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1

Please make sure she’s using birth control if that’s what you think.
/r/seduction21/08/23 09:16 PM
1

So fucking stupid.
/r/seduction10/10/22 12:17 AM
2

This is called wisdom. Be kind to everyone, but if she’s not interested- don’t waste your time.
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:51 PM
3

You know the answer to this. What does the world say about girls who do the things they want to do?
/r/seduction03/09/22 03:43 PM
2

And some are hot! Lol
/r/seduction03/09/22 02:13 AM
1

Right- completely agree. It’s a little tricky if you’re trying to do it to support your partner, because if you’re playing teams- you end up being a deficit- and no one is happy. But enthusiasm is contagious-
/r/seduction02/09/22 05:40 PM
9

Also being “ into wine”- you can do a wine tour, rent a limo, stay in the finger lakes- lots of the wineries have tours and live music, food, beautiful views, Amish markets- it is what you make it.
/r/seduction02/09/22 03:15 PM
3

How is it worse than video games? They are both solitary- which is why it isn’t attractive- it doesn’t include other people. She could get into video games- or you could get into Love Island.
/r/seduction02/09/22 03:13 PM
2

I would argue it isn’t really looks- it’s confidence. THAT is what was women like.
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:07 PM
4

Eww. Wtf. Leave that alone.
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:03 PM
0

From the gate. If you’re not interested in knowing them, then don’t give them impression otherwise.
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:18 PM
2

How will be hard to find them in college? Join a club. Literally. There are tons. Board game club ( full of nerd girls) gaming, literary, science based- join any club - there will be women.
/r/seduction10/08/22 12:49 PM
1

Oh absolutely- that is also true
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:11 AM
-1

No. We don’t all want a dominant man- but absolutely NEED Chemistry. It’s hard to switch gears if you’re a good friend and a safe place to manufacture chemistry that wasn’t there. He’s not wrong, there is a window.
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:16 PM
13

Went to church with the director of planned parenthood- the freaking director! Her husband was snipped, I’m not sure- but I believe she was also on birth control. She got pregnant in her 40s. Was not expecting it- and she was educated on how babies get here. Also know two other people who got pregnant while on birth control. The one had previously gotten pregnant while on it, so the doctor upped her does- she still got pregnant again. No she did not want to. She loves her kids but definitely did…
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:28 AM
2

Being good with kids is very appealing
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:39 PM
87

You pick shallow girls and are surprised when they’re shallow.
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:01 PM
1

Get some therapy.
/r/seduction15/05/22 12:58 AM
1

You got a Snapchat at 2am. That’s a solid fact.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:30 PM
1

Does it matter? Honestly? Who cares. The whole situation was just disrespectful. Neither of these parties respected OP.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:15 PM
3

It really doesn’t have to be that dramatic. “King”? No. Anyone deserves the most basic level of human respect.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:11 PM
2

Why go there? Why? It’s petty. Just walk away. She made her choice. Just walk away. Keep your dignity intact.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:10 PM
11

Fuck no. Stop always trying to blame the woman when a man is a piece of shit. They aren’t even dating, there is clearly no discussion they were being exclusive. Until and unless that conversation happens, it’s NOT cheating. His friend, however- is a total and royal piece of shit. THEY had a relationship. You don’t do that to your friends.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:08 PM
2

This is …. Awful. You have been disrespected. That’s not your friend, and that woman is seeing whoever she wants. It’s sucks so bad and I feel for you, but walk away. Do not bargain. Do not argue. Do not discuss. It’s not an accident, a mistake, a one time only thing if someone is sending you pics at 2am. That’s someone that feeds off drama. Just. Walk. Away.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:06 PM
2

Like your user name. Sounds like you’re figuring it all. Good for you. I wish you both the best. You seem like a genuine person and I am sure that’s what she’s drawn to.
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:16 AM
7

Dump her. She can do better.
/r/seduction22/04/22 03:50 AM
20

They do not care.
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:23 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction08/04/22 04:56 AM
2

You are the prize? Are you?
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:24 PM
1

Child support is to support the household the child is in. It can cover rent or mortgage, utilities, car payments for the vehicle that transports the child, groceries- that’s all child support.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 03:52 AM
2

Wise choice
/r/seduction11/03/22 03:04 AM
2

Just no. There are other girls. Just don’t do this. Please.
/r/seduction11/03/22 03:03 AM
5

Some times a cigar is just a cigar. She’s 27. If he looks 20-24, she might really just want to know. Many women don’t want to date that much younger. Might have simply wanted to know if this conversation was worth her time.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:36 PM
0

This.
/r/seduction01/02/22 07:25 AM
108

As a woman- I HAVE had men I was not attracted to woo me over. Looks aren’t number one with women, in spite of whatever you’ve been fed. Important, but not the most important.
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:43 PM
1

