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davemustaine13/r/askTRP02/12/15 05:51 AM
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davemustaine13/r/askTRP06/12/15 06:34 PM
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Wow. This is scary. Women are natural Machiavellians.
/r/MGTOW29/01/16 08:23 AM
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To expand on this further :- Guy and girl meet. Girl is attracted to the guy, which means she wants him for herself (let's say for a LTR / marriage). Now she's also smart enough to realize at a basest level that the traits / things that attracted her to him will also be attractive to other women. Thus begins a process of beta-fication of the guy. Then she'll resent him after the transformation is complete because now he's beta and simply doesn't do anything for her (no tingles).
/r/MGTOW29/01/16 07:02 AM
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Actually, we're not. Indian here. We're very Blue Pill as a culture. My hope is that more Indian men will open their eyes and stop being manginas / orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 03:47 PM
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Spot on. It's fem-centric, which is reason enough to avoid it. Your default position itself is that of an orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 05:29 PM
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Here's how the hamster works when it comes to what she's attracted to. First, ask her to name 4-5 guys she finds very attractive. Chances are they'll be athletes, actors, musicians etc. Now, ask her how a guy needs to behave in order to attract women, and you'll get some retarded answer along the lines of "put me on a pedestal". Or, in womanese, "don't be an asshole" / "be kind, treat me as an equal". Cognitive dissonance established.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 05:23 PM
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No wonder they call it the circle of life eh?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 05:18 PM
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MGTOW and TRP acknowledge that the system is rigged against men. That's where the similarities stop. TRP means you mould yourself in a certain way to get laid whereas MGTOW doesn't care about the pursuit of poon. They are both challenging but I think MGTOW is the harder path to take because if you GYOW, you actually end up living in your own 'frame'.
/r/MGTOW19/01/16 09:07 AM
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Nah, guys like Dean Esmay are at least aware of TRP. There's a lot of confusion within the Manosphere itself.
/r/MGTOW19/01/16 08:39 AM
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Definitely worth a read. I've read about 30% of it and have already found some interesting takeaways.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 03:26 AM
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There's a similar concept I read in a book by Robert Anthony (Ultimate Secrets of Total Self-Confidence). He says we're always doing our best, as we're operating based on our current level of Awareness. Your Awareness is nothing but the sum total of your social programming, beliefs, aspirations, insecurities, fears etc. So when you experience a certain event in life, a traumatic one for example, your Awareness changes, and then that makes you act in a certain way. The author concludes by saying …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 07:51 AM
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This, 1000 percent. TRP gives you a framework to lead a 'good' life but not necessarily an authentic one. For that you have to GYOW.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 07:09 AM
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This happens to me when I don't run.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 06:35 AM
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After your SMV is in top 5% you can hire women, get married Explain? Wouldn't you have more to lose? The stakes would be higher right?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 06:27 AM
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Her hamster went into overdrive.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 01:00 PM
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Major props to you sir. You didn't sit around, play the victim card and make YouTube videos complaining about how life dealt you a bad hand. A lot of fat people would rather form a prayer circle and cry on each other's shoulders while eating ice cream to comfort themselves. FUCK. THAT. Both my parents are overweight, while I'm slightly skinny / athletic. The subtle shaming is for real. It sucks, but you have to roll with it and do what's right for you i.e be disciplined enough to exercise every …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 05:04 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to share your wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:43 PM
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Thanks for this gem of a reply.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:31 PM
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Beautifully written. Wifey stops putting out, husband starts getting frustrated. But he needs to get his dick wet, so he finally caves and gets an escort. Wifey happily plays the victim card and has an 'out'. Even more, she also has white knights comforting her and telling her to 'be brave'.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:23 PM
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When you say short, what height have you got in mind? What's the cutoff point?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 03:16 AM
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You're right. It won't be easy. Just got to start with "listen man, what I'm about to say is highly politically incorrect and will make you angry, but it's in your best interests so hear me out first", and then slowly talk about how men are getting divorced raped in general. Then maybe introduce the concept of branch swinging and how women are the more materialistic sex. The jealousy part may well come up because he knows I'm single and largely a lone wolf. I don't care much for social validatio…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 02:35 PM
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Amazes me how military men could be BP. I mean, they embody RP traits like discipline, frame control, not shirking tough tasks / decisions etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 09:28 AM
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I think the answer lies in MGTOW and monk mode. Cheers. My analysis is I was raised by an extremely short tempered, egoistic (at what point does it turn into narcissistic?) dad who was always busy working (still had the time to whoop my ass on the regular) and an emotionally dependent mother who would manipulate by playing the victim card. So I grow up without a sense of self and the need to 'get ahead' in life.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 06:32 PM
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Reading NMMNG would be a good start.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:34 PM
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Wow. You just described me to a T.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:33 PM
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Brilliant. I have a similar question. I've got a textbook beta friend who is due to get married to a girl he's been in a LTR with. We'll call him Fred and her, Linda. Fred has a younger sister called Cathy. Linda is hitting the wall and has ridden the CC. This has divorce rape written all over it, it took me a few times of meeting Linda to figure that out. Fred is a good friend of mine and comes from an upper class family. His dad is a respected executive at a well known consulting firm in the U…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:38 AM
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Sexual strategy is amoral, hence why TRP was born. As RATM famously sang - take the power back!
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:10 AM
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That is fucking brutal. Doesn't the divorce (legal separation after all) indemnify Mark of that? Or do you mean she will blackmail him through false allegations and ask for an 'amicable' settlement?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:02 AM
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Definitely watching it then.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 02:18 AM
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How did he become that successful leader? Presumably through lots of monk mode. MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 02:17 AM
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Another thing I want to add is if you're RP, then you should be raising SMV. Whereas MGTOW kind of obviates the need to raise SMV because you're living in your own frame. Me personally, I'm more MGTOW + self-improvement (always been a lone wolf type) for my own sake at this stage rather than TRP + chase pussy. Maybe that'll change in the future.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:32 AM
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Yeah sure, it's always better to be armed with the truth so thank heavens for this sub! What I have gleaned is that all things being equal, the same Indian guy will likely do better with an American girl in, say, Minnesota or Dallas as opposed to NY / NJ/ LA / SF.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 07:57 AM
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This is quite informative, thanks. As an Indian guy (in India) who's been cursorily following such posts for a few months, it seems USA and Canada on the whole, aren't as good (on average) as, say, Europe, for Asians (including Indians).
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 07:07 AM
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Meh. Whatever, oldredder. I'm bored of you at this point.
/r/MGTOW22/12/15 03:15 AM
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Men need mentors, otherwise they can get lazy and stop 'creating' or learning. With MGTOW, there's that risk of becoming complacent in life. You need to be more self-driven if you're MGTOW as opposed to TRP because a TRP form of success is likelier to be more socially vetted / visible so you have people validating your achievements. That can keep you going.
/r/MGTOW21/12/15 04:51 AM
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Wrong conclusion dude. Most women will not approach a man they're interested in. Instead, they'll create situations for the man to approach. IOIs, as they're known in the seduction community. Although in cultures or countries that are 'liberated', so to speak, I reckon some women would approach or compliment a man they find desirable. Even so, it's the guy who usually makes the first move off of an IOI.
/r/MGTOW21/12/15 04:30 AM
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It does not make sense. You're just 20. Besides, women never approach. They can't handle rejection.
/r/MGTOW19/12/15 03:39 AM
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TRP and MGTOW are similar yet different. The fundamental difference is that TRP vociferously advocates self-improvement while MGTOW makes it optional. That's the bit I don't agree with. Having said that, most MGTOWs seem to be working and (or) learning / doing cool shit so they're not wasting their lives.
/r/MGTOW17/12/15 07:24 AM
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Yes. Already have initiated 3-4 positive lifestyle changes, but I need to step it up massively. I'm going through this phase at the moment where the man in me wants to come out, but I'm suppressing / resisting him through procrastination / limiting beliefs / low self-worth. Maybe because my ego is trying to shield me from pain / rejection / suffering / hard work. Then I resent myself for not allowing that to happen.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:06 AM
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Reading your post made me realize how much of a fuck up I am. In my mid-twenties now. Mad respect bro, you look set to become a top 5-10% male at this rate. Women will literally beg to fuck you. Stay humble, stay focused. Keep working on your body, studies, and social skills. If I could do just one thing differently in my undergrad years, I would network with the 'cool' crowd, join clubs / associations and make real friendships. I was pretty much an omega with zero visibility back then. My life …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 05:43 AM
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Late comment but I will say this - there are no 'friends' at work. There are only colleagues. If there's one thing I've learned in my fledgling corporate career, your colleagues are not your friends. All the more so if you're something of a lone wolf. People behave in a certain way with you, but you can be sure they'll talk about you differently when in their own cliques. DO NOT LET PEOPLE KNOW YOU READ THIS SUB.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 05:06 PM
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A Brahmin can easily get a hot wife in the arranged marriage market because of social status. He most likely won't be banging chicks pre-marriage if he doesn't lift, has no game etc. Which is how they usually are. Ultimately it comes down to lifting, game, SMV.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 03:35 PM
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OP does have a point. Brahmins are the intellectual elite in India. Apparently their ancestors were sages so they evolved to be good at education. They don't have the kind of body that could compete with a Sikh for example. It's genetics, culture, evolution. Don't get the hate in OP's post though, worry about yourself first.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 03:09 PM
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Yeah. Without androgen receptors, the T in your body would be rendered useless. We've got androgen receptors in our arms, throat etc. So bigger muscles, deeper voice etc.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 03:33 AM
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If you are, then keep spinning plates. Just don't jerk off to P the way guys normally do - alone, door locked, essentially like a zombie who is cut off from the real world. Masturbating whilst imagining a vanilla fantasy that involves a pretty girl you've seen / been with wouldn't be as bad. Even then, limit it. Think of it as some sort of social experiment you're conducting on yourself for fun. Not this mountain you have to climb. Enjoy the process.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 10:59 AM
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Cool. Trying to cut back on P at the moment. Also, yep, I lurk around a lot on TRP / NoFap / Reddit etc which is another thing I need to reduce drastically. People usually report their skin gets better while on NoFap, although that could be down to ensuring you're well hydrated and are eating clean. I will say this though - there is something 'magnetic' about NoFap that kinda makes it the crux of 'inner game', which is what guys need first.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 10:16 AM
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Free is definitely more important than total. Get free and total levels checked.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 09:02 AM
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You're right about the cycle part. It is a journey, after all. Do NoFap for 3 weeks and give us your observations. I mean, 3 weeks isn't much right? You could go back to fapping (and porn, if you want to) after that.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 09:00 AM
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AFAIK, NoFap doesn't boost T, but it does give your androgen receptors time to heal, so whatever T your body does produce will get 'detected'.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 08:33 AM
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Day 9 - Asked two people for the time. Day 10 - Asked a guy for the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:40 AM
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Day 8 - Asked a guy for the time. Made half a minute of small talk with another guy who was walking his (identical) twins. Joked he couldn't tell them apart.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 05:58 AM
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I like you already, hermano. I'm cut from the same cloth. Add to that, I'm recovering from a PMO addiction and doing NoFap. I think PMO warped my sexuality and I need to figure out what turns me on truly.
/r/MGTOW08/12/15 12:00 PM
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They go for lean muscular dudes. That is my point dude. A celebrity doesn't have to lift, lift, lift, to pull. A normal guy would probably have to, unless he were some kind of virtuoso musician. Then he's going to swim in poon.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 11:36 AM
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Don't let the door hit you on your way out, unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:18 AM
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Day 3 & 4 - can't recall but pretty sure I asked for the time (at least) Day 5 - Spoke for 10-15 seconds with a French dude in the elevator. Saw a lady walking her dog so I asked her what breed it is. Day 6 - Spoke to a girl on the running track for a minute or two. Made a post about it on askTRP too. Day 7 - Spoke to a guy on the running track, he's a regular so I asked him why he wasn't there on Sunday (Day 6). Also asked a fat lady for the time.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 03:34 AM
