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I feel like if our culture was truly feminist… these women would be like… I’m gonna work my ass off… and get my own damn yacht
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 05:28 PM
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I don’t think you realize what the reality of the “harassment” you can experience as insta-Stacey is like… or how that impacts many women long term. While the attention seems really great, it can get in the way of you developing into a whole human, which is a lot more important in the long run. The more attention there is, the more likely you are to get absolutely wrecked by it, in ways that take a very long time to recover from. You don’t need to be insta-Stacey to get to Miami or Dubai. You ju…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 04:13 PM
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50? What? Higher.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 10:54 PM
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I can write you a novel on the many reasons you don’t want to be Stacey.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 07:59 PM
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Ignore them
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 01:16 PM
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If you don’t like who you are, things you do, how you’ve pursued relationships, etc… you can change and become whoever you want to be and you don’t need an excuse or owe anyone an explanation. This is part of personal growth, many grow out of phases they had when we are younger. The thing is, you actually have to change… and that might take some time. Also don’t be the kind of woman who uses words like “body count” and stay away from others who do.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 01:13 PM
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I think a huge factor, and this may be cultural, is that the relationships many of these women had, especially into older age, were built around a woman having to take care of a man her entire life (which was a greater social norm than it is now) and this is exhausting. So while I estimate there are very very few 65 year old men who have the health and energy to invest into a slightly more modern relationship, it is also quite likely that women with these experiences have views of relationships …
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/23 10:29 AM
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I would argue it is a reflection of their state as an individual and life priorities at that time. Not every woman wants to be part of a couple at every point in her life.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/23 11:56 AM
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On the subject of older women, I recall reading somewhere that older women are happier to be alone than older men, so it is possible that older women are simply not pursuing relationships at the same rate older men are, specifically when widowed. As anecdotal evidence, this was the case with each grandmother, great aunt and numerous neighbors I’ve had. The husbands who lost wives, seemed to find new wives after a few years, the ladies who lost husbands took up gardening.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/23 05:54 PM
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To add, it’s entirely possible you also tend to go for the same kinds of men. You wrote a bit about what you were investing in this relationship, but you did not mention whether they were reciprocating in any way. Please realize that there are some (many?) men who will stay with a woman who takes care of them because that obviously feels nice and requires little effort on their part, but will leave once something they see as “better” comes along because they don’t actually value the relationship…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/23 09:46 AM
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I had the opportunity to go to a top university but was so scared of student loans that I opted not to… so I’m also biased lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 05:45 PM
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Oh I 100% agree that spending 80k to study psychology is usually going to be pointless. But that is not the case for all majors or at all schools. You will likely be just fine in life if you study psych at a really good school because the opportunities you have with the degree will not be limited to psych. You will also be fine if you study many other disciplines, despite there being a cost. It’s only if you overpay for something useless that you will have a problem. That being said, there are a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 05:15 PM
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This is terrible advice.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 02:49 PM
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Nothing tough about this. She has 2 baby girls and her priority should be to protect them from this man. Growing up with a father like this is incredibly damaging.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 05:08 PM
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I would suggest to focus on that mission. And it’s gonna be hard, but if he is as good a guy as you think, and you are honest with him about what you want and how you feel, he will be supportive of your journey. and if he’s not… he’s not the guy for you. And that’s ok. Because at the end of the day you don’t need someone tall and nice to look at… you need a partner who will provide you with a loving and secure relationship. the most that you can do is focus on becoming the kind of woman who is c…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 09:03 PM
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Nope. This is false. You don’t snag someone until they marry you and are waking up with you every day. And even then… no guarantee it’s forever. And judging by your behavior you’re terrified of losing him, so kudos for admitting that… I know that can be difficult. Also kudos for recognizing that what you’re doing is fucked up. despite the arguments you keep making, you did come here to ask for advice… so I’m sure you realize you are in the wrong. So now what? If this guy is so amazing, and you w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 08:34 PM
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You need to google attachment issues and you need to address them now, before they become a bigger issue and severely impact your ability to have a healthy relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 08:12 PM
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People will treat however you allow it. While you may “love” this person, he doesn’t respect you. The likelihood this will change in the next 5 years is zero. It will hurt a lot less to walk away from this now than it will 5 years from now when you can no longer take it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 10:19 PM
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I would advise to immediately stop going to wherever you are meeting them Also… probably best not to think about them either…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 12:23 AM
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That’s just offensive. A man believing a woman can think is not a compliment. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 11:36 PM
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This is called projection. They are so married to their views of the opposite sex, so they bend everything into a form that fits their viewpoint. Stay away from these people also… they can only see that which they are looking for