Absolutely! That’s being a kind friend- I’m just saying it’s okay if you don’t want to be that person, or if you don’t want to be that person all the time. But that’s nice! You’re a good friend!
/r/seduction29/01/22 08:12 PM
1

I agree! I don’t think you should even be in the “buddy” position- that’s not where you want to be. I’m just saying, recognize when that’s happening- its not mental illness, it’s design, and just say something like- sorry you had a rough day - that’s sucks - Maybe we should grab a drink and ( fill in the blank) I think it’s perfectly okay to allow yourself to be someone’s venting partner- in any relationship at any stage.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:47 PM
6

Women like to vent. It’s what they do. We will always do this. What I’ve learned over the years is that men hate this shit and don’t understand it. I’ve learned to stop expecting my husband to care about work and friend drama. I call my mom and talk to her on the drive home from work and vent to her so when I get home- it’s done. But this was something that took time to realize. Women share stories and empathize with each other. It’s how we bond. It perfectly okay to respectfully not want to be …
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:18 PM
-14

So stupid
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:12 PM
2

I mean this respectfully- 23 is a baby, you’ve only begun to live. This is the start, set your rudders and direct this boat.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:04 PM
1

Sounds like she’s not a texter. I have a few friends that answer back within hours, and several who take days. Without knowing her, I don’t necessarily think it’s indicative of anything- but at some point you need to make a plan and see her in person.
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:09 PM
10

You are lovers with all your friends? Weird, but okay.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:28 PM
4

My suspicion- based only on what you’ve provided, there was someone else waiting in the wings and they came through. She wants to keep around- because what if that doesn’t work? But she also wants to explore this other thing without it being called cheating.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:27 PM
7

Well I that’s what I mean- is she just really bad at conversation? Is she really attractive? Maybe she’s not used to having to hold up her end of the conversation?
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:27 AM
24

I don’t know- honestly this sounds a little vague. “ we don’t have that here” doesn’t sound like rejection to me, unless your leaving stuff out. If you don’t have it here ( whatever here is) where do you have it? Or what drink do you have that you’d recommend? I don’t know- that just doesn’t sound like rejection to me- just lack of good conversation
/r/seduction16/01/22 01:37 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction08/01/22 04:55 PM
21

19 is a baby. She’s a baby. I can almost guarantee she will change her mind- or not- but who cares? Take it a day at a time and stop panicking
/r/seduction08/01/22 02:21 AM
5

This one likes him- and technically they don’t work for the same company
/r/seduction06/01/22 11:57 PM
0

Have you ever worked out?
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:33 AM
8

The gym is not a bar or a club. They are not there to hook up.
/r/seduction04/01/22 02:36 AM
4

Because they’ve never met a Russian woman? Seriously, I’ve never met a Russian woman who wasn’t hard working and determined. They’ve been quiet- but absolutely NOT timid. No idea why that stereotype would exist.
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:43 PM
4

I think this persons approach is really good- and I say as a skeptical woman. He’s right, if I feel like you won’t go away or might hover, it might make me nervous and be intimidating. When you do a fly by approach, compliment my witty and sparkly choices ( not my boobs, great smile- things I don’t have a lot of control over) and head back to friends- it’s piques interest. Then when I’m back at the bar to get another drink and we bump into each other again…. I’ll be more inclined to think you re…
/r/seduction07/12/21 02:06 AM
4

And then what? Cause hello and nothing else is weird. Why are you talking to me?
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:26 AM
1

Why does it make them dumb? A man approaches- they know he’s interested- they get to decide if they are interested as well. Things go from there. It’s not trickery. She like you or she doesn’t
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:26 AM
7

Saying “you’re cute” works best if your under 13.
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:23 AM
6

Disagree. He’s specific, so it doesn’t feel generic- and more importantly opens the door for dialogue. “ gee you’re cute” what is anyone supposed to do with that? Okay…. And?
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:21 AM
8

As a woman I disagree. “ hey you’re cute” …. Uhm. Okay. Bye. That’s uncomfortable and doesn’t open up a conversation. This guys got it right. Be specific.
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:20 AM
17

If it was her girlfriend, this would not have helped at all.
/r/seduction05/12/21 06:12 PM
6

It was satire, but also in direct response to an earlier post from a guy earnestly talking about how he’d slept with hundreds of women.
/r/seduction06/11/21 11:10 PM
0

It’s good you’re being honest with yourself about it. 7 seems so insignificant to me, but that’s clearly a conversation you have to have with yourself.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:11 PM
7

Yeah how much do you like this bakery? Lol- don’t let it get too messy if you want to keep going there.
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:19 PM
3

