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When I watched Adolescence, I was really hoping it would spark a positive conversation about male loneliness, poor schooling, and laissez-faire parenting. About how boys are being thrown to the wolves of online influencers who are essentially grifters and seeking engagement through rage bait. I thought that was the point of the show, that boys have basically been abandoned by the system. The schools can’t connect with teenage boys, parents are leaving them alone to fall down online rabbit holes …
/r/MensRights19/04/25 09:12 AM
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Wider social circles, more time engaging with people in varied settings, and a shift in mentality of not shying away from social opportunities because of increased confidence. More money helps too, you can finally go on that trip and party, you can finally afford to go to nicer bars, or afford festival tickets etc etc. where you’ll meet women with interests that align with yours. Good game means that you will then be equipped to make the most of those situations.
/r/seduction18/05/24 09:06 PM
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Don’t be a bottom feeder forever. If you can’t make something of yourself then you can’t expect any amount of game to reliably prop up your chances of getting with the women you really want. Working on your skills and improving your career prospects will unlock a new level of life chances, including prospects for sex and relationships
/r/seduction18/05/24 09:24 AM
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Personal success will increase both your confidence and attractiveness, and therefore your status. These things are what women will respond to, not asking a lady trying to catch a train if she wants to see a magic trick.
/r/seduction18/05/24 08:51 AM
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I met a guy in my hostel lounge in Japan who was an Australian previously married to a Japanese woman. He came home from work one day to a note from his wife saying she and their kid were going back to Japan. He had no legal recourse at all. So he would fly to Japan and work gigs as a pianist for a few months so he could visit his kid. That was it. That was the furthest he was able to progress the arrangement. Any visit was totally at the ex-wife’s behest, and she could cancel on a whim etc. Tha…
/r/MensRights13/04/24 08:25 PM
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This is what annoys me - the asking questions part in person would be illegal! So they hide behind some bogus excuse at the application stage to weed out all the undesirables.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 08:31 AM
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We’re on our 4th PM since the Conservatives took over. This is the fourth government in that time. We’re dozens of cabinet reshuffles into their tenure. People have been given chances and some have embraced them while others have spurred them. While I would typically agree this is probably the product of pandering, in this case it’s more a case of Truss needing to distance herself from Boris’ legacy and his allies, and keep her supporters on side, as well as not being seen that failures get to k…
/r/MensRights07/09/22 04:50 AM
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In my case it wasn’t that I was worried about pregnancy, she was just making me very uncomfortable about the legality of what we had done after the act. She started to say she was actually underage and so technically now I’m a paedo, before then saying she was only joking. She was actually 18 while I was 20, so all good. She was also trying to hurry me out because her dad was due home and started “joking” about how she’d have to tell him I’d attacked her. Just a dodgy experience all round and I …
/r/MensRights21/02/22 03:20 PM
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I left with it in my coat pocket once because the girl was giving me some crazy vibes. Whatever you do don’t leave it in their possession!
/r/MensRights20/02/22 03:23 PM
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You don't. You just make sure that if/when it does happen you won't crumble because of it, you won't let it feel like the end of your life, and that you will have cultivated enough self-respect to walk away rather than let yourself become here BB doormat.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:30 AM
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I agree with the sentiment here for the most part. The thing is though, a substantial chunk of people are very boring/annoying. Generally speaking. Think about it, if you go out to a bar and strike up a conversation, or match with a girl on Tinder, what percentage chance is there of them being totally boring. I'd say it's upwards of 75%. 3 in ever 4 people will be a bore. Sometimes you have to be the change you want to see, you can bring people out of themselves with some liveliness on your part…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 12:44 AM
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I've lived through this. Went to a bar with a friend, he brought this chick he'd been plating. We were having a good enough night as a group, then these 3 other guys turn up. All 3 of them had been contacted by her separately on Tinder to join our group for the night. My bro who was with her originally had no idea, and the 3 new boys had no idea what was going on. We just tried to keep it casual and make some chit chat and drink some drinks, eventually they found it too weird and left. I asked h…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 07:09 AM
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Muscles aren't a personality. A strong personality and secure ego will lead to improved body language and confidence in a room. Girls will see you desperately looking around the room trying to see if they are checking you out. Go and pick the girls, don't wait for them to pick you.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:37 AM
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5 years man. You think it's that she doesn't trust me? Makes a lot of sense like that
/r/askTRP26/08/19 02:39 PM
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lol I agree there are more red flags than a game of minesweeper, but how is being a widow one?
