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| 1 | If you ask for a girls details and she says “I’ll just add you on Facebook” what’s a good response/ reaction?Really like your method, thanks for that | /r/askTRP | 04/03/18 10:38 AM |
| 1 | If you ask for a girls details and she says “I’ll just add you on Facebook” what’s a good response/ reaction?Nice, thanks for your input | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 10:24 PM |
| 2 | If you ask for a girls details and she says “I’ll just add you on Facebook” what’s a good response/ reaction?Yeah fair enough. Don’t have the same status as your example though haha. Maybe I’ll follow up on fb next week, ask her out and if she’s keen cool if she’s not then Forgotten. I’ve just moved to a new city and don’t know many people so pretty keen just to meet people so not too fussed if it’s not going to be a bang | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 02:06 PM |
| 4 | If you ask for a girls details and she says “I’ll just add you on Facebook” what’s a good response/ reaction?Yeah most likely not | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 01:59 PM |
| 3 | My close friend has been paying for dinner and movies in hopes of holding a girl's hand. Help me snap him out of his white knight bullshit?You can lead a whore to culture, but you cannot make her think. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this?😘 | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 01:44 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this?Thanks mate, good thoughts. No I'm not travelling to see her, I've moved permanently back to the city she lives in | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this?Thanks for your response. I probably will meet her and just see how it goes | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this?Typo. Happy to clarify anything else for you. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 08:08 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this?There is no LDR here. We just slept together twice over a period of time and now we live in the same city so I'm keen to try for a third time or plate | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Great prove of TRPPerhaps I wasn't clear. The guy stood up and moved to the seat, he is halfway between old and new seat when he was seen. The woman was roughly in the same position. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 03:17 PM |
| 1 | A breakdown of two situations that recently happened to me.. what do you think the optimal way to deal with these would have been?Great advice, thanks man | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 08:41 AM |
| 1 | A breakdown of two situations that recently happened to me.. what do you think the optimal way to deal with these would have been?Yeah that's fair enough. I tend to go into a bit of a shell when challenged by a taller guy. Will keep that in mind | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 05:56 AM |
| 2 | I can't stand being short and I have been lifting for 6 years now..I'm not sure if I'm reading this right. Are you blaming your father and your upbringing for making you short and using your brother as an example of how not having stress in your life makes you taller? Stress does not make you shorter just as much as it doesn't make your hair ginger or make you asian. These are genetic issues so do not blame your family. Do you know what does make you shorter in the eyes of women? Negative body language and posture. How is your posture? Are you confident in fron… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Which Gym should I chooseNoone can tell you if it's okay, that is your choice. Is it okay if I spend $20 on take out tonight instead of spending $12 cooking my own food because I can't be bothered cooking tonight? Idk who cares it's my choice. Just choose | /r/askTRP | 21/06/17 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Which Gym should I chooseI can only speak to myself here but the quality of the gym is a big motivator for getting me to the gym. If the gym is a piece of crap, with shitty equipment, shitty people, no space etc, then I'm going to have a hard time motivating myself to go hard. But that's me, so maybe you won't be the same. I'd suggest the following approach. Use excel, make a list of the 5 gyms in your area. and then add columns for with the following headings: - Location - Cost - Quality of equipment / size Then enter … | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Burned but how do I go on from here.Yeah I agree. But in any case it's not for us to comment. He must go to the doctor and they will sort it out | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Burned but how do I go on from here.Don't see her again. And don't talk to anyone else about this. Think of your actions in terms of costs and benefits. How do you benefit from seeing her tonight? I can't think of any so neither should you be able to. See your doctor tomorrow and they will advise. Try not to think about it until then, which may be hard but just try. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Burned but how do I go on from here.Listen, I've been neurotic about this stuff in the past. It's something that I look back on with regret. Of course due to the incident that caused the panic, but more importantly, regret over the way I handled it. I went through a similar set of emotions to you and believe me when I say that panicking will do nothing. There is zero point worrying about it, you will just inadvertently fuck up other aspects of your life. You will not have HIV, I can guarantee that. Herpes is unlikely because you h… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Burned but how do I go on from here.No one below has really offered a practical opinion so I will try and do that. Please note that this is just based on my own knowledge, I am not a doctor. Firstly, do not worry about her. I understand why you want her to get tested but it actually doesn't matter. You just need to go to your doctor's appointment, get tested. You will get the results back a couple of weeks later and then you should follow up in around 6-8 weeks with another test (bloods only, don't worry about testing your pee aga… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Tinder - "send me $5 and see what happens 😘"Say yeah sure, ask for her bank details and then forward onto the police for scam tracing. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Goddamn it so disappointed in my gameThanks man appreciate it | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Goddamn it so disappointed in my gamePoint blank. Devoid of any tact what so ever. With older women you can be more direct but with an 18 year old doing that 45min into first date is never going to work | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 10:26 AM |
| 0 | Goddamn it so disappointed in my gameYeah fair enough. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 10:24 AM |
| -1 | Goddamn it so disappointed in my gameIn this instance there is no question. I'm just deeply disappointed in myself and respect this community. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 09:44 AM |
| 0 | How to be socially equal to drinkers as a non-drinker?If you're not being invited to events and gatherings already, I don't really know what to say to you. Maybe just be friendlier to them I guess? If they were really your friends I don't think they would care that you didn't drink. But in terms of moving forward, I don't like drinking at work or social events really but you're right that for whatever reason people find that weird and it's generally considered to be a negative. So a few things that I do that you may want to think about: Pick up an … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/17 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Jewish prick in my class at uni keeps getting rude at me. Keeps trying to undermine and "educate" me! What doI'm Jewish myself and a supporter of Israel but I absolutely cannot stand preachy people, no matter what cause they are preaching for. Be the bigger person, ignore him or alternatively call him out in front of people, but not in an aggressive manner otherwise you will lose support from others. Ultimately if things are being played out like you say they are, he will (if not already) lose support from your peers and you will win. As a side note, "fucking someone up" is never the way to go, even if… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/17 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Game 101 - where can I find an intro to the basics from gaming women?Sidebar | /r/askTRP | 09/03/17 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Got next'd by a Tinder plateGuys always forget,(and I've been guilty of this too) that women can and do "spin plates" too in a sense. Maybe not everyone will agree with me but if you have three plates that you are spinning, surely she will have others - there's one other guy that you know of, maybe there were others that you didn't. At some point she will decide which guy she wants as a more solid "thing", and if it's not you, well bad luck there is nothing you can do about it. No point dwelling on it or trying to dissect … | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 12:08 AM |
| 3 | How to pick up my neighbourNothing wrong with that. Slow incremental progress is the key | /r/askTRP | 02/03/17 10:22 PM |
| 7 | How to pick up my neighbourNext time you see her: "Hi I'm xxx, what's your name?" Nice to meet you! How long have you lived here for etc etc Etc few minutes of idol chit chat. "Well I've got to go nice to meet you". Next time you see her - Hey xxx how are you? More ideal chit chat but use some of the things she told you before" After a few min, hey I've got to run to the gym, but why don't we chat over a drink? Nice, what's your number? Follow up 4 days to a week later | /r/askTRP | 02/03/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you change your own attitude or perception towards yourself?Thanks mate | /r/askTRP | 15/02/17 06:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you change your own attitude or perception towards yourself?I have a regimented gym routine so that is going well, but thank you I will look into the book. What lesson did you take away from it? | /r/askTRP | 15/02/17 08:56 AM |
| 1 | TRP on milk?Almond milk isn't a substitute for milk.. Almond milk is just made by straining water through chopped Almonds, not a lot of nutrition there. From memory only around 0.8g of protein per 100ml. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/16 02:00 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else shocked by the disgust your female friends have for "white men" after Trump's victory?This was on my FB Feed.. And I don't even live in the US! http://imgur.com/a/wNlOJ | /r/askTRP | 10/11/16 01:34 AM |
| 6 | My girlfriend has cheated on me so many times I've lost count probably 15+..On and off mostly..I think I have issues with attachment. Could anyone recommend me something specific to read/do to help me dump her?You're pathetic. Do you have no pride, no sense of self worth? Or at the very very minimum you don't that she will give you an STD with this behaviour? You don't need a book. Just do it or don't do it but then next time she cheats on you, don't get angry or sad, be happy and enjoy it. Because why would you not be, you knew exactly what she was going to do and decided to stay with her, so this is what you wanted right? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/16 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Is it unrealistic to work a full time job but also have a second more social side job like working at a bar or nightclub?Sure if it's a busy bar no one will really notice | /r/askTRP | 14/10/16 10:45 AM |
