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The women's expectation of "simp" behavior is not a demand for true equality; it’s a demand for guaranteed provision. They expect men to prioritize their ego by catering to them. This shows that women fundamentally believe their value is conditional—it is only valid when measured against the resources and devotion provided by the male figure. The moment a man acts like an equal adult, he challenges the entire fragile system of female entitlement. The women react with outrage because they realize…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:29 AM
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The human element here trumps the gender element. Whether it’s a man or a woman, any individual who benefits from a situation without lifting a finger will fight tooth and nail to justify that convenience as a "preference" or a "feeling." The fact is, women have historically benefited from a social structure that allowed them access to resources (time, money, social capital) that men are often expected to provide. When a woman says, "It’s not my job," she is simply saying, "It is easier for you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:55 PM
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The reason these examples are brought up is to prove that men are just as violent, which feminists use as evidence that their suffering is equally valid. But this is a classic case of feminist narcissism: they want you to believe that men are not only victims but also perpetrators, so that the narrative can continue to be about "the battle for equality" without ever addressing the deeper structural issue of how gender roles are assigned and enforced. The real issue isn’t whether men suffer equal…
/r/MensRights31/07/26 10:45 PM
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When institutions like the police disproportionately target and arrest men in disputes, when male participation in fields is penalized, and when government resources are prioritized for women-centric causes (like aid to Ukraine), it’s not coincidence—it’s a deliberate exclusion. Men are being taxed out of their existence, both literally and figuratively, because they occupy the default position of the established power structure. The argument that men benefit at the expense of women is simplisti…
/r/MensRights31/07/26 06:34 PM
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The concern that telling women and girls the "truth" might hurt them—leading them to regret choices like transition because they were never told about men's realities—is valid, but the resulting harm is twofold: A. Harm to Women: It creates a dependency on validation. If women internalize the idea that their struggles are primary or that their specific pains (e.g., being judged for emotion) are the most significant systemic problem, they become locked into needing feminism to define their worth …
/r/MensRights30/07/26 08:46 PM
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Feminists want accountability where it is easiest to deliver it: on the female perpetrator, but they refuse to extend that same standard of justice to the male aggressor. They want safety without relinquishing their perceived superiority. The cure for this isn't more "support"; it’s a fundamental re-evaluation of what justice means. Justice requires acknowledging all valid experiences. Until feminists move past the narrow, gynocentric worldview and recognize that men are equally subject to viole…
/r/MensRights30/07/26 08:33 PM
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A handsome man can coast on his looks, receiving superficial desire. The average man must truly build infrastructure—a career, a stable home, financial resilience. His struggle isn't about getting attention; it’s about the gap between potential and proven capacity. When women see him struggling to build that life, they often mistake his effort for deficiency. They want the outcome (the comfortable life) without appreciating the grueling, necessary work required by the average man to achieve it. …
/r/MensRights30/07/26 08:24 PM
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The core claim of the "Purple" and "Red" pill is that women should be paralyzed by the fear of male violence. If this belief were genuine—if true, overwhelming female fear of male aggression truly dictated their lives—the following behaviors would be impossibilities: The Migrant: If a woman genuinely feared male violence (a 1/4 chance of rape being a terrifying reality), she wouldn't migrate to dangerous cities for work. She would stay put where the risk is lower, or face immediate danger upon a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:48 PM