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:03 PM
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I wasn't a huge fan of the post, but I can agree on a few things. For example, I recently decided to switch from going to the gym at work at lunchtimes to the gym in my apartment complex early in the mornings - primarily to ensure that I definitely go, but it has also had a surprising result. At first I worried I'd miss the extra sleep and be tired for the rest of the day, but in fact it's the total opposite that's happened. I feel more awake and alert all day. I'm happier in my work and have mo…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 01:36 PM
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It still confuses me how I wound up being such a massive beta for so long. My dad used to drill all of these lessons into me nearly every opportunity he got. He's an amazing role model and is a highly successful guy. Somehow though I listened to all these lessons, watched him build his life by following these lessons, and still managed to not follow them. It's changing now, but damn I still ask questions about what the fuck I was thinking for most of my life from ages 13-21
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 04:34 AM
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Not necessarily. It's good to question yourself sometimes to make sure you aren't becoming what you don't want to become. If you're in an LTR and you've been reading trp for a while I can almost guarantee there will come a couple of moments where you are wondering if you're doing it right or you'll wonder if that was a shit test or if you've been a little off your game the last week. It happens. Of course at some moment, normally on the shitter or in the shower, you're gonna wonder if you've bec…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 05:02 PM
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I've recently got to know an American girl. It seems worse with Americans. If we're all out to dinner or at the bar, she will often just take her phone out and start taking selfies on snapchat. It's weird as shit. Like a conversation will be going on and she'll just suddenly start taking selfies. These apps are like drugs.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 02:18 AM
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Also you are living in Japan. I've traveled there extensively and currently live in China, the girls here are definitely less cutthroat in the sense that they won't smell blood if you ask them a question like that whereas they might do back in the UK/Europe/USA. I agree with you that a quick schedule enquiry is a good opener here, especially via text it's better than a straight up "me, you, here, 8pm". It's just cultural, and in all honesty from what I've seen of local dating routines, you've al…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 02:35 AM
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To be honest, by the point that a wife is comfortable and confident in doing this sorta stuff it's a safe bet that the husband is nowhere near the kinda guy that will be able to execute a good dose of dread game, there is no coming back from it.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 06:22 PM
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Didn't most people here start out as beta bitches? My first time was like something out "Billy Beta's Guide to Becoming Gay: Now with bonus 'how to make the women you sleep with gay too' chapter." We've all travelled down a path to learning some truths. The best truth learned of them all though surely has to be that women crave a dominant man in bed, and that sex has to be animalistic more than sensual and gentle. After learning that, sex actually feels worth it.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 11:52 PM
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Yeah, I had "every girlfriend you ever have will cheat on you because you're boring" from a girl I rejected a few times. Girls will say any shit to hurt you because they know the basically can without consequence.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 09:53 AM
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I like your 'captain of a ship' analogy. It reminds me of a chat I was having with a friend of mine a few weeks ago. We were talking about 'frame' and what actually is it. Frame as a concept reminds me of a time I went sailing. The waters were choppy but the captain told me to take the wheel and have a go. What happened was I kept that ship straighter than an arrow and on course, compensating for the choppy water and high winds. This was before discovering TRP, but to me now that's what 'frame' …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 11:35 AM
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Why would you want to encourage that kind of behaviour when you can find some consequence-free pussy with ease? That's my main point.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 01:23 PM
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Why fuck some other guy's girl? He might be a sap, but as a supposedly red pill man you are meant to be the mature adult out of all the involved parties with at least some sense of moral compass.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 12:09 PM
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I don't get the guys on here who go out of their way to fuck some attached girl, whether she be married or in a relationship. There is so much single pussy floating about, I can only put it down to deep resentment and dissatisfaction embedded in the minds of these men that leads to them desperately trying to ruin relationships.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 12:07 PM
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I have to give all credit for that to my dad. He is the dog's master, I am the dog's brother. It's another observation about dogs that could have it's own post - dogs can only have one master at a time, and the way they respond to that master is phenomenal. But you have to earn that status and affection and respect with a dog, the constant reminding of hierarchy with a dog is crucial for th to be your loyal best friend.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 08:26 AM
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Fair point, if I was smart enough I would've coined the term "Chad Thunderdog" in the title! But I'm sure those who are willing to learn will read no matter the title
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 08:17 AM
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The human version is a constant rejection of the familiar. Go travelling, try to experience living in a different country/culture/regions. Try your best to make sure you have a versatile skill set so you are either not tied to one career, or your job doesn't rely on one location forcing you into the standard rat race. Keep your interests varied and don't slip into spending all your free time binging netflix. And, of course, lift as often as possible - the benefits this does to your alertness is …