| 5 | Is it unrealistic to work a full time job but also have a second more social side job like working at a bar or nightclub?Completely up to you mate. I work in corporate finance, stand hours are 8:30 - 18:30. 5 days. I wanted to make a bit of money on the side and was keen to meet more people and be more social so I took a job at a bar working Friday and Saturday nights. Pros More money in your pocket obviously. You do meet more people and there are some good opportunities behind the bar to get numbers. Because you're working Friday and Sat nights, you don't spend as much money as you would usually. Cons Secondary T… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/16 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Is it worth the jailtime?You're thinking like a bitter fool. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/16 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Is it worth the jailtime?What the fuck is your problem? Stop acting like a child. There is no decision to be made here, just be a normal, reasonable person and forget about him. How is this so damn hard? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/16 12:44 AM |
| 5 | i wanted to say thanks to the people on here. looks like i willing be quitting gaming after all /:Stop posting shit on here and go outside, man I'm sick of these types of posts. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Guys who moved to a brand new city after the age of 25, how was it like for you in regards to social life and meeting people?I've moved cities permanently (ie not on a holiday) twice in my life. The first time was at age 20 for uni, and the second time age 25 for a job. In my experience the second time was infinitely easier than the first. At 25 I was way more confident and found meeting new people a lot easier than when I was younger, despite the fact that I was at uni and surrounded by people. Mate, at the end of the day it all comes down to you. No one else's experiences will help you. Some suggestion if you were t… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Fitnes _ i feel like a little kid.It's a tough one, and something I've battled with too. Stay relatively small but maintain a clean, athletic body OR eat a shit tonne, and gain mass, becoming bigger and bulkier. There is no right answer here, it's a personal preference thing. My thoughts are that you can get to a nice middle ground, where you have good definition on your arms, traps, shoulders and good quads, whilst still maintaining a reasonably athletic physique. But completely up to you. There are plenty of resources availabl… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 09:23 PM |
| 1 | People who do cold day game pickup approachs, are you not terrified that the girl might look alot older than she actually is and might actuallybe under 18.This has happened to me before and it's really not a big deal. Got the girl's number who is working at the coffee shop. Texted her "Let's go out for a drink" Her "sorry I can't.." Me "Oh okay why is that?" Her "I'm under 18" Me "Okay have a good one" And that's it. Not something for you to worry about. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Would like to learn about stock trading...The presumption from OPs question is that he knows nothing about markets, but would like to learn. So rather than refer him to an advanced 3 year course that investment bankers take, why don't you provide him with some good free resources online? | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 10:53 AM |
| 0 | Would like to learn about stock trading...Don't do this. This is shit advice. A CFA provides theoretical knowledge to prepare you for a career in corporate finance. People typically take on a CFA after completing an undergrad degree in finance or accounting. There are plenty of good, free resources online, and also offline in your local library for you to browse. But Above all, like anything, it requires time and patience. Some good free resources to get you started are: investopedia.com aussiestockforums.com --> go to beginners lounge … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Never respond to haters vs contrasting AMOGers and/or bulliesPersonally, I think you are looking at this issue in the wrong way. Don't frame the question, should I respond or should I ignore. Rather frame it, how and when should I respond and how and when should I ignore. In certain situations the best thing to do will always be to ignore or leave the social interaction. An example might be in a social occasion where by ignoring the other guy, you just make him look like a dick. Let him dig his own hole. However, there will be other situations where you d… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 10:43 PM |
| 1 | What to do with €10.000 as a 20y/oSubmariner is a style. Jacques Lemans. And Nixon is an okay entry level quartz. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I have no idea where to start when it comes to getting in shapeYes you are right - I forgot about abs. Work your core every second day or so, Some good exercises to begin with are just lying legs raises or just plain old cardio - running, jogging. My daily workout comes to 1.5 hours., I would recommend 1 hour to start with if you haven't worked out before. And yes absolutely, include any other exercises you like. The thing is, the best way to learn something is just to go out and do it! Once you start, you will see what works what doesnt. What exercises you… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 04:12 AM |
