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Would n-count increase mean PiV or non-PiV acts for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:29 AM
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I have some subtle tells, can PM me if you want.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 01:36 AM
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I agree. Unless the guy has a massive amount of experience, like +25 compared to the girl having <5 (includes all, oral, piv, anal, etc) then he can look the other way given the difference for an LTR.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:47 PM
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My advice OP is to cut things off, next time don’t invest till you can confirm and vet with what you are dealing with. Even then you may never know the truth. Want to find LTRs? Look east, go for girls who haven’t went abroad or lived solo, and are introverts/can enjoy time doing their own hobbies and vet like crazy. Even then having a virgin won’t make things easy and guarantee anything, AWALT.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:41 PM
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Silver lining here is she didn’t outright lie. Just changed the subject. I agree with the other top post here, monitor and see if it becomes a pattern.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:30 PM
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Been in similar situations. I’ve come to the conclusion that every girl has some sort of shit on her. They all lie, half lie, hamster spin, etc about all sorts of shit. Including overwhelmingly about any hoedom of the past. The thing is you gotta come to terms with this if you want an LTR. Maybe not with this one but for the next. If honesty is that important to you and you were honest with her from the get go. She broke that trust, is there any consequence for that? That’s for you to figure out…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:25 PM
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Damn bro, how did you bounce back?
/r/askTRP29/04/21 11:33 AM
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Yeah that does seem like a ticking time bomb. What’s a man gotta do then if they want an LTR?
/r/askTRP26/04/21 12:28 PM
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Please elaborate on the dealbreakers she had exactly?
/r/askTRP26/04/21 04:32 AM
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Yeah to me this just seems like OP is overtly sensitive since losing his job, yeah it sucks big time and can cause stress/anxiousness in the short run which is normal, it’s only an issue if it persists.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 03:49 AM
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Cheers bro this was super helpful and eye opening.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:06 PM
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Replace social media with Reddit and this is me since last year. Wow. I do workout but no extra stuff, and skimp out. Any books or material to get out of this rut? What worked for you?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:46 AM
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Imma need another example boss 🙏
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:16 AM
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Cheers bro, needed this.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 02:21 PM
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Sent bro
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:47 AM
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Hey man, any advice if you’re already vested into the girl and learn about this shit once you’re deeply attached to her? You mind if I send you a PM?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:08 AM
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I read the entire thing as I can relate to bits and pieces of it OP. I’m still with my girl (LTR). Like you I over thought a lot and definitely have had weak moments. Still with her but even that could change tomorrow. In the end OP, I see this as your journey to become a man. Sure it must suck to break up but I think you learned something here so it was not a waste. My advice is to now truly move on. The last few months sound like a roller coaster and the ride has finally ended. I wouldn’t be i…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:59 PM
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Hey man, can you elaborate this? First I’ve heard of this term/concept.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:44 PM
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What did she hamster when you called her out about her “virginity”? My honest advice, hard next this bitch. If not, don’t LTR in any case.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:37 PM
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You can be, if you were the one where she learnt all this from. Your pet project. Now if she “learned” this from someone else then she ain’t LTR material. Wouldn’t want the future mother of my children tied up by anyone else but me TY.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:59 AM
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Whatever you do. Don’t take her back in. As for what happened. I’d say she isn’t LTR material, and this was the flag that you needed to tell you that.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:52 PM
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So generally speaking you don’t mind if your LTR had 7/8 partners prior? My question is, what to do when you have such doubts. Cut things off? Deal with it?
/r/askTRP20/03/21 11:11 PM
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How does one come to terms with that? Were you in a similar spot before and managed to overcome that insecurity? And does that mean the relationship is over, simply because these thoughts came up and there is doubt on her character?
/r/askTRP20/03/21 10:59 PM
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Can you trust Steven? Did he take any pics of them both out? Hard to believe this but it can happen.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 06:53 PM
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Let me jump in your shoes for a bit. As I’ve dealt with this similarly before (LTR being vague part). Any vagueness is a red flag. It means she has either a lot to hide or truly is aloof. The latter being very rare. Whatever she is hiding or trying to downplay, you wouldn’t want to know any ways for your own mental sanity. So I would call it quits. To me that alone is a big enough red flag to not consider or should I say reconsider any LTR prospects. Not to mention other red flags: relying on he…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 04:59 PM
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Tell us about yourself. Could be your background/social status/treatment of them/etc. Not the worst problem to have at all.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:33 AM
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“Just neg her bro”
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:50 PM
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I’ve cried in front of my LTRs and had no trouble maintaining attraction or domination afterwards. IDGAF, I do what I want, and to me if she were to leave over that or respect me less I wouldn’t care and drop her off myself. YMMV, but I have a theory once you really imprint her and she has true genuine desire towards you, you can get away with even the most “beta” behaviour. At that point it doesn’t even matter so long as you are comfortable with yourself and truly internalized your self worth. …
/r/askTRP13/03/21 09:26 PM
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Such as?
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:03 PM
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And before this there were no tall tale signs?
/r/askTRP12/03/21 12:46 PM
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Did she ever tell you her n-count prior?
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:52 AM
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This is golden content. I’ve never knew the term but have encountered Parkinsons law all the time, especially at work were a dedicated 5 hour asks becomes a 15 one hour job. Same with working out or any other thing I do.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 01:11 AM
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Going back you would have convinced yourself it’s not a deal breaker and stayed?
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:19 PM
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She is an LTR currently, so naturally feelings kicked in from the start. I slingshot between A) and B). Only reason why, is she lied initially. It would have been a B otherwise as my standard was super strict. What you posted it helpful nonetheless. I’m leaning towards re-evaluating my own standards at least in this particular case and should anything else come up go for A) all the way.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:18 PM
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What would you do if your gut was right. Break up? Try to get over it (if it’s still in general an acceptable standard but doesn’t meet your personal standard which is a lot more strict)? When the cats out of the bag then what are the options from your point of view?
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:10 PM
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I don’t know your girl or situation. Speaking from mine, that has never been an issue. And I’ve verified this afterwards too early on. Unless in the past she has acted shady or your gut is telling you something. It’s just paranoia on your part. Relax and don’t be so quick to go nuclear. Loses its effect.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 10:55 PM
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Last paragraph is literally being a cuck. You break up, you break up for good. Now as for your question. Seriously you can’t wait 3 weeks in a 2 year LTR? Are you that codependent on this girl? Relax and don’t be so retarded.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 10:25 PM
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Needed this bro, I feel like I hang around TRP and OD in it a lot since lockdowns.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:44 PM
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Where you from originally?
/r/askTRP05/02/21 05:37 PM
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You are right. Good points and the way you framed the pay ding is something I haven’t thought of before and makes a lot sense. 10/10. I haven’t thought I could use it to my advantage. That’s good to hear regarding standing out, I’m tall and muscular so hoping that could remove any sort of colorism downside. Cheers bro, your replies were insightful.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:58 PM
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Yeah I like what I do so want to eventually do even more hardcore analytics. Hard part is to find a fully remote company that are OK with working anywhere and don’t ding you on pay. At the same time. I’m middle eastern. Brown skin tone (not too light or dark). What are your thoughts on that playing into dating in Eastern Europe?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:26 PM
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Right now I have been working remotely on account of Covid but company policy says I have to be in my own home country (US) due to data privacy laws. Work involves, analyzing campaigns, targeting/segmenting social/email/digital campaigns. Presenting the results (all through Zoom). Some modelling/stats work. I use Python and SQL on a daily basis. Some excel.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:15 PM