This. This was a gift and he doesn’t know it.
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:09 PM
0

I agree, try older women- they know what they want.
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:10 PM
60

Best advice
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:14 PM
3

Be honest?
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:44 PM
-5

Because she believed he cared about her? Don’t do this. It’s disgusting / find someone you wants what you want
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:39 PM
2

Yeah because he isn’t objectively attractive- but that has never been and never will be a woman’s most important attribute, he just….works with what he has.
/r/seduction12/10/21 07:21 PM
1

It’s. Never . Been. About. Looks.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:30 PM
3

And take your antibiotics
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:40 PM
9

I feel like this is assault. She could potentially be putting your health and livelihood at risk. I would stay far, far away from this person.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:38 PM
6

I agree. You have to respect yourself and a clear and definitive NO.
/r/seduction28/09/21 05:14 PM
17

I love the idea of sneaking into her heart. It’s true! I was in a car accident and 20 years a guy friend came to pick us up, and brought a thermos of hot chocolate. It was just so thoughtful, so kind- and such a nice comfort in the cold and dark in the side of the road. You absolutely can sneak in.
/r/seduction28/09/21 01:47 PM
1

See, your respect yourself, AND other people’s time. You’re secret ingredient is being likable.
/r/seduction14/09/21 01:45 AM
3

It sounds like you just might be a nice and affable person?
/r/seduction14/09/21 01:43 AM
0

I mean- maybe she was playing the same push pull you were?
/r/seduction12/09/21 09:07 PM
1

They tested positive
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:28 AM
2

I couldn’t disagree more. My coworker had covid, but we have to wear masks at work, and we didn’t get it. We sit a few feet apart, no distance at all. They are putting up shields but they haven’t yet.
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:00 AM
21

100
/r/seduction27/08/21 06:55 PM
-3

Is it? Okay. You’re a real prize. I’m sure your mother reminds you all the time.
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:36 PM
7

I feel like college was 4 straight years of cold approaches? No? That was part of the fun of it? Just me? Maybe the first year or two I guess. Then do a semester abroad and start all over.
/r/seduction25/08/21 06:44 PM
6

That’s how my niece met her husband- he just sat down at her table in the library. 7 years later, married with a kid.
/r/seduction25/08/21 06:42 PM
3

Listen, you’re a professional now, so you need to move on. That is such a classic high school Move though.
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:27 PM
1

I don’t understand a mentality that it is a positive to never change. How is that a good thing?
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:31 AM
23

Most people don’t start out saying I’m looking to develop feelings. That’s really weird! That’s how relationships start, it’s casual, you get to know each other- you develop feelings over time- and decide to be exclusive . I absolutely agree that women in general need to get better at hearing the words men say and stop believing what movies, music and literature tell them.
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:16 AM
24

I actually think there is some truth to that- they no longer believe in love and romance. Lol. The hearts definitely been broken by then.
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:13 AM
1

Task never to change? That sounds really healthy!
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:11 AM
13

And wanting human relationship is equally normal. She wants what she wants. People also change their minds.
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:08 AM
20

Or she developed feelings?
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:06 AM
9

Or she took nothing serious as we will see where this goes- she developed a normal human attachment, and assumed ( worst thing ever) that it was mutual.
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:05 AM
1

This 100! If you can read the situation and her body language, by all means go ahead. I’ve had to give a fake number. I was afraid what rejecting someone would result in, and I am basically a polite person- I don’t know this person or how they will react. I guarantee none of my body language communicated that I had any interest.
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:58 PM
1

Agree. First 4 on point- after that it gets mushy. Point blank, and older women has probably been ignored and would love some attention, some swagger- you don’t really have to be good looking- clean and confident.
/r/seduction12/08/21 03:41 PM
1

No. Not every time.
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:28 AM
3

If you ever plan of having sex - or anything with her, don’t ask where the battery is. One time I was in a car accident- Like 20 years ago. The guy showed up to help us get tires- and showed up a thermos of hot chocolate!!! That small gesture- I would have absolutely gone to town if he weren’t dating my best friend. Being thoughtful wins A LOT of points
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:21 PM
0

I mean….. as a woman, we’d be in love now- so I’m not exactly sure what the problem is……
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:19 PM
1

They use flirting as a tool to get what the want…. The way you use seduction to get what you want. Yeah.
/r/seduction22/07/21 11:35 AM
2

Nothing wrong with this. Honest. Straightforward- and you are recognizing her as a person.
/r/seduction21/07/21 06:56 AM
-1

Maybe don’t call women chicks. You can have sex with women and still respect them as people.
/r/seduction21/07/21 06:55 AM
5

