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| 37 | This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that.Its like experiencing getting cheated on, then experiencing sleeping with a taken woman. You dont see the light until you go through both. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 12:04 AM |
| 23 | For God Sake: if she’s emotionally engaged and you’re are not willing for a serious relationship just stop and do not continue.Tell that to women who are into those type of guys. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 11:45 PM |
| 18 | Finding a decent gf nowadays feels like mission impossibleYou get what you flirt with | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Women only want me when I treat them like sh*tSome women just wanna fuck, others want a relationship. Theres also women who keep certain guys for fucking only and certain guys for relationships only. Youre not missing out, if she lets you smash but dont wanna date she aint the wife you looking for and the guy that ends up dating her is a loser | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 12:26 AM |
| 24 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissBringing that up to her is crazy work. She'll probably make you wait longer because you made her realized you see her like a hoe ( even if she is one, she dont want to be seen as that) | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Set Up Date with Person who doesn’t seem interested, should I cancel?Idk how yall mofos do it. Ive facetimed every single person I matched up with prior to meeting just to get a feel of the vibes and make sure were both real. | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 05:52 AM |
| 19 | A girl invited me to her house for a movie nightSimilarly, I lost my virginity at your age with a woman that was 30 after she invited me over. Take it as a blessing in disguise from god and use the experience. Most younger girls your age and men dont have private spot, but older women do | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 12:41 AM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Being assertive and funny but they not worth it | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex?This one. its like $10 bucks but taste really good and gets you drunk in a good way. Plus the bottle sticker has its psychological effects. Its well known among latinos. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex?"You + me + wine + jenga" | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex?Words and actions arent the same. Invite her over. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex?It just sounds to me like the she just wants to fuck while you wanna date. I'd ghost you too. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Men really need to focus on their appearance more if they want a chanceI think you're the incel | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Date lasted less than an hourMan stop overthinking things and give it a day I see men and women post about the smallest thing that barely just happened and its no wonder we all miserable quickly running to others opinions who dont even know them instead of waiting for more context from the actual person | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 11:58 PM |
| 2 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?Watch Before Sunrise. I think thats the closest movie to real life flirting/bantering ive seen, the interactions between the protagonists is nearly identical to my previous relationships | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 02:38 PM |
| 3 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?Bro what lmaoo please dont use scripted sex jokes they are dependent on the situation and she needs to have some trust in you. I cant teach humor but you can definitely learn how to flirt and be charismatic just by watching other men do it and trying it yourself even if you're not attracted to someone. Making women feel safe is #1 priority and you do that just by trying to be fun, listening to her , being you and not being afraid not compliment her. Before Sunrise is a good movie it will teach y… | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Just want to understand….Cant tell if she was into you or not but majority of women definitely take distance if the guy they like takes too long to make a move | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 09:06 PM |
| 1 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?It varies per person theres no single formula. Ive had slept on first day of meeting each other while others took maybe about 1-2 weeks because they needed to trust me more. Before taking them to bed I always talk about it beforehand it should be no surprise but other men are different. Most wont ask where things are headed if you were already showing signs of wanting to fuck and not date, but if they do ask you try to be suave and say something like "idk but im itching to kiss you". | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:36 PM |
| 10 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?I dont think height has anything to do here. Im 5'4 and I find that many women are willing to fuck over a relationship. But im also jacked and flirtatious, i think light sex jokes are helpful as well | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:14 PM |
| 21 | “You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOTThe only thing you miss out on is dating while having no responsibilities when youre young. Those times youre mostly valued on your looks/personality rather than your accomplishments which for some its way better while the opposite for others. Once you reach 20s you gotta worry about both. | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 01:25 AM |
| 6 | Dating apps are confusing: how do I clearly communicate dating goals?Even if they were down for short-term they are probably too embarrassed to tell you. You make yourself that guy by seducing/flirting/bantering and inviting her over. "I want to sleep with you/I want short-term" isnt seducing. | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 10:14 PM |
