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what sort of things do you tease about? People always say tease her if she spills a drink or something, but that doesn't tend to happen. You just use Scripted teases?
/r/seduction10/12/21 11:35 PM
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You don't have to be someone's "physical type". You have to be the person they can't forget. I don't think 'type' is necessarily correct, but you certainly need her physical attraction if you wanna get naked with her lol LIke a girl might think her 'type' is tall with tattoos and green eyes and big musclces, but make no mistake that if some really conventionally handsome guy with dark eyes and no tattoos, slim and a square jaw etc hit on her, she'd be super receptive (since she would very likely…
/r/seduction15/10/21 11:03 AM
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About 2-5% Most guys aren't prepared for the fact that you need too approach a LOT of girls before you get laid with one unless you are a very good looking dude, so they just don't bother. They should though. It can be fun
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:27 PM
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best james marshall, RSD, James Tusk, ultimateManProject, Todd V Worst JohnAnthony, deepak Wayne, johnElite
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:48 PM
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check out mark manson
/r/seduction13/10/21 06:10 PM
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it's all about just approaching, but people are too scared. Just read mark manson (actual top level game) and then approach
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:01 PM
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he' s trying to hamper your game in case you steal his girls lol YOu need to demonstrate all of your personality and show charisma. Don't be all quiet. They'll get bored and go find someone interesting
/r/seduction12/10/21 07:41 AM
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I lol'd
/r/seduction11/10/21 07:31 PM
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yeah, just being honest saves time. Walk up to cute girl. Tell her you like her basically. The ones who like you back will show interest and you escalate. The ones who think you're not to their physical taste won't play ball so move on from them girls.
/r/seduction11/10/21 05:04 PM
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Of course a short dude riddled with acne, pasty white, ugly skull, etc That shoudn't matter at all though if what the PUA pros say is true. Girls aren't attracted by looks apparently The guy you describe there should be able to get any girl he wants as long as he believes he's a 10 and that the hot cheerleader is attracted to him
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:08 PM
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there are girls that just don't do anything for me. I'm just not attracted. I agree. But there are people on here who say girls aren't like that. Girls don't care about looks and are attracted differently.
/r/seduction10/09/21 10:45 AM
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you just might not be her type I read on this sub that that's not an excuse from the people who claim to be able to get (or at least attracted) any girl they choose. I guess it comes from the PUA idea that girls aren't attracted to looks and don't care about looks
/r/seduction10/09/21 10:05 AM
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lol, i think he's asking which guy would get the most girls, not who you wanna bang haha
/r/seduction19/08/21 10:59 AM
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depends how short. I'm only going by my experience of my fairly large friends group. Both of the slayers in my social group are both facially very handsome (surprise surprise). One is short (5'7'' ish?). One is tall (about 6'2'') They both have similar success rates though. Lots of lays with basically any girl they want lol (girls often approach THEM on nights out) So i'm saying a good looking face is super powerful, although i'm sure my 5'7'' friend would struggle to get girls if he was 5'2'' h…
/r/seduction18/08/21 01:09 PM
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i think people realised it's mainly marketing. Essentially it's a numbers game You often see infields (or have your own interactions) where you are doing it all by the book. Flirting, teasing, having fun etc, but the girl is not remotely interested from a sexual point of view. You're just not her type Then you see other guys (maybe good looking guys who she IS attracted too) break most of the rules and still pull her I love game, but in truth, it's basically marketing. The only true game is numb…
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:56 PM
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I don't think you're missing out. Nobody can make a girl invest if she's not into you. It's just marketing by youtubers trying to sell you pickup coaching. You need looks. And from there, game is really just basic social skills that only people with assbergers or whatever need to 'learn' (like 'learn' how to hold eye contact etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:25 PM
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Nice. I think with the 1st girl, you just weren't her type. Girls have types just like we do. Without attraction - techniques like disqualification, dhv's, negs and game in general just isn't gonna work tbh. You pushed it as far as you could Second girl thought you were hot. Shame you forgot her damn name!. I think that was your mistake. Sex was definitely on the cards and i'm assuming that's what messed it up Good stuff
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:22 AM
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don't think i've seen that. You know the title of the vid? RSD were good. A lot better than the other pickups coaches with the exception of Vadeem from honest signals. He's great.
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:35 AM
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it's cool. I'm not really looking for tips here as such. I Just like talking game haha. I'm getting laid a decent amount and am doing everything 'right'. Obviously tonnes of rejections too, but there's nothing you can do about that tbh! Some girls just aren't gonna be into you. Yes, I do enjoy night game much much more and have basically forgotten about day game.
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:27 AM
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same here. Similar to Nick Krauser maybe open, assumption stacking etc. Doesn't work great for me and i've moved on to night game now instead. Slightly different model. Using more RSD Julian methods
/r/seduction30/07/21 04:05 PM
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yeah, my approach angle and stuff is good. So you don't use a particular structure verbally at all?