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Celebrities are exempt, the SMP is different for them.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 03:18 AM
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I second this.
/r/seduction07/12/15 09:42 AM
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Use the anger to fuel your self-improvement. Read, lift, eat clean, run, pick up a hobby or two, get a job / better job etc. Oh and MEDITATE. MEDITATE. MEDITATE. You want to create a healthy, interesting lifestyle first. Something that you can fall back on, women or no women. The anger will pass as you boost your SMV and accept a woman's nature for what it is, truly.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 03:59 AM
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Tell them you're happy with your life the way it is currently. Then, innocuously ask them - "you wouldn't want me to change my situation and be unhappy, would you?"
/r/MGTOW04/12/15 06:32 AM
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Hahaha, certainly plausible.
/r/MGTOW03/12/15 10:42 AM
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AWALT, of course. It is known. I was merely saying that Beta Fucks is a strategy employed by men in certain parts of the world.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 10:26 AM
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Both, I would say. It largely boils down to genetic introversion + small puny frame (easy target) + strict middle class upbringing (helicopter parenting is what it's called?) in a developing country. Other qualities that would describe me are avoidant, passive-aggressive, perfectionist / OCPD / procrasturbator. As they say, being aware of your problem is the first step to solving it so I'm glad I found TRP at this age.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 10:00 AM
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There is no such thing as a beta fucks. Yes, there is. In developing countries only, however. It won't work in a culture of open hypergamy i.e the first world.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 09:46 AM
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Day 2 - asked 3 different people for the time. 2 ladies and an old guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:08 AM
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Ah, of course. I'd excluded MGTOW from my thinking cos this is TRP.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 08:34 AM
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Thanks for the honest feedback. I do notice that I have a lot of resistance to talking to girls. With guys it's slightly easier. Always been a lone wolf.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 07:46 AM
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Right now, I'm firmly establishing a daily routine of exercising (and eating clean), reading personal development books and foreign language practice. The next level would be learning game, forming a social circle (cos I'm a lone wolf sigma introvert type).
/r/askTRP02/12/15 07:45 AM
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Cheers for the 3rd link dude. Got a huge list now.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 06:06 AM
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Read one book at a time. 10-15 pages a day. Which books are you reading btw?
/r/askTRP02/12/15 05:40 AM
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Dec 1 - Day 1 - complimented a guy's shoes while running past him. He acknowledged with a 'cheers'. This is an important challenge, because I'm an introvert by nature.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 04:16 AM
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I'm in my mid twenties, and have never been with a girl. This used to bother me a lot; hell it still does, but much less so after discovering the need for self-improvement / TRP etc. Keep trucking dude.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 03:26 AM
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It's like a girl telling a guy to stop going to the gym so he can spend more time with her, then throwing it back in his face when he gets fat. This. We just have to accept that women will constantly shit test, such is their nature. Can't live with them, can't live without them eh.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 03:22 AM
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The more disciplined you are, the more you respect yourself i.e set healthy boundaries for yourself. So your desperation goes down in a sense.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 06:03 PM
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I agree. My theory is the same - if I become masculine, I'll see a whole new side of women. The one alpha guys get to see.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 06:01 PM
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This... this is so fucking true. Everyone on this sub needs to read this.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 05:32 PM
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"Kneel. Stand. Kneel. Stand. If you go for that sort of thing, I dunno what to do for ya."
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 10:18 AM
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You want to talk or read some shit over the Internet? Come to TRP. At least we will understand you here. What part of this did you not get? Seems like you're nitpicking.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 02:45 PM
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This is a fairly accurate description of your typical 'Netflix and chill' bum. However, AWALT does not mean 'every woman IS literally the same', but rather, every woman has the ability to act in a certain way given a certain kind of upbringing / socio-cultural programming.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 04:02 AM
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If a girl wanted a serious relationship, she wouldn't have to advertise it. She's mostly an ex-CC rider who's 'realized' (did she, fuck) she's made a lot of 'mistakes' (hamster) and now wants something 'real'.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:04 AM
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I've got the same problem. Too honest, too straight forward, too naive. Kinda creates a 'formal' vibe with everyone I interact with. End result: practically non-existent social circle. Tons of failed 'fitness' tests over the years, from my family too. Check out 48 Laws of Power, it's been covered extensively on TRP. Just search.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 03:56 AM
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If you had to recommend just one source for 'game', for a beginner, what would it be?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 05:34 AM
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Can you explain? I thought plate spinning would make you more outcome independent and thus not beta?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 05:26 AM
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The 8. Who wants to be with a fucking THREE?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 06:24 AM
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After you return some video tapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 06:22 AM
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As an Indian, this makes so much sense it's scary. Parents in our culture, especially middle class parents, are notorious for being over-protective. It stems from a "well, our kids are all we have, so let's do everything in our power to 'better' their lives so they don't have to struggle as much as we did". This sentiment, whilst an ostensibly noble one, in 99% of the cases, turns into an over-investment that robs the child of actual, real life experience. My guess is, a lot of the time, to West…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 05:37 AM
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When the system is rigged against you, you can either walk away from it and become some nihilistic neckbeard (MGTOW) or you can game the system itself (TRP).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 03:48 AM
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RP guys hating promiscuous women is a myth. Most would think twice before committing to one, is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 10:44 AM
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It's not an apple to apple comparison, and this is where you're wrong. Women control whether or not sex will happen. Sure, sex takes 2 people (at least), but it's the female who does the choosing. It is easier for a girl to get sex, by virtue of being a girl. You dress nicely, go to a club and just wait. Guys will approach you. You can choose to escalate if you wish. Compare the ability of a girl to obtain commitment with a guy's ability to obtain sex, and then it'd be a fair comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:25 AM
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Bang on. This is how Alpha Widows are created.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:41 AM
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It's not an apple to apple comparison, and this is where you're wrong. Women control whether or not sex will happen. Sure, sex takes 2 people (at least), but it's the female who does the choosing. It is easier for a girl to get sex, by virtue of being a girl. Compare the ability of a girl to obtain commitment with a man's ability to obtain sex, and then it'd be a fair comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:36 AM
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Classic hamstering. This got a chuckle out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:43 AM
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You get over the anger phase by :- accepting women for what they are focusing on self-improvement keeping your options open
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:39 AM
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At age 35, she doesn't want to mess around and make mistakes. It looks like she's looking for "the one". Yes. She's hit the wall and wants an Alpha Provider (ideal scenario from her perspective). She's not being entitled or spoilt. She's just looking for the man that suits her. And she wants him for life. That's a huge commitment. Brad Pitt would suit her real nice, if she could land him. Or Leo DiCaprio. According to RP, your SMV should be sky high and you should be having no trouble. OP does h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:31 AM
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Base attraction is nothing but SMV. A fit chick isn't going to be impressed with an out of shape guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:21 AM
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Glad to hear of your success. AWALT. That too so openly! How did you go about meeting and bedding this girl?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 01:13 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I was under the impression that the things you listed are independent of game.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 05:51 AM
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Don't the number / quality of profiles you see go down if you do that? I read somewhere (correct me if I'm wrong) that the more friends you have, the more profiles you get to swipe on.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 03:40 AM
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Don't the number / quality of profiles you see go down if you do that? I read somewhere (correct me if I'm wrong) that the more friends you have, the more profiles you get to swipe on.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 03:38 AM
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Don't the number / quality of profiles you see go down if you do that? I read somewhere (correct me if I'm wrong) that the more friends you have, the more profiles you get to swipe on.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 03:20 AM
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What's a good starting point?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 08:08 AM
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This is reassuring. Any starting point for learning game?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 06:23 AM
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Enlightened self-interest. It's counter intuitive, but if you can say no to a girl who asks you to hang out with her, she gets more attracted to you. Obviously, don't do this all the time, then she'll walk.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 05:03 AM
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Absolutely, your typical Bollywood movie is ONE-itis on steroids. It's disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 04:48 AM
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Are those men who are actually making an effort to change, seeing some sort of improvement socially and, dare I say, sexually?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 04:39 AM
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Shoot me a PM, I'll be able to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 04:19 AM
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You answered your own question. This isn't about wealth, mate. White is seen as more sexually /socially attractive. It's close(r) to AF. Wealthy Indians = BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 04:13 AM
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To build on this - a lot of Indian people are now dating outside their culture / religion (even within India). So you can see a North Indian girl with a South Indian guy, etc. A Christian guy with a Hindu girl. You get the drift. I think the main reason is there's a tacit understanding that they won't get married, or rather, it's highly unlikely (due to opposition from possibly both families). So, they both know they're in it for fun. No drama. Typically, a lot of these couples will mutually bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 04:06 AM
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Please do, though. I enjoy your writing style and have saved the 'Field Toolkit' series.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 02:55 AM
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I have a question: can dominance and assertiveness be learned or grown organically?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 02:54 AM
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It's all good man. I know the feeling of failing a shit test only too well. It kind of 'puts you in the spotlight' and you end up revealing things about your life 'for free', it feels like. Lame. Your username felt familiar, so I had a look. No wonder man, you're on NoFap too. Keep going! My suggestion is to just start talking to people. Could be a 40 year old janitor, a hot chick, an old man. Whatever. Just get into the habit of making small talk. You'll automatically get better at repartee.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:25 PM
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"Treat me nice and you might get to keep some of it" or "Nah I got a great deal on Amazon, did you get yours from there too?" Remember: the only thing you shouldn't do when you're being shit tested is answer the shit test seriously. That's all. Also avoid the nuclear option unless she's being a complete cunt. You usually pass a shit test with flying colors when you respond with something so ridiculous or silly it simply can't be true. You're basically belittling the shit test and exposing it for…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 06:07 PM
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You're already there. Work on expanding your social circle and get a niche hobby if possible. Preferably something that requires you to interact with people. Not necessarily women.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 03:18 PM
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It's messed up. Maybe through PM, if you're willing to hear me out.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 11:30 AM
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When you say short, what height is your cutoff point? I'm a teeny weeny bit less than 5'8" but could probably pass for 5'9" if someone IRL asked me what my height was (because I'm lean). Both my parents are 5'4" so I consider myself lucky in that aspect. Maybe it's psychological, but 5'9" feels good to say (for me!), and 5'7" feels short.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:53 AM
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child free people are generally extremely lost (with exceptions) and tend to have some easily identifiable markers that make me glad they are not spreading their genetics. Can you elaborate on this? Curious to see what you have in mind.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 11:14 AM
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I think what he's getting at is : were a divorce to happen, if you can prove to the judge that she is more than capable of fending for herself, you don't have to pay alimony. Which is why he also mentions education. Obviously your bitch shouldn't be some bum who did 3 shifts at a Hooters (Bill Burr represent).
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 09:59 AM
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"Commitment / discipline is doing the thing you said you'd do long after the mood you said it in is gone".
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 03:16 AM
1