The fundamental difference lies in the nature of the rejection. Men handle rejection because their ego is often tied to action and initiative. When a man is rejected, it feels like a failure of effort or strategy—a transient annoyance that quickly dissipates because men are accustomed to the high-volume game where being rejected is simply another hurdle to clear. They move on because they prioritize forward momentum over lingering pain. Women, however, have an intrinsic need for validation and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:33 PM
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To demand "informed, meaningful, ongoing consent" is to elevate consent from a simple, practical metric (the ability to refuse) to a philosophical quest for perfect structural equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:46 PM
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The demand for "emotional intelligence" is the most insidious expectation placed on modern men. It’s often treated as an intrinsic requirement for being a good partner, when it is really just another task added to the list. Men are capable of great strength, logic, and practicality. But they don't need to be emotional geniuses to be valuable partners. The moment a man starts being judged by his "emotional intelligence" instead of his competence—instead of his ability to fix things, solve problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:32 PM
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When a woman thinks about breaking up with the father because of a new man, she isn't thinking about the kids; she's thinking about ROI (Return on Investment). She sees herself as a shrewd businesswoman, calculating that this specific package—the cute children plus an upgrade in male status or attention—is a guaranteed win. The reality is that most men view getting involved with another man’s kids as a significant emotional and logistical commitment. They see it as potential risk, not an "opport…
/r/MensRights27/07/26 11:54 PM
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This whole debate—the frantic need to “tackle online misogyny”—is a spectacular case of misplaced urgency. It’s the cultural equivalent of treating a minor skin infection as an existential plague. The issue isn't that women are uniquely more vulnerable online; the issue is that this entire preoccupation with "online misogyny" serves as an elaborate, performative distraction from the far more tangible and devastating power dynamics that persist in the real world.
/r/MensRights25/07/26 01:59 AM
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The work done by stay-at-home mothers is labor, but it is a sacrificial or foundational labor, not an industrial one. It should be respected as the primary economic engine—the unseen foundation that makes the rest of society viable—not treated as another category of specialized wage-earning skill. The solution is not to unionize this labor and demand a paycheck; the solution is for society (through a more traditional framework) to recognize that the inherent value of raising human beings is so i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:53 AM
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The dynamic you describe isn’t a cultural choice; it’s biological programming rooted in evolutionary roles. Men are fundamentally wired to seek authority, assign value, and feel validated through action and dominant opinion. Women, by contrast, are wired to observe, react emotionally, and validate their worth through relationships, and perception. Men are defined by action, dominance, judgment, and high-stakes emotional display. Women are defined by intuition, perception, connection, and the nec…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:20 PM
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The choice between a liar and a rapist isn't about moral superiority; it's a test of intellectual rigor. When they choose the lie, they are choosing to be guided by feeling instead of fact. And that’s what makes them—and their arguments—so fundamentally weak.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 09:59 PM
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This perspective is exactly what the current intellectual establishment—the Left, specifically—wants you to believe. It’s a classic maneuver: identify a problem, assign it exclusively to one group, declare that group "toxic," and hand them the solution (a menu of flaws to fix).
/r/MensRights21/07/26 06:00 PM
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Nope it isn't.Just the tiny minority of very loud women.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 12:50 PM
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4b movement is a hoax. I was in South Korea recently, and no women I spoke with had ever even heard of it.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 12:39 PM

The radicalization happens because it confirms the most painful truth: The system is rigged against inherent male value. It forces men to confront the fact that their worth isn't inherent but is transactional, conditional, and entirely dependent on meeting a set of external, highly specific standards. The frustration comes from realizing that the problem isn't how men behave; the problem is that the system itself rewards women’s experience while penalizing male existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:14 AM
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Feminists aren't sociopaths; they are reductionists. They reduce complex social realities into neat, palatable, and highly affirming categories that serve to validate their own position, rather than seeking the messy, holistic truth of universal human justice.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 06:57 AM
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This isn't a dilemma; it’s a perfect, cynical illustration of what happens when women decide to use men’s problems as a convenient shield for their own comfort. Switzerland isn't fighting for equality; it's fighting to maintain a mutually beneficial arrangement that keeps the burden squarely on the male shoulders while allowing women to feel morally superior without actually sacrificing anything of consequence. The feminists claim equality based on optional, social, or biological obligations: ho…
/r/MensRights21/07/26 01:21 AM
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It's because so many below average women want above average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:08 PM
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The "But what about women?" rhetorical question is not an inquiry; it is a deflection—a lazy attempt by the movement to keep the focus squarely on its own perceived triumphs while trivializing the genuine, pressing issues facing men. Men have systemic issues that are often quieter, less visible in the mainstream discourse, and profoundly disruptive to their sense of self and stability. When men are silenced about harassment or the pressure to perform masculinity, it isn't because they don’t have…
/r/MensRights20/07/26 11:06 PM
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The point is you see these mediocre women thinking they are good enough for highly attractive men when they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:55 PM
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This is the golden rule. When trust has been destroyed, taking on a massive, lifelong commitment (financial, emotional, parental) based on potential rather than certainty is an unacceptable risk. You are asking for the due diligence that any rational person would demand before sinking their resources into an uncertain future.
/r/MensRights20/07/26 05:56 PM
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I'm not redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:47 PM

