dbat_REGod Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Guy having tons of female friends: red flag or normal? Personally I don't see the need to post about these things or brag in general, but I also don't see the need to stalk someone's social media either especially if they didn't share it with you. It's weird but women will usually only date a guy if she thinks other women want him... if no one else wants him then why should she.... again if he's posting about it in a boastful way that can be taken however you want to take it. Some people like to brag and some do not. Not a red flag, but also not a g…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/23 06:37 PM
-3	Guy having tons of female friends: red flag or normal? I think you're over thinking things at this point. You guys have only gone out a couple times and you said yourself that you went ghost for a few days. Don't expect someone to cut off all of their options when you just met. You can't disappear on someone then expect them to be all about you. Girls have a habit of ghosting so it's smart for a guy to have multiple options in case one randomly decides to play detective, find something she doesn't like, and cut you off without an explanation. Also g…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/23 05:27 PM
17	Wall-friendly careers Unless you're planning to go to school for nursing, md, engineering, lawyer, IT, etc then it may be a waste of your time and money. Most degrees don't help a ton. Experience does. Need to figure what you actually want to do then proceed from there. There's no reason to accumulate student debt just to not be able to get a job to pay it back. There are certifications and trades you can learn that don't cost nearly as much as college. As for your appearance, unless you've been in a terrible acciden…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/03/23 08:05 PM
17	Partner says we cannot be together in the future Fuck em. He should grow a pair. I know a ton of Muslims and they marry whoever they want while still maintaining their customs. One of my good friends is Muslim and they're married to a Christian with 2 kids and one on the way. That's just an excuse. He's an atheist and now all of a sudden he cares about what his family thinks? Unless they're about to pass him a fortune there's no justification for that.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/23 07:44 PM
39	Separated spouse wants a sports car Trying to tell a grown man what he can and cannot do will not go well. Especially if you're already separated and you're trying to give him an ultimatum to choose between the car and you/kids. Clearly he's asking for your thoughts because he still values your opinions, but you should give the opinion as a friend not as someone who's trying to control him. You should instead ask him why he wants the car. Most people want sports cars for a few reasons. They either love the thrill of driving fast, …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/23 12:44 AM
37	Why do men today prefer to be chased? A lot of men just don't see the value in chasing anymore. It's easy to get labeled as a creep and get plastered over social media just for expressing interest. Also the quality of women that men used to chase after back in the day has diminished substantially. It's rare to come across a woman worth the chase. Women are more fickle these days and will leave a guy quickly for someone else. So now that guy has wasted his time. Men also want to feel desired. Women have a superiority complex that the…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/23 05:16 AM
-2	Being respected vs being liked Respect is not earned. Respect is to be given by each party from the very beginning. There's no reason to disrespect anyone just because you feel like they didn't earn it. If he feels like you're disrespecting him by your words or actions then validate the way he feels just as you'd expect him to do for you. Ask what he found disrespectful so you know not to do it again. As someone said, do nice things for him and see how he responds. When you come with love and a positive mindset you will often…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/01/23 03:37 AM
11	What can a woman bring to the table in dating? Keeping things peaceful, doing things for him without him having to ask, sex without him having to ask, caring about things he's interested in as someone said, knowing when to mind your own biz, but still being there in case you're needed, loyalty, being feminine, etc. Loyalty is very important. Standing by him when things are good and bad especially financially.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/23 06:10 PM
9	How to attract and where to look for a high-value man? You can find a lot of info on YouTube. Look into feminine and masculine energy so that you understand them. Learn how to be more submissive. Men like peaceful women and not women who will give them headaches. Men also like women who aren't for everyone... loyalty is very important. Understand that most high value men have options so keep that in mind. Good luck!	/r/RedPillWomen	24/01/23 02:45 AM
