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| 1 | Do hobbies only carry some weight if you are very good at it?Depends what hobbies mate. You can play 3 chords on a guitar and sing somewhat in key and its enough to "impress women". Honestly, women are pretty easy to impress, its getting a time when its appropriate to show off or talk about a hobby where it doesn't look like you are boasting about how great you are. And yeah of course I will chime in with the don't do it for women comment. Just find a few things that will make you feel better about yourself, once you do that you will have more direction a… | /r/seduction | 08/10/20 09:56 AM |
| 0 | 10 basic yet unorthodox tipsNumber 5 though... It's real... Years ago I watched a girl play a dating app, guys with good pictures, physiques, everything, just getting massacred. Usually the problem was she didn't like his name, or his smile was weird. The smallest of things will get you left swiped. If you're a guy with abs then just post a pic with your shirt off and go for ONS, don't bother trying to find a stable gf on those sorts of apps. | /r/seduction | 04/10/20 04:33 AM |
| 0 | How to ask a girl for long term relationship?Mate I hate to break it to you but if its taken you a few months of seeing her to thing about asking her this then I assume she either thinks you're gay or a coward. I'm sure she thinks you are really nice. | /r/seduction | 27/09/20 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Flowers on a first date, yes or no?One woman voting yes and about 20 dudes saying no. Is this a personal preference for you? Or is it an agreed thing between your girl friends. Maybe I should ask on a sub with more girl? | /r/seduction | 21/09/20 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Flowers on a first date, yes or no?From what i've heard, Russians basically expect flowers on these occasions, is there any truth to this? | /r/seduction | 19/09/20 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Flowers on a first date, yes or no?In my country (PRC) its a little hard to open with a strong hug on the first date in public. But yes, I am mainly thinking about her carrying things around, maybe its different for western girls. | /r/seduction | 19/09/20 11:20 AM |
| 2 | How are most people under 21 having sex without their own place to live?If I were you I would sit down with my parents and tell it to them straight, your 21 years old and they should treat you like an adult. No need to be rude to them or demand anything, just confidently say you have a problem with how strict things are and at your age they should be more understanding. If anything, its a last ditch attempt, if it fails atleast you'll know for sure. | /r/seduction | 18/09/20 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Worst case scenarioNot really a bad reaction from them but more of a failure from me. Approached these two girls to get the contact of one, continued walking beside them for a few seconds until I tripped over the gutter and fell over. They kind of just looked at me strangely, in a panic I kind of just spaghetti'd away. Watch where you're walking, kings. | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Do you ever just get pissed that you have this deep biological desire for women?Man its like bamboo, you water that shit for years and nothing happens then one morning it shoots out of the ground at warp speed. Plus only getting a few lays is more than you would have got by not trying at all. At least you got an outcome, at least you learned, less can be said for many others, and most didn't stick it out past their first rejection. If you want some drug to numb you to women then just go jerk it to porn twice a day, you wont even have the energy to pursue them, would you pre… | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | How to let a guy know I wanna fuck^Der Coomer^ | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxietyRead your first sentence again. The quicker you approach, the less time your mind and body has to react to the nerves. You've got about 3 seconds before it really sets in and you can feel it in the legs, so go over and approach asap. The nerves will kick in, but by the time they do the hardest part is already over. Don't think about approaching just react on that knee jerk, regardless of the risk. Also don't judge the feeling as fear or anxiety, look at it as excitement. You know when you are ju… | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 06:19 AM |
| 3 | How do I learn to flirt with girls?Honestly anywhere mate, but the main thing to remember is that its trial and error. | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 01:56 AM |
| 0 | I dont need a relationship right nowNo you don't, you need to develop the confidence to stand tall regardless of your situation. If you want a purpose look inward, not outward. Once you have mastered yourself, everything else is easier. Look deep within and lay your flaws and virtues out in the open, you will be surprised at how quickly your purpose will show itself, a dragon waiting to be slain. | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you meet woman?Yeah I stopped drinking a long time ago. When I was in my teens I hit it really hard, not because I wanted to, but because I was expected to, and I would be considered a weirdo if I didn't (grew up in rural Australia). Nowdays my tolerance is pretty much zero, so I dont even bother. There was plenty of times where I thought that I better drink as to not look strange in front of everyone, regretted it every time. Just do your own thing brother. | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 01:15 AM |
| 3 | How do you meet woman?Usually goes like this. I'll be walking around somewhere, see one that I like, start feeling the sweet boil up, little bit of a leg shake, feel like everyone around me is staring, then walk up and say hello. I'm in China so apps like TanTan (Chinese tinder) yield incredible results somewhere around 5k matches but the picture is never really what you get. Approaching girls cold off the street isn't so normal in this culture either, and there has been a lot of times where white knights have came t… | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 01:54 PM |
| 3 | How do you meet woman?Tip for non-drinkers like myself. Order a coke, anyone asks, just say its a jack and coke. Saves you the "why dont you drink?" conversation. | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 01:49 PM |
| 2 | I want to seduce my mother's friend / my interior designerThe wine idea is good actually, breaches the gap between having to get her home. Dont just give it up man, if you fall on your face you will forget with time, but regrets go to the grave. | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 07:05 AM |
| 1 | My Insane 3 Year Pickup Journey - From Hardcase Short Asian to SlayerSo happy for you brother, not only for the journey but for your current situation with the blonde girl. | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 03:02 AM |
| 6 | The community that believes cold approaches are rude. Opinions??"terrifying" Why so dramatic? If being approached with headphones on is terrifying, what situation would be suitable for her? Using these harsh words, the same kind of women who would complain about being approached in any manner, disregard this. | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Muslim girl?I remember being in Kuala Lumpur and picking up this girl, we met at a karaoke bar and she was really cute, so after we got talking I invited her back to my hotel room and we spent the night there. In the morning she got ready to leave (she knew what the deal was) and took a headscarf out of her bag, I didn't even know she was a Muslim. You would be surprised how a lot of these girls just want to have fun like normal people regardless of their upbringing, don't worry so much about taboos, parent… | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 02:27 PM |
| 14 | What to Say When She Says “I Have a Boyfriend!”I always say, "Ok, well in that case I've got no choice but to friend zone you". Usually get a good laugh after that line and its a smooth recovery. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Would you say it’s bad if I smoke pot a lot, to take my mind off of things?The problem is that you are using to offset something negative in your life. You shouldn't be taking your mind off your struggles, you should be putting your mind ON your struggles and trying to mitigate their negativity. Does the drug solve the problem? No? Then do something else. If you were smoking weed casually in a social setting and can keep your head together then it wouldn't be a problem, but I am imagining that you get shot down and go into a cave to comfort yourself. Find a better outl… | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 02:24 AM |
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