The most critical insight here is recognizing that prison populations measure what the justice system decides to count, punish, and prioritize, not necessarily what men do more often than women. The system acts as a massive filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:59 PM
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In my experience women who complain about the lack of attractive men are themselves unattractive to men. Casual sex isn't "not worth it" because men are inadequate; it’s not worth it because your expectations are too high and your desires are too transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:51 PM
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When a man says women are "boring" because he believes men are smarter or have better hobbies, the real critique isn't about the quality of his hobbies; it's that the standard for value is inherently masculine. Women are criticizing the male domain because they feel inadequate in comparison, and they use this perceived superiority to justify their own frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:28 PM
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When women "decenter" men, they don't become indifferent; they become anxious. They replace the grounded, confident reality of a male-centered life with a neurotic need to constantly evaluate, critique, and correct the dominant force. They move from chasing validation to performing discontent. It’s a weakness! The moment a woman finds herself constantly turning to TikTok or endless complaints about men, she hasn't decentered them; she has simply replaced the masculine center of gravity with an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:01 PM
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The entire problem with "average women" is that they lack the spark of conventional beauty and instant desirability. Society wants to see attractive people because attractive people are inherently more valuable. Men understand this, average women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:42 PM

The progressive mindset demands an explanation for every reality, every inequality, every societal structure. This makes them theorists, not leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:42 PM
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You'll notice men rarely complain about double standards that don't benefit them. I wish the same was true of women.
/r/MensRights15/07/26 05:33 PM
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The fundamental reality is that men aren't selecting a partner; they are offering a stable structure and an experienced foundation. The woman’s job isn't to decide what makes her feel happy in the moment—that’s sentimental nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:13 PM
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The fact that a woman can filter out a guy based on his demonstration of "masculinity" proves the inherent value of those qualities. It proves that Masculinity is the ultimate currency. If a man cannot prove he possesses this currency, he loses. The friendzone is simply the efficient clearing out of low-value candidates who rely solely on superficial desire rather than proven capability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:55 PM
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The "Red Pill" men aren't just consumers of porn; they are sophisticated visual strategists who know that desire is the necessary first step toward achieving social dominance. They want her because she proves their superiority in choosing, and they hate the competitive pressure because it confirms their own elevated status. The man doesn't hate the fact he wants her; he hates the inefficiency of having to fight for that desire, which is proof that the prize—the woman—is worth the effort and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:50 PM
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You argue that physical attraction isn't evidence of lacking values. This ignores the fact that true value, in a traditional sense, is demonstrated through action and sustained accomplishment, not merely the momentary satisfaction of desire. Men’s lust is accepted because it leads to action—they pursue, they claim, they conquer. Women’s physical attraction is judged so harshly because it feels like an indulgence rather than an achievement. The problem isn't the attraction; the problem is allowin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:44 PM
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She has a point...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:48 PM
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I would say women in general don't hate men, just a very noisy minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:46 PM
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The evidence is that combined paid and unpaid labor results in roughly equal hours for both partners with some studies showing men actually have less free time than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:23 AM

When I was being transported to court from jail, (federal drug trafficking charges), three females were in court for some very serious child abuse charges. They all got probation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:17 PM

Women are catching up to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:15 PM
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No surprise here...
/r/MensRights05/07/26 05:02 AM

This is true. Why do people overlook this simple fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:39 PM
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We don't obviously. Otherwise there would be no fat positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:53 PM
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Then it is unfair to expect men to accept fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:44 PM
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Very few people do.
/r/MensRights02/07/26 05:46 PM

They complain that complex emotional work is exhausting, so being seen as an aesthetic object allows her to bypass that labor temporarily in her own mind... That being said, I wholeheartedly agree with this premise. The concept goes far beyond simple vanity. Objectification is not merely being viewed as an object; it is receiving external validation in the form of aesthetic perfection, sexual desirability, and immediate worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:59 AM

You are right that she is already thinking about it, but the paternity test provides the final push (or even the emotional permission) needed for her to finally decide that the relationship is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:53 AM