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Right now I work in Analytics. Do you think it’s better to keep on focusing on that or branch out to a more tech heavy role? And to be clear. Are you working for yourself or for a company that offers remote work?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:03 PM
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Living the dream man. Hardest part is getting out of the 9-5 cog. Any advice?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 10:59 PM
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From time to time it happens with me. Always happen when I think about the past, red flags, missed opportunities, not taking action sooner, missing out on social opportunities, etc. I snap back when I realize the past is done and dusted. There’s nothing to be gained from letting it entrench you. At the same time. I count my blessings. If my anger/rage/anxiety stems from being a virgin throughout HS, while my Oneitis was banging the chad in her school. Then I consider myself lucky. Go to the thir…
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:53 PM
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My advice is to forget about her for good. Not even entertaining her after she rebounds back to you. She doesn’t exist.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:25 PM
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Bro, what did you expect? There’s some female levels of hamstering in your post. Chances are her friends been giving her plenty of “hoe to heart ” advice which led her to this ephiphany. Either way the lesson here is, if you agree to an exclusive LTR then don’t be stupid enough to cheat (or get caught) texting other girls for dirty. It wasn’t your frame. She used the last(“rocky”) year with you as a way to detach and better herself. We recommend many guys to do the same here (lift and abort) Lol…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:21 PM
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Eye contact? Nah, who knows homie might get the wrong idea and attempt to third wheel.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:09 PM
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Simple, seeing another man fuck a girl in Porn is promoting cucking. Same idea, seeing another man fuck a girl but in front of you. And who’s your wife. Degenerate behaviour.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:58 PM
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Nice man. Would say you have the ideal pairing. Lots of guys don’t want to admit it but lesson number one is to find a girl like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 02:36 AM
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For future relationships that are LTRs, it won’t hurt, in fact I encourage it, to not hide all of your weaknesses. I see it as a test. If any girl would leave you because of health issues or work issues, then she isn’t worth it, period. That’s not what I call an LTR. If she’s only in it for the highs then fuck her, at most she’s a plate. For next steps. If she’s already on a dating app, it’s over. No self respecting man would take back in their ex if she’s physically checked out. Forget about he…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:49 PM
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Yeah this reads like a female hamster, cheating on her beta husband and all of a sudden the husband starts getting more sex and involvement from her unbeknownst to him as she fucks some other guy. How weak your frame has to be that you need to gain it back by cheating on your bitch? Seems weak.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 10:27 PM
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From one over analyzer to another. You need to get out of your head. Do you lift and exercise? You also need to stop being haunted by your past and your ex LTR. I’ve been there and am currently in your shoes. I recommend you don’t make any drastic step. Because if you do, chances are you’ll crave for her and want to get back. This would harm the girl even more and kill attraction (or even increase it from her end but that’s risky). Jot down your thoughts. Let them all out and over analyze the th…
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:26 PM
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Was she your first?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 04:21 AM
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Cheers man. Gonna watch that movie too. I just thought I had a unicorn. Literally a punch in the gut when I realized it wasn’t anything like that. It was just an illusion. My wishful thinking projecting onto her. I realize that now. It’s a strong emotion and I’m slowly seeing that she’s just human and has faults. But slowly, I’m falling out of love with her if that makes sense? I’m still with her but for what it is and not for what I thought it was.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:22 AM
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I’m at the same cross roads. Any advice to get past the oneitis? Oneitis is Eefinitely a form of idealization. How did it escape evolution is beyond me. Literally a mental illness.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:18 AM
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How were you able to defeat the low self esteem?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:16 AM
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Yeah but nonetheless, out of billions there are millions living it.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:43 AM
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Any advice? Are you in a traditional relationship? How did you vet your wife?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:27 PM
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I think you answered it man. Need to get out your comfort zone and not be complacent. This includes going on a strict lifting schedule and finding your mission.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 04:18 AM
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Why not just move to a different city and start over? Familiarity isn’t a good thing when it comes to making changes. Sometimes it’s just easier to start with a clean slate than trying to repair what you have. Although, you need to be a certain person already as it forces you to get out of your comfort zone. If you aren’t lifting and going out trying to become the best version you can be then it’s not gonna do much. Moving is hard too and not for everyone but the rewards are there, can be life c…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:01 AM
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Yeah I would wager the fresh start has a lot to do with it. Lifting of course also. Good for you man. You’re doing what works for you.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:17 PM
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Sort of. But there’s more to it. Once you experience being on the other side of being chased then you truly know what it’s like and can never settle for less than that. Probably moving to the new country helped boost your SMV and your mindset of the move itself boosted your confidence. Where did you move to?
/r/askTRP02/01/21 05:08 PM
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I’ve been there where they lie straight up. Their loss really.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 08:58 PM
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Lols bro, this some weird shit. You do sound insecure and that girl was a hoe if she was omitting information like that. Maybe vet better? And deal with your insecurities?
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:50 PM
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Nice list, never knew there was a term for this. Guilty of 3/4 from those lists. The biggest being all or nothing when it comes to women and life. I have started to completely ignore those thoughts as I’m too much in my head and it’s holding me back, I dwell on the negative thoughts and over analyze the fuck out of things, sometimes going into a really negative headspace.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:28 AM
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Lols you can still fall for chicks after taking the pill bro. Your solution is you need therapy.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 03:49 AM
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I’m in a similar spot hence the interest.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:41 PM
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Do you mind PM’ing the techniques you used? And how’s your current relationship going? Better than that one?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:40 PM
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Will have a look at those.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:04 PM
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Can you share how you lost frame exactly? Also do you think honestly you surpassed the first guy? And is it even worth spending that much energy?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:03 PM
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I’ve been trying to achieve the same. Any tips or resources? As soon as I shut off one negative thought, another one pops up. Case in point, people, LTRs from the past. Once I shut those out my mind starts thinking about FOMO, missed opportunities, etc. Would appreciate your personal insights and advice.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:00 PM
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How did you guys broke up and what did you do to get her over him? Was it worth doing that if I presume you are no longer with her?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:46 PM
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Let me guess, you probably ran multiple scenarios, “arguments”, analysis, etc in your head about her, wishing things were different, the who/what/where/why, etc. By this point, you probably did everything you can. And now it’s time to let the thoughts rest and to move on. Here’s an exercise, whenever you get thoughts about her, do ANYTHING else or think about anything else. Keep doing this. Second realize the past is the past and you cannot change it. It’s done and dusted. Look at what’s in fron…
/r/askTRP27/12/20 12:23 AM
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Why and in who’s mind, the girls?
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:28 PM
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The other guy has a point. Not all men or women cheat. Sure everyone can but not everyone does. If you are the greatest thing in her life she wouldn’t even look at someone that way. Cheating is something that applies to both genders. Some people will cheat no matter what, while others wouldn’t. Sure there is a middle ground somewhere but in my experience it’s more circumstantial (ie if one of the partners cheat then the other may cheat in retaliation, or some other underlying issue like long ter…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:21 PM
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Maybe see a therapist, basically you are compulsively thinking about her. You need to stop. Best to check with a therapist, get some meds, and slowly pull back from her. You need to forget about her to move on and this includes not checking her Instagram or reading any messages or even thinking about the past or what could have been.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:19 AM
