| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 106 | Sexist posters have appeared all over my college blaming men for rape and sexual assault. What Should I do? | dazhealy | /r/MensRights | 01/10/12 09:01 AM | |
| 13 | False Rape claim (x post from r/ireland) | dazhealy | /r/MensRights | 02/03/12 03:38 PM | |
| 2 | I know music isn't really put up here, but I really think this is relevant. Hope you do too... | dazhealy | /r/MensRights | 17/04/12 01:25 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Approaching with VirtueI've seen people here call approaching "poon-hunting". There are plenty of pigs here | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Approaching with VirtueYa that seems to be one the best recommendation for non-PUAS here. I'm going ordering a copy soon. | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Approaching with VirtueI really like the way you wrote this. I'm only a newb here, but I'm very turned off by the whole PUA side of things, it doesn't sit well with me internally, but I have been using some of the more basic ideas to great effect. This seems like something I could actually get behind and use. | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Does everyone has to struggle this much to get women ?I'm far from an expert, but essentially yes I think. | /r/seduction | 08/07/15 07:10 AM |
| 85 | Does everyone has to struggle this much to get women ?Or by having the balls to try something, fail, learn from it, and trying again. | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 05:45 PM |
| -4 | Getting over the feeling of shame for expressing sexual desire.Not to mention the fact that he assumes everyone not having sex is living a boring life. If all he cares about is the "f-close" then he's the boring one. | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 11:51 PM |
| 1 | If you were lined up next to 10 random single men, what would make you stand out from them?I'd step out of the line. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 04:26 AM |
| 43 | Best response to "I was thinking about you""I know". But I'd probably respond with something like "nothing good I hope" winky emoticon optional. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 01:49 PM |
| 5 | Can I send a text to straight up tell a girl that I like her?My advice OP would be to hold off for now. See if Friday happens, if she shows up then you can talk to her as is or whatever and see what's up. If she flakes then send something then like "I'm into you, but if this isn't going to go anywhere I'd rather know now". | /r/seduction | 26/04/15 07:31 PM |
| 3 | A level of regret I've never felt beforeI'm in my early days of being here, I only stumbled across this this sub last week. You reminded me of a french girl I was trying to impress a couple of months ago, when I was in a very dark place after a break up and trying to force myself back out into the world. Long story short, I had zero game, walked her home after a night of drinking with friends, went for it anyway and got rejected. But I walked away smiling anyway because at least I tried it, because even getting the courage to do that … | /r/seduction | 26/04/15 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to condense the aims of modern day MR movement in a sentence or two? If so - what is the MR movement about?The other camp hit most of their "low hanging fruit" targets year's ago. Third wave feminism has degenerated into an attempt to change men, not to achieve equality. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/13 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Girl gives guys oral at concert. After the pictures appear online claims rape, people consider her a victim.Actually if you look at a lot of the other comments you'll see that the claim that she was sexually assaulted by a different person, is being stated everywhere here. For example here, here and here. So plenty of other people are saying it. Oh and Link, Listen! | /r/MensRights | 24/08/13 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl gives guys oral at concert. After the pictures appear online claims rape, people consider her a victim.I'm in Ireland, so I really don't have to worry about it. Obviously if your country has different laws on child pornography you should be careful | /r/MensRights | 24/08/13 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl gives guys oral at concert. After the pictures appear online claims rape, people consider her a victim.The "underage" thing is about the distribution of the images involving what is (legally) a child involved in an explicit sex act. Incorrect, the Child Trafficking and Pornography act defines a child as anyone under 17. Perfectly legal to have the photos. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/13 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Girl gives guys oral at concert. After the pictures appear online claims rape, people consider her a victim.Child Trafficking and Pornography Act, 1998 2.—(1) In this Act, except where the context otherwise requires... “child” means a person under the age of 17 years. So yes by default if she is over 17 it cannot be child porn | /r/MensRights | 24/08/13 06:48 AM |
| 1 | How does feminism atempt to censor alternative viewpoints? I will be interviewed by a journalist and need materialOf the top of my head you have thought-terminating clichés. Words and phrases like Slut shamer Rape apologist (see also: Paedophile apologist) Mansplaining Checking one's privilege A safe place Paedophile Trigger (Triggering) Woman hater Woman beater All these are dependent on context of course. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 06:43 PM |