| 11 | how i manage to get girls to come over directly from dating apps with no effortDelete this bro. Let this be exclusive to us firstcomers. | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 06:27 PM |
| 2 | I have deep voice (not attractive one. But scary one). One time a girl gasped when she heard my voice. Should've asked her out then.As someone with a deep voice mixed with a Spanish accent. Its similar to having an aesthetic physique where it will attract freaky chicks but you still need to execute. A deep voice works if youre smooth and clear with your words without constantly mumbling, just like a physique works better when you have good posture and well fitted clothing | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 12:17 AM |
| 1 | It's easy as fuckDidnt say that at all, just that they face the most racism/hatred because Mexico is the the first thought that comes across most peoples minds when they hear latino | /r/seduction | 29/01/26 07:03 PM |
| 1 | It's easy as fuckLatino is not really a race so any kind of racism thrown at us will backfire and get easily deflected(if the latino knows his shit). Id say mexicans have it rough, but a dominican like me whose mixed with white/black can get away with anything | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 04:24 PM |
| 6 | It's easy as fuckWhen youre fixed on an insecurity youll only notice the negatives. Good luck buddy. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 04:06 PM |
| 9 | It's easy as fuckBro im hispanic and an inch shorter than him. Never had a problem dating. Sure there are women that will try to give you shit for your height or anything else but I still ended up fucking them, just didnt take them serious. The proof is outside. Step out your crib. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Date was going very well until I said one sentenceShe probably rejected you for apologizing instead of doubling down. | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 10:22 PM |
| 1 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?Meanwhile I agree with 5 but not 3. For men its a lot easier to find sex than a relationship, meaning women are into it. The US is still in the hookup culture and women are fuckin the cool player brokey chads not settling till their 30s after all the fun. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:43 PM |
| 8 | Guys in your 30s: How do women usually respond when you approach them?Im in my 20s and I do exactly this. I get great dopamine from making others smile and open up, sometimes without the intention of scoring, but a high percentage of the time it ends up with them wanting to be around me more. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 07:59 PM |
| 15 | I’m a loser in high school and no girls like meIt may not look like it now but high school doesnt mean shit. You barely know yourself and the people around you have a very limited perspective of you and the world. Outside of school you can be whoever you want and not stick to the narrative of how others view you. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 03:28 AM |
| 0 | Why does sex always last 1hour+?Im the same way and I have never heard of Tadalafil or taken any drug enhancement. I think its just my sexual drive and health. | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it?Your reasoning doesnt matter because every woman thinks going to guy's place = fuck. Who cares what your true reasoning is, youre still a stranger to them and no women should ever agree unless shes sure she wants to fuck. | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 01:27 AM |
| 13 | Those of you with a lot of instagram followers does it help you with womenFrom hearing women talk they only think its a bit weird when you have more following than followers, not the total count of either. Im also assuming youre buying the followers, but what is 10k followers when people can see only 20 likes on your photos because everyone else are bots? Focus on you and having fun with friends,family, & yourself and post it in your stories. If a girl messes with you she will reply to your stories. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Need some help...Anxiety should kick in, you're not immortal. What you can do differently is use anxiety as a super power. When anxiety kicks the most is when you take action. Also depending on your tone and humor you can crack a joke about how she makes you a lil nervous and got you stuttering, works everytime for me as it shows vulnerability but also confidence because youre trying. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 02:19 AM |
| 5 | How to approach women in gym?Eh. That mentality wont get you anywhere. Everyone lives in different realities. Just because you limit yourself doesnt mean everyone else will, and those who dont limit themselves are the ones fucking your crushes | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 05:56 PM |
| 14 | How to approach women in gym?My last two relationships were with women I met at the gym. While I did find them attractive, it wasn't the initial reason I approached them. You need a genuine reason to start a conversation that doesnt come from you being horny. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 05:16 PM |
| 42 | Talking to my girl “friends”made me realise I’m actually not that guyEh this is way too common. Women that stuck around me most were the ones I didnt care as much. They pretented to hate I was indifferent and had other options but stayed the longest. Meanwhile the women whom I told I wasnt dating around ghosted me probably because they thought I wasnt much of a player and not for fun. Women want you fucking other women, or at least have the ability to. Men are attracted to the complete opposite but maybe thats why I have a hard time taking a woman seriously | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 02:06 PM |
