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This question pops a lot on deadbedrooms. As others said, if you don't initiate, you will come across as butthurt. She sees you butthurt, slim chances she would want to initiate herself. Pick up the clues, i know i miss them a lot. Simple touching gestures, that's how she tells you she is the mood.
/r/askMRP24/10/15 09:37 AM
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I'll be the devil's advocate: what if she did this 180 only because she saw herself kicked out of the house?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 01:14 PM
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You know what my gilrfriend told me some years ago when i tried to explain to her some psychology "tricks" that i followed in our relationship? She listened for a while and then said "well, you chose what you did, you made the bed, you sleep in it". This was before redpill stuff i know now. Basically saying that the situation we had (some boring bedroom) was on me. I was speechless. Now i know why. It was true.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 05:49 PM
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Could be one or the other. Maybe OP could detail this a little more. If she really acted bitchy, then there's no excuse for her.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 08:25 AM
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Great post. Saved.
/r/askMRP03/09/15 07:08 PM
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😄😄. Good to know. See- it's the small things that bring happiness.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 07:41 PM
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This. Cuddling doesn't lead to sex for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 08:01 PM
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Good advice. But....is she worth it? I mean, she just shits on him for basically nothing? How will she behave when real shit hits the fan? She should at least show some understanding. I know what MRP teaches, but he can't be the captain ALL the time...
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 06:43 PM
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Off topic: update to win 10. No more angry wife 😄.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 09:14 AM
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You know what, you may be right about the frequency. They do it almost every day and then he also wants bj. She might think that it is too much for her, all this activity. I think he can try a different approach: sex only 2 times a week and pushing for a bj after 2 or 3 days of non-contact. This would not put pressure on her (she only "gives" sex 2 times a week, therefore a bj should not come as an extra chore for her). I am also interested in the outcome of this and what will work for him.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 08:43 AM
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If she brings it up again, maybe being sincere will work? "I just got ourselves a house and you throw a fit because i took 2 hours for myself? Are you listening to yourself?" Mayb after the fight she will come to her senses and appreciate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 08:12 AM
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Wow. You even apologized to her for not buying a gift 😄. Imagine if you kept on living like that with her... brrrrrrr...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 08:09 AM
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Tell her to trim it. Like 3-6 mm, it doesn't itch and it's a reasonable size.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 08:27 AM
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How about instead of you going to a hotel, send them to the hotel? In front of your wife? You tell them you already booked the room for them. See how she reacts. The bad thing is she will try to keep them in the house and make you look like the bad man.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 10:28 AM
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Read no more mr nice guy first, i suggest. It is an easy read with mind opening psychological stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 02:09 PM
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-showing anger and standing up for myself when she gets nagging: she actually shut up and stopped nagging (she just wanted to see some manly reaction); -deciding on things is greatly appreciated (what we cook, where we eat, where we go): taking control is a great stress releave for her and even if my decisions are not the best, i never heard a complaint; -rougher in bed is sometimes good; -communicating is good in a LTR, but it is up to the man to keep the momentum going; you know about "i will …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 01:46 PM
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It is more hate and rage free, from what i can see. For me, the order of the readings was deadbedrooms, then i found trp, where i saw what works and what doesn't. After last time in db, offering advice from my iwn experience, i stumbled on this. There is SO MUCH GOOD INFORMATION here! It's like a common ground of wisdom, as you say. Like "the next level" after my previous ones.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 01:26 PM
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I know, you are all rapists :). There is some very good advice on db (all in the line of mild redpill books and actions) and some good people who fixed their life and offering advice, but what i read in this sub is mindblowing. There are users here who don't beat around the bush and tell you facts instead of accusing or shifting the blame. Congrats to the mods and the users for keeping this sub. I now have a lot to read and a lot of confirmation to receive about my own ideas.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 01:01 PM
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I came in here just today, i knew and read about the red pill for a long time, but i didnt know u guys existed :)). It's good to see some people from db opened their eyes and minds long enough to discover this.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 12:20 PM
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From my experience, sexting doesn't really work with my girlfriend. She seems to always "forget" about it when she gets home.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 10:55 AM
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You know, you could be right. It was so sudden, with no red flags. It pays to search for similar cases.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 09:40 AM
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I was thinking about this when you said he dissapeared...
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 07:16 AM
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