| 9 | Girl gives guys oral at concert. After the pictures appear online claims rape, people consider her a victim.A lot of misinformation is coming to light in this thread. First and foremost the age of sexual consent in Ireland is 17, this also stands for the distribution of pornography. The girl is 17, so by definition of Irish law this is NOT child porn. Secondly, the Gardaí (Irish Police) are investigating, but not definitively the two incidents of oral sex. Irish media has reported that the girl did report an incident where she was sexually assaulted at the Slane Concert, but that is NOT related to the… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 06:27 PM |
| 5 | Literature from my ontario city's tory MP.Woah woah, let's not get too hasty! | /r/MensRights | 12/07/13 07:15 AM |
| 3 | I have been accused of sexual assault, sodomy, blackmail, and rape. I have never told this story before.Actually I do like "unverified" better than "may be fake", you're absoultely right? Im going to message the mods, see what they think. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/13 04:52 PM |
| 4 | I have been accused of sexual assault, sodomy, blackmail, and rape. I have never told this story before.I think It's a fair tactic. We have no way of knowing if this guys story is real, it might be bullshit or OP might have gone through every single aspect of it. It reminds you to be sceptical and to ensure that you don't immediatetly go, "fucking feminism" or whatever | /r/MensRights | 10/07/13 03:22 PM |
| 26 | SadTo be fair there's no proof of most stories that get posted here | /r/MensRights | 30/06/13 05:29 AM |
| 3 | I've had just about enough of this double standard.Report dowvote move on | /r/MensRights | 23/06/13 05:54 PM |
| 5 | They fear not being believed and are embarrassed about how society will judge them. Ailin Quinlan on the men suffering in silence at the hands of their partnersI guess it is, but societal views don't just change over night. The woman will just get away with what shes doing if he lays a hand o n her. So the best option is to not hurt her | /r/MensRights | 12/05/13 04:06 PM |
| 7 | They fear not being believed and are embarrassed about how society will judge them. Ailin Quinlan on the men suffering in silence at the hands of their partnersI think he means that if men retaliate that they are putting themselves in the position of being labeled the "abuser". Regardless of whether it was self defence or not if he hit her and gave her a black eye, she now has evidence that he was violent against her. She can then claim that what she did was only in self-defence. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/13 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Clever and refreshing commercial with a strong caring father. (x-post from r/videos)Agreed, so much better than adds with solgans like "so easy even dad can do it". | /r/MensRights | 06/05/13 12:18 PM |
| 0 | VICE's Kitty Pryde insists Danny Brown was raped when a fan began performing oral sex on him on stage without consentIt all depends on your definition of rape, most people can come to a general concenus of the word, but the line becomes increasingly foggy after that. If a man pleads with his wife 20 times to let him have sex with her and she gets sick of it and finally acquiesces is that rape? Some feminists would say yes. The definition problem also carries to men. Men are taken out of rape statistics because they weren't penetrated. They get their own seperate category "forced to penetrate". "But thats rape!… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/13 02:08 AM |
| 4 | VICE's Kitty Pryde insists Danny Brown was raped when a fan began performing oral sex on him on stage without consentWhat about other threats. Hypothetically what if a person in a relationship was dependent on their partner (let's assume financially). What if that person said "I pay for all your shit, so I'm going to fuck you whenever I want". Thats a form of rape to my mind (assuming the other person is of course non-consenting). Or rape by blackmail, there's more than one way for rape to occur. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/13 01:20 AM |
| 3 | I was advised to put this here. This is my story; Sadly, nothing unique.Jesus H Christ way to try and reassure the guy, or at least give him some advice so that he has a fighting chance | /r/MensRights | 28/04/13 11:14 AM |
| -1 | Feminist parenting blogger writes "letter to her sons about stopping rape," full of subtle sexism and consent fallacy.I fail to see how "we all should help everyone we can, if and when we can" is a vague reference, and I cant give a reason to beyond it being the right thing to do. Thats my own morality and my own perrogative, you cant ask me to provide a reason for doing the right thing besides me thinking its the right thing to do. If you don't want to help someone, that is your perogative, but it doesn't detract from the morality of the situation. If you are ever in a position to help/save someone and you dec… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/13 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Feminist parenting blogger writes "letter to her sons about stopping rape," full of subtle sexism and consent fallacy.Sorry man but I disagree there, the important thing is to PRIORITISE your own safety, but if you can help someone, if you can stop an attack then you absolutely should. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/13 03:20 PM |
| 3 | There is NO reason to hit a woman!I agree, that clip made me feel uneasy. I understand the comedy, but I had nervours laughter at best. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/13 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Wikipedia & Men's rightsThanks for your reply, I think one of the largest problems the mens rights movement has is a lack of scholarly articles on the subject. While people like Warrne Farrel, Christina Hoff Summers and David Benatar have made inroads in to addressing these problems it pales in comparison to the number of feminist articles that are published yearly. This is due to the marginilisation of mens rights as an issue in my opinion. We have hundreds of college level courses, that use scholarly articles from re… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/13 03:36 PM |
