| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 20 | Women seem into it then suddenly not | Escalation & Calibration | david-lee-roth- | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 04:44 PM |
| 12 | Did it old school and it worked | Field Report | david-lee-roth- | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 05:25 AM |
| 8 | Have you tried many different seduction styles? If so which was best? | Outer Game | david-lee-roth- | /r/seduction | 01/09/25 04:09 AM |
| 7 | How to deal with these types of women while dating | Outer Game | david-lee-roth- | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 05:07 AM |
| 6 | First date convo | Fundamentals | david-lee-roth- | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Friend zoned | Escalation & Calibration | david-lee-roth- | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 01:41 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Controversial: It’s fine to text back immediatelyIt’s ok to text back right away as long as you don’t seem clingy and desperate. You have to give the vibe “if you don’t text back. That’s fine… whatever” | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 10:37 PM |
| 1 | I keep hearing stories of guys on dating apps getting a girl to come over directly to their place and having sex, how do you do this?You pay for it. | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Should I re-shoot my shot with a girl from Hinge who ghosted?I see where you’re going but IMO it’s a waste of time. Better to walk away and find someone 100% interested. | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 05:30 PM |
| 5 | Should I re-shoot my shot with a girl from Hinge who ghosted?I’d say keep your dignity. 99.99% chance She’s gonna diss you | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Is paying Tinder worth it?Not till you’re close to 50yrs old. The algorithm…. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 04:40 AM |
| 1 | What do girls find attractive in men? What turns them on?Sadly how they view your Status, maybe #1. Could be money but not always. Could just be the leader in a fool band. Or a talented athlete or really smart ect…. Also you’d be surprised how many women give out looks when you’re with other women. Especially someone hot. I noticed this as early as highshool Had a crush a few hot chicks. No interest. As soon as I got a hot gf they’re giving me all the attention. We break up… gone. Still true today at 45 | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Going to Japan but there is one little thing I’m concerned about……Not one night stands. I did but went on a bunch of dates with one and had to kinda commit. Was ok though. She was chill. | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How Attraction Works - What Actually Attracts WomenNo thanks | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 06:12 PM |
| 4 | How Attraction Works - What Actually Attracts WomenLooks are the first thing they notice. It’s number 1. You can definitely bomb after that and ugly guys can pull chicks if they’re REALLY good at everything else but looks are #1. | /r/seduction | 01/08/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce a man?Be hot, say hi. | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene?So you just want a picture of my gf’s body on the internet? Great idea! | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene?A pic of my gf on Reddit….. great idea! Totally normal and not sketchy at all. Want my address and bank account info too? | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene?I met her this way and she’s super hot. So either you’re wrong or haven’t been doing it right. Which one is it? | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 11:27 PM |
| 5 | Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene?Models style works but only on certain women in certain situations. In short it just means being super open and saying the obvious that everybody is scared to say (without being creepy). It shows confidence and creates a sense of trust but curiosity with the women. My gf right me is hot af and super nice. I met her this way. However, many chicks can find it “this guy is sharing too much”. Overall, I’d say it’s worth a shot | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Instagram Story Strategy for Dating: What Actually WorksThis is creep level obsessive with getting chicks. Just put trains in a situation where there’s a lot of single women and talk to them. | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Continue with one last shot? Or abandonEither lost interest of has a bf. Stop contact immediately. It will actually better your chances anyways | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 03:25 AM |
| 1 | What are my chances of me catching herpes from this girl1-5 women have it. Gets bigger the older you are. If you slept with more than five women without a condom, then the chances are….. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?If he wants to he might try. Tell him that you want to wait. If I was invited over like that I workmen’s expect it per say but I’d assume there’s a good chance | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Break up with a girl for the game?Sounds like you don’t want a relationship. Eventually the PUA thing might leave you feeling empty and lonely. Might….lol Until then I’d avoid serious relationships. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 02:36 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with these types of women while datingNice comeback. | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 06:27 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with these types of women while datingUr Still bugging?…..bro | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 12:35 AM |
