “just how it is” arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:18 PM
1

and women are unwilling to mate with men who are happy with low-wage work. now you know why men don’t do it. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:39 PM
1

Men don’t have the luxury of choosing a collaborative workspace over a cutthroat one. In fact, the “privileges” men have only are afforded to the wealthy and powerful. If you’re not those things then you aren’t a man with the benefits that entails. This gender reductionism is where you lose me. It’s capitalism that’s the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:14 PM
1

Yeah I don’t really care. Enjoy the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:04 PM
4

And women are biologically destined to have children but many of them have decided to shrug off that pressure. So men are doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:02 PM
5

i’m glad for you in that aspect. but segregated societies, even if “equal” on paper, tend to not work out so well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:57 PM
1

So the Girl Scouts should let boys in, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:07 PM
2

Show me where I used the words “incel uprising” and no I didn’t edit a damn thing. Maybe reread your own block of paragraphs for your comment again since you don’t understand what you are arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:39 PM
4

Black people had a great time under separate, but equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:30 PM

I said disenfranchised men. Your scenario describes disenfranchised men. you’re mischaracterizing your own argument. I ask again, are you slow?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:29 PM
2

Ah, so separate but equal. We all know how well that turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:22 PM
2

Are you slow? Underclasses of disenfranchised men collapsed several societies, and it’s just the ones we know of. Rome and Sparta being the two most popular examples. Plebeians were a huge underclass of disenfranchised men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:20 PM
1

Just hope you aren’t put in the excess male category. Not like it would be your choice, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:07 PM
4

Of course there were, people just didn’t call them incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:04 PM
1

Wait, so rape is OK or is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:04 PM
1

Big number scary!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:02 PM
4

societies with an underclass of disenfranchised men has historically never really worked out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:50 PM
4

almost like men are blaming women for the possible societal collapse from not having children. so are both arguments valid or neither?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:40 PM
2

It’s predation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:33 PM
1

If you were a man you would be such a fucking loser with that approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:44 PM
4

Of course they say that instead. Because they’re prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:00 PM
1

times have changed a lot since your prime, lady
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:08 AM
4

that women’s idea of what they find attractive is socially malleable by the other women around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:17 PM
-2

Might-is-right is exactly the way this country (and the world) is going. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:39 PM
1

ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:57 PM
1

Unironically though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:47 PM
1

quality of life is your own responsibility, ya bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:40 PM
0

purposefully handicapping yourself smh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:25 PM
2

We go to jail for hiring sex workers in america. Not an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:00 PM
1

Yeah I’ve always been “fit” by athletic standards. I played soccer then ran track and cross country. That’s not the type of “fit” women seem to be looking for though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:12 PM
1

and girls from the 60s were forced to play with dolls and didn’t have rights. maybe we shouldn’t seek to restore archaic times!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 08:52 PM
1

After several years of work that even women would consider excessive if they were expected to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:48 PM

ah shit this is a banger 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:06 PM
1

So you’re still saying you had daddy issues? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:31 PM
2

They’re all blue pill though. Almost like you all just like to go to personal attacks. Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:31 PM
1

That’s just, like, your opinion, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:13 PM
1

Earlier in this thread you said you were a gay woman for most of your “prime years” because of him lmfao. Absolutely daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:09 PM
9

I mean, yes, it is, but it’s even more sad that it’s largely hormonal and thus not under our control. The only thing we can do is choose not to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:42 PM
1

Mods need to ban you, you never contribute any meaningful discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:05 PM
1

Not interested in dates but still dating. Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:33 PM
0

Higher education is filled with this shit lmfao. You can’t be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:17 AM
5

40 years old and still dating. Yeah that checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:08 AM
1

l m f a o
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:39 AM
0

Am I mad? No. Do I think it makes women less introspective of themselves? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 11:47 PM
1

it’s what women do to men in dating constantly. it’s brutal and ruthless. but this lady is upset that some people stereotype her for having daddy issues that she can’t control? she must have never been a boy then or she’d have realized at a much younger age that that is just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:32 PM
1