I disagree. If anything, my dad suppressed my masculinity during my childhood and adolescence. Nothing he ever did helped me feel more self-confident or assertive / dominant. If I ever become truly and fully RP, it'll be inspite of my dad, not because of him.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 07:01 AM
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Even if such a Chad did exist, you presume that his confidence was not beaten out of him by a familial and social upbringing that demands his obsequiousness. Damn. Holy hell. This spoke directly to me. Not that I was Chad to begin with, far from it; but I had my self-esteem and confidence (literally) beaten out of me during my childhood and in the majority of my teens. Even to this day, I struggle to put my interests ahead of others and assert myself & my needs without feeling guilty (no shit). …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 06:54 AM
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Some absolute gold in here, especially:- Ask a bunch of women what they think of Don Draper, and they'll probably start drooling and leaking. Ask the same women how a man should behave in order to appeal to women, and odds are that they say something that amounts to "don't be like Don Draper". "men want to be a woman's first, but women want to be a man's last." Or, another one - "every boy wants a good girl who will be bad just for him, and every girl wants a bad boy who will be good just for he…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 06:40 AM
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You raise an interesting point, one I agree with. But how can a woman tell you weren't always alpha? I am of course assuming these women are out of your social circle and haven't seen the you who was plugged in.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 06:35 AM
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Not exactly a productivity app, but Duolingo? 15 minutes a day is my target. It's easy to do, and easy to not do. I'm a perfectionist so I procrastinate a lot and (usually) never get started on projects that I know will fulfill me. Yep, it's messed up. This time around though, I said fuck it. 15 minutes a day of Duolingo, no pressure. Will see where I'm at this time next year. Shifting my focus on the process and not the final result like I normally do, which induces fear of failure (i.e becomin…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 11:15 AM
1