| 3 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.I personally prefer to approach girls who are alone and show choosing signals | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Approaching 2 500 women without ANY ResultsIt doesn't matter what you're selling. A salesman biggest superpower is conversation skill which is what you mostly need in dating. Also I highly doubt you have actually approached even half of 700. Online dating doesnt count, everyone gets ghosted there. The same women that'd ignore you in social media are the same women that would give you the time of the day if you approached in public. Also dont take dating too seriously and the ladies might come. You cant be giving out husband energy when m… | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Approaching 2 500 women without ANY ResultsI believe this insecure mentality was acquired through experience. You see it and hear it more often than before. If you were to see a physical feature you have be constantly shit on by social media and the opposite gender you'd naturally feel a bit insecure. Women in social media constantly thirsting over 6'1 guys, women in public saying "hes so tall" to other women as a positive while "hes so short" is usually given with a negative connotation. Take obesity for example, its become fetishized b… | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 07:19 PM |
| 12 | Approaching 2 500 women without ANY ResultsWomen dont care about height as much as they and social media claims to. The main attraction is in the language you speak to her. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 06:22 PM |
| 29 | Approaching 2 500 women without ANY ResultsI feel like every 100k salesman should know how to seduce.. you gotta be lying OP | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 06:01 PM |
| 23 | 4 hard truths you need to accept when it comes to datingTo add to #3. You NEED to be able to pick on subtle signs she throws at you and act upon it otherwise her liking you wont lead anywhere. I once went on a date with a crush where she rubbed her shoulders against mine, asked me what I like in women, send me a selfie after getting home from date, and then being upset at me for not taking her home that day. Yet I still thought she wasnt interested at that time lmao. | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 07:15 PM |
| 11 | Rejection doesn’t hurt. What hurts is knowing you didn’t act.Can confirm. The times it hurt the most was when I was given the choosing signals but was too slow to acknowledge them and act. When you make your move and get rejected it aint big deal because its just incompatibility compared to just being naive. | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 01:03 PM |
| 14 | If women are truly picky as many seem to believe...I suggest you get off social media brother. Plenty of women who claim to want a certain type online but end up fucking a whole different type in person. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 09:32 PM |
| 9 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.I agree with your game, but I do disagree with the date ideas options. You can definitely smash by just taking her out for a walk in the park, maybe get some ice cream or food stands. I've done it. First date to movies where people claim you cant really get anything going? Ive done it. A $2 slice of pizza date? She asked for a second date at my place and slept over. Truth is that it doesn't matter where you take them 99% of the time if you know how to make the best out of anywhere you go. If you… | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?You will never hear women admit why they dress the way they do. One thing is dressing comfortable which means showing a little skin and not get hot, another thing is to dress in a way that emphasizes their sexual features. It has to be a subconscious choice or something just like how people chase the opposite of what they say they like. | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Does playing “hard to get” even exist?I never dated any women that played hard to get | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 10:31 PM |
| 32 | Using money to upgrade my dating lifeBro you can get salsa dance classes for like $20 a month. You either rich or naive. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 02:05 AM |
| 7 | What do you even do if girls dont even ask you question?Everyone and their momma got a girl's instagram. What you should be aiming for is getting their phone number, few got it. If you hook her interest enough, some girls will ask you for your IG and then judge you based on your profile. Personally I have a very lowkey one with zero posts(archived) and no highlights. I tell them Im trying to get away from social media cancer and they seem to like it. | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 12:00 AM |
| 2 | What keeps you going after all the L’s?Awesome dude, I agree with all of them and will keep them in mind. I love 4 and 5. When I look back at all my previous flirts, all my successes came from me being high energy/excited to talk to them as well as assuming they liked me rather than questioning them which would make me anxious to make a move. Love you dude. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 02:41 PM |
| 3 | What keeps you going after all the L’s?Never been a salesman but I do know that they build some of the best conversational skills out there. What tips do you give to be a better communicator? | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 02:06 PM |
| 106 | The economics of dating as a man: when you should be paying for the girlI once had my card decline on first date to the movies (not out of money but the black bar was damaged and the machine would only accept swipes) so she offered to pay for tickets, and then my card worked at the register to buy popcorn/drinks which accepts insert. So it ended up 50/50. Right after she paid I offered to pay back later on and told me its ok dont worry. Date went well, she was talkative and touchy. One Week later she uses it against me and tells me I wasnt a gentleman for not paying… | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 08:14 PM |
| 12 | How I text girls when I want to get laid (+IRL examples)The longer you take the more likely she will see you as a friend. A lot of women has had a guy whose been trying to date her for years, while there's another dude whom she sucked off within a week of meeting. I've been in both positions. They love the idea of a guy sweeping her off her feet. Being fun, flirtatious, and a little freaky helps with that to get into her emotions. | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 02:57 AM |