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Here’s my plan to restart and recalibrate, feel like it may be of help to you as you seem lost in time: 1) Lift like crazy, go on “no porn”, fix your teeth, better your dressing, fix your skin, hair, etc. Also take something you’ve never done before, like dance and improv. We are talking about 3-6 months of hardcore self improvement. Basically this a giant test, if you pass and are able to lay down solid foundation blocks for yourself then read a long. 2) Move to another country that relies to s…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:16 AM
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Bro what is end game here? Why you keep posting about this girl. Why don’t you delete your social media and start over with a fresh mindset. Get some therapy and travel once things are back to normal.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 01:45 AM
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If it were me I’d be out by #2. And I feel ya man. Lying for me is a huge no no in a LTR. And I’m not talking small lies like “I was too busy to remember” when reality she forgot. That shit is basic and harmless. Even that I have a tolerance limit against. But coming back to the point. Lies that are of significance in identifying red flags are a huge no. Like lying about n-count, family relationships, etc. Often times it’s not even the action itself which pisses me off but the lie itself. Had sh…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 01:42 AM
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You handled it well. She needs to realize all the weekend fun with friends is a perk of being your bitch. Like the next girl you date will then take over those perks and the enjoyment of being your woman. Don’t in any circumstances be friends with her or let her leech off your social circle. Now you can keep fucking her but I would just let her be and cut off any contact. At this point she straight up said she doesn’t want you or see you as a prime candidate for mating. What kinda of a woman say…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:40 PM
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Bro we’ve given you so much advice. Just fucking forget about her. She doesn’t exist. Anytime you get a thought about her stop and drop it. She’s in your head and you need to stop thinking about her to move on.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:21 AM
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Didn’t receive any, sending you one.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:22 PM
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Yeah let’s take this over inbox, DM me
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:06 PM
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I haven’t walked out, yet. Right now I hold all the power in the relationship (the only silver lining). She is committed and wants to “climb Everest” to win back my trust and my favour. I know she won’t walk out even if I push her away. The handful times I insinuated it, she literally dropped everything and tried to reconcile and calm me down. To her this is the relationship she was waiting for her entire life even though she herself told me she didn’t have strong feelings initially but in the m…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:06 PM
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If you can do it all over and had the chance, would you still want to be with her knowing what you have? Say she didn’t walk and the decision was yours alone. What would you do? And despite considering to walk away, it still hurts. Maybe less so that her walking out.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 10:35 PM
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Did she cheat on you? And you were the one who walked away? Similar situation. But in my case I’m walking away. It really stings like a motherfucker. No infidelity but certain red flags showed up after I was fully invested making the pain of walking away too much. At the same time I’m just trying to understand myself more, perhaps to see if I’m over reacting. And gaining more insights from guys who walked down a similar path.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 09:09 PM
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Yeah exactly, if you want an LTR with her, then why let her see other guys, if her intent is to date to find a relationship then she will. By the time OP gets to her she would have probably accumulated more notches and to me that makes no sense. There’s a leadership issue with a lot of guys. Take control and dictate how you want it. Many guys just seem to wait and play these stupid games. “Oh she should want to gain your commitment”, that’s cool if you don’t want her as an LTR but if you do then…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:52 PM
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How you doing these days? Did you meet anyone else?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:43 PM
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Hope you’re feeling good man! Saved your comment as it’s just what I needed as well.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:49 PM
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This is pretty common in the east and works better then you would imagine. Also in the East many women stay virgins longer, closer to 25, so with a 10 year age gap it still isn’t that difficult to imagine. Also, the fact you admit this just means you affirm that low n-count women and ideally virgins are the best candidates for LTR. I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 09:19 PM
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What do you mean feeling jaded when you know their weakness? Elaborate please.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:39 PM
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Interesting perspective man, you have a valid point. This only works either if the girl has very little self esteem or the guy is notches above SMV (which can include being rich and powerful).
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:00 PM
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Second paragraph is interesting. What do you think it says about girls who knows the guy has a GF but continues to see him in secret? Isn’t that typical woman behaviour of willing to share the “alpha” (using quotes as its relative and a state of mind).
/r/askTRP14/12/20 05:20 AM
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Lols yeah this hoe ain’t loyal and will bite OP, OP beware and be careful, although this guy she is with seems to be a cuck you don’t want him on your back when his hoe of a GF dumps him for you. At the same time, not gonna moral police but I simply refuse to hit up hoes with boyfriends simply cause I know karma is a bitch and will come knocking for playing with another mans bitch even if she wanted it. There’s plenty of broads in the sea and I remind myself the same thing everyday as easy sex i…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 05:15 AM
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Any other break up tips man? Also how big was yours if you don’t mind sharing? And how you doing now?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:22 PM
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Why you keep saying he shouldn’t learn more about TRP. You can still “pick and choose” what you want and be a decent person, saying as if it’s a wrong thing to not get blindsided one day.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 11:52 PM
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What’s your green flags then? Most girls don’t even do that which I agree is the bear minimum especially if she doesn’t work.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:43 AM
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I don’t watch porn either, but most men do. I meant in general going by porn watching stats.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:09 PM
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Yeah, sluts are over represented here. For women it’s just different from men. With guys most of the time we’ll fuck any thing, case in point how even “bbw” (read landwhales) get dozens of messages from thirsty guys, very few guys have standards. Although one thing that isn’t being talked about is a generation of women addicted to porn/erotica and vibrators. Ain’t no cock can vibrate at 100rpms lols. I definitely feel women watch porn equally which regardless of gender kills sex drive and promot…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:52 PM
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Why she broke up? And you should have gone NC with her. Maybe journal your thoughts and chat with a bro or someone. I’ve been finding the answer to this predicament and so far it’s the same, if it’s an LTR then it’s gonna suck for a while no matter what anyone tells you even if you find someone as a rebound.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:45 PM
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You handled it just fine, told her that in private and didn’t call her out in the group. That was good. Now going by what you said privately and her reaction somewhere in there I see a fuckup. It could be her attitude, it could be you were overtly emotional. Not sure going by what you wrote. For now you setup boundaries don’t back out of it.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:54 PM
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Some issues; if she knows it bothers you or in other words if you did this and it does bother her, then why is she doing it? Shows she has a lack of understanding and empathy. obviously going to guys house in the dead of the night and getting high is a huge red flag and dealbreak for an LTR. What if she plays the “I was high and sucked him off and therefore doesn’t count card”? Or she can just as easily say the details are hazy while admitting something went on but nothing happened. Typical hams…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 04:07 AM
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It’s funny how much women hamster, haven’t “dated” anyone recently, yet entertained strange dick almost weekly, lmao, pathetic. Hope you ghosted her whore ass, she doesn’t even deserve a reason and chances are played you the entire time.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:43 AM
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Yeah
/r/askTRP03/12/20 10:53 PM
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I tend to get too emotionally involved in LTRs, this makes them in love with me too fast and I fall for them in turn. End result being I find out 1-2 red flags after all set in stone that are deal breakers which leads to a internal dilemma and ends up me walking away with heartbreak and a girl crying and begging me to come back.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 10:51 PM
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Depends is she burying all of that under a rug and pretending it never happened? Then she is a fraud. Is she truly remorseful and striving not to be a hoe, and truthful about it? Then I can appreciate her honesty and wish her well....from a distance. People make mistakes all the time but there are consequences no matter how much the past is the past. Nobody owes anyone anything, including acceptance of your past, even if today you are a completely different person. This is one thing they just do…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 10:44 PM
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Yea but no thanks from me. This is typical CC behaviour, ride it out and then settle down.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 10:33 PM
4