Nailed it.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 08:13 AM
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I live in a developing country. Imran Khan has status or social proof, as per TRP lingo. So you can't use him as an example. I'm talking about your normal SMV-aware Asian / Brown guy who enters the SMP in the West.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 06:36 AM
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Brown dude here. I'm also about 5'8", so that's not exactly ideal. I've a lot of SMV work to do before I even consider moving to the West / Europe for education. My curiosity was centered around whether or not there are certain types of western women who are actively filtering out Brown and Asian men. Also their location / age / upbringing / cultural nuances etc. Of course we can't make blanket statements, but there must be a rough trend.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 06:16 AM
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Demographically, which states in the US are most conducive to Asian and Indian men? Also, which ones are the worst?
/r/askTRP31/10/15 05:21 AM
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The article also refers to many 'career' women. They're not shit from a financial standpoint. AWALT means they want the kind of guy who doesn't want a CC riding career woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 05:19 AM
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Here's a suggestion: 10-15 minutes of Duolingo per day. Easy to do.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 08:02 AM
1

Pretty bad, depending on your consumption. Sugar raises insulin, and insulin inhibits T. The idea is to cut sugar from your diet as much as possible / eat in such a way as to avoid spikes in sugar level (avoid high glycemic index foods like white rice etc)
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 06:13 AM
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Most men, because derp derp EVIL PATRIARCHY derp derp.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 09:05 AM
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It's quite Machiavellian though.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 08:54 AM
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Makes sense. I'll be more vigilant about not eating the biscuits / sweets that my parents buy. You've also made me think about the moving out thing. I live at home (not uncommon in my culture) so my parents could feel powerful due to that. I'm also getting this nasty feeling that my dad doesn't want me to succeed so much that I won't need him at all. He's quite egoistic and a workaholic.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 06:31 PM
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Dude this is very true. Ever since I've gotten into shape, my aunt has started sending me sweets and oily savoury snacks. Even parents are buying biscuits, sweets etc. If you didn't guess by now, they're both overweight.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 06:19 PM
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I go by this principle - Never ignore criticism, and never believe praise. By the way, does the cake signify a shit test or a comfort test?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 06:16 PM
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This girl sounds like trash. Plate material at best, nothing more. This is what you could have done differently. a) Could've been a simple walk around the block or in a park b) If you're doing a movie / cafe type thing, get her to pay for transportation and pick a venue (say X) close to your home but make it seem like you have to travel as much as her. Let's say you live near X, and she lives in A. Let's assume A and X aren't too far away. Maybe a 20 minute drive. Now act like you live in B and …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 04:21 AM
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I'm glad to hear that, buddy. Keep on trucking. I've got miles to go, but I enjoy learning and improving these days.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 12:53 PM
1

