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Close, but I think one piece of your advice is flawed. It's not efficient to study your surroundings so logically/analytically. Nobody can truly predict whether a girl will be interested before they even talk to her, calibrate your game after you find out, not before. I've approached happy smiling girls who instantly snap into angry girls and I've approached grumpy/bored girls who instantly snap into angels.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 10:50 AM
5

Wait wtf, why on earth would you send an ass shot?
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:13 AM
1

Joined a PUA lair a while back, lots of weird guys, lots of cool guys. It's a weird mix but everyone's focused on self-development and most don't drink while out so that's good. We just go to venues and talk and when we see a hot girl walking past we can break off from the group and talk to the girl... and they don't even laugh if you get brutally rejected, they don't care and you can just walk back to them and casually rejoin the conversation. Most guys always want people to go out with them so…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 02:04 AM
1

Probably not, and because you're posting here you are caring way too much about it
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:11 AM
-5

I think fiction books are stupid, and fiction books while beneficial are a waste of time compared to other things you could be doing. ...But to be honest I'm actually writing a fiction book series which I've been working on for many years. So I don't read them, I just write them.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:21 AM
1

Good that you're thinking about the future, many kids just do a pointless degree and have no idea what to do with it and they're 50k in student loan debt. I'm in college going for a 70k+ a year job BUT only because my parents are paying about halve of my student fees. ...If not for this I wouldn't even go to college and just start an apprenticeship making a decent 30k a year with no student debt, once you've got a decades experience and know the trade you could build your business up to earning …
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:39 AM
-1

I only read self-development and financial books.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:35 AM
1

And also take up activities that confident men typically do... such as approaching strangers, lifting, giving speeches, etc.
/r/seduction08/11/15 02:26 PM
1

Yes but fuck em. Everything else I tried made minor changes (expect maybe proper fitness/nutrition regimes), approaching gives huge confidence and you can notice massive changes it just after a few sessions. Kind of awkward but remember abundance mentality, and you'll never see those people again. Get a wingman if you need one.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:20 AM
1

Start approaching girls on the street, who cares if you're too young, you'll never see them ever again. I started when I was 19. That shit is hard (your emotions will resist it) but if you get to the point where you can approach about 15 women in one hour you'll see massive improvements in your self-confidence and social skills. One of the best things you can do in terms of self-improvement, and easily achieveable in 3 months.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:37 PM
2

Yes, just do it for the reference experience. That doesn't mean don't try though. Think about what you're going to do, maybe even read up on some tips (don't waste hours and hours doing this though) AND JUST TRY SOMETHING. Fuck it up and learn from your mistakes the next time. THIS IS HUGE ADVICE HERE. For me, my second date was massively better than my first (different girls but mostly due to knowing what to expect). This date you might just want to go for a good chat and a tiny bit of kino, do…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:30 PM
3

Anyone with any common sense doesn't learn their game from TRP... this place gives good strategies but it's terrible at giving any worthwhile tactics.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:28 PM
1

Yes, it's not them taking action and being alpha... it's the alcohol taking action and being alpha.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 03:07 PM
2

Writing too much. I'ld either put 'Well you got me' or 'Always great to meet a fan'... or something else short that is better.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:51 PM
3

Don't be afraid to fail. Otherwise you are desperate. If you realise you don't like her don't be afraid to just get up, thank her and leave. Don't be afraid to make mistakes. As long as you learn from your mistakes later you are always moving forward. Basically what I'm trying to say is, stop fucking worrying about trying to make the coffee date successful.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 01:45 AM
2

Don't have down sydrome, but it'ld be pretty fucking awesome to see a down sydrome guy go hardcore and get more ripped/stronger than 90% of the normal population.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 01:36 PM
7

I still think it's fucking stupid, not changing my mind because some guy with a green text on his username the founder of this sub says it's okay. I admit it's pathetic for anyone to actually get stressed/angry about it, but yes this whole shirt thing could have a 'trickle effect' and yes it could ultimately ruin this sub. But who the fuck cares, true RPers don't need this sub to flourish. All the great content is on the sidebar, that's the shit that changes your life, the stuff posted here ever…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 01:15 PM
1