Ask yourself OP do you think all girls are like this? No because that’s retarded thinking. However, can all girls be turned into this? Yeah they can, if they’re damaged in some way even one red flag from the list you put out is enough for a girl to get off the chain and delve into degenerate behaviour. This girl in particular has mental issues and unresolved trauma. I would even consider dropping her as a plate as she seems unstable.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:57 PM
2

95% of the time it’s a comfort test, very rare shit tests if any. She definitely refers to me as traditional and cold, lol. Again, I look at what she does and make it clear through my actions that she is privileged to have me. Some might say it’s ego but it’s more akin to knowing what I’m worth and getting the max value from it. At the same time I definitely treat her well, and keep things fun. My mindset is to have fun and not fret what I’m saying or doing is “alpha”, I also tell her point blan…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 01:09 AM
1

I see your point, you’re saying that the best girl is one who controlled herself and sought out a good relationship to share herself with instead of being imposed by religious or social pressure to keep her in check. Also you are implying she has free will to choose her partner and not just go with anyone her parents tell her to. That’s valid but also many times we are the product of our society, so naturally most women from eastern places would be virgins. Whether it’s because they want to or n…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 12:13 AM
1

Wait so, in many eastern societies. It’s common for women to be virgins in their early to mid twenties. How is that a bad thing given what you said? Like it’s not just one girl it’s an entire cohort of them especially if it’s an all girls school/college (again common in those regions). Of course porn and what not are there and some do date around but more out of rebellious reasons. You’re saying that if a girl is a virgin by say 21 it’s a red flag in of itself. I disagree but would want to hear …
/r/askTRP01/12/20 11:36 PM
1

What are your thoughts say a girl has some sexual experience but not all the way? Say she had a BF, and gave blowjobs/handjobs to one guy and no PiV (technically a virgin). Or do you mean a girl with no sexual experience whatsoever? Also coming back to daddy issues. Given the reality of the current world many men and women come from broken families. Absent fathers being pretty common in a lot of places (or simply not being as involved in their kids lives). How do you see that? My thoughts as lon…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:57 PM
1

Mid twenties.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:42 PM
1

Can you explain further the integrity part? That seems harder to identify, are you saying she shouldn’t have dated at all or dated but stayed in commited relationships?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:56 PM
8

Training a girl requires a couple of prerequisites: - no red flags - Low partner count (inexperience)(see point one) - is she an LTR? If all of the above is true then for sure. My current LTR, was where we started a more egalitarian setup as frankly I had just met her and couldn’t tell her straight up my “outdated” views as she was inexperienced and nearly every girl has been exposed to some feminist cancer ideologies so it would have came off too strong but I quickly pushed to make it one where…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:37 PM
1

Yeah man, so I tend to emotionally invest in LTRs too. So far It hasn’t gotten that bad for me, but the first few nights of breakups do make me lose sleep. Hope things heal for you.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:47 PM
1

Glad to see you’re doing better man. How do you and your current girl feel that you still love your ex more? Do you think it’s because she was better than your current or because you were to emotionally invested?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:10 PM
1

How you recovered and coped mate when your ex left?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:00 PM
1

Bro finding a girl with that many flags ain’t lucky, if anything it was bad luck considering she threw you off your center balance. Hanging on to her will do you no good, forget about that thot.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:09 AM
1

If you despite being ugly and short you attracted this bitch then what makes you think you can’t attract another one? Gotta get your mindset clear and straight. This negative feedback loop isn’t healthy bro. Gotta meditate, work out, hang with your homies or make new ones. Focus on yourself, love yourself and then think about girls.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:59 AM
1

Go to a gym and you’ll see plenty of them. You do realize there’s millions of attractive women out there? Why the defeatist attitude? She ain’t shit bro, once you realize that you’ll find happiness.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:38 AM
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Bro, only read your last sentence. Don’t contact this hoe, if she reaches out ignore her. She seems like a headache ass bitch if you wrote this much about her.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:29 AM
1

Hey man, I feel you bro. You gotta realize you put her on a pedestal, she wasn’t special, she wasn’t extraordinary, she was just an average girl (and in this case a huge hoe). You made the mistake of getting emotionally invested without proper vetting. At the same time consider this a blessing, that girl was one giant red flag. Even a single red flag from that list is good enough to not promote her any further than a plate and zero emotional investment to prevent you from going under when things…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:21 AM
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First few words right there and the answer is, get this freeloading bitch out of your house. Have some self respect, why would you let a broad who rejected you twice into your home? She should be dead to you the first time, let alone back to back rejections. Kick her ass right now. She only sees you as meal ticket. The very definition of beta bucks right here.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 04:42 AM
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Lols First off, you work with this hoe and this will bite you in the ass. Second, this hoe ain’t loyal and trash tier woman if she’s slinging shit like that. Third, have some dignity, you’re basically playing emotional tampon game to try to get into her crusty pants. Is the juice worth the squeeze? Chances are this hoe will immediately regret it and branch back or this might even back fire on you if her emotional state changes and she realizes you only comforted her for some breadcrumbs.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 04:38 AM
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My opinion, it came down to cheating on either side when it’s agreed to be exclusive then it’s over. I think, the best course of action is to work start working on SMV, mentally detach and then breakup and hit the ground running so that you can easily find someone worth committing to. Of course AWALT, but NAWALT. Girls don’t always cheat but they can. Just like men.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 08:17 PM
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You sounds jealous just by the way you are emphasizing being white while the other guy being Asian, “how dare does he get more attention than me in Asia”, lmao. “Just be white” game has been on decline in Asia. The local girls have started to figure out that they are being pumped and dumped and even have created local Facebook groups warning others of it in their local languages. These groups have pics and detailed chats doing witch hunts similar to how RooshV and the RSD guys were targeted for …
/r/askTRP28/11/20 08:11 PM
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This is gold and the content I’m here for. How many’s girls have you screened like this? And any subtle red flags to watch out for? And any stories where you failed to gain insights only to find out later?
/r/askTRP27/11/20 11:03 PM
0

Money anyone who says otherwise is a chump. With money you can buy looks (to an extent) and status. Also can buy top shelf poon too. I’d rather be a rich beta than a poor alpha.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 11:46 PM
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How does one hoe have 0 experience when she claims to have had sex and is into bdsm? And since you were upfront with her, what’s the issue? She told you she needs a certain level of commitment, either you lie, string her along (and regret it) or move along to the next.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 04:12 AM
2

See a doctor, cut the porn and chronic wanking.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 04:07 AM
5