This is all nonsense. All of it.
/r/seduction21/07/21 06:43 AM
1

I was wondering why you were so mad about it- well all turned out fine- but I can’t get like that too, when I have an idea and it’s not working out.
/r/seduction12/07/21 05:28 PM
3

This makes perfect sense.
/r/seduction04/07/21 09:33 PM
23

It’s just basic human politeness 101. Plus drinks will keep you hydrated, or in the mood.
/r/seduction02/07/21 01:01 AM
0

I would not bring pizza- It’s heavy- keep it light. Wine, alcohol, or something to keep you hydrated.
/r/seduction02/07/21 01:00 AM
2

If you’re old enough to drink, bring a bottle of wine or something else to drink
/r/seduction02/07/21 12:57 AM
9

Uhm no. We’re not all just to placate men. We like sex. We enjoy it!!! (What?!?!? ) and we we might want children. And we enjoy providing pleasure and happiness for our partner or spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:34 AM
2

Just because you value “ different” things doesn’t mean “men” do. Logistically, it doesn’t even make sense to Prefer someone who has no experience and does not know what they are doing. We tell those people to reapply when they have more experience. They ONLY reason it matters to a man is his fear of being inadequate and being compared unfavorably. If You are comfy in your own performance, you have no worries, and may in fact, enjoying learning something new.
/r/AntiFeminists09/05/21 08:33 PM
3

Are women a pair of shoes to you?
/r/AntiFeminists09/05/21 08:28 PM
1

You mean you have a different way of thinking. Please don’t speak for all men. You don’t.
/r/AntiFeminists09/05/21 08:28 PM
-10

You’re in the wrong place if you’re trying to apply logic to this way of thinking. These people are way to emotional, and are making emotional responses.
/r/AntiFeminists09/05/21 08:26 PM
2

It’s a good thing women aren’t objects so this is irrelevant
/r/AntiFeminists09/05/21 08:24 PM
0

Only if they’re thin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:06 PM
1

Yikes. Lots of women like men whose face they can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:05 PM
0

Short men and overweight women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:02 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:01 PM
5

You’re completely disregarding any potential emotional impact?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 05:02 PM
3

Abortion is not simple at all. It’s a decision that will effect the rest of your life.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 04:57 PM
1

Wow! That’s a crazy story!
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 04:52 PM
4

But treating women as individual people with their own motivations and goals doesn’t work with their ideology.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 04:51 PM
1

You’re doing very well. We all understand the situation- and that why people responded.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 07:28 PM
1

Your English is very good actually. I’m so happy to hear you blocked them and your taking of yourself. By American standards, you’re very young! Plenty of time to do better and grow up. What do you want your life to be? What kind of career?
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 07:26 PM
1

Women want to feel safe- they want to trust their husbands, and they want to take care of them. I would love my husband to line out his expectations for me- because I love him- and making him happy makes me happy. I’m so glad it’s working for you - you’re getting your needs met, therefore so is she. She knows you care- You want to stay- you are here trying to make this work- and it feels safe. She clearly loves you and wants to meet your needs.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/20 06:28 PM
1

You’re the one that said luck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/19 01:40 AM
2

I guess. But all my friends are saddled down with toddlers and babies- I find it annoying as mine are independent now. I’m over the baby stage- and everyone around me is in full swing .
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/19 01:37 AM
1

Lots of lucky ladies I guess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/19 01:34 AM
2

I’m serious. My kids are about to leave the house and all my friends have toddlers and babies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/19 10:57 PM
0

Then why are all my 40 year old friends having babies?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/19 10:57 PM
2

This is all very true- but the trouble is, what is the alternative? You marry and have kids young- when your peers are investing in careers you rely on your husband financially and physically for support, and then.... the bottom drops out he leaves or loses his job. Now you have kids to support, no income, and you haven’t built a resume. This woman doesn’t feel satisfied with her result, but the alternative could be awful as well. To tell women “ you can have it all” is a big lie. But what would…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/19 10:55 PM
3

Where do you live? My mom was 37 when she had me- I was baby #5 of hers. In those days she was considered old, but I know lots and lots of women giving birth- without much, if any, intervention- into their 40s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/19 10:50 PM
1

So- there aren’t girls you date, and girls you marry? The ol ‘ Madonna complex that existed.... forever? Turns out it applies to men too. Oh well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/19 10:41 PM
1

You sound like a good guy. I think your life sounds wonderful- ( decent job, time to hike and travel) I hope you find the peace and happiness you are seeking.
/r/MGTOW21/07/19 09:46 PM
1

So?
/r/MGTOW29/05/19 01:30 AM
2

Uhm- that’s exactly what we tell women. Don’t have sex.
/r/MGTOW29/05/19 12:43 AM
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