Not sure why this is getting downvoted. It's a good thing to talk about things you like talking about, your passion will rub off on the girl.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 04:20 PM
4

Always use condoms you retard
/r/askTRP21/09/15 03:08 PM
1

Yeah I'm not perfect but a lot of the things of TRP make me cringe hard, and for some reason I think I'm a lot more likely to meet a RP noob in a meetup than guys like you and me.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 02:33 PM
1

Meet 'RP' type guys but I wouldn't go out of my way to meet someone who you know has also read the sidebar on TRP and follows it. You shouldn't even talk to the red pill to anyone. I can't think of anything more cringeworthy than meeting a RPer in real life and him turning out to be a fatty beta or something. I don't think you'ld benefit that much from it either.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 12:45 PM
2

She just wants attention, if you have high enough smv there will be girls who 'just have to borrow your pen' 'just have to look at your notes' 'just have to talk to you after class'.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 01:18 AM
1

But would you turn neighbours, co-workers, gymers and classmates into plates or possibly LTRs?
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:23 AM
17

I have to agree with all of these.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 05:15 AM
1

YES. I LOVE YOU. ABUNDANCE MENTALITY. So many fishies in the sea... blue fishies, green fishies, brown fishies, so many opportunities.
/r/seduction31/08/15 01:05 PM
1

Remember what the target audience on reddit is though haha
/r/seduction30/08/15 12:04 PM
1

Thanks for linking this. unsurprisingly a lot of people think it's shit idea, they don't give any other reason apart from that it's creepy though. Who cares if it's creepy, it's not like you have to see that stranger that rejected you every single day of your life from now until you die. And I wonder how many people who upvoted that and agreed with it will actually listen to his advice... probably like 1% or less.
/r/seduction30/08/15 02:41 AM
1

Ah yes, one of my first cold approaches was in a library. Unless the girl has an assignment due the next day they'll always agree to a coffee break if they like you. Library is literally the lowest-energy environment you can be in, which can be good or bad.
/r/seduction25/08/15 09:08 AM
1

Sorry, read my edited post. This would be the solution otherwise.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 01:49 PM
1

How about when a girl is just being rude. Eg. Texting while on a date or something. More beta just to keep on talking for 20 minutes when shes texting, more beta to just go silent and sit there awkwardly, or more beta to call her out on this bullshit? EDIT: And lets say that you literally can not just stand up and leave (wheelchair and dependent on her wheeling you out).
/r/askTRP20/08/15 01:40 PM
3

In theory it's a bad idea. But who gives a fuck, it's just one girl. If you're really so stressed about not getting any closure then go reapproach her and try again. Just try not to make a habit of it.
/r/seduction19/08/15 10:33 AM
8

Do what ever the fuck you wanna doooooooo
/r/seduction19/08/15 05:25 AM
1

...I'm guessing you have not heard the story about the guy who approached 10 girls on campus every day.
/r/seduction19/08/15 12:20 AM
0

Well... shit. I wish I had this advice and had more balls.
/r/seduction18/08/15 09:34 AM
2

Pickup is metal as fuck
/r/seduction18/08/15 09:28 AM
-3

That takes balls... either that or you're just stupid. I hope you realise if you get rejected enough on campus you'll earn a reputation.
/r/seduction18/08/15 09:25 AM
1

I can not stress this enough. Also don't date girls at the gym unless you work at that gym as an employee.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 12:42 PM
1

Don't share TRP with anyone for any reason.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 02:23 PM
0

Move on, you can recreate what you had with her with any girl. She is not special.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 02:23 PM
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No need to read TRP every day... I'm addicted to this shit (visit the sub 5 times a day (not exaggerating)), and it's getting worthless. But the theory reading on the sidebar is fucking holy, everyone here should be re-reading that once every 6 months.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 03:11 AM
1

Perth
/r/seduction15/08/15 05:46 AM
1

You never talk about TRP... I thought this used to be one of the TRP's core tenets, the most important of them all.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 04:17 AM
1

YES, so many times. Only the club owners, VIPs or mega-alphas get any serious attention, and even for them getting laid is hard.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 12:53 AM
1