Show me where I said she was being contradictory
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:14 PM
1

I’m just pointing out the extreme naïveté.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:32 PM
1

It sounds like he has just rejected the pressure and has chosen to live single for the time being lol. Guys like that are definitely looked at differently though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:59 PM
1

keyword is younger brother. no idea how old you are but if he is in his teens then the pressure hasn’t really ramped up yet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:40 PM
1

I feel for you because as a man I do have daddy issues myself. My dad was never around that much and it really hurt when I was growing up. On the other hand, this is just another day in the life of a man. We’re disqualified for our immutable characteristics, how our voice sounds, how tall we are (not me, yall be easy tho), and honestly any reason you can think of. I think you’re just barking up the wrong sympathy tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:39 PM
1

Because those societal pressures haven’t been placed upon you as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:16 PM
1

Yes, our primarily goal is to reproduce. This is Bio 101
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:23 PM
1

Women and the lack of introspection. A combination as old as time itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:44 PM
3

Men are disqualified from dating for shit outside their control all the damn time. Welcome to the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:39 PM
3

Thanks for explaining my own logic back to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:09 PM
0

No, we understand the risks. We just aren’t coddled or told we’re good boys when we think the risk is too high. So we do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:30 PM
3

If I were to turn down every broke girl I would simply be an incel because the more wealthy women aren’t lookin for me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:04 PM
7

a lot of men want to be desired for their body
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:29 AM
3

There are no scholarships in D3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:22 PM
1

It’s not the 90s anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:52 PM
3

Lots of women like to stand on a soapbox and speak for the rest of them. Maybe ask why they feel the need to do that. Hint: it’s because they think they’re a bloc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:48 PM
2

screaming this at every femcel sad for missing out on chad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:58 PM
2

Moving the goalposts all around. If you wanted to say women are disadvantaged, then just say that instead of going around in circles with false claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:14 PM
3

ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:26 PM
3

Yes that’s my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:46 AM
2

They already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:21 PM
1

Nah we just want to be treated to the same courtship practices we’re expected to partake in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:18 PM

Why in the hell would Leto II be your role model
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:40 PM
3

This is a banger, thanks for your contribution
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:15 PM
12

Men aren’t the ones with absurdly long lists though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:01 PM

Now that it’s on streaming I plan on checking it out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:53 PM
1

That’s exactly why; it’s a reclamation of the dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:48 PM
3

Completely mutual, equal, even effort on both sides? Yeah, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:19 PM
2

pump and dumpers would have a field day being posted on those apps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:56 PM
1

I treat my friends better, sure. Every other dude though sees each other as competition, whether consciously or not. this is what women don’t understand. we were never socialized to form groups like women do. lack of agency is nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:09 PM
2

of course you dont see the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:07 PM
2

How about murder? Who's to say you've never killed anyone? Time to comb through your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:12 PM
1

Men treating other men better than they treat women. We can all imagine how that would go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:50 PM
14

forgive me for not wanting to believe an AI rendition of the men you came across.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:58 PM
7

I’d be interested in seeing them tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:49 PM
1

Why can’t it be treating other men better than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:31 PM
1

Why do you like fucking kids? We should use the surveillance state to look into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:58 PM

allowing unfettered gossip under the guise of “safety” always seems to trump another’s rights and reputation in the end. this app did not just somehow revolutionize feminine communication lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:29 PM

You don’t need an app to look up the sex offender registry, that is public data.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:23 PM

You’re passive sexually because your gender is socialized that way. Not because you’re inherently passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:35 PM
1

It’s actually pretty easy for regular guys. No burden of proof for malicious intent. Truth is a defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:57 PM
4

Not even just that, but men straight lying. That’s what women do in those spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:52 PM
2

You’re right, people must be convicted of thoughtcrimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:50 PM
1