| 10 | Keep getting ghosted after messaging girls I met at a club/barThey like the idea of getting the number. It’s just attention they seek. You’ll get one eventually. Or just close that night. At a bar/club the mystery method thing is your best bet. Remember, most of these chicks are shallow and not long term gf material anyways. Every time one doesn’t message you dodged a bullet | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 05:01 PM |
| 1 | If you are asking out a girl who is your friend for let’s say coffee, should you explicitly mention it’s a date or nah?It won’t save you time? | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 03:51 AM |
| -2 | If you are asking out a girl who is your friend for let’s say coffee, should you explicitly mention it’s a date or nah?If you like her just tell her. It will save you time | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Not replying after giving you her numberHappens all the time. Just move on ASAP. sometimes if they write back late I either don’t answer or match their energy. If I really feel like they led me on I say something like “I forgot I texted you. lol” which seems kinda mean but believe it or not it’s got them interested a few times. | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 01:56 PM |
| -5 | JUST FUCKING TALK TO HERWhy would you say “hi my name is” then wait for her to ask for your name as approval? Chat GPT or really dumb? | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try.Exactly | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try.Yes | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try.If she leaves. Who’s to say she won’t leave you too. That means she’s a shitty gf | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 06:03 PM |
| 5 | I still want to steal her, help me seduce her or at least try.How would you act if some dude was doing that to your girl. Stop being a bad person. Fix your issues and find one without a bf. It’s not that hard. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | lol I asked ChatGPT to give a plan on meeting women. It gave me this...Basically. Be interesting, nice, outgoing, not desperate. Put yourself in situations where you’re around a lot of single women. I coulda told you that! | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Seeing many stories where a girl cheats on her boyfriend with her EX, what qualities/traits could the EX have? What kind of emotion does he invoke in the girl?They never got over the ex and miss them. The new guy is a 2nd best option in their head. | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 02:15 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with these types of women while datingUPDATE! Weird chick indeed. The show I had free tix for got canceled. (I work as a performer on bway and get free tickets for a lot of stuff.) The performer was sick or something. She felt bad that I took off a gig to go so she said we should meet for dinner anyways. It was a nice hang, convo. I tried to move things ahead a little by doing little things like opening up to her a little and being personal. I touched her a little (not in a creepy way). After dinner right before I got on the subway … | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 05:43 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with these types of women while datingThis…… Yeah. I agree. I’ve had a lot of short flings over the years. It gets old. | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How to know if you’re attractive as a man / women what makes a man attractiveThe best way to know is to watch chick flicks and read single women’s magazines. I tell the same to women. Visa versa. They’re shocked to see all these thick slutty chicks in magazines. lol Men are shocked by the amount of guys they see that aren’t ripped and muscular. I remember watching sex in the city with my sister and saying “is this guy hot to women?!?!” She’d say “yes little bro. He’s charming, confident, interesting and dresses nice” | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with these types of women while datingI think it will increase my chances. It’s odd. I used to always have multiple women interested in me. Seem to have a dry streak recently. Until this month. Fire some reason I like this chick so I’m trying too hard. Classic…. The ones I’m not that interested in are really into me. Also classic. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with these types of women while datingYeah. You’re right. I’ll turn it off. I don’t really care that much anyways. I don’t know why I’m pretending like I do. | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 07:20 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with these types of women while datinggood point. I think I was trying to play the game too much. Maybe on Sat if I find a good time I'll say that. | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Does ethnicity and race matter?Yeah man. It’s all about the vibe and timing. You also have to get used to being turned down then saying “whatever” and moving on | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Does ethnicity and race matter?I remember I was at a bar in Manhattan. There was 2 hot chicks to my right. I was waiting to go in and give it a shot. Some super nerdy Indian dude beat me to it and worked it. Said all the right things. They loved him. It’s all about the game you got bruh | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 05:18 AM |