And are you me? I’m doing the same thing. The girl I’m with has enough red flags that on paper would make any RP guy just check out but I’ve stuck it through simply cause of COVID and avoiding the heartbreak it’ll cause to me. Making me highly averse for an outright breakup. Just trying to slowly detach myself from her. Any other recos you have or techniques you using? How do you get over the guilt of detaching when the girl is going nuts for you? I’m at that phase where I know if I don’t detach…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 02:50 AM
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Did you ever lie to this girl or does she doubt you? I’ve done some sort of shit like this before, trust but verify, and it has saved my ass. So I’m in no position to tell you to dump her. But it’s probably the easiest way to figure out someone and if they are playing you. But if you’ve been nothing but straight with this girl and she has no reason to doubt you (ie cheating, etc) then this is definitely a cause of concern. Moreso if she denies it. Also lock your shit down, most people keep the s…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 02:36 AM
1

How’s the dating like up there? Thinking of checking out Bosnia once the post war conditions settle.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 11:08 PM
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Yeah I’m with you on that. Only thing is you never truly know, and that’s where you have to screen really well.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 09:36 PM
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Does it even matter if she left or not when she was hopping on strange dick while in a hiatus? This is BP mentality, you think you won by having a girl by your side therefore you won as obviously she chose you in the end. But reality is, she did all of that after riding the CC. Chances are she was still in touch with these guys when being with you, might have even tried for a relationship with one of these guys she was banging and failed to branch swing and came to you for a shoulder, would even…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 09:27 PM
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We think alike, my last LTR, even tho the girl had n=1 before me (and still technically a virgin), the mental damage and the specifics of it were a huge red flag. I don’t think I can accept anything less than a 0 before me for a proper commited LTR that leads to kids. Have you’ve experienced the same that makes you wary?
/r/askTRP22/11/20 09:15 PM
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You are a naive one man, that hoe is treating you like a side piece while you have your heart on your sleeve for her. If you were truly worth it, she would have dropped everything to see and be with you, this includes not fucking random guys while she supposedly confessed her “feelings” You are right that NAWALT, but this ain’t it. If anything this shows AWALT, CC riding girl showing her feelings for you while sucking off other guys.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 09:05 PM
1

Hey man, was the breakup a hard one on you? How did you cope? Did religion fill in the void?
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:52 PM
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Blocking is weak unless the broad is buzzing his phone every week, even then just put her on silence and be done.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:23 PM
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This is the natural result of making the internet at large the be all and end all of everything. And both sexes are guilty of this. "Catching up"/Socializing? Social media such as IG, WhatsApp, etc Groceries? Order online from Amazon/Walmart/etc Eating out? Let's just Ubereats at home Entertainment? Online games, netflix, porn, etc Schooling? Online classes, Youtube lectures, Zoom lectures,etc Etc People have grown complacent, lazy and have attention spans of just a few seconds now. Real relatio…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 09:06 PM
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There's no such things as hard fixed rules. AWALT is true but if every conclusion is "hur she cheated" to an argument/losing interest/etc then you guys have serious mental issues or shitty women.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 07:12 PM
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This is an amazing comment. Most of those people are average in every sense of the word but they definitely have a great work ethic like you said. Any more anecdotal experiences to share?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 11:56 PM
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Unless you are a man with paranoia and specific mental issues, 9/10 times your gut is telling you something, doesn't have to be cheating, but if you follow it you'll definitely learn something new about your girl. Your gut feeling is purely instinctive and can even save your life (and help you figure out if a broad is cheating or not). Anytime I followed it, I've been shown the light.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:24 AM
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Are you white? Chances are she sees you as an escape ticket. I would vet the fuck out of her if you plan to make her an LTR.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:37 PM
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OP you'd make it worse if you get a vibrator for her, guranteed she'll get addicted even more. Nobody talks about female "ED" in their case it's rubbing their clits off back to back and not recognizing the unhealthy mental side affects of watching and reading porn/erotica (they think it's just a guy problem when porn watching statistics tell a whole other story on women watching it in record numbers). It's a lot harder to spot but explains why so many women (like many guys these days) have troub…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 08:03 PM
0

Yeah that's when I'll come to you for cucking and drugging strategies.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 10:49 PM
2

Yeah OP listen to this guy, go LTR a former crack whore and then when shit hits the inevitable fan comeback and DM this clown for more advice on what's the best way to get cucked and fucked the "cool" way.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 10:01 PM
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Height matters. Even to bitches that say they don't care about height but just so happens to date tall guys. My ex was the same. Said she didn't care about my height at first (I'm tall) perhaps to not stroke my ego, a few months in dating admits she loves that I'm tall and can overpower her, becomes a common theme where she even brags about it to her fam and friends. Same shit applies for hair, skin color, dick size, and most things in life. You'll always be lacking in one area. I would make the…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:24 AM
2

All fair demands. I'm the same, would only LTR a virgin girl (and a true virgin, not those "it doesn't count" activities, like anal, BJ, etc). I've wrote extensively on my post history, why I want it that way. My suggestion, go for younger girls between 18-25, and vet the fuck out of them, NEVER tell them you want a virgin or slut shame them of any kind. Just be non judgemental while you verify. But remember AWALT, even with true inexperienced virgins. She can be an unpleasant grade A bitch and …
/r/askTRP10/10/20 08:52 PM
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How is not wanting to LTR a girl who's been pumped and dumped prior a bad thing?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 08:51 PM
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Haha, you a funny guy. I laughed. Keep this humour, just don't overdo it and say it out of nowhere.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 12:58 AM
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Whoever gets dumped always has residual feelings. That's cause they didn't see it coming and more importantly it hurts their ego on a subconscious level. Kill your ego, understand that you and her had a decent run together and now it has ended. And stop looking at her feed ffs. Also find something that you're really into, passionate about. Seems like you're just drifting in life instead of living it. Once corona is over, travel. The world is big and filled with plenty of fresh bitches.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 12:54 AM
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Doesn't even matter man. I could have had her even block this guy. Point being is she listens. I'll probably have her next orbiter be saved as simp.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 12:28 AM
1

Not even that's asking for permission. I told her, that "rename this friend of yours as nice guy", after calling her out. She then said "can I add his name in parentheses next to nice guy? Else I'll forget" lmao. I said sure. I then get a screenshot later. Dude is smiling on his WhatsApp profile pic orbiting girls. Once women know what you are worth and your game, lifting numbers, and value is on point. You can get away with anything.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 12:18 AM
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Lol, so she sent me the phone chat with "nice guy" saved as the friend later that day. Just said that "I'm so bad" with a grin. My way of just having her obey me and being playful. Literally, hasn't brought it up ever after. And that simp keeps texting her every couple of days. One thing that guys fuck up with LTRs, they're too passive. You gotta tame that bitch. Show her that you're in charge and if she wants you badly enough she'll do anything for you. Ignoring simps is easy for them. It's che…
/r/askTRP10/10/20 12:03 AM
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Jeez, if I had a dollar for every time you said Scott, I'd have tree fiddy. My rules on LTRs maintaining "guy friends" (aka orbiters) is contextual. Meeting them in a group? Sure. Going on one on one solo dates? Hell naw. Oh, and I ask them to save the phone numbers of the very particular orbiters as "Nice Guy (Their Name)" - they do this with a grin as they very well know why these simps are hitting them up - and call them out on their shit too (i.e "why do you think this loser keeps texting yo…
/r/askTRP09/10/20 11:37 PM
2