So, that’s a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:47 PM
1

yeah we tried separate but equal and it didn’t turn out well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:21 PM
-1

americans would elect a republican woman in a heartbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:18 PM
-3

and then they ignore equal outcomes when men are struggling compared to women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:13 PM
1

I’m not disagreeing with your conclusion. But older men have failed many of us younger men. What am I supposed to do about my father failing me as a young man? It sounds like there’s no solutions other than to make your own version of masculinity which can be quite toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:41 PM
2

There will be no more dating apps that aren’t bought out the second they catch Match Group’s attention. They need to be broken up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:16 PM
2

You’re forgetting the fact that these desperate ass men are what keeps these apps in business. They leave, there’s potential for the app to collapse. It’s not like women are forking over money to meet a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:50 PM
1

In my experience the “father figures” that were supposed to help me with this stuff never gave a shit and just saw me as competition. I fear that’s more common than not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:41 PM
3

Oh I didn’t know data sets only consisted of the people we know. My apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:31 PM
1

I hate to break it to you, but it’s not just men in the manosphere and redpill forums that are struggling. in fact their struggles are what attracts them to the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:29 PM
-1

I’d be willing to bet women would revolt at not having more options that they used to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:27 PM
1

It’s inherently a misandrist stance to assume that all men are doing it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:21 PM
1

Criticism is what encourages us all to be our best selves. Not your friends gassing you up for every minor little thing you accomplish (or don’t)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:41 PM
-1

If it’s that bad for women supposedly, imagine how bad it is for men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:28 PM
1

Encouraging each other to be the best person you can be? Might be shocking for women to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:17 PM
1

BUT MUH SOCIAL BONDZ. Think for yourself, geez
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:13 PM
2

EDIT: Since you edited yours I guess I’ll do the same. We aren’t talking about men, we’re talking about women, specifically this woman. Let’s not derail the conversation here :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:05 PM
5

No, I pressed the right reply. She should do some introspection and make herself more attractive to the men she wants. Doesn’t matter if she’s a 10 or a 6 - she’s not entitled to men approaching her. Men hear this ad nauseam on this sub. Maybe women should respond the same way to their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:58 PM
5

My point is the answer to your questions don’t matter one bit because no one is entitled to an approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:39 PM
5

No one’s entitled to be approached 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:35 PM
1

Yesss. Let the hate flow through you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:25 PM
-1

Women constantly use the fact they underreport. It’s quite obvious men would do the same especially with added social pressure like the idea men can’t be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:22 PM
0

just pointing out the irrelevancy of the sources they provide. critique is noted for the first comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:20 AM
-1

i truly do not care about the uk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:06 AM
0

passport sis identified
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:04 PM
6

yeah where’s the movement to push me into teaching or nursing? where’s the gendered marketing that caters to us to make a field more equitable? it literally only works one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:52 PM
3

I know plenty of women, I never knew any that told the truth about what actually attracts them. Women aren’t rejecting men for being “too good” for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:43 PM
6

Show me all these women rejecting men for being too good for them 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:35 PM
-3

Which is no one’s fault but gender roles dictate it is the man who will miss out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:35 PM
2

People like you always assume a man wants kids because thats what supports your argument. Some of us just want companionship. I don’t owe you for having a womb in that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:33 PM
7

“oh I just don’t want this man because he’s too suave and too put together and is too good for me.” I just don’t buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:03 PM
8

Yeah this doesnt happen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:20 PM
1

thats correct, it does seem like feminism is about superiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:42 PM
0

Unfortunately that’s how rights work. All of women’s rights had to be taken from men. It’s always a zero-sum game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:38 PM
0

maybe society should serve them in some way like it’s supposed to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:27 PM
-1

right, in this wattpadd fanfiction you’re laying out here, you’d just be this exceptional average girl that all these famous men want to fuck. you’re honestly a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:40 PM
-1

Nobody’s stopping you from joining some rich guy’s harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:27 PM
1

Yeah, female celebrities generally go on to look for billionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:31 PM
0