The older they get, the more annoying they become. There's this girl I see on the running track every day. She must be late 20s / 30. HB5 at best. Always on the phone gossiping about stuff while she walks. I just get the impression she's toxic. Like, bitch, I don't want anything to do with you. I do wonder sometimes if she's married to some chump. She does seem like one of those bitter chicks men aren't committing to.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 10:53 AM
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"Kobe cheated right? That relationship should've been over right there. Why did she hang around like some jaded cop waiting for her pension? Get that 10 years in." :D
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 10:28 AM
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That's stupid. He's only a BB if he's spending that money on a girl.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 10:27 AM
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Those aren't normal at all. Art of Manliness website had a series of articles on T, check it out. The T range you find in clinics is an absolute joke because 90 year olds test for their T levels alongside virile bodybuilders. What you need to be aware of and pay attention to are what your T levels need to look like FOR YOUR AGE. Art of Manliness has a useful chart in this regard. I got mine checked last year (mid twenties here) and total T was 570. I want something closer to 800. What I've come …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 05:37 AM
2

Read Archwinger's post titled "Focus on you first..."
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 04:19 AM
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Got it. It's titled "Focus on you first..."
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 04:19 AM
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Discipline -> action. Action -> competence. Competence and the feeling that you're getting good at something, because you'll start to see results = confidence.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 04:04 AM
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Exercise every day (Better than any fucking pill. Why? Because for as long as you have 2 functioning legs, you can run. How long will you keep popping pills? A month? A year? 2 years?) Clean up your diet. Sugar kills testosterone. Get rid of all social media. Facebook especially; it's full of validation seekers. Start reading books like The Slight Edge, The Compound Effect etc and understand that success and leadership are grown / cultivated organically, on a daily basis. This was absolutely hug…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 04:00 AM
3

I broke a 1 week streak. Let's get back on the wagon!
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 03:43 AM
0

Stop hamstering. Marriage is the highest form of commitment. Think of it this way - TRP vociferously preaches not getting married. Why do they not preach 'no LTR'? Because going by your 'logic', they should, right? Cos according to you, LTR > marriage. I've never seen TRP unanimously proscribe LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 08:19 AM
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2 male shit tests I could think of - Sex on the first date - is she a slut who has little to no value and therefore needs to throw the V card into the ring in round 1 itself? Live frugally / don't spend money on her - weeds out the gold diggers.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 08:11 AM
2

Never have truer words been spoken.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 08:03 AM
2

Check this out. http://www.thecompoundeffect.com/downloads/english-weekly_rhythm_register.pdf
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 06:00 AM
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"Success is what you attract by the person you become." - Jim Rohn Good post.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 09:16 AM
2

Only bitches bitch about feminist bitches bitching about the 'evil' patriarchy.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 09:05 AM
2

Got a link? Couldn't find his channel / video. PM me if links aren't allowed here.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 03:46 AM
1

You mentioned NoFap. Have an upvote. It seems eggs yolks play an important role in boosting T levels.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 06:13 AM
1