| 1 | How long should I wait when a girl I’m interested in doesn’t reply to my text?Don’t message if she doesn’t. Never | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 01:15 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach a woman if you don't know if you can perform sexually?Gotta get outta the rut man. I’d suggest trying new things. Take a class, new hobby, etc. something social | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 03:17 PM |
| 3 | How do you approach a woman if you don't know if you can perform sexually?Sounds like nerves. It’s not physical. Find a woman that you can take it slow with. Hug, kiss, make out. Work your way up. Tell her you get nervous. She’ll think it’s cute you’re being vulnerable. Oh yeah and stop wasting your money on hookers. I bet it’s just making things worse. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | How do I become someone more memorable to men?Get them to open up and share something vulnerable with you. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 07:56 PM |
| 18 | How do you approach a woman if you don't know if you can perform sexually?Highly possible you can’t get it up cause it’s a sex worker. That sounds stressful | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Inviting a girl to your place within the first 3 dates?Just ask but follow with something like “no pressure of course” | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Experiences with very attractive women. Is it even worth approaching them?In short. If you’re confident, Don’t act nervous, don’t act desperate or needy, don’t tell her how beautiful she is, act like you’re the catch, pull away a little, make her think you’re not that impressed by her looks then she will be at least intrigued. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:25 AM |
| 10 | Girl ghosted me after a perfect date (full story)Rebound is my best bet. I’ve seen this before. Sometimes they admit it. Sometimes they ghost. All good bro. You dodged a bullet. Just forget about it. She’ll either get back with her ex or she won’t and she’ll be thinking about how she screwed up with you. | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 07:53 AM |
| 3 | What I wish guys knew about cold approachingYou’re right. You have to be ok with being rejected if you’re cold approaching. I just shrug it off and say nice to meet you | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them?Default is do not do that! People want what they can’t have. Human nature. There’s a few instances where it works but only if you’ve won them over first. Maybe remove the word “really “ | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 06:46 PM |
| 7 | What’s your best openers in person and on text“Hi. I have a shit ton of money and want to spend it on a woman. You down?” | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Discovered my boyfriend is lurking here—send advice (or wine).Look at the comments and posts. Just looking Isn’t “illegal” | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 06:34 AM |
| 6 | do women prefer if a man is super jealous if another man is hitting on her and gets defensive or is that a turn off to her?A guy hitting in your date who doesn’t know better is fine. If she’s playing along with it and exchanging number or whatever. It’s not ok. I personally don’t get jealous. I just diss them | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 06:24 AM |
| 1 | With which intention do girls go on a date?They want to be swept off their feet. They all take this in different ways. Some want a mysterious guy. Some what straightforward and bold. Summer just looking for a guy that has a lot of money and dresses nice. But I really think they’re looking for someone to shock them even if they don’t know it. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 06:10 AM |
| 2 | I fucked one up pretty badly. Age shit test?“It sounds like you like me.” | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Women seem into it then suddenly notyou're both right. I've been chatting with her and shes super into it. I think it was lost in translation. She was waiting for me to do all the moves. | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Women seem into it then suddenly notyeah, theres a part of me that thinks it's a lost in translation thing. I live in NYC so lots of the women I date are from other countries. some easier than others. I guess I don't really care that much so that's how I'll act | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Women seem into it then suddenly notLol | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Women seem into it then suddenly notTrue. She did tell me a scary story about a stalker guy she met on an app that wouldn’t leave her alone. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Women seem into it then suddenly notI feel ya. Don’t worry. I’m not invested. More annoyed. Honestly, I already know we wouldn’t really work out. Just annoyed that someone acts super interested then don’t follow up. Wack | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Women seem into it then suddenly notShe def didn’t want to “bang”. Obvious for many reasons. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Women seem into it then suddenly nottrue. yeah, ill do that move. I'm not that invested. Just annoyed/frustrated. I have a bunch of other chicks interested but they're boring | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 07:54 PM |