LOL thats even more incentive to treat you like shit, you’re nothing to them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:19 PM
1

So then you aren’t completely fulfilled with just your friends unless the sexual attraction aspect matters so little that it becomes a non-factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:37 PM

so are your friends your best friend plus extras?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:32 PM

It’s extremely relevant and the fact you think otherwise just shows you’re entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:29 PM

Then it doesn’t sound like you want a relationship at all. You want a friend to hang out with. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:23 PM
1

this is like talking to a wall. men and women have separate issues, doesn’t mean we should discount one or the other. cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:46 PM
1

i think it’s male mental health and insecurities in general, some of which has some basis and a lot of which is nonsense. But boys aren’t being raised with a healthy sense of self and purpose. a lot of boys are left to their own devices emotionally after a certain age and their issues just compound and get worse as they age. mental healthcare is somewhat inaccessible, there’s a culture of generally blaming innocent men for the wrongs of their grandfathers and their fathers, and many incentives f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:22 PM
1

and that’s not what i said. i said we address the root cause. this attitude of yours is why nothing gets solved. it is a societal issue and wiping your hands of the matter because it doesn’t affect you is strange. reeks of privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:11 PM
1

not full stop, no. the existence of terrorists is a failure of society. we need to learn what circumstances happened in their life to make sure it isn’t a widespread ideology. we’ve been killing terrorists overseas for decades yet they keep popping up. maybe killing them isn’t the actual solution but rather a band-aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:03 PM
1

one could argue that someone who is implying a specific group of people should die off is equally terroristic. i don’t have skin in this fight though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:19 PM
1

yeah obviously. it’s just my theory those will be targeted by terrorist incels in the near future
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:03 PM
1

Just stating what things would be like if we go to the reproductive wild west that many women talk about on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:00 PM
1

many women aren’t looking for men with short hair, but they are filtering out long hair entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:29 PM
3

….women didn’t have a say in who they chose. they were raped. they were kept as property. can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:08 PM
1

men weren’t responsible back then either. they simply controlled and raped women for their own dominance and pleasure. women did not get to choose the chaddest of chads lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:05 PM
1

ah yes, consensual dating around was how it worked. not the subjugation and rape of an entire sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:03 PM
2

you’re the one who implied morality to it, not me. the government has largely come to replace what women ever needed men for. that’s the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:02 PM
1

i’m a leftist too but lets not act like women don’t receive a disproportionate amount of welfare in western countries
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:53 PM
2

yeah like less men contributing to a tax base that primarily benefits women. so they have to take the direct route of getting a man themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:43 PM
10

and women are just the infallible scorekeepers making sure only the best genes get through, right? this is absolutely not how it’s worked pre-society
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:39 PM
5

former owner of long hair here - we get labeled as feminine and the pool of women who are attracted to us heavily decreases. i loved my hair, too. sadly, the women broadly didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:27 PM
6

hey, whatever gets our foot in the door, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:28 PM
1

cba to read the screed of a woman, the lesser man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:56 AM

tldr
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:40 AM
-5

it’s always funny how women never think of their place in a “survival of the fittest” world. you’re a woman. you’re the least fit, in case you weren’t aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:13 PM
-3

And I personally don’t give a shit about some other oafs of species because we are above them. If you’d like we could go back to survival of the fittest. But I have a feeling that wouldn’t go very well for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:56 PM
1

That’s quite possibly the laziest thing you could have possibly done to achieve your goal. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:02 PM
-2

We’re smarter than those sub-human species ever were. Appeals to nature are lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:20 PM
0

Yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:18 PM
1

Anywhere dating is a level playing field is abhorred by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:41 PM
1

I’m sorry that some women have issues with pair bonding. They should go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:27 PM
1

then maybe she should work on herself to find a man like them instead of being a bitter femcel. no one is entitled to a chad. in lighter news, your username deeply offends me 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:49 PM
1

damn maybe she should have married those situationships or exes instead of being an alpha widow
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:03 PM