Sucks man. You're right, once you see things for how they are and trust is broken, it's done. Been there on the receiving side as well and I just couldn't trust her either and broke up after a few months. In my case things were escalating fast too but luckily no ties together like kids. Like that shit you cannot forget about as it can easily happen again.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:26 PM
2

It definitely is, and that's what happened exactly. I helped heal her and told her what she did wasn't acceptable and that she needed to take accountability and not let her past eat her future. She eventually got the point and went on a self improvement regime and started being vulnerable. Started talking about her past and wouldn't feel bad or emotional while doing so. Picked up great hobbies like cooking and gym. Her relationship with her family improved and overall turned into a solid LTR by …
/r/askTRP07/10/20 01:14 AM
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This a touchy subject even for the guys here. A body count of even 1 before you can be too much for an LTR. It is for me. My standards are unapologetically high. And it's all based on a anecdotal experience I had. Here me out. One of my exes, just had one guy before me and was a PiV virgin. Yet this girl would dream about the guy for years. She told me, she spent years getting over him, spent the next two years crying for him and tanking her grades to the gutter. Even started neglecting her pets…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:33 AM
2

What's your plan of action with her? And after this, would you trust her?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 11:51 PM
6

LTR with a Bi woman? Is that even a question? Get ready to be strapped on by "it was a woman, so it doesn't count", "she's just a friend", "going out on a girls night out" (having a whole different meaning). She can still steal half your shit and runaway with her domme while you are fantasizing of a three-way and posting here on how to make it happen. Think with the top head on this.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 11:09 PM
2

When did he leave, and did he dump her?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:14 PM
1

What she told you or behaved that makes you think so?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:03 PM
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Yeah I've done it before, not for being cheated on though but the same basic idea. Goes to show that people can lie with absolutely zero remorse. They can lie to your face so easily, that they could have won an oscar for their performance. And best part of all, they only feel bad about getting caught not about the lie itself. Also the justifications that follow and the mental gymnastics on why they lied is pretty entertaining and follows typical hamstering patterns. That's why you always verify …
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:08 PM
3

Ditch the apps. Go pick girls in person in social settings. Also would help to identify the country. If you're worried us knowing the country is bad then you have a whole set of another issues to deal with. Are you in your head all the time? Because that shit will kill your game even on Mars.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:59 PM
2

That's the right thinking here man. Glad you recognized it and learned from it.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:48 PM
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RP is first and foremost sexual strategy. If you want to talk about politics this isn't the place buddy. We all just want to fuck bitches and enjoy the decline.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:33 PM
8

Welcome to TRP where everyone's girl is a 10 and BPD!
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:28 PM
1

Nope
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:14 PM
3

Tell her straight up it's your family and despite what has happened between you and them, you wouldn't tolerate any disrespect towards them as they did her no wrong. Also every family has their dirty laundry, if she hasn't shared that yet about hers when you shared yours then I would treat this as a yellow flag.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:08 PM
2

I'm starting to edge more and more like this. And don't finish either some days. It definitely is good nonetheless and allows you to last longer and have more pleasure throughout. Only concern is if you hold it in for too long while being at the cusp of ejaculating and not going all the way, there might be health risks if it becomes a routine. Maybe set a schedule like once a week?
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:02 PM
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Lol, betraying your "close" friend for some poon? TRP is ammoral but this is some next level trailer trash behavior. I'm pretty sure your "close" friend knows the real deal. He's definitely is a BP beta and a cuck for being in touch with you and his sloot gf. You should have simply bowed out the moment your friend caught you and explained to him what happened in front of the girl. Instead you kept being in touch with this girl for some more dirty and still orbited her for some scraps. She flirte…
/r/askTRP03/10/20 01:52 PM
4

Yeah, it's not even about being a man or a woman. Not taking responsibility or owning upto your mistakes is a huge redflag and these people will forever play victim and come with baggage.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 01:08 AM
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It means she likes and values spending time with you beyond sex, is interested in doing things together and would prefer to go out and do things with you then her slutty friends. She is invested into you. You spent 1.5 years as an LTR, the whole point of an LTR is doing other things on top of sex. Sex being the foundation. Naturally in the course of an LTR a myriad of feelings and emotions will develop including close friendship like feelings. She doesn't even mean it in the way you're interpret…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:04 PM
1

Definitely haven't read any books at all about rationalizing my LTR's slutty behavior. Enjoy your "prize", LTR'ing a hooker --sorry I meant "sugar baby". Let me know when her onlyfans account launches, I'd love to wank my curved cock to her and pitch in to your Nintendo Switch that way.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:52 PM
0

Nah, read his post. This girl was riding OP's and the Doc's dick. Doc didn't commit and then went to OP.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:21 PM
9

Congrats on winning sloppy seconds buddy.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 07:38 PM
4

Bro dump this woman. She's a liar on top. How can you trust her at all? She'll rationalize everything. She will screw you over big time, simply move out and tell her you are done. You will save a lot of head and heart ache.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:54 PM
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This relationship was over the day it started. Any girl, who was plating guys prior (you and Doc) is not LTR material period. Matter of time, this was going to happen. This will always bother you. My advice, find a different girl and dump this girl before she dumps you. Edit; You didn't even know before the LTR? How did you find out?
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:39 PM
5

And? Why air them out to the girl that dumped you. At that point she's not even part of your life anymore. She DGAF, about you so why even whine and cry to her? Unless you just want to vent to her for your own self, then I can see it being viable (I don't fall into this camp for cases like these). But most of the time, it involves the guy begging to reconsider which is pathetic since attraction is non negotiable.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 04:13 PM
2

Yeah, although I have yet to be broken up with. I always planned it to be something like "Hey <name>, appreciate you sharing your thoughts, best of luck and hope things work out for you" -- short and simple. No closure BS, no butthurtness, or wanting her back, or anything. Hell I wouldn't even block her and just not reply back ever to any followups, It is done, FIN.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:13 PM
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I wouldn't recommend villainizing her or her attributes. Instead, look at it from a positive frame. "Hey it was a good run, can't wait to see what else life has to offer". And take ownership, clearly the chemistry was one sided here or even if it's not, you don't want to get bitter or butthurt, or even worse get into a depressive state where OP is blaming the girl for months on end ("she's such a cold hearted bitch") and wallowing in self pity. That's what girls do, and the reason why they're fu…
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:05 PM
1

Yeah, probably been played one too many times too (I.e pump and dump) and that's her bruised ego talking.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:09 AM
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For the right man a woman can forgive anything. Clearly that guy meant something to her that she let cheating slide. Switch places, say a woman cheated and the man forgave her, what does that say about the simp? It means he's so BP in behavior that he was okay with getting cucked. Would any woman actually respect him deep down? Would his friends deep down respect him? Hell his own kids deep down will laugh at this loser. Now the exact opposite is true for a woman who's man has cheated, just in a…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 11:43 PM
1

A girl that has or had a rotation of dick at speed dial is not LTR worthy. Filter number one. Number two, no girl is LTR material if she's in contact with her ex or still thinks about him enough. Chances are these girls are alpha widows, lack poor judgement (how is it appropriate to be friends with her ex and date you at the same time? PC cuckness if you ask me), or both.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 10:24 PM
2