| 6 | Women seem into it then suddenly notUPDATE now I think she's a scammer or just out there mentally. Chick just messaged "I added you on Whatapp btw" Weirdo! I may follow just for fun but she sounds odd. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Women seem into it then suddenly notI boned your mom and she said I was Alpha. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Women seem into it then suddenly notI get all this. truth. I prob should said or wrote. "Maybe we can hang again in a week or so." Like you said. Hard to say. I bet if I don't message at all I'll hear from her. so I'll do that. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Women seem into it then suddenly notha ha. I play guitar of course. well.... there was rock of ages.... | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Women seem into it then suddenly notall true. however I play bway shows for 90% of my income. the tour was a rare thing and I told her that so I doubt it's that. you never know though. Maybe she's skeptical. You're right. just keep fishing and care less about one pretty big fish that you can't reel in for some reason. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 05:02 PM |
| 11 | Women seem into it then suddenly notvery true. serial daters is popular in NYC. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Women seem into it then suddenly notgood advise! | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Hitting on a cute Chinese girl in the gymShe waved and smiled. Just go up and say “hi, how’s going. Figured I’d say hi cause I see you here all the time”. Then talk like a normal person. Pretend like she might be wack and crazy af and you’re trying to see if she’s right for you. Will give you confidence. Don’t care if she rejects you. If she does who cares. Better than getting in a relationship with an annoying chick or not saying hi. If you just wave and smile forever she’ll think you’re weird | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?Wtf | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?It can work but it takes more time. Adding 2 steps by using an app. Swiping and meeting. In real life you skip those 2. I know a lot of people that clean up on. Same game. Different rules | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 09:11 PM |
| 2 | How often do your dating app matches actually lead anywhere?Meet them all the time but usually goes down hi from there. Either I’m not into them or visa versa | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Constantly getting ghosted after sex.Sounds like they just wanna bang. Maybe deep down they don’t want a relationship but like the idea of being swept off their feet. Change their mind as soon as it gets real. If they’re super hot you can be sure they have like 20dudes hitting on them all the time. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Constantly getting ghosted after sex.You’re likely finding people that just wanna have sex with you. Are you really attractive? Do you have sexual features they’re looking for? Are they player types? Maybe slow it down a little if you want? Get to know them first. save sex till you really like them. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 05:11 AM |
| 6 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?I’m great at the first impression but either I or they often lose interest after 2/3 dates. I can fake it if I just wanna get laid but that gets old. I seem to attract clingy types. | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 03:52 AM |
| 6 | What do you do when the idea of a tinder date gets shot downHappens all the time. Sometimes it’s your fault. Sometimes the chick is mental. There’s some crazy people out there. Was just messaging with some chick on hinge. She’s writing long messages all day. I made a joke at her liking fast food and she pulled back immediately. She made up some fairly tale in her head I was Prince Charming. No loss. I knew she was crazy. Don’t waste your time. Move on | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Friend zonedYou don’t have any friends? Lol | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Friend zonedThat’s true. I’m a workaholic so I’m always in Times Square. I’ll make an effort to try and kick game downtown more. Going on tour in a week. My plan is to hit it hard on tour. Lol | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Friend zonedDef not ready for that. lol Yeah. I think you’re right. Dating multiple dudes. It’s likely that open the app and have 10 new messages everyday | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.Yeah. Walk up crying and say “hi, I’m bipolar” then go into a 45min story about being bipolar. Just like mystery said. | /r/seduction | 21/06/24 03:23 AM |
| 141 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.I always cry and tell them I’m bipolar on first meeting. That’s usually how I approach women. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 11:45 PM |
| 7 | How to respond to low effort/boring/vague messages?If they start doing the one word answer thing I just assume the messages are going nowhere so I ask if they wanna hang out. Usually they don’t answer and you’ve saved time! (Win) If they agree then you have the power and choose whether you want to or not (win) Ex. -This is app is so weird. People are crazy! - lol. Yes. - do anything fun this weekend. I went to a friends wedding upstate. Beautiful! - yeah, fun -that nice. Good to enjoy totals sometimes -yes -(after waiting awhile) want to meet in… | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Can it take a while for a girl to warm up to you?From my experience too many dates that don’t go anywhere end In friend zone or, they have someone else they’re interested in or they’re not trusting and even when you do get them it’s a mess. It should be moving fwd. if it doesn’t just go somewhere else. Waste of time | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 10:19 PM |
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