| 24 | Wikipedia & Men's rightsWhat were the largest concerns with the previous wikipedia article on mens rights? Examples may help people here to understand what you're looking to change or better. Assuming you're not a troll. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/13 03:41 AM |
| 7 | Feminists on saying no to sex: " I think that men say no as a way to regain power."And in the classic fashion of those with privilege, they played the victim, changed the rules, and refused to give the thing they had the power to give. WHAT THE FLIPPING FUCK | /r/MensRights | 02/03/13 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Can we make a "No Facebook screenshots" rule around here?Even at that rate its months before you get 1/2 the subscribers there as here. Why not just allow meta posts to the main sub? Wouldnt it mean that any posts and changes can be discussed by the all the subscibers and members, instead of less that half of 1% of users | /r/MensRights | 13/02/13 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Can we make a "No Facebook screenshots" rule around here?Problem is anything posted in /r/mensrightsmeta is seen by 353 people, as opposed to the 61,000 people here. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/13 10:30 AM |
| 1 | My experience in TargetThen criticize her for over reacting but dont automtaically blame her for losing the kid when you have no fucking idea what happened. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/12 10:36 PM |
| 2 | My experience in TargetHang on a second. You don't know that, it could just as easily been the father the child wandered off from. Dont make woman bashing assumptions. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/12 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Lack of academic publication on the Men's Rights MovementYou know the answer to your own question. Of course the lack of scholarly material affects us, if you ask the vast majority of people outside the MR movement what an MRA is they will respond by calling us misogynists, or chauvunistic pigs, or rape supporters or worse. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/12 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Sexist posters have appeared all over my college blaming men for rape and sexual assault. What Should I do?Plus I dont live in 'murica! | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Sexist posters have appeared all over my college blaming men for rape and sexual assault. What Should I do?the epedimic has been ingrained in my culture for generations, regardless of the posters origin | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Sexist posters have appeared all over my college blaming men for rape and sexual assault. What Should I do?Im not american! | /r/MensRights | 01/10/12 03:31 PM |
| 8 | Sexist posters have appeared all over my college blaming men for rape and sexual assault. What Should I do?Don't be that guy The poster is completley directed at men, and at men only. It tells men not to be that guy who sexually assualts women. Implying again that sexual assault is always a mans fault when it occurs. Don't do drugs, drugs are bad. Don't speed. Speed kills. Neither of those are directed at one gender in particular. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/12 10:52 AM |
| 14 | Sexist posters have appeared all over my college blaming men for rape and sexual assault. What Should I do?It's implying that all men are "would be sexual assailants" who need to be reminded not to rape women. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/12 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Sexist posters have appeared all over my college blaming men for rape and sexual assault. What Should I do?thats exactly the poster! | /r/MensRights | 01/10/12 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Sexist posters have appeared all over my college blaming men for rape and sexual assault. What Should I do?Will try in a little while to find and take a good photo. Should I block my university's name? It might be fairly obvious to some people where i go. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/12 09:29 AM |
| 0 | Remember guys you're expected to read the minds of women, and if you can't, you're a creep.Do you know how many men would never experience a relationship if this was the way the world worked? | /r/MensRights | 08/09/12 01:48 AM |
| 3 | State of California made me homeless and a slave for the rest of my life.Really has we won? He is homeless and unemployed (though the unemployment was not his ex's fault), has no savings, no income, no credit score, no car and two kids who he still wants/needs to try to support financially. Can you imagine his quality of life? He was fucked ROYALLY. And every month he will continue to be fucked by his ex in alimony. Furthermore, I'm assuming if he falls behind on his payments for anything, which would be fairly easy he could end up facing jail time. You are entitled … | /r/MensRights | 06/09/12 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Remember guys you're expected to read the minds of women, and if you can't, you're a creep.in summary "i am pretty and people should know when they aren't attractive enough for me". I dont support the women bashing that is sadly so prevelent in MR, but that comment made my blood boil. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/12 04:15 AM |
