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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Feeling guilt and confused after asking for divorceSometimes it takes finality to kick in for us to see that things could have worked. If you think it’s worth a chance again, let her know. If not, then, at least it’s something where you’ve parted peacefully and respectfully. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/25 10:41 AM |
| 4 | Why is “work on yourself and maybe she’ll notice” always the advice when a wife wants a divorce?I think only because it is alittle hope in a situation where it feels like one is absolutely powerless. It’s not bad advice honestly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/25 06:30 AM |
| 2 | What are my options?You should take this conversation to a lawyer instead. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/25 01:52 PM |
| 4 | We need Laws Reformed For MarriageThis seems oddly specific to what you may be going through. I wouldn’t paint all with this brush | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/25 07:30 AM |
| 4 | 9 months laterSorry to hear the pain. You described it pretty accurately. Though I did not initiate my divorce, this is what I’m going through as well. I never knew how hard it would be until I got here. I think many people can relate to that. The emotional draining also comes from the lack of being “chosen”. Figure out how that may have contributed to your pain. As a child, as you are now. There’s a deep grief that is begging to be seen. May sure you are doing things that are relaxing as well. Make sure you … | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/25 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Divorce..Wow. That was so honest and introspective, very rare on this subreddit. So welcome this divorce, you both drifted away from WHY you got together. Let this play out and your emotions will come to the surface. Right now is a turbulent time. Forgive yourself. Be honest with her. If you don’t want an end, let her know. Pretty much all you can do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 08:20 AM |
| 3 | A road I haven't thought of?I think you still have a chance of being happy in your life. She has a kid on the way. I’m sure you don’t want to be a single parent while she’s in the delivery room. Salvage any good in this relationship and try to figure out how you can meet her needs and also not make your needs inflexible. Remember this is a fantasy, sex is a few minutes. It’s like a daydream. Don’t give up your whole life for the chase. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/25 05:31 AM |
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