ddnovak Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Kids at age 14 can "decide who they live with." How does this work? That is how stable, well functioning people would see it as well.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/26 02:09 PM
1	Communication With Ex This is the absolute perfect answer.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/26 07:49 PM
1	Divorce and Destruction Truth.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/26 05:53 PM
1	Wife Said We Are Incompatible This goes both ways. Clearly 2 therapists could not help them.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/26 05:43 PM
1	Wife Said We Are Incompatible Divorce is used when there is no logical way to get through to the other person and it should be used up to max 2 times. Third time you better be filing the paperwork.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/26 05:39 PM
1	Wife Said We Are Incompatible This. Also, no one can take that away from you at the end of the day.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/26 05:37 PM
1	How am I supposed to be expected to just give it all up? This is toxic advice that will lead to nothing but hell for all involved. It is too early for them to know though. But once it is clear, action should be taken to create a safe home for the children. If you can afford it and she can agree to a temporary schedule, that would be the smartest option.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/26 02:12 AM
1	How am I supposed to be expected to just give it all up? Why don’t you put an effort into getting your own place and setting up a temporary shared schedule with the kids? You all would be getting used to the future and you wouldn’t go through transitions and hell for years. This will take a toll on all of you.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/26 02:06 AM
1	How am I supposed to be expected to just give it all up? Then do the right and humane thing. If you care about your children and any amount of cordial future relationship with this person, you might consider empathy and fairness. If you have to give up something small to gain peace, it is more than worth it.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/26 02:01 AM