Yeah, I don't get the guys who break up with their bitches and then contact them again the next week and get mad if she already branch swung. That's pure ego talking. Once it's over from either side cut it off, no contact, nor any thoughts. It's one thing if the guy was dumped, still inexcusable but understandable. But not in this case.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 10:17 PM
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My two cents OP. What's done is done, don't take the trash back in. I can say dumping your girlfriend was an overreaction. Some times laughing is a sudden and natural reaction, you don't even need to pay attention but if you see someone laughing you just laugh along with them (see shitty comedy). Probably demoted her mentally at most. Seems like in the end the guy did get under your frame just not outwardly, honestly in cases like these I would have shot some world play back, AA, etc . Better to…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 11:37 PM
3

Man should have stopped there too, atleast I stopped at the tl;dr
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:29 PM
1

Yeah OP should be her rock and not some bitch posting asking what to do. Duh go take care of your hoe.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:47 PM
4

Lmao, just wrap it up dawg, she probably a STD super spreader. Only other advice would be to preferably wear a hazmat suit and treat her like a slut (the later applies to most girls).
/r/askTRP15/08/20 04:09 AM
2

Yes. Generally speaking guys who started out by just reading theory and not practicing it will have a second anger phase. You can read all the TRP material you want but until you don't have field experience and are actively putting it to use, you're not fully unplugged. And then when you gain the experience, been with girls and then see the true nature of things it sends you off in a second rage phase. Source: Me, been reading TRP since 2012, however didn't have actual field experience till a co…
/r/askTRP14/08/20 12:37 PM
4

This OP. When someone wants to break up with you then they find reasons, no matter how big or small. Even if they get back together after, they had already made up their mind by that point. It's gonna happen eventually. I've been on the other side where your (ex) GF is on. When an LTR isn't upto my standard then subconsciously I just want out before I even realize it, this in my case is due to any unforseen redflags that come up. Sure if the other side wants you badly they'll do anything to conv…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:21 PM
10

Hard next bro. I would dump her. I also read all your comments, and understand how you feel. The situation was shitty but so was your reaction. You don't do that. Chances are her views and principles are vastly different from yours if she's okay with a random guy running his hands all over her body while in a committed relationship with you, in her house, without your permission. She could have just as easily found a female masseuse, who's also "famous". It's not like this was a medical emergenc…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:16 AM
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It's multifaceted; Ownership. For guys, the girl is theirs, I can safely say I always treated my LTRs as my territory, my bitch, my whore, she is mine, she was born to take my cock. Reason why you get the daily post about the guy being upset even when his plate is sleeping around. It's also a combination of possessiveness, and being invested in a girl emotionally. Think about it, as boys we all had that one specific toy, or that one video game that we finished till completion and played over and…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 11:45 PM
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This is the truth right here, originally from a similar country. And it's unlike the degeneracy seen in the West, things are changing however.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:50 AM
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You know the obvious answer is to drink water, quit smoking, eat healthy, quit porn and lift heavy. And socialize with everyone (old, young, rich, poor, etc). Literally do that and the results will speak for themselves. A lot of people know atleast some of the above points. But do they act upon it? Nope. Very few do. Depends on what you want.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 01:48 AM
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80% of the list is self controllable and just involves not spreading their legs. How is that unrealistic?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:34 AM
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You just casually dropped you masturbate once a day and that's your issue. Your hand feel and grip is superior to a vagina. Since you're masturbating you know all the pleasure spots and your brain has fine tuned to them. A vagina feels different, and won't simulate the same spots, atleast not with the tolerance and way you are used to in the beginning. Masturbate no more than once a week with your non dominate hand and make an OK sign instead of gripping your member entirely with your hand. At f…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 01:25 AM
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Yes, in my experience, even with TRP love is still there and as passionate as ever. It's instinctive, however, don't fall for a hoe, let yourself loose after vetting her as it will cloud your judgement, the minute you turn on provider behavior and all the feelings that come with it(not to be confused with BP betabucks, think more on the lines of ownership, you own her therefore have to take care of her) she'll also alter to fit that mould (that's where they start hiding things and putting up a f…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 01:11 AM
1

Still, that's what I want to know, I understand that body language and being there along with your gut feelings is a strong enough indicator and not easy to explain in words. But if there's any concrete examples or any elaborate hiding, that say you weren't able to tell but found out at last, etc, do share.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 11:49 PM
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Like with most things experience and not putting them on a pedestal (idolizing "the one") should make things clear as day. Curious, what are your personal own signs you look out for? (Anecdotal)
/r/askTRP29/07/20 09:51 PM
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I agree, if you want an LTR then the n count before you should be n = 0 (including oral, anal, no "doesn't count" BS) Now before you spergs jump on me, plenty of n-counts = 0 women out there, just not in the West. Also n=0 doesn't mean a happy or fulfilling relationship either. But in a day and age where you can be liable to pay child support and alimony for the next 18 years then it's worth looking at every possible indicator and not taking any chances. AWALT still applies. Besides, think about…
/r/askTRP28/07/20 10:45 PM
1

You've conditioned your mind into masturbating into this specific scenario, it's almost like a trigger, an animal conditioned to a bell, look up Pavlov theory. You have to uncondition your mind and watch other porn, eventually cutting off porn altogether as you'll never be satisfied if you rely on it and your hand.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 11:28 PM
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Not to mention the mental and physical impact of sleeping around for women is considerably higher then men. For women, a single guy can alpha widow them for life. While for guys the tolerance for that is much higher. We're polygamous by nature.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:12 AM
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My advice if I can go back is to focus on CS or Medicine. I would not recommend b-school unless it's a prestigious institution, or unless you have connections to get into IB, consulting, etc. All of the above is true if the degree is costing you 10s of thousands. Besides the degree would recommend to focus on extra projects, and side hustles. That's where wealth lies, working for your own business.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:07 AM
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This, any time a girl talks about the past or her intentions STFU. Listen to it, nod, and have her spill out her mind. Those are probably the only times she is unfiltered and not putting up any sort of image in front of you. If you say anything, "judge" her, show any weakness like insecurities, anger, etc. She'll mentally start holding back and hide her true thoughts. Of course this only important if she's worth more than a plate. If she's not do what you want.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:00 AM
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Contrary you might gain height as your posture improves. Remember, chest out, shoulders back.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:06 AM
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Definitely some sort of relationship trauma. Not worth it, eject.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:43 AM
1

Going by another of your comment. Your pics vs real life look varies that much? I'm in the same boat where I get much more attention in real life and been told that pics don't do me justice or maybe I haven't mastered angles yet 😂 When did your LTR end and why?
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:37 PM
1

What's your day game success like? Any dates?
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:37 PM
1

Same dilemma I'm facing. Especially harder to make given its covid times. I'm still undecided, family is pretty hurt by this but I want to take control and autonomy over my life as well. Living with family is way too easy and sheltered. But at the same time if you are a person with destructive habits then you'll just spiral into alcohol, drugs and other shitty habits. Be smart about it and have a plan in mind and make sure to set goals besides women.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:10 PM
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The allure of cheating is a strong one. I've been there before where I considered cheating. Justified it even in my head for my LTR's lies. But luckily never pulled the trigger and treated it as an invasive thought instead. And I'm glad I did. Simply because I know as a person I'll have a hard time coping with it. It's not the way I was raised and once you do it you'll keep doing it. TRP is amoral so you'll get both sides of the coin here. This is the other side. If I were you, and this is going…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:05 PM
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TRP is about sexual strategy. Do you want to fuck your friends?
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:01 PM
1