Won't cooking the eggs take away from their nutritional value? In what form do you eat said cooked eggs? Omelette?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 06:11 AM
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Seriously creative stuff this, OmLaLa. One of the biggest RP lessons about the women we should all avoid, is, in fact, right at the beginning :- Bella didn’t quite know how farming worked, but she didn’t too much care. She was happy just eating the "fruits" of his labor.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 09:04 AM
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I really have a lot of problems with the red pill. Then don't check out the red pill. Simple.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 06:14 AM
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Nah, just admit you're clueless and are fibbing here. The reason you never got affected by P is you didn't grow up on today's crazy, HD porn. If you are actually old, as your username seems to suggest, you probably started jerking it to the odd Playboy or your imagination. Your brain never really got wired to porn the way an adolescent's brain does TODAY. I didn't make any of this up, the science is out there. Not only are you hopelessly wrong, you're also being surprisingly stubborn about it. I…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 09:37 AM
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You pay for your portion, she pays for hers. Splitting the bill is a good rule of thumb but not ideal if her share is greater than yours. For example the bill is $80, but her share is 60 and yours is 20. Say you just had something to eat and she had a lot to drink. Why, in such a scenario, must you pay 40? It makes you BBish. Ironically, she'll be more attracted to you if she pays for the whole thing because she'll learn to associate you with something of value (money). "The man should pay" is a…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 09:21 AM
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Very true. This should be one of the core tenets of LTR game. How do you respond to a shit test along the lines of "you don't care about me"? Clearly, if you go "no honey, I do care about you", you've basically failed the shit test. Right?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 08:27 AM
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Yup. Good analogy. It's a cash outflow, not an asset. Where do you draw the line though? If you're in a LTR and your OpEx is low, she'll know you don't care enough and leave. If you turn into a uxorious BB, she'll get disgusted and leave. How do you balance it? Is there a sweet spot somewhere in the middle? Push and pull?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 08:05 AM
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To build on this further, when I try to picture Chad, I think of a guy who peaks early in life and fizzles out as he gets older, largely due to not being RP-aware. Chad could very well be that dude who had a blast in his youth but is bald, has a beer belly and an unsatisfying marriage at 35. A guy who lives and breathes RP sure as hell won't compromise on fitness etc even when he's 50. Chad could, and probably has.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 10:24 PM
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Rollo wrote a post worth checking out on this subject. It's called The Pheromonal Beta. I strongly advocate NoFap.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 06:04 PM
1

Nice explanation. I assume the women you're talking about have hit / are nearing the Wall. If they're still in their youth, I imagine they wouldn't be thinking about commitment.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 04:41 AM
2

"At least your eyesight is fine"
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 04:05 AM
1

This is awesome. Abundance mentality, gents.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 08:57 AM
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It's right on the front page dude.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 05:39 AM
2

Other recommendations:- Compound Effect by Darren Hardy Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 03:42 AM
1

Your best years are ahead of you.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 09:41 AM
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They cause each other stress when none should exist. This. They just have to keep bitching and whining about everything under the sun. I would rather be alone than be with some stupid, querulous time ho who adds nothing constructive to my life.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 08:13 AM
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Yes, and something tells me that they're the ones who would be more bitter about not getting married and having children.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 07:14 AM
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In the Chad-won't-commit-to-her sense, yes, you could call it 'settling'. In reality though, the BB she 'settles' with will be providing for her lifestyle, so she still wins. Right? BTW, I hate both the word and the idea of 'settling' down.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 07:10 AM
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Hypergamous career women should get used to living with cats and dogs.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 06:35 AM
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Pretty much. Most women are no competition for a man who realizes the need to improve and does so consistently. It's not even close. It's almost as if we're driven differently. :shock: :horror:
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 06:24 AM
1

I got a sweet deal on that book so bought it. Will dig in at some point. Currently reading The Compound Effect, which is great.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 06:17 AM
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Looking forward to it. One thing I've noticed ever since I discovered TRP / self-improvement is I'm becoming highly selective when it comes to entertainment. I want to watch movies that actually carry a real message. So, less Transformers / GI Joe and more Limitless etc. You get the drift.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 10:38 AM
2

Exactly. It isn't even a Pyrrhic victory; it's a defeat.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 09:19 AM
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Glad to hear you're out of it. Enjoy your freedom dude.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 06:17 AM
2

No. MGTOW is like TRP except the self-improvement / SMV raising / plate spinning is optional. So a single 33 year old dude who lives in a small apartment and spends whatever free time he has on porn, junk food and mindless internet browsing may proudly call himself 'MGTOW', but in reality he has low SMV and is therefore not alpha when seen through the prism of TRP. It's male hamstering. Whereas TRP is all about raising SMV.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 10:09 AM
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Same shit, different dlay.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 06:42 AM
2

Sounds awesome. I think it comes down to how much you value money. I find it hard to picture myself being anything other than frugal, but maybe that's a combination of an underlying psychological problem related to my self-esteem / future earning capability / potential / ambition and general philosophy of minimalism. For now, I'm frugal by choice. Live with my family and spend anything between 10-30% of my salary which isn't great, admittedly, but it's more than enough for a guy my age who doesn…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 05:12 AM
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I have a couple of questions regarding NY specifically - How much would an Associate at Goldman or Morgan Stanley be earning? Before and after taxes. How much can a single guy expect to spend per month if he were to live frugally?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 04:47 AM
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It's extremely plausible the brother's doormat behaviour doesn't appear low value to her (yet) Yeah, this is spot on. Except he doesn't seem to be your typical doormat. Dude's in great shape. When I see the phrase BB, I automatically picture an unfit dude for some reason.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 05:57 PM
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Well there you have it. So, to conclude - Your sister is in good shape, smart, has little to no psychological issues, all of which combine to make her serious LTR material. The dude is physically attractive. 14% BF is amazing and something I'd kill for. She did mention a while back that she would never date him if he lost his looks. ..thus validating one of the fundamental truths of attraction - looks and physique play a big role. We're subconsciously selecting for it, as much as we may like to …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 10:44 AM
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A combination of factors, a couple of which are :- Girls who are LTR worthy usually come from good, stable homes and that seems to be the case here. I'm going to give you the benefit of that doubt. Her BF may have certain qualities or skills that she likes. He could be a good writer / blogger / musician etc. How's the relationship between your sister and your parents? Is she religious?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:57 AM
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Women have different standards for different guys. Understand and internalize the AF/ BB dichotomy.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:15 AM
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I still enjoy watching a good game, but gone are the days where my emotional state was effected based on the outcome of a sports team. Man. This is very, very true. I still like the football club I support and watch their games, it's just that their results don't matter much on an emotional level these days. While getting older and them not being the best team in their league have played a part, I feel the major reason is not settling for vicarious enjoyment. I want to be a direct participant. I…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 05:19 AM
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They don't want to date/fuck the "alpha cock" who learned how to be alpha from a few books, a few forums, and trial and error. They want Chad Thundercock. This is quite true, but a random female can't have any way of knowing you were beta at some point. Unless you have some unresolved psychological issues that manifest themselves in non-verbal communication / behavior / conversation. I'd still pick being RP aware over being a natural alpha because in the former case you're not oblivious to the f…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 05:29 AM
1