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 09:41 PM
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So… people that tell you about what YOU do or don’t want… don’t take them seriously. As a matter of fact, just walk the hell away from them. Figure out what you want and need (right now and in the long run) and pursue it unapologetically.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 09:22 PM
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I had a larger friend who would always wear these wrap dresses with ruffles and such and all kinds of prints and it was very flattering. The dresses were a little busy… so you really couldn’t see any rolls. Give prints a try.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 08:50 PM
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I don't think it's just women. But I do find myself absolutely flabbergasted from time to time at how people nonchalantly pass by as some misbehavior is taking place. Whether it's a man harassing a woman on the train, or a larger or more aggressive male harassing an older guy or even a person getting loud and obnoxious with some young retail worker that did nothing to them.... people will stand by and avoid confrontation rather than intervene and put the bully in their place. It's not a matter o…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/23 10:23 AM
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Mold would imply there is a role he wants you to play in his life or there is some vision he wants you to become. And you may be 100% on board with this role and this vision… right now… the problem arises 5 years down the road where you may no longer be interested in being exactly what he wants. Maybe you realize you want to start a business or change careers. So… you want someone that will love you, support you and encourage you in becoming the woman YOU want to become, not just the parts that …
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 08:08 PM
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If your family and friends will have an issue with you being with a man that makes you happy, treats you well, but was born in a village… they sound like assholes. I don’t think they will though… I think you just want a man who is an “equal”. And I can somewhat relate to this because every time I’ve been with someone not my “equal” it went badly (inevitably they’d end up trying to put me down), but I ultimately realized that the qualities I desire in a guy are not a function degrees or languages…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/22 01:26 PM
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“I can feel how other people judge us as a couple, like it’s obvious I’d normally be out of his league” I think you should read that sentence a few times over and ponder this very point. Are you looking for someone to start a family with and raise kids with or someone that makes you look good to complete strangers? And if you find that it’s the latter… figure out why.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/22 07:00 PM
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What you did in high school is nobody’s business but yours. You are under no obligation to disclose your past or make it an issue in future relationships. It’s only an issue if for whatever reason you choose to bring it up. So unless there’s a web site out there with a list of all the men youve been with (or your Instagram), you don’t owe anyone an explanation. Become who you want to be and who you were will eventually fade away from memory.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 10:12 PM
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You need to dump this idiot... what he is saying is “you’re not enough, but I’ll still continue using you if you continue letting me” This is not the kind of guy you want to submit to because you will get nothing back.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/22 02:00 PM
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We flirt when we are interested. Like I said, if you’re not giving off the right vibes, women will not be interested. Change yourself instead of complaining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:13 PM
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Ugly people end up with other ugly people who love them. That is totally romantic success.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:59 PM
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Oh man. Wtf did I just read. I had a former friend who had similar struggles. I remember telling him if he wanted a thoughtful, caring, intelligent woman to walk into his life, he would first need to exhibit those qualities because amazing women have no time for men who have nothing to offer but looks. Stopped treating women like crap to look cool to his bros, found a good one. Maybe you should examine your personality and what you have to offer in a relationship besides a full head of hair...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:48 PM
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Could it be your attitude and how you carry yourself rather than how you look? Are you approachable? Smile?
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/21 10:28 PM
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I will have to use this in the "What's a random fact you're obsessed with" prompt on Bumble
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:44 PM
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If he makes these plans, I think you’re being reasonable to be disappointed. The next time he makes early plans, knowing this is the case, I would double check if he’s sure that’s what he wants… kind of like, “Are you sure you want to go this early? You wouldn’t rather sleep in?” Is it possible he makes the plans to possibly appease you and then doesn’t bother getting up in time because he doesn’t care about the activity all that much? If that’s the case, then he needs to stop making these plans…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 09:49 AM
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If he needs to sleep in on weekends because he probably doesn’t get enough sleep during the week and you know this, why not plan things later in the day?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/21 12:58 PM
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I’m 36 and I don’t think I know a single person who might be at 7 or less. Just based on number of relationships over years. Maybe 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:20 PM
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not once in the last 20 years have i asked a guy about how many women he has been with and never has a guy asked me this. in TWENTY years. maybe we're in different countries...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:12 PM
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Seven? How is this possible and how old were these people? Most of the friends I had when I was younger passed 7 by the time they were 21 I remember having this conversation with a couple of my girlfriends and they were at like 30+ in their mid 20s and I was like... wow... would have never thought it. Then there was the friend who got to 500 by the time he was 38 i think But SEVEN? In a lifetime?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:27 PM
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i have no idea what i just read
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:52 PM
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if i'm not thinking about taking your clothes off by the middle of date 1, i'm not going to, probably ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:42 PM
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