The "Menu" Mindset: When dating looks like online shopping, people, (mostly women) of all backgrounds begin to screen partners based on rigid, checklist-style criteria (such as exact height, specific income brackets, or even lifestyle habits) rather than core character traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:45 AM
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Claim she misheard you. Seriously.
/r/MensRights02/07/26 03:17 AM
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There are, but they are a tiny minority. Or they only claim to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:13 AM
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Oh it's coming back, don't get it twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:12 AM
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Hypergamy is very often misused around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:11 AM
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It is just as likely to do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:10 AM
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This right here...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:09 AM
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Pair bonding is what all monogamous species do. Not just humans. Read a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:09 AM
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This is Purple Pilled? This seems sort of off topic...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:07 AM
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If we did, we would have fewer social problems.
/r/MensRights01/07/26 01:54 PM

Until his talent overshadowed her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:53 PM
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Na
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:33 PM
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Agreed. Stop helping women We owe women zero. Leave them to their own devices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:31 PM
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Domestic violence is bullshit 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:30 PM
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You want civilization to fall? If you live and benefit from a society that MEN built, you havee to do your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:29 PM
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I was in South Korea when this bukkake came up. Nobody in South Korea has heard of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:26 PM
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Just ignored these idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:23 PM
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Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:23 PM
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They are inferior. The masculinization of the brain is what gives us Newton, Mozart, etc. There is a reason men have a monopoly on creativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:22 PM
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90% of domestic violence claims are false.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:21 PM
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Because they HAVE TO. I don't want them to raise kids without a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:20 PM
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Brain masculinization is the biological process by which the developing brain adopts male-typical structural and functional characteristics. Driven by testosterone surges, it programs sex-specific reproductive behaviors, neural connectivity, and hormonal regulation etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:58 PM
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Men and women are different. We don't think and perceive reality the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:54 PM
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I just learned of the term not to long ago. I didn't even know it was a thing. Seems to be a bunch of deluded men... I think the term was coined by some ugly, fat woman originally.
/r/MensRights17/06/26 05:40 AM
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Feeling desirable and truly being desirable are two different things. Honestly I don't find promiscious women desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:04 PM
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And it tends to be the most successful women who have fewest kids. This is why they are considered evolutionary mismatches and maladaptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:02 PM
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Apparently many women don't know what an average woman is either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:57 PM
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Of course he doesn't. Where does this crap come from?
/r/MensRights04/04/26 12:56 AM
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Tell that to divorce court judges.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:56 AM
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Yup. Very rarely do you hear a woman say "I need to discuss it with my husband" before spending money either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:55 AM
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Please. The wife is far more likely to manage the houses finances with the husband taking a backseat. I never hear women saying "I have to ask my husband first".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:54 AM
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Lia Thomas was average as a male swimmer. As a woman, he was the best in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:16 AM

I guess the OP believes ALL men cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:15 AM
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What irritates me are the women who claim they are having to settle because the man they were truly interested in never approached. Did it ever occur to these women that he wasn't interested? Of course not. They blame it on social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:29 PM
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Yes, introspection is not something most women do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:27 PM
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All you see on Tiktok is women bitching about men not approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:20 AM
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Good. Real men still out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:49 PM
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You're telling me you have never seen a man approach? Wow...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:37 PM
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Some women do, and these relationships are nearly always problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:13 PM
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Same point I was making. All this complaining is disingenuous as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:12 PM
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Working some of the jobs men work is also dangerous. You don't here them complaining...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:11 PM
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Imagine performing oral sex on a woman who earlier that day had sex with another man. Ignorance is bliss until he gets an incurable STI from his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:06 PM
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Women will never approach men in any large number as this would involve risking humiliation and rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:03 PM
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If it was my biological child, I would. Otherwise, it has to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:01 PM

I know! This is the kind of bullshit that makes me not want women around me at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:41 PM
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Agreed. I never heard the complaint that only 20% of men are getting laid (or something like that) until I came here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:24 AM
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Of course it is. No woman would actually choose a wild bear. Even the ones who claim otherwise. ESPECIALLY the ones who claim otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:23 AM
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Nobody is winning and everyone is losing, not just men and women who can't get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:21 AM
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I believe men use this argument when they hear women devaluing men and not as a dating argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:19 AM
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It's not the red pill people that are poisoning minds, it's modern women themselves. These boys have eyes that can see and ears that hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:15 AM
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Very few people believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:13 AM
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Men rarely are rarely going to share your interests. The women J shared interests with I find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:27 AM
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The point is at .0001%, the odds of you or any other women finding that 1 person is rather unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:25 AM
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You will...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:24 AM
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