| 54 | How I text girls when I want to get laid (+IRL examples)Can relate. All my pulls were from women I acted quickly with, if you dont someone else with bigger balls will clap em cheeks for you. | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 06:31 PM |
| 3 | How to make women lust after you?They lust after you when they see other women already lusting after you otherwise they will be shy because they dont want to be the only one thirsting in the comments | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Why do I always fail on escalating on a dateYea man gotta kiss them by the second date minimum, these chicks are more impatient when it comes to intimacy than most men think | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Not attracted to women anymoreAppreciate it man. I'm experiencing the same issues as you as well. I'd like to get know women for awhile before getting intimate and catch some feelings but that never works out because they think im not interested and move on to the next dude, but when I act quick they seem to get attached meanwhile I dont feel anything because I got her "easy" | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Not attracted to women anymoreI usually go on events solo like Raves where everyone is dancing and drinking. Every single time I get a girl, sometimes multiple grinding on me, getting in my space, bumping into me or initiating the conversation which makes it easy for me. However, my biggest issue is figuring out how to approach myself, not knowing how to start or what to say, and I'd like to know how you go about it. I have also had goodluck at the gym, about 4 successes. But it gets weird when I see a new girl that catches … | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Not attracted to women anymoreOP Where are you meeting all these women? | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Why woman are going to test youNah shes right for the most part. There are definitely women who were interested in you, but expected you to make the move first, you just didnt know. Speaking from experience. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 01:41 AM |
| 7 | Girl went cold after we hook up. What to do?You're trying to turn someone who was meant to be for fun into something serious. She literally told you she wanted something casual. You probably showed feelings and pushed her away, or she just wanted one time dick, or she has other things going on like maybe she was trying to forget an ex. Move on gang. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 05:08 AM |
| 2 | How do I gain respect backStay true to yourself. She's acting up? Lower your attention and focus on other things. Trying to get her respect back will pull you out of your character trying to impress someone who doesn't need to, and when that doesn't work you will be even more sad and lose yourself. Take the lessons and move on to the next girl. If she comesback you can choose to take her back, but dont be as open as she now needs to gain your trust back. | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.?Im talking about inner happiness. Being able to live independently rather than using band-aids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:39 AM |
| 16 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.?Kevin samuels used to make videos on how average men wont be successful with women, making fun and bashing weak men with no ambition and wouldnt succeed unless they worked on themselves, giving that tough love and guys agreed. Moment he started making videos about average women wanting the top men he suddenly became controversial and hated. I have watched female coaches out of curiosity and from the ones Ive seen they work the same way as therapists, chit chatting about feelings and how they sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 05:11 PM |
| 3 | How I turned it around in 3 months.Everything u/Valexstorm said. The key is confidence(meaning not caring too much where things go or being perfect, just be the same you when you talk to your close friends but slow down on the bro talk) just show that youre fun to be around. Humor is a must have, and thats easy once you focus on the present and your surroundings rather than trying to figure out the best thing to say, and when you have humor its easy to flirt without being too direct or sounding creepy. The same energy you give is… | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 09:14 PM |
| 33 | How I turned it around in 3 months.Everyone listen to this man, he knows his stuff. If I may add, when talking to females the main focus should be having fun, getting her comfortable and having fun conversations. They will appreciate you more for acting like a decent human than a horn dog who wants to get sexual too fast. Even if you do rejected dont take it personal, I know its hard, but every man gets rejected dozens of times before they succeed. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Need help with a replyNah you barely know her yet. Just say all of them because youre not sure youre doing them correctly or if she can recommend you her favorites. You can get flirty once you meet | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 10:45 PM |
| 104 | I feel like committing suicideThe worst thing a man can do is measuring their self-worth on who they can attract, because if we all did every man would be unsuccessful and depressed | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Should I (M/30) delete (or hide) Tinder/Bumble?Download Tagged, skout, or even Plenty of Fish they allow you to message anyone without having to match them. Also you will have a better chance finding a woman thats wife material in real life than dating apps. Nothing beats face to face and those apps are full of superficial people who are looking for the top men and hookups | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 10:38 PM |
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