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dcmcmd/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 10:10 AM
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dcmcmd/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:10 PM
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Confidence = win or lose, I've got this. Arrogance = I can't lose.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 02:01 PM
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I think this is a very useful question to ask and speaks to the fact that TRP is a toolkit not a rule book. As has been alluded to by others: it matters where it comes from. If you're trading emotional or physical resources for attention then that's a 'beta' dynamic. If you're doing it because you want to, you're leading and it's independent of an outcome then that's an 'alpha' dynamic. Remember that as much as women are subject to hypergamy, we aren't hanging around with them just to practice n…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 01:59 PM
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Same effect from a different angle when raising a male child - encourages in them the various beta characteristics they would find appealing in a provider partner. Curses said child with a bucket load of useless advice on women!
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 01:05 PM
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I would add to this that the arrival of women in the workforce, along with continuing development / expansion of social welfare, and the resultant ability of women to self-sustain (in short - the movement away from the traditional family model) has caused a crisis of purpose in many young men. Setting aside any moral or ethical question about the role of a man as the head of, and provider for, a family - when you take that function away or downgrade it, it leaves men searching for (and failing t…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 05:34 PM
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Set some small, achievable goals, and don't focus them around attracting women. If getting out of the house more is important to you then find a simple way to do that - go and draw in the park, for example, instead of at home. If you're into music - arrange a jam, go to a gig (even on your own!), check out student radio. You mention being bad at sports - there is a physical activity out there for you. Doesn't need to be performed at a high level. Hiking, swimming, table tennis - something that a…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:19 PM
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Ha! You'll know when a woman doesn't give a fuck about you, as you'll become invisible to her.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:02 PM
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Bang on. Part of the point of monk mode is to engage in disciplined activities. Yes, you have goals you're aiming to achieve in that time, but the process of shutting out distraction in order to achieve them is extremely valuable in and of itself. Learning your own mind and how to manage your attention is great - don't worry about finding an app, embrace the opportunity to improve your impulse control.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:59 PM
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Absolutely fucking nailed it. Bravo and merry Christmas.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 10:45 PM
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I think I'll copy/paste this answer for every question that comes up. Excellent.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 10:41 AM
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Perfect. Exactly this mindset!
/r/askTRP14/09/18 09:58 PM
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It's going to be reasonably personal to you and your own style. I didn't read that remark as overly corny. You could probably have a type of banter that your friend could not, and vice versa, based on natural personal dynamics so I wouldn't get hung up on this particular opinion.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 09:55 PM
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Build your social proof - on many of the key aspects, the clock resets on day one of uni. This is what is meant by "reinventing yourself." Take advantage of it to start behaving like the man you aspire to be. That means building physical fitness, educating yourself and getting the hell out of your comfort zone. Women will naturally follow from this. You're not there for women, identify your goals and pursue them vigorously and they'll come to you. Basic RP stuff really but good to remember.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 05:20 PM
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Men testing ideas with other men, learning how to better navigate intersex relations, TRP is a goldmine when it clicks.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 05:04 PM
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Thought-provoking. TRP has a poor rep but there is a lot of good thinking and communicating going on here, often around topics that men are reluctant to engage with in depth with each other in real life. I think your point about Disney love being a male self indulgence is bang on the money. I can see RP love expressed moreso in your ability to be the sun at the centre of her universe; its workings unknowable to her, a constant presence that she wants for and worships. And the key as we know is t…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 05:05 PM
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Off topic - what a great number.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 03:51 PM
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Great post. My red pilling has extended recently to the work environment and a lot of what you say about 'good guy' = 'compliant' resonates a lot. It also gives me a new perspective on some people I thought were assholes. They may still be assholes but they might also be right!
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 08:58 AM
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At some point you also need to establish/make clear your interest, i.e. 'heat it up' a little. That remark is a way of bumping it up from just a pleasant conversation with an interesting person. There are many ways of doing that, this is one, a lot depends on context and delivery. Plus you were able to roll with it when it didn't land as expected (or maybe it did, hence the shit test.)