Whatever works for you. It is quite nuanced after all.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:47 PM
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This. She's making sure she's locking down the best (read: wealthiest) beta she can. RP has helped me read women better. When they say things like "I could totally see myself being with this guy for the rest of my life" or "he's the complete package", it's girl talk for "I've found my thirsty, subservient beta". The dichotomous AF/BB female mating strategy is universal.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:50 AM
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Quality write-up. Once a good habit gets locked into your system, doing it every day is way easier than not. I get quite uncomfortable if I don't exercise these days. Same goes for food - I've cut out a lot of shit I wouldn't have thought twice about eating a couple of years ago - stuff like pizzas, burgers, fries, candy, cake, cookies. Oh and teetotal too because I read somewhere that beer = fat = estrogen = reduction in T levels. No bueno.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 05:33 AM
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being unhealthy has the advantage of enjoying food and other stuff like cigarettes but has the disadvantage of being, well, unhealthy. Fuck that defeatist beta attitude. There is absolutely NO advantage to being unhealthy / unfit.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 05:23 AM
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"I don't wanna be a product of my environment, I want my environment to be a product of me."
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 04:59 AM
2

You're absolutely right in that 'what makes an alpha' isn't a contract with a certain number of clauses that need to be read / internalized. The post is a great one though, and offers a lot of food for thought for any guy who wants to change for the better. It's more than enough for a starting point.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 04:14 AM
0

So what's it like for Indians and other minorities in the West?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:44 AM
0

Day 30: I got 7 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 02:23 AM
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Day 29: I got 8 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:59 AM
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Day 28: I got 7 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:36 AM
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Day 27: I got 7 hours of sleep. Made the mistake of sitting on the comp for about half an hour before I slept.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 03:52 AM
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Saving this for when I'm high value enough to enter the world of Tinder. This played out almost perfectly, man. Great work. Some gold in there :- "Please treat me like a human being" Translation: I want sex, but I don't want to be judged as a slut. "What do you do for work?" Translation: She's attempting to evaluate your BB potential.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 03:51 AM
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Day 26: I got 7.5 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 03:25 AM
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Day 25: I got 8 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 07:56 AM
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Day 24: I got 6.5 hours of sleep, but feel fresher than I ought to, for some strange reason.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 03:15 AM
1

Day 23: I got 7 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 02:58 AM
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Day 22: I got 6.5 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 03:27 AM
1

Then you should read it. The exercises are introspective in nature - the author asks nice guys to recount what made them nice guys, how they can change their paradigms etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 03:25 AM
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Stay the fuck away from porn and masturbation (shout out to my NoFap bros). Read a vocabulary book so I can get some word power. Do some research on fitness, nutrition, muscle building. Read 30 pages of No More Mr. Nice Guy and do the relevant exercises there. Push myself even harder on the running track.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 03:17 PM
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Day 21: I got 7.5 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 06:56 AM
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"If there's one thing I have against the black chappies, it's this : no one gives it to you, you have to take it."
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 01:33 PM
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Head over to AskMen and search '32 Indian' within the sub. My link was deleted for some reason.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 12:31 PM
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Head over to AskMen and search '32 Indian' within the sub. My link was deleted for some reason.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 12:31 PM
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Absolutely. The other day, I was reading the now (in)famous post made by a 32 year old Indian post-wall CC riding slut asking for marriage advice. The cognitive dissonance in her post was astounding. That level of mental gymnastics, only a woman is capable of.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 11:37 AM
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Nailed it perfectly. Thirsty BP conditioned men who should ideally move on from a girl who says "you're a nice guy, I like you" won't. They're led to believe that that's a compliment / will get them laid. The reality is anything but. I'd even go to the extent of saying that in most cases, 'like' and 'attracted to' are almost mutually exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 11:33 AM
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Day 20: I got 7 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 02:54 AM
1

Day 19: I got 8 hours of sleep. Went to bed at 10:45 PM and woke up at 7 AM.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 03:53 AM
1

Day 18: I got 4 hours of sleep. Late night football game. I feel like a zombie today.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:13 AM
1

Day 17: I got 6 hours of sleep. Went to bed at 12.30 AM and woke up at 7 AM.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 03:41 AM
1

Day 16: I got 6.5 hours of sleep. Went to bed at 12 AM and woke up at 6.45 AM.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 03:36 AM
1

Day 15: I got 8 hours of sleep. Went to bed at 10.30 PM and woke up at 7 AM.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 02:39 AM
2