Seriously the best advise here. Instant contradicting social proof.
/r/seduction06/08/15 12:51 AM
2

In most clubs most guys just stand at the back with their drinks and talk to each other anyway, hardly anyone can get laid in clubs.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 09:40 AM
1

Pick up is a great way to meet friends. Most local lairs will be composed of a few cool guys and weirdos though.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 09:38 AM
1

DAY 1: 9 hours 50 minutes. Went to sleep at 11:30 and woke up at 9:20am.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 02:03 AM
5

If he's truly ready... he will find us. (cue dramatic music)
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 07:31 AM
1

YES, finally someone gets it. Your only problem is what that your partner is going to go crazy when her friends all start getting married with big weddings and she's the only one missing out.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 06:01 AM
1

daygamer69 will take part in this challenge! ...I've been measuring my sleep for months though, always aiming for 8.5 hours sleep every night.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 05:35 AM
2

I'ld just say this. I'ld tell her I think it's silly/childish to publicly announce it on my facebook page.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 03:01 PM
2

I'ld take a look but unless you give something new and present it in an engaging way then I probably won't look again.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 11:32 PM
3

Girls telling me that they think marriage would be very boring because they'ld be riding the same dick every night.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 01:14 PM
4

A lasting effect for what? We're probably going to blow ourselves up within a thousand years or so, the world isn't always going to remain this stable and nukes/WMDs are here to stay. Even if we managed to become some intergalactic peaceful beings through technology there's no point to it all. I won't be there to see it and the universe will probably end at some point. It's no more logical to dedicate your life to hard work and self-improvement when it's equally as pointless as binging on drugs/…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 02:10 PM
1

Work on your voice and body language and height (hah). Reputation and status within the group is also another factor.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 10:09 AM
1

Get in contact with your local PUA circle, they're probably not that hard to find. Even if you're not into that PUA bullshit it's still fun to meet people and have them as wingmen. You literally skip the stranger-becoming-friend stage and go straight to being accepted and having a good time. Even if you have shitty game they'll just think that you're still learning and most will be happy to hang out with you.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 05:29 AM
1

Everything I should probably do within a year anyway.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 02:13 AM
2

Reciprocate it. They hit your arm after a joke, you quip some funny remark straight away and hit their arm. Can't think of a joke? say something like 'That's not even funny man!'. They put their arm around your shoulders, you do the same thing straight away.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 02:11 AM
4

Or alternatively just use them together. Wait a few weeks then ask who is this, when she responds you can respond with: 'Going to be at XYZ bar tomorrow night, be there'.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 12:14 AM
-36

Where the fuck is the rapport??? Expect a high flake rate if all you do is introduce yourself, instantly give out your number and run away before you screw up. Talk about how her days going, what she's doing with her parents, whether shes from your city or not etc.
/r/seduction10/07/15 11:59 PM
1

Two years? Try seven. Barely even saw her for the last five years and only watched her and talked a little bit for those first two years, that's as BP as it gets. Eventually fixed with abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 11:49 PM
2

Yes. But I'm gradually improving and getting out of my comfort zone. Theory is great and all but mostly worthless if you're not getting actual experience and practice. Without constant practice it's easy to get stifled and forget what you've been taught and you resort to your BP ways, with practice you just desensitise yourself to those feelings so you can focus better on your game.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 01:03 AM
3

Fuck yes. RSD videos have changed my life. The only problem I found with them was that for many months I got addicted to watching them all and didn't actually approach any girls. Every couple of videos they'ld introduce a new concept that would make me think 'wow holy shit, I'm glad I knew this before cold approaching my next girl.' I don't have any friends anymore, the RSD instructors have become my closest friends, I watch there videos and infield footage over and over, two hours a day at the …
/r/askTRP09/07/15 01:17 PM
9

RSD PUA shit is fine to use, a lot of it is inner game anyway.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 10:58 AM
3

Not necessarily. It only works for me because it fits in with the whole 'good looking ripped tall guy who is an idiot but means well' stereotype. Just like Kronk really. I play the stereotype to perfection and as soon as I add in that I work with kids and I'm also an experienced ballroom dancer they're hooked.
/r/seduction06/07/15 03:04 PM
4

I'm too fucking stupid to make long sentences work. I'm too stupid to be witty or funny either. You don't need to ramble or make jokes. People still smile if you speak within a light-hearted vibe and give positive energy.
/r/seduction06/07/15 09:42 AM
2

I wish people talked at my gym. It's like a fucking monastery devoted to lifting.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 02:33 AM
2

Girls have a tendency to be friendly when they see you after a rejection (as long as the initial interaction is friendly overall) Don't apologise about that. Reeks of betaness Agreeing with her to change topic betafied this even more I don't know why I even go to this sub anymore
/r/askTRP06/07/15 02:29 AM
3

Jesus christ can you keep it down with the dramatic romantic shit You've developed a bad case of oneitis son.
/r/seduction05/07/15 05:19 AM
1

Ignore the messages. Feel free to game girls who are coincidentally in your presence in the moment, but don't make any effort to make time for them later.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 01:54 AM
5

I've thought about this a few times in the past as well, I remember watching a documentary about a male porn star who said that gradually sex lost all of it's passion and emotion, even when he retired from the industry and got a LTR. Female porn stars definitely become fucked up, I've heard they become even more self-centred and throw tantrums over nothing.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 01:51 PM
1

I'm surprised nobody has mentioned this one (perphaps it's wrong?), but I've heard that cold showers boost testosterone production. If it's not true then I've been having cold showers every morning for the last four months for nothing haha
/r/askTRP27/06/15 03:41 PM
-9

My physical attributes really make me stand out. If I'm in a crowd of a hundred people you could spot me anywhere anytime. Easily recognized and remembered.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 02:34 PM
2

When the motivation starts to die you'll start getting into mental debates with yourself. Just keep on listening to that voice in your head that defies your emotions/body, your emotions/body fight for comfort and short-term benefits. But that voice of the defiance is the one that really cares about you, as it actually cares about long-term benefits and the kind of person you will be in a few years time.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 02:30 PM
10

Just remember that real change comes from consistent effort over a long period of time. Things may get worse before they get better, it might take years until this all pays off.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:55 PM
1

Cheers, I'm just worried that I won't be able to escalate properly, it's always been a big issue for me.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 08:53 AM
1

Dedicate a good 30 minutes a day to cold approaching/insta-dates on the streets in different locations in the city. Remember to maintain your focus and concentration, you're not out there just to have a good time, your main focus is improving your skills, building confidence and reinforcing that abundance mentality. Going to the gym and eating healthy also helps, avoid spending hours on pointless activities like gaming or watching TV. Research about personal development, meditation, and dedicate…
/r/askTRP17/06/15 12:34 AM
4

I've haven't, and I know TRP preaches an abundance mentality but that doesn't mean I should give up at the first sign of resistance. Countering rejections and getting a yes from an initial no are one of the funnest/most-challenging parts of game for me. ...I'ld actually like someone to answer my question.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 07:30 AM
3

You don't.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 03:11 AM
2

Watch out for building up a reputation at your college as a sleazy PUA-type guy. Your cold approach loses it's shock value if the girl knows it's nothing special because she's heard about you asking girls out all the time. Keep campus approaches to a minimum, just daygame at public libraries or in the streets. A good idea is to study at another college's library where nobody knows you and you never have to go there if you don't want to.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 01:49 AM
1

Cheers, the aim is to get some physical contact in (other than the standard handshake) and ask at least one out to agree to coffee, even if nothing becomes of it.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 01:48 PM
9

The biggest 'alpha' I've ever met turned out to be a huge D&D enthusiast, and he collects all these random fantasy novels from the 90s. Ultimately I guess this does harm his smv but because of all his other alpha traits his fantasy nerdiness is irrelevant. Imagine you've got a top 0.00001% man, a bodybuilder male-model billionaire who also volunteers at orphanages. If he happens to spend a few hours a week playing D&D with some fat friends do you think anybody would give a fuck?
/r/askTRP11/06/15 01:53 PM
1

Precisely, if we trusted our gut 100% of the time most of us would have never even cold approached a girl ever.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 01:09 AM
3

