dc-cards Archive

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17	What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees? Can’t believe im about to type this number…north of $750k. Mine had a move away custody request and it was in California. It also includes the full cost of 2 Custody Evaluations, vocational eval, 3 separate mediators. The process took 4 years. All it takes is for one of the two people to be unreasonable and it spirals out of control.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/25 05:59 AM
11	She Plotted Similar experience here. Told me she wanted to divorce. Through discovery documents I come to find she’s had the following for a year before we separated: 1) Private PO Box 2) Storage Unit 3) Out of state Professional License (in the state she was intending to move to with our kid) 4) Retained an Attorney & custody expert 5) Hired Private Investigator to go through my home office and follow me. Felt as if I was trying to play catch up the whole time. Always on defense. If it’s a contentious divo…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/25 03:57 AM
1	Court system Do you have an attorney representing yourself?	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/25 08:04 AM
10	Any advice on how not to be a narcissist co-parent would be appreciated. Who told you that you are a narcissistic co-parent. Taking a shot in the dark, I’m guessing it’s your ex-wife? Wanting peace, time with your kids, ready to give in to her, not being good at standing your ground…these are all opposite behaviors of a narcissist. 99% sure SHE is the narcissist and is gaslighting you to make you think that you are the uncooperative parent. Narcissists are commonly known to project the attitude and behaviors they display themselves onto there victim. I can relate to …	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/25 08:00 AM
8	Moving out of the house One of the biggest mistakes I made in my divorce was thinking I was doing the responsible, masculine thing and agree to move out. I had left some stuff there thinking I’m sure I can come back and get it later. Wrong. I was never allowed to step back into that place without the threat of law enforcement being called.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/25 07:51 AM
5	Ex wife introducing boyfriend to kids. But thought she already did… I agree with a lot of the comments. It’s probably a new guy. My 6 year old was the one to tell me 1) When mommy and her celebrated Xmas with a guy I never know was around. 2) When they then got engaged over this past March. 3) When they got Married this past Thanksgiving. As fucked up as I felt it was, I knew I couldn’t do anything about it and confronting her about it would only serve to let her know she got under my skin.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/25 07:47 AM
3	Neede help to divorce my covert Narcist wife Document, document, document. You will get tired of having to dedicate time every night to this, but when it’s all over, you will be so happy you did. The app below is what I used. You can print really official looking reports to submit to court. I can show you how I did it, just message me. Alementor 2 Custody Documentation App Get a dash camera for your car and try to do exchanges in front of it. Depending on what state you are in, consider wearing a body camera. I recommend this little camera…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/25 03:06 AM
1	How will I ever get over not seeing my kids every day. Shit man, its hard. I can relate big time...and you have every right to have these feelings. Im into year 3+ of a contentious divorce and custody battle (we were only married for 2.5 years), fighting a stbxw requesting an out of state move away. And its looking like another year before we go to trial. I wont lie, it still occupies headspace daily (my daughter, not my ex), but it does get slightly "better" as time progresses. I've learned to take these feels and channel them into productive actio…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/23 04:42 AM