| 5 | When females complain about double standards....Wow.. What the fuck made you so jaded that you would post that. Some of the things are fair and accurate but you go and ruin it by posting hyperbole and blatant lies. Im all for mr, but mysogony is as sickening as misandry. Its posts like this that stop people taking mr seriously. If you are a troll, then you suck because you were called on it. If you are genuinely serious then I hope you realise what a contemptuous arsehole you're being. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/12 04:08 AM |
| 2 | I'm all for women agreeing with us, but do we have to always give the biweekly female convert 400+ upvotes while real issues don't see 100?Well done for realising it. Ignorance is forgiven, wilful ignorance is despicable. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/12 02:10 PM |
| 3 | I'm all for women agreeing with us, but do we have to always give the biweekly female convert 400+ upvotes while real issues don't see 100?Upvote/Downvote I like when people do this. It shows that r/mr is'nt just a huge curcle jerk of Men saying "I hate women", "lawyer up" and "leave your bitch of a wife/girlfriend". It shows that the genuine, interesting and thought provoking content posted here, unlike what "some" other people think, actually matters and that mens issues matter because of that. I would never condemn someone for coming to us and saying that we've changed their mind, or that they now strongly believe in mens rights… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/12 10:25 AM |
| 3 | I'm all for women agreeing with us, but do we have to always give the biweekly female convert 400+ upvotes while real issues don't see 100?Thats not a helpful attitude for anyone man, every time I see a woman post here I think "Victory" and that we've won someone over to the cause. We get alot of hate here, mostly undeservedly, so it takes guts to come out and support us. Especially for women with r/feminism and r/SRS labelling them as gender traitors for it. edit: general spelling mistakes | /r/MensRights | 22/08/12 10:20 AM |
| 3 | An Experiment: This sub rightly, and for obvious reason, usually only posts stories about the way society makes being a man difficult and shitty. That can get you down after a time. So instead, tell me what you like about masculinity and being a man.Going to the gym, working out for ages, hitting your max weight, dropping the weight and going YAAAAAAAAAAAAA! And then your gym buddies high fiving you. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/12 06:51 PM |
| 2 | If both the male and female are drunk, and they have sex, which one is the rapist?Agreed. That's the biggest problem i have with this subreddit. The people here need to bitch about how evil feminism is and it tends to turn into one huge feminist bashing circle jerk. I fully aknowledge that feminism has changed from pursuing egaliterinism to furthering womens rights over that of men. I think thats wrong and it needs to change, but I also see how feminists still try to push for EQUAL rights with men in other areas of lIfe | /r/MensRights | 14/08/12 03:27 PM |
| 2 | If both the male and female are drunk, and they have sex, which one is the rapist?Still a good question though! | /r/MensRights | 14/08/12 02:52 PM |
| 4 | I need some adviceOr the fact that he has no wage slips versus the fact that his wife does and pays for all their bills | /r/MensRights | 12/08/12 09:07 AM |
| 8 | Do I want my mother to go to jail?Wow I've never actually been asked to answer a question like that. I would love to be able to say that yes i would send them to prison. But i really dont know | /r/MensRights | 29/07/12 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Feminist wants both Equality, and Chivalry from White KnightsDon't let a few ungreatful idiots ruin it for you or anyone else. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/12 10:08 AM |
| 2 | Feminist wants both Equality, and Chivalry from White KnightsIv had doors held open for me plenty of times by both girls and guys. In fact far more girls would hold doors open for me than guys afaik | /r/MensRights | 25/07/12 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Feminist wants both Equality, and Chivalry from White KnightsThen don't blame feminism for it. Blame biology, or whatever the hell caused it. Blame testosterone for making men less likely to fear for their own safety or whatever! | /r/MensRights | 25/07/12 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Feminist wants both Equality, and Chivalry from White KnightsOk now that I would be angry about, that is unacceptable. But that is not what I saw. I saw posters belittling the deaths of heroic people because they believed it to be some feminist pressure or sociolgical push | /r/MensRights | 25/07/12 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Feminist wants both Equality, and Chivalry from White KnightsWhy do you see the need to stir shit? It helps no-one but gives you some kind of perverse pleasure. If you refuse to open the door to a women just because shes attracctive that still makes you a dick. Especially if you'd open it for everyone else. Common courtesy would go a long way in helping everyone, male and female. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/12 03:49 PM |
| 16 | Feminist wants both Equality, and Chivalry from White KnightsDamn straight! It makes my blood boil when I come on here and people suggest that we should do nothing for women or whatever. I strongly believe in alot of things that are posted here, things about a Mans right to equal parenting anything that levels the playing field for both sides. But at heart I'm an egalitarian A few days ago I was disgusted that people were angry because men sacraficed themselves to save their loved ones lives at the aurora. They blamed that on some feminist driven ideology… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/12 03:43 PM |