| 2 | What to do with €10.000 as a 20y/oDont: Buy a rolex. Waste of money, depreciating asset and you'll just look like a flashy prick. If you want a watch buy a nice $200-$500 functional submariner or dress watch. r/watches is great for this. Think Tissot, Jacques Lemont, Nixon. Buy a motorcycle unless you need it for transport. If you need a form of transport to get to/from work, then get a cheap scooter. Most European cities are super super scooter friendly. If it's just cause you want one, don't get it. Do: Travel. Some may disagr… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 03:58 AM |
| 1 | I have no idea where to start when it comes to getting in shapeI'm late to the party but I want to share this with you. The majority of the advice the others have given you here is excellent so I'd like to add a few specific things. You don't have to overcomplicate things, it is really very easy, just follow this as a rough guide to get yourself underway. As you become more familiar with the lifestyle, you will carve your own routine. Diet - Stop eating the following: Refined sugars (sweets, ice cream, chocolate etc), what I call "Cheat fats" (fast food, do… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 09:55 AM |
| 7 | Lifting and 40+ hour professional work week is HARD!It is hard, but some things I do to help are: I try and cook at least two meals at once, sometimes more. I live with other people so can't control all of the fridge space but try my best to bulk prepare food. Probably eat takeaways once a week to alleviate time pressure. I gym in my lunch break and then just eat at my desk after. I understand some work places may not be too happy with this, but you can still read/digest work while eating. I tried morning gymming but wasn't for me - props to you … | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth to be a member of a students' association? Is this something that looks good on CV for potential employers / is worth it as an experience (leadership skills)?Yes absolutely. You shouldn't even be considering not to. The comment below about feminazis etc is redundant - there are shitheads and idiots in all organisations, so don't even worry about that. When applying for a job out of university, employers look at 3 things: 1) Your Grades 2) Your Extra-curriculars 3) Your personality/confidence etc Boost your extra-curriculars as much as possible- sports clubs, debating society, interest groups etc. Anything that makes you more interesting in an intervi… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 10:35 PM |
| 1 | I know I fucked up, would appreciate some specific feedbackCheers | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 09:50 PM |
| 1 | I know I fucked up, would appreciate some specific feedbackShe had a bf for a long time. I noticed one day that she was single so set something up | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | What's a good alpha halloween costume?dick in a box has never failed me | /r/askTRP | 13/10/15 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Girls in Tel Aviv, IsraelCompletely agree with /u/redpillfrasier below, I don't know where you've been OP but I have lived in Tel Aviv, and Israeli guys are DEFINITELY not shy. Israeli guys have hyper aggressive game, and will usually just pull a girl towards them and take in the club without any communication. They may back down with you, but with women they certainly won't. Stop going to strip clubs and hit up bars and the beach and find some normal women. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/15 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Entrepreneurship questions.Excel is very very useful when trying to manage your cashflow and making forecasts. You can use excel to predict how much money you will have/need at any point in time. Google 'excel tutorial' or something similar and take a few beginners courses and see how you go | /r/askTRP | 02/10/15 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Entrepreneurship questions.IMO learning entrepreneurship at uni is a bit useless. You'll pick up some good things along the way but a lot of useless crap as well. Very broadly speaking, "business" can be split into a few different categories that require certain skill sets. Sales - If you go into business, you will being selling something. If you're going to sell something, you need to be confident talking to people on the phone and in person. Focus on boosting these skills and learn how to convince someone to buy somethi… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/15 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone left a corporate career for a start up?That is exactly what attracts me to this path the most. But you really have to be so self motivated don't you, how did you manage the stress of knowing you were responsible at the end of the day and noone was going to be there to give you a pay cheque? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/15 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone left a corporate career for a start up?Thank you for your insight. I'm at that crossroads where I've spent a bit of time in a corporate and am considering starting my own thing. How did you cope with cashflow while you got yourself up and running? Were you working a normal job too? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/15 11:46 AM |
| 8 | Has anyone left a corporate career for a start up?I believe it's still relevant. If you think swallowing the pill is just about banging as many chicks as you can, you're short sighted and missing the point. TRP is about overall betterment, whether it be women, health, or financial. Questions relating to the gym are regarded as okay, so why aren't financial ones? This sub is about successful men helping others succeed in life, or am I mistaken. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/15 07:39 AM |
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