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 04:03 PM
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I am still too nice. It's one of the biggest hurdles of studying TRP - actually internalising stuff. It just comes with time. Each aspect will just take time. But be more considered in your reactions, just measure yourself more and you'll find your frame beginning to develop into something stronger that isn't so willing to please.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 10:04 PM
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You're right, and I don't really know. I can only make some assumptions based on the scenario and her use of the saying. I'm guessing it's not an ancient saying, but one that is old enough to be culturally relevant. I suppose 'bad' can probably be interpreted here as both 'too nice' and 'boring'.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 10:02 PM
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Absolutely. Life isn't about being nice. It's about succeeding and building. Niceness can be a very useful tool, but it shouldn't be a default.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:06 PM
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I stopped asking for phone numbers a long time ago. The way game has developed, asking a girl for her phone number is now the equivalent of a basic piece of kino or making her laugh. It's a good sign but she's already been asked for it today, you're no one special now you've sought her so eagerly. Build up the social interaction to a good level of attraction by creating intrigue and if you've done a good job (drop some info of something interesting you're doing soon etc) and if you've pulled it …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 10:42 PM
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Definitely wise words there. I have seen from other examples around me that these girls can have a malicious and controlling streak. I'm fortunate to not have encountered that yet.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 03:55 AM
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Thanks for the resources. I'm leaving China in about 8 weeks and I want to keep studying for the couple of months I'll be back home. I'm making a 3 week stop in Japan - I went there 3 years ago so I'm looking forward to going back. I remember you made a post about different types of girls in Japan, I was surprised to read it because that wasn't the impression I got from the girls when I was there, but it was really informative. I was also still fairly BP when I went so that might explain it. If …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 03:11 AM
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If that's all you got from what I wrote then you need to work on your comprehension skills.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 03:01 AM
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Definitely this. When a girl is heavily invested in you and she has seen your strong side then there is no reason why some downtime or a little bit of opening up will dry her up. I was mainly trying to point out two things there - 1, don't settle into a boring routine, 2, Chinese people in general like to be more active than Western people and this translates into an LTR sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 02:59 AM
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Yes, it was something I had to point out before I brought her up to an LTR. It's so engrained in the culture here to just be on your phone. I'm from the UK and I thought people there use their phones too much, this place is on a whole other level. I feel like I am always still learning and encountering new things. Comfort tests are a fairly new concept for me, I sort of know when she's put one out there, but I'm not sure I always handle them right. It's something I'm trying to better understand.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 02:55 AM
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The shit I've received from the Western girls I work with is ridiculous. One of the things about Chinese girls is that they definitely do like to make sure things are taken care of around the house, I had to laugh one day when one of them said of this "wait until you find a real woman" - yeah, a 'real woman' will sit on her arse in her sweat pants while I cook dinner, I'm such a fool for putting up with this 'fake woman'... As for the language, I've studied hard in the 10 months I'm here. It sta…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 02:53 AM
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I agree with you here. You shouldn't be constantly seeking to keep her attention, but you should keep in mind that a girl needs to find you interesting and that her attentions are very easily swayed. The point I was mainly trying to make in that section was that Chinese girls are quicker to get a bit more fidgety. It's just a cultural thing. Of course downtime is important, but whereas netflix and a tub of ice cream is considered a good night in in the west, here it certainly gets older faster.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 08:38 PM
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AWALTAOTW (All Over The World). I've been living in China for a while now. In that time I've met many women from many different parts of the world, including South American. Whilst they are not as obvious in their AWALT behaviour it's definitely there and surfaces it's head fairly regularly. They definitely have more balance though - they might jump ship at the first sight of BP-ness but at least they will have been deeply into the relationship beforehand. I have actually LTR'd a Chinese girl si…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 03:19 AM
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You are absolutely right with this post. I was in a similar position to the person you gave this advice to when I was coming to the end of my university degree. I needed a change, I needed a defining period in my life. I moved to China 5 months ago and it has undoubtedly been the greatest thing I've done with my life so far. It is an intensive crash course in maturing and growing the fuck up. I would recommend anyone to do something like a long travelling/backpacking trip or a year contract doin…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 01:59 AM
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"Hmm you're 24 and you've had 50 jobs? Now I'm not going to say you're only going to stay with this company for a couple of months, but you'll forgive me as your prospective employer for having some concerns about your commitment." "Fuck you, pig, how dare you judge me on my past experiences?!"