Depends. AWALT is a general rule of thumb but there are always exceptions. There are quality girls out there that you won't find on Tinder and in bars. They are normally self aware to know to know that riding random cock isn't fulfilling. At the same time they would expect you to lead all the way and probably won't ever be as forthcoming as a tinder or bar slut initially, you have to warm them up, most guys would quit long before as these girls probably want a relationship out of it and so don't…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:27 PM
1

So after that, don't reply to her or respond to any follow up? I plan to do it when either one of us are out of town. Over the phone or text. I do expect her to show up at my place, in those cases, do I reiterate the same in person and act cold?
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:40 AM
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I realize to a western only audience things like this makes no sense. But it's fairly common in conservative countries. What's settling in my eyes can mean other things for you and vice versa. Still I stand by with what I said, no past is the gold standard. At the same time, it depends on the individual, in my case the entire context was framed in a way that it wasn't her fault for sucking off some guy for a over year. Ok lol. To me that is really telling of a person. I'm being real, there's con…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:20 PM
1

What was her incident? I'm pretty empathic but it takes two to tango. If it was one off I'd look the other way but multiple times isn't a mistake. And the damage is there, I see it in other ways in the relationship. I could argue it stemmed with her parents being neglectful back then. But at the same time I won't play the savior and fix everything. I want to eventually marry for kids and it's important to hedge my bets. Even then I can get fucked in a divorce.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:12 PM
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Feel ya man, this isn't even a man or woman thing, everyone should accept responsibility if the girl is not selfaware to know she fucked up in the past then she probably never will. And that's a trait not fit for an LTR.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:01 PM
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In the states? For sure. I'm middle eastern, and out east and in Asia things haven't gotten that bad yet. And they won't unless they have guys like you who settle on perhaps the most important marker for an LTR, her past. After being with several women that is now the number one thing I look out for. Not my problem if your standards lay in the gutter.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:42 PM
1

Yeah, I'm thinking about that. But I worry if I don't give her closure then that will fuck up her mental state already more. She was previously dropped like that and end result is she has dreams about the guy 10 years later and being very emotional all around. Her mental state while stable takes things to heart waay too quickly. Since meeting me it has gotten a lot better and her family noticed how much different and positive she is. Want her to stay like this and not start seeing me in her drea…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:30 PM
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True, want to just lessen the damage to her. A lot of things she told me was in confidence, especially after telling me her past, I know if I use that as a reason it'll make her very adverse to trusting someone like that again and change her views on a stable relationship as that's what I have offered her and she loves every minute of it. At the same time if I don't give closure then she'll be restless like she has been with her past ex. Just want the least damage. So far I've tried pushing her …
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:26 PM
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Share more bro, what's your reasoning and how do you plan to break it? In my case she also knows where I live and work so I expect a lot of drama too if I don't time it right.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:09 PM
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Bro, you talking about 30? Here I am talking about just 1 but the mental scarring makes it one too many. Look at my other comment. Totally think it's fair game to be this picky for an LTR, she can steal half your shit, take the kids and kiss them to bed with that same mouth that was rammed by another guy's cock 😂 I now believe an LTR that leads to marriage is only worth doing with a virgin. Even then it can go to shit.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:07 PM
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Secretly sucked her friend's BF off for over a year, left a deep impact on her, constant dreams/nightmares even today, takes no responsibility for that (woman speak "I was abused by him"), guy drops her after collecting his BJs, she was then alpha widowed for years and years after (wasn't able to get into any relationship) till she met me, I would rather not LTR someone who dreams about her ex every month for the last 10 years straight. Only consolation is I took her v-card. She revealed herself…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:00 PM
1

This, if she is constantly remembering or dreaming about a certain part of her life then it normally relates to having a great time and longing for it (aka Chad and her slutty friends).
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:29 PM
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The red flag here is she isn't wearing it while with you. Had she done that then it would be negligible (or she is even smarter than you think she is). Bottom line is trust your gut. That shit is right most of the time.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:24 PM
1

What she do exactly?
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:53 AM
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You can fuck women without giving away so much. So inherently you're going to feel like shit. This isn't societal, it's biological. She's your bitch (LTR), and her coming home with another guy's cum leaking out of her SHOULD bother you. Hell in my LTRs I get disgusted whenever I hear any of their past escapades. Only even listen to it to remember the nature of the beast and to screen out hoes based on context (ie was with a last LTR or some random at a bar). This is an extreme version of it but …
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:55 PM
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It's almost as if as a man, you find the idea of your woman fucking another guy as repulsive. Who would have thought? There's a reason why society is what it is. As man you can fuck other girls, it's in your DNA to want to do that. But not your LTR, different rules apply and it's normal. If she fucks other guys she is a plate and doesn't get your emotional investment and time. You do not live together with plates, you do not LTR a hoe. My advice, dump her, there's nothing left to salvage.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:44 PM
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Beginning is fine man, if she needs it that's where the issue comes in. Monitor her behavior in a NON-JUDGEMENTAL way. Of course everyone judges but keep those thoughts to yourself. If you adopt a hard-line stance then she will hide it from you. Asses if she uses porn while you are present in her life (aka sleeping with her several times a week), if she uses it in this period then she is addicted. My approach to these things are more Machiavellian, I would actually have her bring up porn, and fr…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 02:14 PM
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Remember to apply the 80/20 rule for TRP as well. Most guys here are keyboard "Alphas", have little to no field experience, and probably jerk off to porn every day. Don't over think, I remind myself about this every day. Your worst enemy is you, learn to control those thoughts. Finding a mission is part of the struggle, just remember rejection > regret, not just with girls but with everything.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:02 PM
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Any tips that worked for you? I tend to nerd out and get overwhelmed at explaining since there's too many thoughts going in my head.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:33 PM
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Would be a next from me as well.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:45 AM
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Tell me your situation man. My views are more traditional, so they are harsher than even the regular RP way.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:27 PM
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Had an LTR that would watch porn when we she visited her family one summer. To be fair she did want to cam first but that's the equivalent of porn in my eyes so I'd refuse. Only let slide if it's when you are seperated for whatever reason for a couple weeks, even then I expect her to keep her pants about her now. If I can control my urges as a higher libido person then she should too. Porn use in a LTR relationship is a Redflag, man or woman. I wouldn't tolerate this anymore, worst case just let…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:51 PM
1

Hah, well good on you man
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:54 PM
1

Haha, man, that's something. I meant more on the lines of your actions that keep an LTR engaged like that. 6 years in hard mode isn't easy and maintaining that attraction and interest.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:33 PM
1

You should share more insights and examples man. I know I can learn from it . For me I prefer LTRs over the whole plate dynamic so want to hear more. Do share!
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:22 PM
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Hey man, curious to hear more about your LTR situation. How do you keep things fun and flirty? You mind sharing more? There's a lot material on plates but not so much on LTRs. Would love to hear how you older LTR'd RP men manage their women.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 02:23 PM
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