LGBT people are a (not insignificant) part of the population, we can’t just ignore them wholesale, lest we fail to capture the full population appropriately. Also, 6.000 people for a survey is more than enough and often you won’t find many that go into the 10.000s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:26 PM
1

This doesnt explain shit about it being flawed. Just that older men are getting the younger women. Great. What does that mean to the younger men? We have to wait around for someone to finally find us worth their time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:15 PM

1/6 of the population being LGBT is not an overestimate (17%). That is very much in line with what Millennials and Gen Z are self-reporting their orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:10 PM
1

Yup :) Just turning it all back around. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:12 PM
1

You shouldn’t expect people worse-off than you to cry about your privileged struggles. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:09 PM
1

The poor often dismiss the struggles of the rich because they’re poor and their problems are much greater. This is the same thing. You’re a figuratively-speaking wealthy individual expecting the poor commons to show you empathy. That’s not usually how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:05 PM
1

You can have it hard too while also having it easier than men. That’s the whole point of this comment thread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:59 PM
3

Men are more insecure about their sexual partner leaving, more at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:02 PM
3

Idk, is pussy all you can offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:00 PM
1

Your thinking is not the truth. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:57 PM
1

because it’s flawed logic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:04 PM
1

Contrary to popular belief, the west isn’t the entire world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:44 PM
2

The mods really should ban you because you’re the definition of bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:27 PM
2

Why should the business owners change? They’re not the ones whining about being poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:23 PM
2

There are a huge amount of self-proclaimed feminists who are not in academia.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:05 PM
1

It seems you were the only one who came to that implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:56 AM
0

thats fair but you’re shadowboxing rn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:33 PM
0

women benefit the most from organized society, that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:43 PM
4

you’re the one who brought up the animal kingdom 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:36 PM
8

casual sex didn’t used to be common in the past at all. vaguely gestures at the 70s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:19 PM
1

and they’re still transactional. nice fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:15 PM
2

anything can be true as long as we reject reality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:53 AM
2

and now we go back to “because she generally has options to fulfill that need.” women are the gatekeepers of sex, thus they decide when to have it. let’s not act like that’s not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:40 AM
2

Show me where I said it was okay. I’m arguing that the issue is largely gendered and you’ve just said “nope”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:55 PM
2

because, again, they don’t have failures to the extent men do. let’s keep acting like both genders have the same issues
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:31 PM
1

and clearly I don’t care about biology. i’d rather see everything collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:33 PM
1

Men shouldn’t have to correct a biological certainty by making more money than the woman. We didn’t choose our sex, as neither did you, but you want to bake that handicap into how the world treats you and it’s entirely self-serving.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:47 PM
1

i don’t care whatever metric you determine about reproduction that gives you that much value. this is a capitalist world. money is the metric. but you want to excuse women bums because they have a uterus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:31 PM
1

not having to pull as much weight as a man because you have a vagina that can pop out a child is the definition of special treatment. have a good wednesday
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:11 PM
-1

She’s blatantly ignoring your last point, that it’s all about class. It’s so obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:03 AM
2

oh so women get special treatment. yeah i dont think so. i’ll be sure to avoid bums like you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:59 AM
-1

the bums i was referring to were women who make less than men. if we’re following your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:45 AM
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which is irrelevant to the fact of how much women themselves earn. they just want someone to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:44 AM
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show me where i blamed women for anything chief
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:41 AM
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Because prostitution is illegal and they can go to jail. it’s pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:26 AM
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and men don’t want to decrease their standard of living by having to care for a bum. see how that aggressive self-interest works out?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:23 AM
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because she can easily and readily rectify that issue. its obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:21 AM
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there’s some reductionism going on here for sure. average men and the elite men (the ones making the decisions) are two different categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:58 PM
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because she can easily and readily rectify that issue. its quite obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:55 PM
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which is hypergamous by definition. why does her salary matter when she won’t be working for a period of time after children?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:53 PM
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