| 77 | Feminist wants both Equality, and Chivalry from White KnightsIf i see a person, (regardless of sex) struggling with bags or a door, I'll help them. If I'm slightly ahead of someone or just about to open a door with a person coming the other direction I'll hold the door for them. Its not called chivalry its just called being nice. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/12 12:35 PM |
| 7 | If a female can terminate her maternity at any time during pregnancy, shouldn't a male be able to resign his rights to paternity at any time during pregnancy as well?I understand what your saying, however I do believe that the father should be given some say in the matter of the childs birth. If it's going to impact on him for the next 18 years he should definitely have some choice in the matter (assuming both mother and child her healthy and undergoing a normal pregnancy). You then go on to assume that the mother is deserving of support and should be given a fair amount of the income of the father. I disagree with that statement as number one it makes the p… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 12:26 PM |
| 4 | If a female can terminate her maternity at any time during pregnancy, shouldn't a male be able to resign his rights to paternity at any time during pregnancy as well?No of course a child is more than that, but when we're discussing legal rights and responsibilities financial responsobilities are going to be a huge aspect of it. A child is a precious thing, no matter what the circumstances of his or her conception and birth. But we have to be realisitc here while discussing this, and money is a huge part of raising children. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 12:05 PM |
| 3 | If a female can terminate her maternity at any time during pregnancy, shouldn't a male be able to resign his rights to paternity at any time during pregnancy as well?That was one of the most interesting and well written pieces iv ever seen on MR. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 12:00 PM |
| 7 | If a female can terminate her maternity at any time during pregnancy, shouldn't a male be able to resign his rights to paternity at any time during pregnancy as well?No its not beacuse if the father takes the child he must take the full financial burden with zero support from the mother. He does lose out | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 11:56 AM |
| 11 | If a female can terminate her maternity at any time during pregnancy, shouldn't a male be able to resign his rights to paternity at any time during pregnancy as well?Yes their are grater risks, but does that mean that that the woman should be given full control over EVERYTHING in the pregnancy, and probably parental custody aswell? | /r/MensRights | 16/07/12 11:54 AM |
| 115 | Rape Crisis England listens to /r/mensrights, removes offending paragraph from their "male rape" web page (context in comments)Love this, a few emails and its changed. No fuss, no problems, no sexism. Just positive change. It might be a tiny thing but you good today MRAs! | /r/MensRights | 28/06/12 11:55 AM |
| 4 | Men opting out of dating all togetherby herbivores do you mean hikikomori? | /r/MensRights | 23/06/12 12:16 AM |
| 36 | I tell people women AND men's rights are important, and I'm told to get off my high horse.Question: How the hell do we combat such attitidues? When the very muttering of the word mens rights brings such contempt, anger and ignorance. How do you use logic,reason, proof or arguments when some people don't listen to any of it. Now if any MRA's can answer me that id be very much obliged. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/12 06:07 PM |
| -2 | I tell people women AND men's rights are important, and I'm told to get off my high horse.Sorry but thats as hypocritical as women thinking all men are chauvinistic pigs. There are plenty of egalitarian feminists. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/12 06:04 PM |
| 5 | User 'SocialEngineers' runs an interesting experiment on /r/2xcWhile of course the evidence is not watertight it does reveal some interesting tendencies at least | /r/MensRights | 28/05/12 03:20 PM |
| 3 | So what group's behind this blatant anti-/r/MensRights troll?Upvoted simply because everyone needs to know about these Trolls. Fucking hell man | /r/MensRights | 29/04/12 04:30 PM |
| 2 | This article is making me seriously reconsider whether MRAs/MGTOWs should associate with A Voice For Men.What I believed to be a somewhat rational claim that women should act with slightly more "personal discretion" at times, quickly changed into an outright dogmatic and misogonistic attack on women. I found it utterly appalling and not in any way could I condone a single word of what this idiot has written. If the MRA movement is scorned and hated in a widespread manner it is because of idiot's like this... | /r/MensRights | 10/04/12 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Why is consent always framed into a feminist narrative as being something a woman gives to a man allowing him to do sex to her?Assault or sexual assault? | /r/MensRights | 07/04/12 11:22 PM |
| 9 | This story from a domestic violence victim in a /r/AskReddit thread calling out guys who'd been assaulted really frustrated me. Long read, but worth it.Wow, I pray that I enver have the misfortune to come across anyone like the women he described. This is whats wrong with modern sexual equality, so many women think that because they are "liberated" that they have the power to act like evil dictators. I hope someday you find someone, someone who can make you happy, and never hurt you beyond the normal trials and tribulations of a normal couple. I can't really describe how i feel right now, but I hope you find happiness. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/12 11:22 AM |
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