You don't.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 12:04 PM
5

Direct. Always be direct. Don't be one of those BPers that approach girls (hah) with indirect openers like, "Hey do you have the time?" "Do you know where betabitch street is?", and then talk about mundane shit before asking her out. Trust me when I say this, it's a lot more effective if you convey your interest from the start, and rejections are quicker so it's better on a cost/benefit analysis. Trust me, I've seen guys waste 20 minutes talking to a girl about regular topics with the intent of …
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:39 AM
1

You can buy Valentines and Birthday presents if you want to, you definitely don't have to buy gifts if you don't want to. Personally I would not bother.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 10:59 AM
1

(Soft) Nexting - no longer initiating contact with a girl or setting up hangouts. If she reaches out to you, be amicable. Depending on the severity of the offense that warranted nexting, resuming the relationship at some point might be an option. Hard nexting - no talking to or seeing the girl. She no longer exists. Ignore any contact she attempts to make.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 05:40 AM
6

You're already blue pill as fuck for letting this girl's emotions/behaviour dictate your own. Soft next her if you really think she's suicidal. Do you really think anyone on this sub is going to encourage you to act bluepill so hopefully even she will be disgusted with you?
/r/askTRP08/06/15 05:16 AM
2

100% here, if you have high enough SMV and great game you can get away with anything. I read a lot of PUA stuff exclusively from RSD Nation and a few youtubers. I'ld say that SMV is important to a point but it's game that really allows you to capitalise on the SMV you've worked hard for (or luckily been born with).
/r/askTRP05/06/15 02:43 PM
4

Correct also make sure your smv is high enough otherwise a lot of girls won't bother.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 06:51 AM
3

Hit the sidebar, even if you've even read it all before. Make notes on it if you have to. Every couple of months even when my life is going blissfully well I re-read the sidebar to help internalise TRP.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 01:43 PM
5

I've thought of this as well. As long as you think it's sustainable and giving all these great benefits, why not stay on monk mode as long as you want?
/r/askTRP30/05/15 12:51 PM
1

6'5" here. It should increase your SMV automatically unless you're one of those really skinny guys. Any gains you acquire by lifting hard gives a bigger effect if you are tall rather than being small, think of it as a multiplier bonus. Here's a thread asking a similar question (only two responses though).
/r/askTRP30/05/15 10:47 AM
5

Raise smv, work on game. Statistically even if you're a 9.9/10 there will always be the chance of unusually terrible nights.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 10:39 AM
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Theoretically this is the best thing to do. Here at the red pill we're pretty cold motherfuckers, we had to be in the first place to accept and internalise the pill after all. Personally, this would burn into my conscious and frustrate me greatly. Humans are creatures of empathy after all. OP a small effort on your behalf could save one man a lot of trouble. Make sure if you do something, that you're really careful that it's anonymous and that the information will infact get to this guy. If it d…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 10:35 AM
2

So you were too nervous to escalate? Do you have any experience in sexually escalating when in an isolated (both alone) environment? If you have sexual experience and it's just an issue of nerves, you need to build up your confidence, pulling off a few successful cold approaches can build confidence really fast and strong, so maybe research how do cold approach correctly and give it a shot (a few times).
/r/askTRP29/05/15 02:34 PM
1

Same (hence the username), do you want to discuss day game cold approach some time over PMs?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 02:14 PM
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Here's an excerpt from a post I'm working on (once I get enough comment karma to post here I'll show everyone the full version). I discuss how this shifting dating paradigm that has been caused by a reliance on social media and online dating actually makes cold approaches very powerful: Cold approach is a rarely used art, with many betas preferring to play it safe within their own social circle or just spend the best years of their lives playing games every day. The ‘cool’ kids at my college, th…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:37 PM
1

Go on the 10 day positivity challenge. All negative thoughts you have have to be reframed within half a minute into something positive. 'Oh fuck I got rejected hard. :( = > Shityeah boi Im racking in those experience points! :D' You need to rewire you brain so that your natural inclination is to think positively.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:27 AM
1

You might be onto something there, anyway some light-hearted cold approaches may cheer you up.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:21 AM
9

