davidsdilema Archive

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8	Did you have sex with your wife after separating? Yes I did and regret it. She called me late at night and I was lonely and horny. I probably should have hung up the phone but I made a bad decision. It was awful. Sex makes things worse. It was a huge setback. It never happened again.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/25 05:48 PM
1	Divorcing after 23 yrs of marriage and I'm heartbroken This is great advice. It’s a war now. She probably had this planned for a while. She is on the other team now.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/25 04:45 PM
2	Divorcing after 23 yrs of marriage and I'm heartbroken Same thing happened to me. 23 years too. When my son turned 18 she fell in love with her high school crush through facebook. She forgot to send me the memo regarding her feelings prior to the affair. In 8 weeks her affair ended and so did our marriage. Something happens to women late in marriage. You can try to find answers but it could drive you mad. My best advice is to find happiness by being by yourself and working on yourself. Once you do that, good things will come your way. I wish you the…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/25 03:19 PM
3	After your separation, what new habit or routine did you adopt? At first I went to the gym and lost 15lbs fast. I couldn't sleep so I thought I might as well go to the gym. I knew I was getting better when I started sleeping again. Now I workout at home in the morning and light cardio after dinner. I also eat healthier now that I am alone. I am 59 and I feel great physically and that helps my mental state. Oh, I almost forgot. Vegas 2-3 per year. Gym, breakfast, pool, dinner, show. Be social!	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/24 07:30 PM
1	I am way too old to feel this way about a woman (post divorce dating) I am in the same boat as you. We had been friends for over 30 years. The giddy feelings have subsided and now I am having some doubts. Most of the doubts are just me being super selfish. She really is a good match and I would hate to lose her. Enjoy yourself but establish boundaries so you can still do things that you value.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/24 02:41 AM
2	What I love about being divorced Trade offs indeed!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/24 06:48 AM
2	What I love about being divorced That is a good point but here is another question. Is it all about us now? Being in a relationship is about giving up our time for someone else. The woman I am dating appreciates my effort and my time which makes it worth it. But I really enjoyed my time after my divorce that is why your list hit me hard. I guess I miss being a selfish fuck!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/24 04:47 AM
1	What I love about being divorced Yes!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/24 04:39 AM
1	What I love about being divorced 3-8 hit me hard. I am divorced and now I am in committed relationship. I am starting to lose some of the items on your list. Damn!	/r/Divorce_Men	29/02/24 08:53 PM
1	What I love about being divorced Damn that is a good list. Such a good argument to stay single forever. Damn!	/r/Divorce_Men	29/02/24 05:47 AM
4	Ex wife wants to meet up for a beer and talks My wife blindsided me which led to our divorce. She was my best friend too. I slept with my wife while we were going through the divorce. It left me feeling empty and sad. It felt like I was having sex with a ghost. Any progress you have made to better yourself will be set back. Don’t do it!	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/23 03:57 PM