/r/seduction30/07/21 08:11 AM
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are you especially handsome out of interest? And what is your opener and transition? (for example direct and tell her you like how she looks? then what? Or indirect and then a cold read 'You look like you do something creative for a job' a bit more like the London Daygamers?)
/r/seduction30/07/21 07:34 AM
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it's not manipulation tbh. If we really could 'manipulate' someone into wanting to sleep with us no matter if she was attracted or not, the world as we know it wouldn't exist lol. Billionnaires like Epstein wouldn't be raping girls. It's about attraction It's really just a set of techniques and principle to help put your best foot forward and show confidence and charisma. Basically, it's just social skills. Flirting. Most people don't need to learn the things that PUA's teach It's a bit like lea…
/r/seduction21/07/21 03:42 PM
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So we'd been chatting and kinda flirting. Maybe a tease here, a little compliment there. Good eye contact. And i'm getting looks and stuff from her too. She's chatty. Asking me tonnes of questions. Flicking her hair and all the other little signs I know to look for. So I know there's a good chance it's 'on' We start dancing. As we're dancing, i'm getting more physical. Grabbing her hands, brushing my palms down her hips and stuff. Spinning her around. 'Getting handsy' lol Slowly pushing my luck …
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:17 AM
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From what it sounds like, telling girls directly they are hot so soon seems to not be working That night. That's the problem with this sub though I've had nights where opening direct worked great and indirect openers bombed. If I posted that Field report, people would say 'Dude! Go direct! You are hiding your penis with these indirect openers! Read Mark Manson!!'' etc. You get the idea? Having said that, I do tend to usually go indirect simply because it suits my personal style better, but I can…
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:14 PM
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uk
/r/seduction20/07/21 07:14 PM
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??? Not sure if you are agreeing or disagreeing with me lol I'm saying most PUA's get rejected a tonne and they often usually show it too (most premium products have huge 'rejection compilations')
/r/seduction20/07/21 06:55 PM
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I prefer bars. I like to be able to talk at least a little bit in order to help tip the odds in my favour with the girls that are at least somewhat attracted But just dancefloor without talking etc is more like tinder. You lose out to the guy who is slightly better looking. But in person, if she thinks you are hot but the other guy is even hotter, I think you can still beat him (e.g - you pass her 'hot threshold' and you can also make her laugh and give her feelings etc)
/r/seduction20/07/21 06:54 PM
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thanks - although I very much disagree This shows lack of confidence - and by saying it's weird now you just made it weird in her eyes. It's called a statement of empathy. Encouraged by PUAs not her. It's fine. Compliments about her have worked many times for me cold read - why? It's under the umbrella of attraction material. When you open a girl, you are supposed to do things like cold reads and negs and other attraction material etc (the theory is that otherwise, you're not running game at all…
/r/seduction20/07/21 06:50 PM
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so why not to try one of them? Re-read the post again
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:06 PM
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I just told the girls that the other table of girls were talking shit saying they were having more fun them them girls or something. It was just stupid, but sometimes just saying things to make yourself laugh is useful. RSD used to teach this concept of self amusement and state transference and stuff quite a lot I don't get too caught up in technicals though. Everything i've done shows me that there really are no tricks to make a girl attracted to you, so no need to overthink it all.
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:19 PM
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your conversation opening of "i think you're cute / hot" NEVER works Not that night. But it's worked many times before. And many coaches strongly advise opening direct like that btw. BUT, having said that, it's not my usual method of opening anyway. Why do people get so sidetracked here lol
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:15 PM
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Shit, what did you think you did differently on the last one that they didn't on the others? nothing, really. It's not as though you can just bang whoever you want. She needs to be attracted. Most girls simply won't be unless you are super handsome. It's a numbers game What type of things did you talk about? If it were me, I would have run out of things to say probably Everything, really. Her friends, her clothes, her plans for the night, holidays. Everything. People worry about running out of t…
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:13 PM
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i promise i've got a million more field reports i've kept to myself and the patterns aren't as obvious as that. I have a bigger sample size. Comlimenting (even though I don't do it as much as indirect) has about the same success rate. Makes sense since the opener really doesn't matter anyway. It's whether she's attracted or not really
/r/seduction20/07/21 01:29 PM
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thanks. Although i'd argue it's always a numbers game tbh. Just watching infields of guys who've been doing this since the late 90's and who teach this stuff kind of proves that lol (they still get rejected a hell of a lot)
/r/seduction20/07/21 12:50 PM
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yeah, I usually don't do that, but as I say, I like to mix it up, and I also find that it's completely irrelevant either way. Like, a girl who likes you will melt if you open direct and it leads to super fast lays
/r/seduction20/07/21 12:37 PM
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Usually with a friend or 2. Never completely alone.