What a band. Pendulous Skin is Pink Floyd-like in its brilliance!
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 08:51 AM
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No. Men marrying upward is very rare. Men almost always have to settle for a woman who doesn't bring as much to the table in terms of character, personality, values etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 05:06 AM
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Good post. What's your take on this - let's say Mr. Prom King (PK) is MGTOW-ish, has a boring day job and makes 40k per annum. Basically, he has enough for just himself. A post-wall CC rider who gets the tingles from PK won't marry him right? How do you see that playing out? She marries a BB but fucks PK on the side? Or delays her marriage for as long as PK hops in bed with her?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 04:57 AM
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Hey there, I'm from India and here's how I see it. Families that belong to the lower middle class and below would be fairly patriarchal. Clear gender roles and all that. From this stage and upwards, you can start applying TRP to India. Middle class girls (who manage to get educated enough to hold down, say, a call centre job or something better) will seek upper class guys. Upper class girls don't need money, they've got daddy for that. So they'll seek alpha (and co-incidentally rich) guys or whi…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 04:49 AM
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Day 14: I got 7.5 hours of sleep. Went to bed at 10.15 PM and woke up at 6 AM. I've noticed these past few days I wake up multiple times in the middle of the night.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 03:45 AM
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This. I'm a highly situational ambivert. Introverted by default though. I feel like I need to learn how to make small talk and keep a conversation going. I read somewhere that the best way to do this is to use threads. Like if you're talking about travelling in Europe, there are two threads there. Travel and Europe.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:15 AM
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Are you MGTOW? I agree, by the way.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:07 AM
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Day 13: I got 7 hours of sleep... ...but it wasn't very good, quality wise. I woke up 4-5 times in the middle of the night.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:52 AM
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Day 12: I got 6.5 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:53 AM
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South Indian here, I know exactly what you mean. Our challenge lies in getting stronger, being more assertive, less beta etc. You really do learn a lot of truths about Indian culture when you try to transition from beta to alpha. My family would love for me to be blue pill throughout life and marry a 'nice girl' some day. I don't want to. Possibly ever.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:28 AM
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Does this apply to traditionally raised Indian girls back in India? As an Indian, this was my first thought too. However, it's at this point that we have to draw a clear line between behavior and innate biological nature. Behavior is a product of upbringing, social conditioning etc. Nature is who you are, and AWALT, by nature. Having said that, I think families that belong to the lower middle class and below would be fairly patriarchal. Clear gender roles and all that. From this stage onwards, I…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:16 AM
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making thousands of dollars a day Are you a professional athlete / actor?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 05:31 AM
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one of those skinny little runner types who have low bodyfat but no muscle You described me to a T there. I'm about 5' 8" and weigh 66-67 kg. The one thing that keeps me from re-joining the gym is I'm a vegetarian. Maybe it's a mental block, but I feel no matter what I eat, I won't get the amount of protein that's justifiably required after you pump the iron. Also, I absolutely love the endorphin 'high' from running. What do I do?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 05:25 AM
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Day 11: I got 7.5 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:45 AM
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Day 10: I got 6 hours of sleep. Got to catch up tonight.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 04:14 AM
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Day 9: I got 7.5 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 03:12 AM
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Day 8: I got 7.5 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 03:30 AM
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Day 7: I got 7.5 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 07:57 AM
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Nice little nugget of wisdom, this.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:06 AM
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Day 6: I got 8 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:19 AM
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This is one of the reasons why I'm noFapping.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:01 AM
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I've always wondered about this dichotomy too. I guess life's ultimate challenge is transmuting / sublimating our libido because there will come a time when we realize we can't get laid all the time and that most people on this planet don't actually want to get with us (for whatever reason). Mark Manson explains it well in Models.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:28 AM
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Day 5: I got 8 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 03:40 AM
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Day 4: I got 7 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 06:48 AM
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So am I right in thinking that MGTOW = TRP + no marriage (and kids), ever? Nice explanation man, I'm all for this.
/r/MGTOW03/08/15 09:06 AM
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Day 3: I got 7 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 01:57 AM
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Day 2: I got 6.5 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:42 AM
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Day 1: I got 7.5 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 03:09 AM
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davemustaine13 will take part in this challenge!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:34 AM
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Where are you from and how are the laws there? As for your question, it depends. If you're well groomed and educated, women don't mind you approaching them. At least the ones above a certain socio-economic class. The majority of the country is still orthodox, so I imagine women have been instructed to be unconditionally skeptical of strangers.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 12:46 PM
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When I was in my late teens / early twenties, I would look at other guys who were hanging out with girls and feel like I was missing out on something (have always been a lone wolf for the twenty something years I've been on this planet). Now that I'm unplugged, I realize a lot of guys in my country (India) are actually beta orbiters. In fact, I feel kind of relieved I never wasted time on pointless hangouts / stupid road trips / getting drunk for no reason / being some (any) girl's emotional tam…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 09:26 AM
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I've never heard of her but I think I like her already.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 03:01 PM
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I can tell you've read Models. Currently reading it; it's an eye opener.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 10:11 AM
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No. Orbiters are the kind who would stay silent when she's BSing, shower her with attention, readily hang out with her when he's had a rough day, are non-confrontational etc. If you're an integrated male, the above mentioned things won't be the usual norm when you're interacting with her. Having said all this, I feel men shouldn't be interacting much with women. Least of all on social media. Never 'like' her FB photos etc. You're better off doing monk mode, hanging out with like minded guys who …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 10:00 AM
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Do you not see it as less competition?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 08:43 AM
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I would've been slightly offended with that if I had like a 5 inch dick, but I'm not. It's all good man. :P
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 10:00 AM
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..which is one of the top posts on the TRP women sub. It's the damn truth. Essentially, women have to work towards offering something more than just their snatch, and men have to work towards offering something more than just their resources.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 09:29 AM
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This. This, so fucking much. If I could upvote you a hundred times, I would. There are so many women today who think all they have to do is show up in a man's life and he'll do anything for them. Where I come from, unfortunately, a lot of men are sexually frustrated so they end up committing to these gold diggers.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 09:27 AM
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Simple explanation [since I'm an Asian guy, I can be objective about this] : Asian girls who end up in the US for higher education / work are almost always upper middle class or rich. They grow up fetishizing anything that's white cos of pop culture, tv shows, Hollywood. So a supposedly demure Indian girl who acts like she's the best thing since sliced butter prior to putting out with an Indian guy will more than happily do her best to satisfy the average white guy. That's the power of perceptio…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 08:53 AM
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Yep, I'm Asian [and fairly well to do] so this is perhaps the most sensible dating / marriage strategy for guys here. You can screen for superficial, gold-digging cunts.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 05:53 AM
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Just got to this part in the book; it's scarily accurate. Have an upvote, man.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 11:23 AM
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Makes sense. Shouldn't they be receptive too though?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 08:55 AM
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Great post. What is the solution then? I see two :- a. Spin plates (if you can) and stay unmarried b. Find a grounded woman who wasn't pampered in her childhood and youth. What are your thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 08:39 AM
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Super-like! Especially the last sentence.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 07:20 AM
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So can we say SMV lies in the eyes of the beholder?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 11:51 AM
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Very succinctly put. I'll remember this for life.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 11:39 AM
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This. Fucking this. I've gotten a few compliments on my weight loss lately (was at 158 lbs, dropped to 145). Initially whatever little validation I received through those compliments felt good. Then it hit me like a freight train one fine day. Those people actually want me to slack off. I'm exposing an aspect of their lives that they likely can't process in a healthy manner. It shouldn't surprise you that they're all well over-weight, and probably will be for the rest of their days.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 08:48 AM
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