Yep just remember there's nothing forcing you to explain why you're dumping her. You don't have to justify why you're doing it. It's more awkward in person but just maintain frame and you should be okay. And don't let her emotionally lean on you (ie reciprocating her hugs of despair and telling her its all going to be okay if she starts crying). You need to be a little bit cold-hearted for this.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:19 AM
2

Plate - Woman with whom you are in a non-exclusive sexual relationship with. Spinning plates is the act of having multiple plates simultaneously. Hard next - No talking to or seeing the girl. She no longer exists. Ignore any contact she attempts to make. Basically just don't keep her in a serious and depressing committed/exclusive relationship if possible, turn it into something fun, light-hearted and casual. You need to read the TRP sidebar and do some theory reading.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:13 AM
-1

Yes. Plate her if you think she's emotionally stable enough (this girl sounds like she'ld end up killing herself or flip out and go crazy at some point, but you know her better than us), otherwise hard next. That's what I recommend but it's your choice of course.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:50 AM
1

I think you'll find it very difficult to build an abundance mentality in small country town-type situations. Especially if everyone knows each other, then you'll get a reputation as girls will talk to each other about how they rejected you. Girls don't like going after guys that they know have a tendency to get rejected. I can't think of your a solution to your problem, but I advocate that you seriously consider getting the fuck out of where you are and moving to a big city.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:46 AM
1

Men are expected to make the first move, you already did that when you asked her to go out to the bar. She's seen what you're like, she's made her judgements, if she's really interested (ie plate-material) then she'll chase you by asking what you're doing or if you want to go out. Men are supposed to make the first move but that is regarding the first ever date, not every single date that ever happens. A good practice is to let the girl initiate the second date, she will if she wants to. She won…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:39 AM
1

Go cold approach some stranger for fucks sake, you need to build up that abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:34 AM
1

Move to a big city.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:32 AM
2

Correct, don't you even fucking think about chasing. That means don't go 'hunting' (are you fucking kidding me) or looking her up on social media to add as a friend. If you bump into her, great, chat her up a bit and say something along the lines of "Hey I know this is a little random but do you want to get coffee some time?", then get her number and there you go. In the meantime you need to meet some more women, do some cold approaches.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:22 AM
2

Don't apologise for being a jerk. Unless you've done something really bad (eg. punching her cat). You shouldn't have even initiated, if she was interested she would chase you. Yes, she's willing to offer you a place in her friendzone again, she does not see you as potential mate but only as a source of validation. Don't initiate any further and go out and meet more women. Who knows, if you raise your smv high enough and get ripped you might just bump into each other a few years from now and she'…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:18 AM
2

Why waste time and energy investing in this girl when there's thousands of girls around you who would go home with you. If she was really interested in you she'ld initiate invitations and chase.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:12 AM
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Next her and move on. I'm not sure if you could even 'next' if she was never yours, but the point is that you need to stop making a effort to be around her, don't accept any invitations from her for unless its been about six or more months with no contact, unless her invitation is obviously romantic (unlikely but you never know). If she's particularly toxic just hard next her and never let her into your life again.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 08:52 AM
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A women who stalks me to the point where she finds out out about my interests in the red pill or general pua, then dedicates all her time to telling everyone I know about it. It wouldn't make me breakdown or have a midlife crisis but it's definitely one of the worst/most-annoying things a woman could do to me.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 08:14 AM
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It's important to get into a mindset where you are putting your actions into perspective. You have to realise it's never a big deal. This is a bit of an extreme (and terrible) example but I used to get really anxious walking around by myself in public, then the next day I browsed /r/watchpeopledie for a good two hours and when I went out without any worries.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 08:04 AM
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Exactly, I'm really happy this is the top comment right now. You don't want to worry about escalating with girls when you're lifting. Trust me that it's a bad idea, when you say she's a 'really cute girl' you're already putting her on a pedestal, there are likely thousands of hot girls living around where you are who you won't have to see at the gym all the time. Eventually you'll get to a point where every time you go to the gym you'll worry internally about what you're going to do if you see t…
/r/askTRP27/05/15 07:43 AM
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