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 12:24 PM
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Yeah the plot isn't so deep, it really is just sex scenes with some story. Shock material as you say. As films go, I would recommend someone watch Antichrist and Melancholia ahead of Nymphomaniac, simply because they're better films. I watched Mud last night as it goes, really enjoyable - and it's fairly 'feel good' from a RP perspective.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:46 AM
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No problem. The film isn't great, but I thought I'd persevere as it seemed like it was on to something. I'm not sure it was meant to be funny but I couldn't help but laugh at some bits.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:29 AM
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It's a slightly different setting due to ages, but I always thought Marty in Frasier was a strong figure.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:42 AM
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I watched this last night. It's refreshing that Ellis learns some harsh RP truths not from caricature ott RP men, but from the mistakes made by all the men around him. Mud isn't particularly RP, in fact he's probably a little bit BP. His dad isn't either. He learns all his lessons by watching their mistakes and suffering their consequences.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:36 AM
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American Dad is very funny. But Stan Smith is just one massive parody of men. When he is 'alpha' he's portrayed negatively for it and his kids despise him for it. When he succumbs to all their pressures he is then portrayed as a good guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:16 AM
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Yeah, the distant male relative who goes around getting in car crashes for the lawsuit money was one example, while all the Simpson ladies grew up to be doctors and lawyers. On the subject, one of the most emotional moments of the show for me was the one where Bart has to pass a test to complete the 4th grade or he'll be held back. He tries hard and studies all day and night only to fail the test comprehensively. He gets bumped up because he demonstrates knowledge when he is crying. It kinda sho…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:08 AM
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I come from probably the exact opposite of upbringings. Great parents who were very loving and nurturing - the sky's the limit kind of thing. By and large a happy family. I was a free kid in a structured world. I think that's a fair way to be raised and I've always thought of my parents as reasonable people. But I have had my issues with the blue pill and grew up in that mindset sadly. I've come the believe that it really is more cultural/environmental rather than anything our parents do or don'…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:25 PM
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Basically what we now want in the UK, particularly in the public sector, is to have all high level positions filled by women and minorities because of some fucked up form of imperial-white guilt. They are achieving this by rigging the career ladder in favour of these groups, and there isn't really a whole lot we can do about it. In a different post on this sub today someone said society is committing suicide. It really is true. We just keep doing fucked up thing after fucked up thing, and it wil…
/r/MensRights14/01/14 03:10 PM
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I'm sure when he's 40 and having to work 7am until 8pm he'll happily come home and cook dinner for his wife who works 25 hours a week and half-asleep, hungry children. I feel bad for people like this. Kids that get warped into a way of thinking and adopted their parents views and ideal like a parrot. I know the kid is only 10, but I know people like this and it's very sad listening to them reel out mantras that they've not given any real consideration to.
/r/MensRights13/01/14 12:47 PM
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When it became apparent to me that in the UK white, working-class, males are the most ignored and 'left-behind' group in the education system, while girls - of all classes and creeds - are clearly becoming the most successful group. Of course race isn't an issue here, but when I see a clear distinction made based on gender, that is just as bad to me as something based on race. It was also a realisation I came to when reading further into news stories such as wage gap, as well as the generally un…
/r/MensRights03/11/13 07:31 PM
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Tearful pleas to be left alone Uhh, that sounds a bit like rape. Granted I couldn't read on after that, as I didn't like where the article was heading. I'm a strong MRA supporter, but that seemed a bit much for my liking. EDIT: Ohhhhhh I get it, clever article!
/r/MensRights24/07/13 06:27 PM
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It's been ignored for far too long here in the UK, and it took a fringe politician in Nigel Farage to bring our attentions to it, that white males from working class backgrounds are now the least aspirational group in our society with the worst educational prospects. They are ignored in school, and now we're seeing the consequences with less graduates from this background. This is why any form of positive discrimination - whether it be on the grounds of race, gender, religion, or sexuality - is …
/r/MensRights23/07/13 05:51 PM
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This is why I shudder when people use the phrase "the pussy has the power". It's just reinforcing the idea of male disposability throughout society. We will have a generation (at least) of young women growing up with terrible attitudes towards men, because they feel that having a vagina, reproductive power, and the final say on sex makes them of higher status in every male/female relationship. It is seriously worrying.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 07:28 AM
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Throw in the fact that this woman was also a defence lawyer for the Paedophile Information Exchange (PIE, a pro paedophilia activist group) and you can basically disregard anything she has to say on social issues and progressing society.
/r/MensRights20/07/13 10:49 AM
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r/feminism banned me for a post I made saying that some sexual preferences are the result of feeling pressured rather than from any actual enjoyment. They seem to ban people at the drop of a hat.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 12:18 PM
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the word "typically" is used when I look it up (Mac dictionary, uses OED)
/r/MensRights31/05/12 10:53 AM
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i believe in stewardship between humans and animals, that is to say the strong humans should protect the weak and defenceless animals. I believe this carries inwardly through to humanity, and so a man (men being naturally stronger) should use this to protect others, whether it be a woman or a small child. Standing up for a woman, or "stopping her from getting in harms way" isn't being a mangina, its just being a considerate human. tl;dr its innate but its natural and doesn't mean its emasculatin…
/r/MensRights12/05/12 12:12 AM
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axe-wound..
/r/seduction19/11/11 01:35 PM
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