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:01 AM
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Just spoke about drinking more and said I had nothing at mine and asked whether she had any drinks at hers. She said yes. No LMR (last minute resistance) because she was attracted enough I guess
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:28 PM
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I assume you don't know what LMR means, but yes. We had sex
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:27 PM
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It can be a bit awkward, but not really more askward than trying to run game on a girl who isn't interested and doesn't want you trying to game her lol. Sometimes i'm just like ''Anyway, i'm gonna get a drink. Have a good night'' and eject. Othertimes i'll be with a wing or some friends, and i'll just basically ask my friend a random question and kinda half turn my back on teh girls, and usually SHE will then make an escape lol. I'm making it easy for her.
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:33 PM
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I found the most effective way is to actually say something that will make you laugh at yourself. As the approached person usually has more options to joke back or to be closed up and laughter usually wins. Doing that has always been effective Can you elaborate on that? Not certain what you mean. YOu mean to open with a self amusing opener? For some the goal is to get laid which sure is nice but I always loved the challenge of the interactions I've actually been at this a while now. I'm at the p…
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:32 PM
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The friend introducing you might have helped with the yes girl. I don't think so, tbh. It was more just luck that the girl introduced me too a girl who happened to be into me. I could tell instantly that the interaction was different to the ones before. I'M sure if I approached her before her friend introduced me, the result would have been the same Why do you think the other girls gave you bad reactions? I think that's just the way it goes. I'm not some male model. Lots of girls (I tend to go f…
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:29 PM
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She told me her coat made her feel like an eskimo. I said 'You know how eskimo's kiss, right??'. She said 'no' and laughed. So I slowly pull her towards me and slowly put my face close to hers and nuzzle her nose with my nose lol. Then we made out
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:37 PM
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Do'nt know his surname, but yeah the fat one. Had the socaial circle product. This guy. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f66x5n/thoughts_on_rsd_lukes_teachings_social_circle_game/
/r/seduction13/07/21 10:57 PM
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i've actually got all of his products and premium infields. Problem with Tom is that he was exposed to be using actresses
/r/seduction13/07/21 10:48 PM
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Owen is a beast but Luke is a fucking monster. Everyone used to give Luke a hard time on the rsdnation forums and teased him about his lack of game. He did have some pretty bad infields out there at the time tbh. (girls ignoring him, and him having some very obvious state crashes mid interaction lol) - I don't think he gets laid from cold approach at all. If he does get laid, I think it's more basically paying for it (girls might sleep with him if they think he can make them money and give them …
/r/seduction13/07/21 10:33 PM
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I just mean that when you see a PUA approach a girl and she's like not engaging him at all and her body language is clearly one of lack of interest or maybe she even verbally tells him 'Sorry. I'm not interested/you're not my type' etc (usually later in the interaction) then it ends in a rejection. He'll usually try to run his game and use some humour and pushpull etc, but it still ends in rejection. And when he pulls a girl, it's usually clear within a second or 2 that she's at least very recep…
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:53 PM
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I agree. I think he has about the best 'game' i've seen, yet he still gets rejected a LOT!
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:37 PM
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I think he's as good as any others tbh But his results will obviously not be as good as someone like Coach Kyle if they're both going after hot 19 year olds. Coach Kyle is young and fairly ripped and facially handsome and covered in tats etc. I've never seen a pickup artist who was actually impressive though, tbh. LIke, a guy able to 'seduce' a girl who wasn't into him. They all just talk to the girl in the same way a regular guy would (say hi, ask her questions, make some assumptions, try to fl…
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:16 PM
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From what I heard from teh top London day gamers (tom torero, nick krauser etc), they get about 1 lay every 35 approaches (and them claims should probably be taken with a pinch of salt lol) I think it's really just a numbers game tbh. I don't think 'skill' really comes into it from what i've seen. She's either into you or she's no. You just need to find out. Obviously you can do game like pushpull lines and tease adn tell dhv stories etc but I think its basically irrelevant. You'll get the girl …
/r/seduction13/07/21 06:36 PM
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thanks So say you open, 'Hey, I can only stay a minute', and then go into a DHV routine or something. And she is still clearly not attracted or maybe semi ignores you etc, do you carry on? (more quetsions and DHV stories etc?) What about if it seems to be going ok, but she strongly rejects any compliance or escalation on your part due to a lack of attraction. (maybe she just tells you 'sorry you're not my type' kind of thing - )Do you carry on and try to make her attracted using more dhv stories…
/r/seduction13/07/21 05:09 PM
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I thought RSD actually kept it very simple? (basically they said you can say what you want, open direct or indirect, doesn't matter, just self amuse and be present etc) ComPared to mysterymethod where you have to memorise a million things and do it all in the right order and have flow charts in your head etc lol So how would you describe your game? Give me an idea of a typical opener and how you transition. If a girl seemingly has zero interest in speaking to you or no attraction, what do you sa…
/r/seduction13/07/21 03:53 PM
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This seems to be a 'thing'. I noticed a long time ago that PUA's in London only ever seem to have successful interactions with Foreign girls who are travelling. Not sure why
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:56 AM
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