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 11:15 AM
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I think this is a great post, at the end of the day frame is everything and you found a good way to project yours without adopting a step by step approach. That says to me that you understand social dynamics and are comfortable with uncertainty or change, which is what we should all strive for.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 10:39 AM
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A quality FR. Genuine insight unlike the majority of quasi-fantasies posted.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 10:14 PM
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Enjoyed this. I always fear the yellow more than the red light!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 02:28 PM
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Looking forward to 'FR: towel-stacking' threads :-)
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 12:00 PM
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Best thing I read on here about sex was that we guys focus a lot on what to do during the act to make it arousing, but for the woman, a lot of the 'is this good sex' decision happens in the build-up; if she feels swept off her feet and consumed with passion then she's going to feel good, even if it's quick or just one position or whatever. Obviously there are limits to that but it's probably similar to the idea of a guy just 'getting it'. Doing all the right stuff but with the manner of somebody…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 11:59 AM
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Make small, sustainable change and follow through on it every day. Grand gestures and epiphanies have their place but real self-improvement is hard and unglamorous. Commit to doing something to better your lot, and then do it. And good luck.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 09:20 AM
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For books related to my work, I make structured notes and read back through them. I'll also try and find friends to explain interesting bits and pieces to, from said books. Good help with remembering what you've read, plus a test of how well you've understood it. For non-professional books I worry less about retention and just let it wash over me. Important to enjoy reading for its own sake at times too.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 05:37 AM
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If it's better than the day before then that's progress - you only answer to the man in the mirror. Keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 06:53 PM
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Ran 6 miles for the first time in years (used to eat them for breakfast!) Initiating conversation with strangers of all types in different environments (bar, supermarket, gym, street) and finding it overwhelmingly positive Improving my eye contact Feeling good about being back into the dating pool Enjoying TRP and getting better at filtering the guff from the solid stuff (mods already do a good job)
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 06:50 PM
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Can identify with the socialising feels like work vibe, to an extent that's the case for everyone to different degrees but the good news is that like anything else, practice makes perfect. Kudos on putting yourself out of your comfort zone and making sure you introduced yourself to everyone. Don't beat yourself up - willingness to try new positive behaviours is what counts, it's not always going to feel easy. Thanks for introducing me to"be the cause, not the effect." Nice summation.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 06:47 PM
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Congratulations - it only gets easier from there. Form is key!
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 06:43 PM
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Good point. I'm working on that area by saying yes to more things.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 01:58 PM
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I find myself drawn towards workplace relationships, and have had several. I am under no illusions as to how poorly-viewed that is here, and I accept the logic of why. It's simply not a great idea, even if they do end up going well. Currently there is a person that I work with with often, and am close to, where I see compatibility and sense an attraction. My question is - are different personality types more or less prone to finding companions at work? Could this be linked to the level of invest…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 07:54 PM
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Ended 2-yr LTR last week, a good relationship but ended for solid reasons. Thanks to this sub I am much better-equipped for life outside a LTR, than I would have been a few years ago. Been a good week as a newly single guy. Good: Intently focused on work and got shit done all week; Jump-started my physical training: I'm in very good shape but have been lacking in goals and motivation recently: said yes to a few things this week that will get me back on my toes again physically; Hit a bar with a …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 09:49 AM
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Good call, thought the same thing myself about this quote.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 09:49 PM
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I disagree with this. I had a very BP childhood but the exception was going to watch live sports with my dad. As a child/teen I learnt a lot about sportsmanship, competition, fighting to the death, dignity in defeat, etc from following a (UK) football team. It was also my primary exposure to a men-only atmosphere - very old-school guys drinking, swearing, occasionally fighting, but with real cameraderie. I will say however that I also make a point of trying to play football socially, regardless …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:32 PM
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Good sensible post, a man helping other men be better men by broadening their horizons and getting their life admin in good order. More of this please.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 12:27 PM
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Now I halfway enjoy dipping my toe into an argument just to witness the jumps from polar opposite opinion to polar opposite opinion, depending on what I choose to chip in with. It's a game changer once you realise you don't argue in the same language.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 10:28 PM
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I realised it was a waste of time for me as I couldn't convey my true value, in that forum. Play to your strengths, engage with women in an environment where your athleticism, intellect etc come across. And work on yourself, but for yourself. A sense of self and a sense of purpose is what pleases people, not trying to calculate what you think might please them :-)
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 06:49 PM
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Rule number one: be attractive. :-) I learnt this rule in much the same way as you are now. Online dating is essentially window shopping - if your shop front isn't cutting it, don't waste your time. And don't ask yourself what is wrong with women - there is nothing wrong with them, they are as they are. Be glad for the clarity you have and use it to keep improving yourself and building your life up. Seek out challenging, developmental experiences and environments and people, men and women, will …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 06:13 PM
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