9	May lose my boyfriend because of my emotional instability Learn to meditate, eat better foods, and watch what you put on your body. A lot of foods and things that go on the skin have chemicals that effect the systems in our bodies. Cologne, perfume, candles, deodorant, etc are often overlooked, but have a large effect. You could also read mastery by Robert Greene and Letting Go by David Hawkins. These things helped me have better control.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/01/23 03:25 AM
32	Female friend is touchy with other male friends but not me You might be friend zoned.... stay away from her for a while. Since you work with her you'll have to see her but don't give her the attention that you were. Your attention holds value and you're giving it all away. Plus the other guys have girlfriends so often times women find that attractive. It means they are desired by other women so it sometimes lead to them wanting them as well or being curious about them. She could also just enjoy the attention from everyone since she's the only girl. Focu…	/r/seduction	02/08/22 01:23 PM
3	How to navigate hookup culture? I think you should do research on YouTube and this sub. There's a lot for you to learn and it would be a lot to type out to explain it to you. Women like sex just as much as men. If you're not a creep with some type of perceived value and good looks you too can have sex on the first night. Some hookups turn into more, but usually it's to fulfill a physical need with no emotions. You also have friends with benefits and the dreaded friend zone which means you give attention to the girl, but you ge…	/r/seduction	24/07/22 07:38 PM
2	Embarrassing situation: I can’t seduce my own girlfriend You need to ask yourself several questions. I'd start with why she means the world to you? Do you find her attractive or sexy the same way you find the other girls that you want to seduce? Does she give you the attention that those other girls give you? Do you give her that same attention? Do you make each other feel special or are you just roommates going through the motions? Are you learning and growing together or have things been getting worse over time? Sometimes we hold on to things we sho…	/r/seduction	02/07/22 02:46 AM
13	Girlfriend noticing attractive guys Shit test for sure because as you said you don't ever do that to her out of respect. Person from a movie is one thing but just driving down the street and her pointing out a random bloak is completely different. We're in modern times now where a chick can go on social media and have access to any celebrity with ease. So check her or do the same thing. If an argument ensues she'll say you're insecure despite her actions or apologize. So you can either say something about it or just find someone h…	/r/seduction	28/06/22 07:22 PM
1	Should I text him? Truthfully trying to test him by sending a dry text is the reason why things are so difficult with dating. Just have a decent conversation instead of playing games like some idiot probably told you to do when dating. Personally if someone sends me a dry message where they really are making the conversation more difficult I won't respond. I talk to a lot of girls like that and I'll just move on to the next because i don't have time for games especially over text. If you're interested talk to him …	/r/seduction	07/06/22 03:05 AM
7	How do I meet young women while living with my parents in the suburbs? When communicating just don't mention where you live. Typically it's not part of the conversation unless you're trying to invite them back to your place. Talk about them, what they do, and keep it fun. If you guys vibe well then go back to her place if things reach that point. Outside of that you'll spend most of your time in public places getting to know each other. Don't let living in a far away place stop you. Worst case you get a hotel for a night.	/r/seduction	04/06/22 02:19 PM
2	boyfriend doesn’t feel the same way anymore. Best thing to do is to communicate and see if it can be worked out. If not plan your exit. There are millions of options out there.	/r/seduction	04/06/22 02:12 PM
33	Sleeping with lots of average girls to gain confidence? Sleeping with someone you consider average or ugly doesn't translate to sleeping with someone you deem a 7 to 10 or out of your league. You have to develop confidence in general and realize that they are just girls and human like you. Don't put them on a pedestal. Don't treat the girls you deem average or ugly like rag dolls as they're also people. If you want beautiful women then you need to talk to beautiful women.... there's no substitute.	/r/seduction	27/05/22 03:14 AM
1	How do you deal with your mates/wingmen who intrudes into your conversation with girls? I wouldn't consider myself a pickup artist but your friends joining in on a conversation especially if there are multiple girls is a great thing if they're helping your cause. Any guy that would deal a low blow to you just to get a girl isn't your friend though. Any guy that would keep doing fuck shit after you asked them to stop drunk or not also isn't your friend. There are a billion women in the world so there's no reason for them to try to steal your girl repeatedly. Get some new friends bro…	/r/seduction	19/05/22 11:12 PM
2	How to ask her to be my GF Start now and it will never stop. Every hoop the other dude jumps through she's going to expect you to do the same.	/r/seduction	16/05/22 12:01 AM
3	How to ask her to be my GF Dude Don't...	/r/seduction	15/05/22 01:20 PM