TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

dctrmoose Archive

View 0 posts and 22 comments by dctrmoose on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
2

Exactly. Just because you are explicitly clear with what you want doesn't mean someone is obligated to do anything. If he didn't explicitly say "okay I will meet your expectations" then he doesn't owe you anything. And when someone says "I'll try" That does not mean anything. That is not a definitive. To the men reading this post. Be yourselves and be honest with women. You are not required to meet anyone's expectations, however you are required to be honest. Work on yourself and be the best man…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/20 06:48 PM
5

You can have expectations of other people and if they don't meet them you have two choices. Accept the person they are and learn to respect that or Leave. You want this guy to be something he's not and you're disappointed. I told my now wife multiple times during our relationship. "That is not me, if that is what you want...There is the door." She learned to accept who I am and adjust her expectations. Maybe you should consider this as well.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 01:49 PM
6

If you leave him now and let him find someone that will fulfill his sexual needs, you are a good person...not a bad person. If you marry someone you're not into in every way and are phoning it in...you are an awful person. Don't do that to him. Your problems are not his problems. Let him be happy.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 06:48 PM
1

I’m a guy, hence why I reference my wife. How are current events 3D printing, hiking, fitness, current events, how to raise our kids, investing, retirement, etc masculine? How are any of the things on my list masculine? Most of them are gender neutral? If you’re not interested in at least 50% of what I have listed above...I’d say you aren’t worth dating. What are we supposed to talk about? Shopping? Mani Petis, gossip regarding the neighbors. It’s my assertion that a lot women need to open their…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 03:28 PM
23

Firstly, what are your hobbies? What are your passions? What do you like to do? What do you like to do together. It sounds to me like you might not have anything going on as an individual and rely on your boyfriend to fill in this area. Maybe you need to figure out who you are as an individual person first. Things my wife and I talk about: (Literally everything) We also love to listen to YT videos together and then discuss them. Politics The future of work, future of higher education Business id…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 05:45 PM
4

I’m a guy. Why do you women always try to find a way to ask without being direct? Be direct. When a woman texted me too much I’d say. I don’t like to text and then I’d call her. It’s simple. If the guys not into it he’s not into you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 12:28 PM
1

Of course is justified...to you and many others. But he is not you. Be prepared to lose the relationship. It’s your life, you have to stand for your values and be willing to accept the consequences...good or bad. Be a strong woman and date with principle
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/20 01:56 AM
1

Then he’s not an alpha
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 04:46 PM
6

Lol! Men and women talking to each other about what they want and need from each other for long term relationship success...IS EXTEME! How dare you be rational! You’re supposed to yell at each other and make them your enemy! You people are just sick. Keep talking ladies and gentlemen, the people that have a problem with bridging the divide between Gender and Race are the real problem in our society.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 01:40 PM
5

How do you not treat people as individuals vs a group? Your mindset is similar to the angry MGTOW that blames ALL women for their problems. Have you considered men as individuals? There are good women and good men, bad women and bad men. Lumping all people together by gender, race, or sexuality is bigoted. The second thing I will say is don't take things personally. If someone makes a shitty comment, racist, sexist, etc...don't let it get to you...otherwise they win.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 01:34 PM
0

Wow, I can tell you your not ready to get married especially to your average man. 1. Barely any men are marrying any more. So the ones that are are in very high demand. 2. High Value men are most desired and would not choose a sex worker to marry. 3. Are you planning to be honest with this man before you get married? I would want to know your past and your future plans. Give the man the opportunity not to marry you rather than finding all this out after he marries you. Most men would not agree w…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 12:43 PM
5

If there is no passion do him a favor and walk away. Don't put him through the marriage/divorce machine. He may grow into the man you want or he may not, but if you don't accept him for who he is now and the person he will become, you shouldn't be with him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 01:38 PM
17

And the sound of nobody giving a fuck was deafening.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/20 12:47 PM
6

Because women have been lied to by feminism, which tried to turn women into men and therefore there is a generation of women that have no idea what men want.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 12:25 AM
8

Her: Am ready to settle down Also her: Can you pay for my gas?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/20 03:20 PM
7

This is why you don't get married...Marriage vows mean nothing to many people. .."In sickness and in health" "Until death does us part" You said those words bitch! Lie in your bed. Oh you don't want to lie in that bed? Well, now you get pump and dump culture and no men want to get married. Congrats!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/20 03:16 PM
42

Dear lord! Not one word of what she has to offer. Just unbridled demands!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/20 04:52 PM
11

I find it so strange how SOME women take little responsibility in making a relationship and rely completely on a mans lead. This is a fantasy. Guys are not born masculin, confident, stoic, or strong. They are made this way through experience, struggle, and pain. Who know's the reason why he is pulling away? Have you asked him? Have you set clear expectations and vocalized them to him? Doubtful. I think you want to sit in the passenger seat and get success. You are only allowed to have expectatio…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/20 02:34 PM
4

Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 06:59 PM
5

Well that makes sense and I wasn't trying to be mean, but isn't it hard for us all (men or women)? There are only so many hours in the day and you choose the things that are most important for your future. You have to sacrifice some things some areas of your life. I had a huge group of "friends" when I was single...now I have like 2 and they live in other states. It's just me and my wife. Sit down and determine what is important for your long term future.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 05:37 PM
12

Hi, I am a 42 year old married man. My wife is 31 and she is a stay at home mom. I was only able to do this because I am 11 years older than my wife, have an engineering degree, and scratched and clawed my way to a management position that is not rewarding and I cannot wait to retire. It was a hellish climb to get here and I understand why most people can't or don't want to. I don't want to do this either, but I agreed to take on this role. Very few men want this sole responsibility anymore. Mil…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 03:59 PM
2

I just thought I would put in my 2 cents. I am a married 42 year old man, wife is 31 and we have a daughter on the way. I am also red pilled / ex MGTOW. I love my wife so much. She is a genuine feminine woman that allowed me the opportunity to be vulnerable and loving again. She means everything to me. I don’t know what to expect because I’ve never been a father but I will protect and provide for my daughter as long as I live. The only thing I want to instill in her is to not use her looks/femin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 04:00 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter