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If you want to marry a high value man then work on being a high value woman. Being young is not enough. Look at Margarita Nazarenko’s work.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/25 05:42 AM
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No. If you’d been married for over a decade and then he were injured, because I’ll, etc that’d be different, but y’all just got together and the first time you were intimate in that way felt “meh”. Get out of there babe. We are not SO concrete in our beliefs that we have to sacrifice happiness for the sake of our morals
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 02:03 AM
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No. I am attracted to traditional men and can appreciate a little bit of crossover, but I generally find men who identify with redpill to the extent that they make it known to be over the top, controlling and hypocritical. They don’t tend to accept nuisance and seem more likely to have cluster b personality disorders. My husband understands and can appreciate a lot of the ideas behind redpill, but he is also capable of seeing what is bullshit and what isn’t and isn’t so rigid in his beliefs.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 04:45 PM
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With the screen free thing, you can take your husbands thoughts into account, but if the day to day role you fill is caring for your home and your child than he really only gets some degree of control there. You don't go to his work and tell him how to do his job... Keep it within reason but do what you need to do your job.
/r/RedPillWives01/08/24 08:56 PM
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I have ADHD and no way would I leave porn up. Porn is something that closing out the tab (and possibly deleting the history) is part of the process. You would not have 100% caught it. He may be watching it or he may not but the problem you are having sound very similar to the problems a woman’s who’s partner has a porn addiction has.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/24 01:06 AM
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Some weeks it’s every day, multiple times a day and some weeks it is none. My libido is very heavily dependent on my cycle. During the luteal phase my body dries up like an old leather shoe but when I am ovulating don’t call me, I’m busy lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/24 01:10 AM
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Over our 8 years, our bedroom has slumbered at times but now is pretty good. It’s good because we ditched porn and try but also I’m not pregnant or have recently given birth so that helps lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/24 01:11 PM
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I was not talking about you, you were respectful.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/24 04:34 AM
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This person must be a troll. They have commented on pretty much everything here with some kind of argument.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 07:07 PM
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Out of curiosity, are you constantly mentioning your mother because you are not a woman or because as a woman you don’t have enough life experience to speak personally about these topics?
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 07:03 PM
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I don’t think a man who is unemployed would assume a woman who is working a full time job is dating him because she is a gold digger lol You are wrong
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 06:55 PM
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I don’t think a man who is unemployed would assume a woman who is working a full time job is dating him because she is a gold digger lol You are wrong
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 06:55 PM
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Not really what we do here…
/r/RedPillWives22/12/23 07:34 AM
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Look into living with roommates. You can definitely find people willing to let a single mom in, just be respectful. You and your baby can share a room. Will be much more affordable. Consider finding a job at one of the preschools. A lot of them give a discount to employees. Explain your situation to them. If you know you need to stop partying, grow up and stop. Do it for your son.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 05:17 AM
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Do not under any circumstances move to a foreign country with your son to be married to someone that you barely know. That would be absolutely bat shit crazy and would put you and your child’s wellbeing seriously at risk. Do not.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 05:09 AM
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This feels like a great opportunity for you to establish a very healthy boundary in your relationship. “I am not comfortable with you expressing your interest in other women to me, that feels disrespectful to our relationship. Please do not doing it again.”
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/23 05:23 AM
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I have never heard someone say "you have to work on your personality."
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/23 04:39 AM
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On the other hand, I'm so afraid his condition may make him infertile. My partner is a big strong masculine guy with low-testosterone. We started trying for a baby and I got pregnant during the first two cycles we tried for (miscarried the first). edit: currently nursing our newborn. Obviously anecdotal, but his sperm is fine. Pretty easy to treat once he knew what was going on. A lot of men are low test and more will become so w/ age and the presence of microplastics, PFAS, etc in the environme…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 04:48 PM
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During an argument, I told him that I felt like he wasn't intimate with me at all. It wasn't about sex. We were barely able to have sex after my C-section. It was more of what you describe, a lack of closeness and flirtation. He was shocked. He had no idea I felt like he wasn't intimate with me, so he made an effort to cuddle more, talk more, kiss more. Sex naturally followed. Currently being 41 weeks pregnant, my partner and I just had basically the same situation. We couldn't have sex due to a…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 06:25 PM
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I would say no, it is not worth it to date this guy. I would suggest finding someone you actually like.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 04:15 PM
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Are you interested in him? Is he attractive to you? He honestly doesn't seem worth the headache considering all that you've laid out. Your post kind of reads like he is someone who has presented you with the opportunity to date him. You don't really illustrate that you would have otherwise even considered him. If I am wrong, great! Why do you like him? If not, don't date him - he doesn't have a ton going for him other than being a potential future doctor.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/23 08:15 PM
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While I can see some of the logic in your response, other aspects are lacking. My husband will contribute 100% to the household bills, but I will not be doing 100% of the chores as I will be caring for our child once his paternity leave ends. I can see how the argument for a SAHW could be different than for a SAHM but also, if they work now the same amount of hours then she is not a SAHW anymore. Also, the amount of money made is not the same as how exhausting someone's job is. My partner is a c…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 04:21 PM
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The ideal body fat percentage for women is 20–33%; at the lower range, even with those body measurements, you still won’t have an entirely flat stomach, and this is normal and good because most of us aren’t bodybuilders or underweight. And also, we each have a uterus in our pelvis.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 04:12 PM
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The hardest part about picking up a couple of kilograms is knowing your partner has to deal with it as much as you do. This just really ignores the fact that woman bare the burden of carrying, birthing and nursing the children. There is a lot more to life beyond the mid 20's vanity and people's priorities change as they grow older. A man cannot have a family without a woman literally sacrificing her body for it to happen.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 04:04 PM
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Seriously, I trust that my partner prefers my body being healthy and continuing to grow and then birth and nurse his first born child to me having a flat stomach. Life is filled with nuance. Just because something is objectively visually pleasing does not make it a priority.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 03:59 PM
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This sounds like something that would upset/turn off my partner. He is generally goofy and funny and trying to have a good time. If he were to be sharing something serious, be expressing himself in a vulnerable way or be frustrated and I responded sarcastically, he would feel disrespected. You really have to know someone fairly well before you can reliably inject sarcasm into a conversation and have it land in a consistently good way. Poorly placed sarcasm tends to make people defensive and you …
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 04:40 PM
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Just finished working in Early Childhood Education. I have been teaching PreK for 10 years. My first is due in three weeks. I wonder if I will ever go back, but either way I feel very prepared to have children and I am surrounded by a community of families I know and love!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/23 06:17 AM
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How long have they been friends? Edit: also, how did they meet?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 11:51 PM
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Yeah, I am about to have a newborn (not a single parent) and I have friends that will meet him when he is a couple weeks old. They aren't going to take on a care giving role and if we stop being friends it would probably be a slow fade, I love you from afar bc you moved away type thing, not "OMG I lost my almost new mommy/daddy type thing." If something happened to my partner, no way in hell would I introduce my kid to a 2 month potential fling. I have jelly in my fridge that has been around lon…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/23 11:18 PM
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What you should do is be kind as you're dumping him.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 09:22 PM
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Already takes testosterone supplements which is of concern to me because he is only in his 20s and for some reason the T levels dropped in his early 20s which I assume that is why he is not as masculine and this may impact on his ability to one day have children? Low T is far more common than you'd think. T levels have been dropping consistently generation by generation due to plastics, xenoestrogens, etc. I would personally see it as a good sign that he has identified to problem and is working …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 03:03 PM
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For all the guys who insist that women have to be virgins or whatever because they watched some weirdo with a microphone and a podcast, there are just as many (ex) frat bros or finance guys (among many others) who couldn’t give a rat’s ass. Can confirm, I have always been fairly risk averse and didn't engage in hook up culture to the extent that my peers did but I dabbled for a year or so. My current partner is both a former frat guy and finance guy who has had wayyy more sex than me and did not…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 06:58 PM
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A timid mother is the worst kind of mother. I don't know about you, but I would rather not have my mom raw doggin it with random dudes from bars. A mother can be cautious of and avoid unnecessary risk while still raising strong, brave children. There is a big difference between letting your child jump off a rock w/o yelling "Be careful!" to them and a woman trusting a strange man that could literally murder her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:13 PM
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Cherry picking at it's finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:09 PM
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Can also confirm - I am currently 10 weeks away from becoming a mother and I have never gone home with someone I've met at a bar. Hook up culture always felt kind of gross to me and I judged tf out of friends who went home with or dated strangers they met in bars. I was also amazed they were never given Herpes or murdered. edit: Also, they grew into women who aren't really doing all that well in life. Verging on 30, not in a stable relationship, still serving tables, clock is ticking, bummer typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:38 PM
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Yeah. TBH as a woman, I was always kinda amazed by women who were willing to be "picked up" or "taken home" by some random guy in a bar. Not amazed in a good way.. They are creating so much risk for themselves by getting drunk in public, especially because of their willingness to trust others - particularly men. If I am in a bar, it is because a friend dragged me there and I have my guard WAY up. To be fair though, I honestly view men who look for women at bars to be just as low value as the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:35 PM
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My guess would be that OP is not active on OF. Just a guess, but her post 25 days ago where she mentions that she is 26 weeks pregnant is probably why the last OF post is 9 months ago.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 06:12 AM
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If you are almost 30 weeks pregnant, you should be focusing on limiting stress, prepping for your baby and encouraging healthy communication and report with your partner. It would probably suit your child best for you and your boyfriend to see a councilor/therapist who specializes in helping couples who have recently become parents. You need to approach your relationship from an angle that fosters teamwork and mutual respect.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 06:09 AM
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Your point about the depth of friendship is an excellent one. I have guy friends from high school and some from childhood. I have some that are through mutual friends too. I consider most of these people to be really good friends, but we don’t really have deep friendships. I don’t go to them with problems or spend one on one time with them unless there is a rare objective (i.e I am taking headshots of my friends ______ for this thing). Most of them are really great and I honestly hardly see them…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 06:08 AM
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In my personal opinion, it makes sense to maintain long held preexisting friendships with men and women. I have many close male friends from my high school friend group, we have as a group moved through different life stages and supported each other. I also am happy to entertain new acquaintances that I have met via mutual friends and encounter frequently (but I keep these men distant and most don’t even have my contact information). I would not he willing to begin a new friendship with a man I …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 06:00 AM
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Also, my father told me to “accept the reality” that any man with options (ie, HV) will eventually cheat on his wife when I confronted him about cheating on my mom. I would laugh at my dad and tell him it's cute that he thinks he is a HV man. Also, my partner is not a weirdo and has never objectified me. He is wonderful and very respectful.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/22 08:34 PM
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Yeah, this guy is in personal injury/wrongful death suit territory.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/10/22 02:36 AM
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You are right though. Regardless of your thoughts on her actions. Self defense cannot typically exceed the force/intensity of the initial attack. She is in the wrong, but his actions heavily outweigh hers. He is probably on the hook for some type of excessive force and despite shared negligence, with a good enough lawyer she or her family could probably win a lawsuit depending on the extent of her injuries.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/10/22 12:08 AM
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If there are no signs or any tangible reason to suspect, then relax and move on with your life Thanking the person you share your life with for being a good partner is not representational of paranoia or being overly concerned. Words of thanks, praise and affirmation are incredibly effective at encouraging desired behaviors. This works with men, women and children. A woman thanking her man for staying faithful to her is not the same as her being concerned he is not. It demonstrates exactly the o…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/22 04:58 PM
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Coolidge Effect I had never really known of this. Thank you for mentioning. I was watching a fireside talk with Dennis Prager and he at some point mentions that the differing natures between men and women can be observed in the difference in how many sexual partners gay men have vs lesbian women (i.e gay men tend to have a lot and lesbian women very few). He also mentions that women should take a moment every once in awhile to thank their partners for being faithful to them. I will do so again n…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/22 03:02 AM
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Where does a man find a fully trained obedient dog? You dont find them, you make them Blech It is a choice to lead the lifestyle we do. I was not trained to be this way by my man. It was a part of who I was long before we met and contributed greatly to his interest in committing to me. edit: Also, rule #9
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 07:54 PM
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What will you do in regards to being a housewife?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 01:26 AM
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I had a very similar experience on the Mirena. It totally changed my interests, preferences, etc. I developed touch aversions and totally lost my ability to be attracted to my partner. I also had persistent nerve pain in my spin that I didn't realize was there until it disappeared the moment I removed it. Once we decided I should take it out, I felt like it was a parasite and desperately needed it out. I ended up pulling it out myself with my partner supervising because I couldn't wait the two w…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/22 01:56 AM
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You can look at it in regards to what you personally believe, but you are the most likely to be successful by getting out there and faking it till you make it than you are overthinking what you believe about your beliefs. The point is to find a way to keep trying. Otherwise you are surrendering to the alternative. Which if you are, whatever. But don’t complain about it online when you could easily do something by continuing to try. Edit: sever the chord between you and who you think you are and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:26 PM
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Its just such a niche scenario that is pretty unlikely and would take trying so many other things before arriving there. Pike sure, if the woman is cool with it then whatever. But what are we even talking about if that is the case? The premise of your OP was women being uncomfortable with the man they are with watching pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:34 PM
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I mean sure, if your partner is like “Im not sure what that is, can you show me a pornographic example?” Then yeah.. But otherwise it is just creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:18 PM
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“Hey, what kinks are you into, Im into ____. Wanna try?” There.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:16 PM
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How would you feel if a woman needed to look at some pictures of men hotter than you before she could get wet enough for you to get it in?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:49 AM
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I agree with the other stuff but showing it to your partner might not be that bad as it can open a conversation to what kinks he’d like to try. Couldn't he also just bring it up to talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:48 AM
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Thank you for providing an example of my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:43 AM
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after reading some posts here today i notice there seems to be the implicit belief that only men experience "feeling invisible" to the world. Men being victims and women being the evil queens who have it easy and run the dating market/world has kind of become the whole theme around here. At least for the majority of posts and most responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:55 AM
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You are seriously overthinking things. Work on letting go of the fear and get out there. If you say something awkward just laugh it off. Next time with chemistry girl, just save it buy saying "In a cute way"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:52 AM
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It's not bi/trans/whatever phobic. I am not scared of gays. I associated with gays happily. I just am not intereted in having sex with someone who is LGBTQ because I do not identify with LGBTQ. Calling a cis woman biphobic because she *won't date someone who is bi kind of feels similar to a strait man becoming upset that a lesbian will date a trans women but not him "because they both have penises" Just let people like what they like.. What would anyone get out of forcing women into a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:47 AM
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Haha the "Joe Rogan"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:28 PM
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I actually agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:27 PM
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Thanks for the warning. You seem like you have a super happy life ahead of you. Good thing you have never done anything wrong so you will never have to LIVE WITH THE CONSEQUENCES. Wish we could all be as perfect as you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:20 PM
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You didn't answer any of my questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:09 PM
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Yeah if I could the swinging but she had to stay loyal to only me. That sounds like a no in most scenarios. Generally you cannot have your cake AND eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:58 PM
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I can't speak for my 70 year old self. Now, no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:51 PM
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I've hear that men often leave wives with cancer, which is fucked up Yes, it is fucked up. But this is oftentimes associated with the stress of caregiving. Men are not as naturally cut out for dealing with the stress associated with caregiving. Although, you should love you partner for more than just how they make you feel, etc., that does not always work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:50 PM
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Everyone with arms die one day.. OMG HAVING ARMS IS TERMINAL TOO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:48 PM
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That's the problem with modern women. You keep saying this like you are 200,00 years old or something. edit: man, I am so curios about you. What is it like to live day to day surrounded by all of us despicable "modern" humans? What do you do for fun? Is it immoral for you to be using the internet since it was invented by us "modern" humans? Do you eat white bread or go to bed with socks on? It may seem like I am joking, but I'm not.. Seriously, keep going. Lets diversify. How do you feel about o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:36 PM
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That is just not true. Being on the internet because others have put you there is not the same as being influential ON the internet. Evelyn de Rothschild is so influential that there is a photo of him poking Prince Charles in the chest. And I doubt that dude is on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:34 PM
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You just don’t like to hear facts. Yes. My partner leaving me for a younger model is certainly "THE FACTS" But seriously, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:20 PM
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So, you are almost 30 and hitting the wall. I hope your relationship actually turns out well for you because if it doesn’t and he cheats on you and replaces you with a younger model once you hit the wall, don’t cry because you know that's okay according to you. Do you know what ttc means? edit: Who even cares about that part.. just thank you, it's been a ride reading all that. Also sorry about whoever hurt you <3 Also, you have very big opinions. Thank you for sharing your viewpoint, it has been…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:50 PM
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r/NeckbeardNests
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:43 PM
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Men’s standards are just as bad. There is literally a "dad bod" trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:43 PM
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Yeah it sucks for women that dont live in first world countries. SO MUCH yes. Girls literally cannot go to school beyond having their period in many places, if they get to go at all. Afghanistan just took like 30 steps backwards in regards to women's rights. There is a reason the UN judges a country largely based on the rights of the women who live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:42 PM
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Also, women are extremely influential on the internet. It's very easy to break out and gain followers as a woman. I'd rather be extremely influential in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:39 PM
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Women are also oftentimes seen for their potential to become pregnant and take leave when sitting in front of a hiring manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:38 PM
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When I was a kid I thought I wanted to be a boy because boys made better rockstars. I am so grateful that I didn't have some weird teacher pull me into a closet and tell me that I was trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:36 PM
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Don’t look for women at pubs and clubs. It is basically tinder in real *life. If I had a worthy male friend I was trying to fix up with someone, I would not set him up with a woman who goes out to bars on a regular basis. Join a group/community and start going at least once a week. You will meet people, it doesn’t matter if you are awkward. A lot of chicks find the quiet, awkward guy to be stoic and they are into that. *the way you improve something is by practicing. Find an estatic dance or co-…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:00 PM
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It’s so sick how some women are ok dating men that at some point use and dispose women as sex objects and like it because he treats her “nice” I am not just dating him.. we are domestic partners and ttc. Also, you clearly have not hung around a fraternity much. These men are not going out into the world and manipulating women in to having sex with them. The women dress up like hoes and literally walk right in the front door looking for sex. If anything, the women are objectifying the men as much…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:45 PM
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I think double digits is a little too wide of a range to generalize with. 11 is VERY different from 55. Triple digits is just way too high of a threshold to be considered normal. Social contagions are nothing new, but I hope that if I had encountered a group of friend with whom the culture supported most of the members having n-counts in the triple digits, that I would have gotten tf out of there. That is not a male vs. female issue. That is a question of poor mental health, self preservation an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:35 PM
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If you make $50 a week, focus your grind on getting a better job bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:29 PM
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Like yeah what am i supposed to do if women start charging kisses a million dollars, become a millionaire or just point out the pricing is ridiculous? Buy some self help books and a gym membership instead and face the fact that overall it is probably you and not them. If you meet one asshole in a day, then that guy was an asshole. If everyone is an asshole, its actually you who's the asshole. Same principle applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:09 AM
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I am about to turn 28 and he just turned 31. We have been together 6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:05 AM
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Ahh yes. You are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:03 AM
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It's so weird that you can lie about sex causing cancer, but you think lying = rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:59 AM
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Way I see it is, unless the person has a history of cheating, it bears no argument on how one would act I feel similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:55 AM
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Lying about having an STD or removing a condom can change the results of sex in a physical, health and long term life impacting way. Lying about being a virgin is about the same as lying about not being one. Which do you think happens more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:53 AM
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*Then start arresting all the dudes who claim that they are looking for something serious only to ghost the woman after she has sex with him. Men lie to get sex all. the. time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:50 AM
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Both Beta and Tracks are the name of nightclubs in Denver lol Tracks is the gay club so yeah.. Tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:48 AM
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I assign you value equivalent to that of a bag of crumbled airline pretzels. edit: nothing personal, but I assign it so it must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:43 AM
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What if I live in a city?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:41 AM
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If you have not already, check out curly girl routines. My hair became much healthier when I ditched shampoo and started cowashing instead. I also try to put oil in my hair when it is wet. If you are worried about how your hair looks with oil on it, wait to oil it until you have a couple days to let it soak in. I have high porosity hair so it can take a few days for it to not look greasy after I put oil in. Let go of the idea that you'd have to wash it out, it will soak in!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/22 06:22 AM
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How do you approach this then when life gets in the way of developing a social sphere? Consider the fact that life happens once for each of us and decide if you are down to spend it letting "life" get in the way of things like socializing. If you are, whatever. But don't pretend like it is impossible to work and stay in shape in addition to having friends. You can get fit while hanging out with friends. You can make friends at work. Life is short, you have time for what matters to you. If the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:02 AM
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This sub has become an echo chamber for men with victim mentalities who see women at fault for their failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:57 AM
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triple digits..? I am SO GLAD I LTR'd up at 21 and haven't been single since. Meeting someone with triple digits would feel so surreal. Like I was on a date with an old leather shoe.. I mean, how does someone find the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:37 AM
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My partner was a frat boy and I am assuming he has slept with many more people than me. His life before he started dating me is none of my business and my priority was that both of us were STD free prior to getting together. I was always the prudish dorky girl and I can still be a little naive about those types of things. My partner is only the second man I have tongue kissed (the first was my first bf in high school and his breath tasted like eggs.. I broke up with him haha). I figured when he …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:24 AM
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use sex transactionally to get what they want (attention and money) and because they have very liberal values in regards to intimacy. I dgaf about all the double standards whateverness. I have been in a relationship for 6 years. But I do agree. I'd like to add that they believe that their inability to find a LTR is because of the man and not because of their loose morals and promiscuity. A man is happy to have sex with or date a slutty chick, he is a lot less likely to bring her home or allow he…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:55 PM
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is as natural as women who can't grow beards wanting men with beards So what your saying is - only men who can grow tits are aloud to like tits?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:48 PM
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A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR You must not hang around many women. Sex is obviously easy. LTR is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:41 PM
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Men don't only want sex, they also want tacos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:35 PM
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Most of my husbands peers in college were legacy, many of them had stay at home mothers who were highly educated and home schooled or were heavily involved in their education. This could easily be due to the fact that they were home schooled, regardless of their parents education. A home schooled candidate is more likely to be accepted to an Ivy League College, simply because there are less of them. My best friend was home schooled and his two older brothers both attended Ivy League schools. One…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 06:38 PM
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Not to mention how much bleeding there is after. I told my partner I could bleed heavily for like 6 weeks AND HE DIDN'T BELIEVE ME! And he is generally a pretty reasonable on-my-side kind of guy. He told me he thought I was exaggerating. I had to sit him down and explain that a woman bleeds so much after birth that she is still at risk for bleeding out and dying tweleve weeks after giving birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:26 AM
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For this logic to work, the random dude would have to tell the woman she should smile more only after seeing her smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:49 PM
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Why do you gaf if these guys discuss game play online? You choose to follow this sub. It is literally a debate sub about the sexual strategies of men and women. Your being over thirty does nothing to set you above any younger guy on this sub. Someone could easily ask you why you need to hang around here at that age. Shouldn’t you have everything figured out by now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:39 PM
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Zing!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:55 PM
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You must not get out much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:54 PM
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This would kind of be like me telling you that you have nice clothes by saying you should dress yourself better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:51 PM
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Have you ever seen a grizzly bear? Or held $10,000 in your hand? These things MUST BE FAKE!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:48 PM
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tl;dr Yep, they are required for some but not all. A degree is not the only way to see that someone can stick with something. Also college being a fiscally irresponsible choice is oftentimes just true and should be considered on a case-by-case basis. A lot of jobs aren't even available to people with a certain degree level - you can never be a lawyer, post-secondary teacher, economist, psychologist, librarian, etc., without a degree for example. In your previous response you made the claim that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:08 PM
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Your implication that getting a degree is worthless is just so untrue. It is a bit of a stretch to say that I've implied a degree is worthless. I could make the same accusation about projecting to you based on the conclusion you've jumped to above.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:34 AM
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First off....why is it half of "his" stuff? Seriously. If my remaining at home enables him to work more hours and accrue more fiances or "stuff" it is not all his. A SAHM is not unemployed, she is employed in the home. When I am a SAHM I will have an expectation that my partner contribute to retirement accounts on my behalf and be married to me for my own future protection. SAHP's offer an extreme amount of value to their families and children. The benefits a child receives are measurable until …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:32 PM
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I've never received a degree because it has always been the least fiscally responsible option. Pay a ton/accrue debit AND lose working hours all to make a dollar or two more an hour w/o any title change? No thanks. I take any free credits/classes offered to me and choose to still purse education, but I am in no hurry to finish up a degree for the sake of a piece of paper. Especially considering how many of the required classes have noting to do with what I am interested in. Most University are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:27 PM
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I’ve become meticulous with vetting men before going on dates. Any whiney-baby “Poor me” rhetoric let’s me know there’s no reason to waste my time. So curious about your method for vetting. Will you please share?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 07:39 PM
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This seems so reasonable. I find strong, traditional men all around me and I am in the largest city for 500 miles. I honestly believe it because I have blinders up for all of the others and I only notice the sexy conservative/traditional men around me. I prefer men to be more conservative than I am. My partner and I have always had a dynamic with him having the more traditional/conservative beliefs. It has been great for me and our relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 07:36 PM
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I know on a primitive level, women prefer masculine men and I want grandchildren haha! LOVE THAT. I know so many men who have such a low likelihood of fathering children and all of this woketivism/feminism (and the new sh*t dating culture it brings) is responsible for so much of it. edit: syntax
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 07:32 PM
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Is the implication here that a mother without a degree is unable to raise successful children?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 07:30 PM
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From smaller city (red growing up, now blue), moved to biggest city (v blue) for 500 miles. I am an example of someone who paired up at the age of 21. We started dating when he was a somewhat lost young alpha type fraternity boy. Went through all sorts of challenges and did not have a dime for a long time but I liked him because of his kind heart and strong traditional values (and social capabilities). He grew into a stereotypical HVM during our time together through hard work. I could never be …
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 07:29 PM
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Look for traditional/conservative men. Interests could be hunting, fishing, 4-wheel driving, church, welding, going to the range, camping, etc. possibly former military or a lot of military family. They tend to congregate around the outer edge of big cities and beyond. Conservative men tend to be more traditional and hold that respect for women, provider type of mindset close to their hearts via upbringing and mom/dad relationship example.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 07:19 PM
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I feel attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:31 PM
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I have more self preservation than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:02 PM
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There is no such thing as friendship between men and women. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:29 AM
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Yep. Or stabbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:26 AM
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You would really be increasing the level of risk by chasing the purse snatcher either way. They could take out a knife and stab you. I would rather just cancel and replace some cards, freeze my credit and order a new I.D. than risk injury. No one carries cash these days anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:26 AM
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Can confirm.. I have been with a man who was "not looking for anything serious" for the last 6 years. Its kind of like how angel investors can dump money into tons of stupid start ups that turn into nothing as long as they find the one that blasts off...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:35 AM
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Mostly yes. Although, attractiveness is heavily rooted in presentation so maybe a lot of the "creepy" guys wouldn't be considered creepy if they presented themselves differently. I have met a couple guys who were hot and TOTAL creeps though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:42 AM
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I had not considered the factor that the most intelligent people have less children. A great example of how evolutionary processes can become lost in translation and fucked up. I wonder how women dying in childbirth less also contributes. A society did not have to be polygamous for a man to have children with multiple women and still meet the ethics of his time. Women died during pregnancy, birth or following birth vary very frequently and men would often find another women to help support his c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:52 PM
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I think improving the gene pool via sexual selection is probably better for society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:47 AM
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If a woman is going to be extremely vulnerable for 9 months via pregnancy, then have the inability to do anything longer than 45 minutes because she has to stop and nurse an infant for 6 months after giving birth, then have a little more time before feedings for the next 6 months but still be primary caregiving almost all of the time for the next 3-5 years, and risk dying in child birth or bleeding out and dying for the six weeks following, yeah.. It makes sense for her to find someone who is "h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:25 AM
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Snort that you believe your values match. Considering that I have been in a relationship for the last 6 years, my guess would be that they do. On the hypothetical-based-on-others track, it certainly happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:26 PM
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They are viewed as higher status and have more charm. Women want to be the one who gets what another woman wants. I am a woman and I think that although women should not be faulted for it because it makes a lot of sense from a survival, evolutionary perspective, we are hypergamous. It does not fit well into a society centered around abundance without extreme levels of intention included in peoples behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:45 PM
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I completely understand the women who want to give inexperienced or conservative men a chance; the men may outgrow the inhibitions. Conservative women seek conservative men and they are all probably the least likely to have a one night stand anyway. edit: I do not think conservative men have inhibitions stopping them, I see it as being a more respect centric approach. Many conservative men will fuck a loose lefty because "hey, if she doesn't respect herself, why should I respect her?" but a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:39 PM
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A tall dude who has deep voice and scrawny body gets pussy fast. I am not so sure about the "scrawny body" bit of this..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:37 PM
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I think women who subscribe to r/RedPillWomen would say that they make all men wait for sex and just ditch the one's who are not relationship material. I had a couple one night stands and they were all awful, awkward, draining experiences. I did not have much interest in them and denied a lot of most guys sex. It was a pretty reliable filter as the one's who only wanted sex fucked off really quick. edit: the few one night stands I did have were with male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:35 PM
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I would say the opposite is true for me. Though I am not interested in having a threesome with my SO. I was reluctant to give much effort to the few one night stands I had because I found them emotionally draining and the sex was always terrible. I certainly did not give them my best or most wild side. I really liked my SO and the first few times we had sex I definitely brought my A game and had the most fun I had with a guy up to that point. I have the best sex I have ever had with my partner o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:41 AM
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they are idiots who can't accept reality No, they genuinely believe that it is all a social construct. It is not that they cannot accept reality, their understanding is false because they are misinformed or underinformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:08 AM
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Entitled men will behave like an entitled man and probably fail the vetting phase. Most women do not subscribe to Red Pill. RP is centered around the male approach and even Red Pilled women are pretty well aware that a large portion of the people following the concept are on a power trip and have not actually done the work suggested. r/RedPillWomen is where you would want to look to find the female approach. It is worth reading their wiki. Women are more attracted to entitled red flaggy behavior…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:29 AM
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I think this is similar to women vehemently insisting that men are not 25% stronger and that women are "just as strong as men"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:04 AM
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There you go, I fixed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:00 PM
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I would find a weekly event/experience and start going consistently every week. I go to an ecstatic dance on Thursdays and although I am not single, as I build community I am more and more consistently approached by interested men. Although this is not my objective in attending, it is a place I would go if that were my intention. Showing up somewhere over and over is the best way to build community. People you have things in common with will inevitably pop up if you are genuinely interested. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:02 AM
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Then what exactly are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:18 AM
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The implication that women are the only ones publicly shaming via the internet really ignores revenge porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:17 AM
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He is implying that women do this to him and that men are overall the more virtuous and valuable sex because they allegedly would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:16 AM
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What's happening here is that *men* are vastly overestimating their value to women in the grand scheme of things Seriously. Idgaf if ur your hot. A woman doesn't need to be a supermodel to realize a guy is a total drip.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:14 AM
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Is there much incentive to marry as a guy anymore? I mean other than the hopeless romantics out there who believe everything will work out or guys who are insanely good at picking partners? The incentive would be supporting your ability to conserve the effort given by two people in working towards a shared goal, the ability to be certain that the assests held by you and your spouse would remain in their power and more ease in allocating your individual assets to them in the event of your death. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:42 AM
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Marriage has a lot of applicable value, especially to those who have worked towards a shared goal together like buying a home or starting a family. If you see absolutely no value in marriage you are either too lazy to actually look into the benefits or have never loved someone enough to want to be able to care for them even if something happens to you. Or both (probably).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:15 AM
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Because men get angry at a woman for being "emotional" without realizing that anger is an emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:29 AM
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It is incredibly naive to believe that something created to alter a woman's hormones would be unable to also alter her sexual preferences. If the luteal phase changes a woman's sexual preferences. You can bet your ass that a device made to stop ovulation is going to do it. I developed a touch aversion when I was on birth control. And my partner started smelling terrible to me. Once I went off it things when back to normal. My guess would be that the "newer researches" challenge the studies refer…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:17 AM
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Birth control changes a woman's hormones/sexual preferences and makes her more likely to seek a less masculine man. She is also fairly likely to realize she is not attracted to him once she returns to her non birth controlled self and leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:37 AM
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You could pick apart any analogy. A conversation of this sort demands flexibility in thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/22 04:24 AM
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You could compare the tree analogy back to the imagery of bailing the water out of the boat to make it fit again.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/22 05:43 AM
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Your children are a representation of your love. Without your love they wouldn't/shouldn't exist. Your home cannot remain the nurturing environment they were created to occupy if you stop holding the bond you share above all. (Like obviously not if the stove is on fire, but you get what I mean)
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/22 11:23 PM
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You don't address the issue of what a woman should do if she doesn't really like spending time with her husband. She should work on connecting with her husband so she can actually like him more. The only way to do this would be to spend time with her husband.. Or I guess leave? But that kind of rejects the premise that you get out what you put in and considering the subreddit we are on that doesn't really make sense here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/22 11:20 PM
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But if the person who is interested never comes out and says it or asks for more than it would be pretty presumptuous to assume that someone is and tell them your not. Imagine being on the receiving end of "I don't like you like that..." when you have not said anything about your potential interest. edit: When you apply for a job, you don't just show up and start taking on duties around the office. You apply by formally demonstrating your interest in being considered for a position. If a friend …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:18 PM
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As another woman, I am so curious what you mean when you say it is infantalizing to be put on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:13 AM
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If you are speaking on the basis of culture, then literally everything is made up and nothing is set in stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:52 AM
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Two things can be true. It can be perfectly reasonable for a woman to be horrified by men not wanting to raise their child and it can be perfectly reasonable for a man to be horrified by the idea that a woman would want the too. Men are biologically driven to pass on their DNA just as a woman is. They are not programed to desire the role of a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:50 AM
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But you are making the claim that "beta bucks" is a fantasy, not that the situation can be avoided with critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:33 AM
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You are talking to a woman who has been in a healthy relationship with a strong, kind, supportive man for 6 years. He is one of the "stemlords" that so many of you seem to reject because you find their achievements to be unrealistic. Although he is not even remotely unappealing.. you are one to talk as far as whining about "fantasy narratives." Also - The example I gave is fairly on the money as far as where the concept of "alpha fucks, beta bucks" originates from and you insisting that this doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:30 AM
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University-educated women don't just get knocked up I didn't realize attending a University made you impervious to unplanned pregnancy. also re: poor chick needs a guy with money - many people on this forum have tried to communicate to you that money is not the exclusive contributing factor to this dynamic. See also: father figure to child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:35 AM
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but changed her mind due to something going on on her end. Like being a single mother who is in need of support and a father figure for the child she was left with by the guy she originally wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:44 AM
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The scenario you're forgetting about is a woman who is knocked up by some alpha who leaves her and then eventually marries a beta who helps support her and her child (i.e "bucks"). In fact, I would say this is the scenario that inspires the concept of "alpha fucks, beta bucks." It happens frequently and although the woman is typically knocked up when she is younger, it plays out across decades therefore it involves adults of a wide variety of ages. The newly married, previously single mother in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:43 AM
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Prior to being in a relationship, I found sex with men I didn't know well to be extremely emotionally draining. It did not feel like there were any "just having fun" type positives and I rarely engaged in it. I consider "know well" to mean feeling comfortable with someone, feeling as though I have a true sense of their values, interests, etc and I have had time to see that these are genuine through their behavior. I also would "withhold sex" until I was confident that the other person was intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:27 PM
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You think a guy is going to meet a beautiful woman with a great personality who he enjoys spending time with...then ghost her because they had sex? I think the logic is that they think to themselves "She had sex with me.. a total stranger whom she has only known for a few hours.. There must be something wrong with her judgement."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:25 AM
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Outing yourself as a middle aged, middle income, receding hairline dude. Classic move.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:49 AM
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You guys just assume that all negative comments are written by older women Yeah, I have a feeling there are not that many older women commenting on reddit. I have no numbers, but I would venture to guess that older women are one of the least represented demographics on this site haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:45 AM
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What's stopping you? Out of the men looking to purchase nudes online, not all are seeking women's nudes. Why complain about something a woman has when you could have it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:51 AM
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There are extreme benefits in having a strong partnership with someone you can lean on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:46 AM
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Is it possible you could meet someone while in school? Universities tend to be filled with men.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 01:49 AM
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if there are complaints around this topic, then it's more that they are frustrated their partner won't open up to them about what is going on. This has almost exclusively been my experience as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:59 AM
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Do you think this is healthy? You are going to do whatever you are going to do, but no. It is not healthy. Is there something that a relationship provides that a sex worker cannot provide? Emotional Stability, Love, Someone taking the time to get to know you, Someone learning your love languages and demonstrating care for you the way that speaks to your needs in the most personal way possible, Sensitivity, The ability to lean on each other, Someone you can fully trust, Someone to come home to, S…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:19 AM
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Seriously! Being pitty dated is way worse than being rejected! At least you can remain dignified if you are rejected, being pitty dated is just pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:14 AM
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I think there’s some confusion related to the emotional behavior of men and whether it’s viewed as looking for a mommy or not. The majority of this confusion seems to be on the part of men. Assuming you (OP) are a man, your writing this further demonstrates this misunderstanding. I am sure you are spot on as far as men viewing the perceived expectations and potential consequences of allowing a woman to witness them in an emotional state. Both their belief that they should "be strong" and their c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:29 AM
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What a weird thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:40 AM
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Yes! I never judge them but occasionally think nosy thoughts as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:22 AM
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If I felt the need to reject someone, I would just reject them when they asked for the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:32 PM
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This is totally me. I used to feel terrible rejecting people and could never bring myself to do it. I got myself into a couple scenarios where I was stringing along a pitty date into a terrible pitty relationship. The guy would make my skin crawl AND I could not figure out how to start the conversation to dump them. It was both bad for them and myself haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:30 PM
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Our interests and desires change with age. Yours will too. I do not find men in their 30's annoying generally speaking and I highly doubt I would find a 23 year old man "fun" It would probably feel kind of icky to be involved with one, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:22 PM
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If a man cold approached you to try and strike a conversation and your first instinct is being uncomfortable, scared, and/or threatened, you probably need to see a therapist. Ahhh yeas.. spoken like someone who has no idea how creepy they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:22 PM
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30+ men are very boring. This heavily depends on your age. At 28, I find young men annoying and 30+ interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:54 PM
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I wanted a virgin man, and I ditched him shortly after because I realized he was awkward af and a virgin at 28 for a reason..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:44 PM
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I did not say that I was afraid of the answer, I know that he was a frat boy who partied and he knows that I was a relatively inexperienced, sheltered girl who was trying to act like I had a clue. The point is not that I am afraid of his past, it is just that the exact details of it are not really my business. We have spent 6 happy years together and this has literally never come up or been a problem. edit: syntax
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:54 PM
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he lived a different life before he met me This was my exact reason for not asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:27 AM
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You're just acting like her story is somehow different because she's a woman. "The window for having children is closing" part is really what makes it different. Women just do not have as long as men do in this regard. Society likes to encourage woman that they have plenty of time, but that is only true if they have $100,000 to drop on round after round of IVF. And even then, it does not always work. Women more consistently being on birth control for the decade prior to trying to conceive makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:29 PM
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Are you, culturally, in position to leave this situation if you choose? What level of repercussions would you face if you did speak openly about how you feel, or leave this marriage? Also - Is this a legal marriage or religious marriage. - I realize both can happen at once, I am asking if you would need a divorce to leave if you ever decided to. Now that we have this information, we can provide much more culturally responsive answers. Any more context about how you met, how it has gone, who intr…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/22 09:49 PM
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Infidelity and Communication Issues are also right up there with money issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:53 PM
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Yes. They are not the only people who would die without power. People with any type of illness that would be exacerbated by extreme cold or exposure to heat. Anyone who could not access clean water, etc. 1/3 is a lowball estimate. This source (and many others) claims that 90% of people would die if there was a pulse event that hit the U.S. power grid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:36 PM
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A relationship with someone highly attracted to you is attainable for most men in this sub. Get out there and make something of yourself instead of posting this shit like OP. While I find the question entertaining from an Anthropological perspective, I agree with you. Pretty much all the guys complaining here are the only thing getting in their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:52 PM
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TL;DR Life would become chaos if 90% of the men died. Due to the disruption in the power grid and supply chains - which are about 95% give or take operated by men. Many would starve and freeze to death. All frail humans dependent on medical treatment would die and only healthy children adults would remain. Those surviving would naturally ban together and revert back to the survival tactics our species used over the last 200,000 years. A shortage of men is not something unknown to our species. ​ …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:47 PM
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Yes - The purpose for the desire in the first place was to continue the species. Things have just gotten a lot more comfortable over the last 10,000-2000 years. If you consider agriculture to be a positive change for our species of course. Our brains are practically identical to what they were 200,000 years ago. My guess would be that if shit got real, we would revert back pretty quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:18 PM
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Today the guy behind the counter at the liquor store noticed that we were born in the same year. He asked me what my zodiac sign was, told me his and then asked if I thought we'd be compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:55 AM
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It's your world man, I'm just living in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:09 AM
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Two largely anecdotal accounts with no statistics hardly demonstrates that "most" women are not hetero.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:47 AM
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Who are they left for?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:53 PM
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I actually wasn't referring to men caring at all. I was referring to lesbian women not wanting their potential partners to have been dicked down buy dudes OR hetro women not wanting their potential partners to have been dicked down. Women and their aversions was the sole focus of my comment. Sorry for the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:51 PM
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Fairly similar to women being off put by the idea that men are bi. I guess some people just don't want the person they are attracted to to have been stuck by a guy in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:50 PM
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Yes, it is wrong. It's about as wrong as a man claiming that he is interested in a woman or saying nothing about his disinterest when she mentions what she is looking for so that he can fuck her without having any intention of pursing her otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:16 PM
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It's the moment when he sees that she understand who he is, rather than seeing him as "some dude". And this doesn't happen within two hours of meeting him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 07:08 PM
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You are acting like the typical STEMlord and one out of touch with reality. You have hung onto the fact that I mentioned tech very firmly. Sure, there are many roles that do not require a degree. Tech jobs are a very common way for men who do not have a college degree to climb the ladder via experience and advanced certs and ride to six figures within a couple ladder rungs. It was an example. Your being so heavily threatened by it implies that you have some level of insecurity surrounding tech j…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:27 PM
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But you've proven my point with pretty much all of this data.. You point out that there are other things that contribute to infidelity (which is obviously not a surprise) but that promiscuous people are more likely to commit infidelity. Of course there are exceptions, but the bottom line is that promiscuity puts a person at risk in many aspects of life - including an increased risk for an inability to have a successful LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:07 AM
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Also just smaller cities in America in general. I grew up in a city in Colorado that was 85,000 people when I was a kid. I never noticed it until a friend pointed out how many people who lived there were morbidly obese. Like rides around on a scooter obese. The glass was shattered and I could not longer not notice. They were everywhere you look pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:01 AM
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I did not ask you for the numbers. I asked you what generation this refers to. You are making an claim (without offering a source) that gives no context about who these college graduates are. Is this median lifetime earning an estimation based on millennials? Is this based on the baby boomers who are the richest generation? Does this take into account passive income via assets or martial status? My guess is that this would be for people who have retired in which case, there are so many other thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:27 AM
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This Institute of Family Studies article claims that the a study demonstrated the strongest indicator of marital infidelity was lifetime sexual partner counts. This article explains that their is an association between promiscuity and infidelity via a sensation-seeking gene called DRD4
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:05 AM
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Everyone has hormones that are triggered by stimuli. This is a drastic generalization that does* not do any justice to the very proven nuances between the different levels of hormones that are released between the male and females brains and how we form attachments. Its as* general as saying "everyone who lives has a brain"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:29 AM
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Which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:03 AM
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Sure, I think many find this a reasonable idea. But your complaint was about the law allowing women to not inform a man they are a father. Financial abortion does nothing to address a woman's legal ability to exclude the father from the process. It would exclude the father even entierly as they would be forfeiting all parenting rights via the abortion they committed to. Also- would there be legal consequences for a man who forfeited their rights via financial abortion but the decided to contact …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:02 AM
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Yeah.. My world is raising early childhood aged children and has been for the last 10 years. The science is just not with you on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:53 PM
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"Guys like you" is the most amusing part of your comment. It's a requirement then. If its something that is a must have and they aren't going to look over it then its a requirment. No, it is a wish list. Someone sends over a good enough resume and they'll probably get an interview. Or they don't and then they will jut assume they wouldn't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:51 PM
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But most people get their money’s worth from their degree. What generation is this based on? College used to be a much more worthwhile option than it has become. The cost raises an average of 6.8% every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:19 PM
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This is honestly very reasonable and as I woman (if I were in the dating market) I would find it to be the better option. I don't think I would personally take a man I've just met up on "Going back to his house to cook food," but it would feel much lower pressure to get coffee first. Then I can bail if he seems like a weirdo or jerk and I don't feel like either of us have invested too much or like I've "gotten a meal out of him" Which - YES. I have had female friends who viewed themselves to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:36 PM
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Thats probably why you think men are treating you like shit. Why? - I am not disagreeing with you, I am in the 'behave modestly if you want him to see you *as a delicate flower' OR 'be respectable if you want to be respected' camp. But I am curious what your reasoning is. Is it the interview? The guy coming over to fuck? Both?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:05 PM
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You are somewhat right. The vast majority of scenarios, both parents are awarded shared custody. Judges do not typically take custody rights away unless a child is in danger in the care of a guardian. In the majority of cases that involve a judge, custody is split 50/50 with the kids at one home (usually the mothers, since that is where they already were) during the week and the other on the weekends. These arrangements are typically left this way to prevent the child transitioning mid week. Whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:49 AM
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What alternatives do you suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:37 AM
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but any decent paying white collar job is by and large going to require a college degree. Yeah.. not tech. I would venture so far as to say - unless a degree is a legal requirement for the role (aerospace, M.D. etc.) a company would probably prefer relevant experience over a degree. A job listing is a wish list in the same way a resume is a highlight reel. Your belief that a college degree is a requirement and going and getting one before trying to climb ANY ladder without 1.) Means you have no …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:17 AM
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Modern day, I have absolutely no doubt in my mind Loki would have been a 4everalone neckbeard. Yeah. Sorry.. my brain glitched out this morning and I somehow missed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:06 AM
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A degree is just a proxy for income. Is it though? It is almost always a proxy for debt. And can demonstrate fiscal irresponsibility via high loan repayments and low paying job. Like the aforementioned barista
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:06 AM
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Jumping in on the end to say - His job matters WAY more than a degree. There are plenty of way to get six figure tech jobs w/o a degree. Advanced certs and ladder climbing would be fine. It more about drive and the ability to provide ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:46 PM
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But if you are a below average male Does a below average female have many prospects in the 'Wall Street' environment? My guess would be no. I am curious what the well reasoned argument for yes would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:43 PM
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But Loki did not exist. He is a story, made up by people who had some big ideas about how things could be explained. Many say we are made in the image of God, but are the Gods made in the image of us? You could say yes, because they appear to be human in many regards. But they do not follow the same social rules as us mere mortals because there were very little consequences for being a broody, 4everalong neckbeard type.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:38 PM
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The brain is an association machine. Women are capable of associating a man with attractive if they really like his personality, even if they didn't find him to be a banger the first time they met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:21 PM
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Feminism and communism are rooted in the same idea: equality of outcome for all. Both originated from Marxism and first wave feminism emerged in the US via liberal, socialist politics. The term "feminist" was coined by a french utopian socialist. Both threaten nuclear families which are the building blocks to a successful society. If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:52 PM
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https://isreview.org/issue/93/womens-liberation-marxist-tradition/index.html
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:15 PM
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Feminism is communism and is ruining society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:08 PM
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The commenter said nothing about anyone thinking they are "the one" most women actually do not subscribe to the idea that there is a single person out there made for them. Making blanket statements about women as if you have a clue how their social perspectives and brains work is a little naive of you. Some women may say "Will this guy be the one for me?" But they are NOT referring to the idea that there is only one who they are trying to find somehow. They simply mean, "will this guy be the one…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 07:58 PM
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While I agree, they were not talking about a wedding previously and this guy could have done a little more work on processing why he felt this way prior to bringing it all up.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 07:48 PM
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I agree. RPW and being feminine does not mean tossing boundaries waiting around forever, having your time wasted or being a doormat. I demand respect from my partner in the most gentle way possible for the moment. He gives it freely and apologizes when he crosses a boundary, no matter how small. edit: syntax
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 07:47 PM
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Continuing to perpetuate the idea that all men are the same and masculinity is dead repels that into existence. Stop. Please stop. There are strong male role models and very masculine men. Children have always been raised by women. It has been an evolutionary function of our species for 200,000 years. Dads being out of the home working in some way is not new. A child's attachment to their mother, regardless of sex is and always has been the most formative relationship they will ever have. The bu…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 07:40 PM
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Ending 10 years of bf/gf is easier than ending 20 years of marriage You cannot possibly know if that would be true. Two people could be very much so at peace with ending their relationship after 20 years of marriage and be torn up and feel extremely broken after 10 years of dating. Divorcing is more of a hassle, but that does not necessarily mean that it is harder than breaking up. The notion that a person who is "just" a bf/gf would be any less important to someone after 10 years than a husband…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 07:22 PM
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So is ending a relationship of 10 years.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 07:04 AM
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Why are you leaving the relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 02:12 AM
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No. 90 percent of women under 35 are on there to try to hook the best man they can find in a 200 mile radius. Where is the source on this? 90% of women under 35 aren't even single..? According to Pew Research, published in 2020 over half of all adults are in relationships. 41% of 18-29 year olds are single, 23% for 30-49 year olds. Then you would have to account for the number of women who are not interested in men or are not on dating sites due to the various reasons a women would find OLD repu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:23 AM
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The things you wrote simply don’t line up with statistics, which paint the actual reality of marriage. What do you supose the actual reality of marriage is? Most statistics claim that both men, women and children are healthier and more sucessful in a nuclear family that includes marriage. ​ The wealthy man could even start several families in several other countries with women instead of getting divorce-raped for alimony and child support by a western woman. This is the statement I was addressin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:54 AM
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So if a good man has worked hard and earned his way into wealth and prosperity: why would he ever get married? Even if he wants children and a family, women have demonstrated that marriage is no longer required for that as per casual sex statistics and single motherhood statistics. They type of woman a high value man would want to be the mother of his children is not going to give up her security and have children with a man unwilling to marry her. He cannot bring children into the world without…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:18 AM
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Are we talking about two people looking for a relationship or casual sex? OP is writing about sexual liberation and says nothing about commitment. If these are FWB sceanrios, it doesn't really matter if someones past catches up. And keeping personal information that no one has asked you to share private is NOT lying. Sure, if a woman meets a man and he is all like "I don't want a chick who has been dicked down by 17 other dudes, I am looking for a woman with somewhat conservative values/to settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:54 PM
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Also OP, this is possibly the worst phrased title I've ever seen. Congrats on basically making it sound like you support rape. SERIOUSLY worst title
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:54 AM
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I myself and all of my female friends have been in the exact "yes I'm looking for a relationship too" then ghosted situation described above.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:52 AM
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The top 10% of men don’t have a need to slut shame because they are the ones the girls are being sluts with. The top 10% of men are past this life stage and in a relationship with a high value woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:46 AM
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And now we scratch the surface on how feminism is destroying the nuclear family and created the two income trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:44 AM
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Yeah, this is why I cringed at the title, but decided that I kind of agree with OP. Because they don't really mean "predatory." They are using the word to communicate that the men in the scenario are merely demonstrating interest. Predatory implies something a lot more sinister than I think OP meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:42 AM
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This is a great consideration. If a man is attractive and has enough game to make it easily in the in-person market, he either doesn't have a need to be on tinder to hook up or it wouldn't be appropriate, because he is in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:38 AM
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Excellent point. It is like bible study. They preach the theory, but life is still filled with grey areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:33 AM
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I had friends when I was younger talk about how they desperately wanted to take someones virginity. It is an interest of many women seeking and engaging casual sex for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:31 AM
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But would you count out and tell every person you have sex with exactly how many you have done before them? Like I get that people should be honest, but your n count isn't necessarily someone else's business. If it is a requirement to becoming intimate with someone, you can just opt of out sharing and subsequently having sex with that person. If the fact that a woman has been dicked down by 17 other dudes isn't information she is actively sharing, why should a guy have to disclose that they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:29 AM
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I'm not so sure about that. I am a women who behaves fairly conservatively. I hooked up with a couple guys in my friend group after high school and quickly realized that causal sex didn't really work for me. I am certainly not a virgin, but my "n count" is for sure way lower than most women my age. At this point, being in a relationship for 6 years could have a lot to do with it, but I think even when I was younger that was the case too. When I met my partner, there was something about his exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:21 AM
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Women want a man who has options because he's high value, but shows restraint. As a woman, can confirm. That sentence sounds sexy as hell. Especially the thought that a man of that status would view her as valuable enough to be court while she refuses him sex until he provides clear evidence of commitment. Ultimate fantasy for a self respecting woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:08 AM
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I cringed at the title, but I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:03 AM
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whether I wear makeup or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:18 AM
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And on the flip side, if you do want to explore those aspects of femininity, please don't let the fact that you've "always been a tomboy" stop you. Start small, buy an outfit you like and start by wearing it around the house. Incorporate a couple more feminine pieces with your current style. Give yourself the space to try to adjust. People will notice, they may ask questions. Some may be confused, some may be impressed, but they will all adjust eventually. Try on a couple different styles and ex…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 04:56 PM
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Where is the sauce on this? My guess would be that most couples meet at work, at school or through mutual friends. Anecdotal of course, but I have never dated a guy I met via the events you've outlined. They were all guys I met at group friend gatherings, in class, at work or a similar scenario. The guy I have been with for 5 years was a friend of a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:25 AM
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Those that do slut shame are not targeting women who merely "seek out sexual relationships." Who would they be targeting then...?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:08 AM
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I wanted to discuss the two opposing stances "crotch goblins"-children or "Fur babies"-pets. I think this is a result of people wanting to believe that their way is the best way. It makes sense that someone defying their biological purpose - to continue the species - would feel like they need to over justify it to themselves and those around them. The loudest group is not always the largest group.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/22 09:25 PM
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As a non-pregnant, committed, (27F) RPW who is VERY much so looking forward to that next chapter, I would love if this were a thing. I would definitely lurk and might contribute when appropriate. I have worked in ECE for 10 years so I am surrounded by pregnancy, infants, toddlers and many large families expecting their third or fourth. I choose to follow r/pregnancy, r/newborns etc because I love reading peoples stories, finding out some of the surprises and challenges people faced and mentally …
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/22 07:54 PM
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Another sweet thing to do on Valentine's is to pick up glass markers from the craft store and leave a loving or sexy note on the bathroom mirror for him to wake up to. Lipstick also works for this. My mom wrote Happy Birthday to us every year on the bathroom mirror in lipstick
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/22 12:17 AM
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If you are hoping to have children with a woman, you are going to need to become a little more flexible about how your partners body looks over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:02 AM
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Had to scroll down too far for an accurate description of what a red pill brings to a relationship. What is this in reference to? r/RedPillWomen? My comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:13 PM
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Yeah, they banned me for participating in a RP sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:56 PM
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You should go peruse r/RedPillWomen I am in a relationship with someone who is fairly RP. He took the school of thought to primarily be centered around growth and strong leadership. He is an incredible partner and I am so happy to spend the rest of my life with him. I do not think that being RP is the exclusive reason he is such a strong partner though. I don't even think it is half of the reason or a third of the reason. He and I were both fairly traditionally natured people prior to meeting an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:55 PM
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This sounds like it would lead to frustration and resentment on the part of both parties. Especially in a relationship with two people who are traditionally oriented.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/22 06:01 PM
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But unless she is a total moron, she basically gets graded on effort. ​ I don't think men exclude that in their calculations of whether their wife is being 'lazy" or pulling her weight. If she is busy raising kids men value that. These statements kind of contradict each other. Not to mention the absurd notion that a man can demonstrate value towards his partner while engaging in adultery. Women are not just pawns that can be disrespected when the game seems more interesting elsewhere. A major re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:15 PM
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While excluding the contribution a woman makes via child bearing and rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:41 PM
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Are you asking about the house chores looking good, or you? How old is your baby?
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/22 09:59 AM
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Come on, food waste is doing far more harm to our world than over consumption is. edit: removed accidental copy/paste
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:41 PM
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This is not very helpful. Don't you think it is unfair that humans are so repressed that they lie to themselves to meet the status quo? She could have had an arranged marriage for all you know. edit: punctuation and flow/message
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/21 02:04 AM
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You should quit because your marriage depends on it. Who cares about the stressful periods? You can waitress anywhere. You cannot get your life back once you chuck a grenade into it. Start looking around and wondering if you would be happier living, cooking, eating, sleeping and coming home alone rather than being with your husband. That is probably what would actually happen.
/r/RedPillWives27/12/21 06:33 AM
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And I responded with a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:54 AM
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Are you making my point for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:20 AM
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Yes, I agree that vulnerability should be show freely, but not fabricated. edit: flow/message
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/21 09:59 PM
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Women risk a lot by having sex, especially in causal scenarios. They can be absolutely defiled by a man who simply has a sick or disgusting idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:58 PM
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OP is also using entirely anecdotal, personal experience which fails to consider the potential glaring red flags he may be sending during these scenarios. OP could be a total weirdo for all we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:45 PM
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Now I'm not a doctor, lawyer, scientist, maybe those fields would have women that loved talking about that stuff and even if I was it wouldn't matter. because 99 percent of women aren't in those fields. This seems fairly baseless. Do you have any evidence to back this claim up?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:41 PM
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This seems like it could become a challenging approach when it comes to correctly teaching your children to understand and identify their emotions. You should be modeling effective and genuine emotional processing to your children. Crying is a tool for release, not manipulation.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/21 04:50 AM
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Do you mean not having any? I know plenty of women who's self worth has been ruined via sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:21 AM
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This is *RP in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:06 AM
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My response was sarcastic, I am on your side :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:30 PM
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The notion that loneliness is worse for one group of people than another is ridiculous. We all feel pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:28 PM
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And they will keep withholding sex from emotionally illiterate incels who complain about how hard their sexless lives are on reddit, yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:41 PM
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It fixes many, but it does not fix all. You cannot buy friends. edit: syntax
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:32 PM
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You say that men lack emotional depth but sounds like you can't put yourself in their shoes either. Loneliness is not a male exclusive issue. The offer of causal sex does nothing to help women with loneliness, it just further demonstrates that they are not considered valuable enough to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:28 PM
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Seriously, who is more qualified than another on something a large group of people experience...? We are debating the human condition, not freshwater snails. There are no experts here. Especially not on a subreddit which is frequented mostly by bitter men who haven't been laid in forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:24 PM
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The truth is that all angles of life are filled with challenges. If the roles were reversed, both sides would still have challenges to overcome. This is the human condition. Capitalism/modern society has lead to other basic needs being met. True intimacy cannot be bought in the way food and shelter can so here we are. Complaining about the other sides privileges will not increase your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:20 PM
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This is honestly the most absurd take I have seen on here yet. Go outside and get some fresh air dude. Complaining on reddit about how you envy woman's ability to have more control in casual sex is not going to help get you laid. Getting out and experiencing life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:17 PM
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Yeah, wouldn't you rather be used than not used at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:13 PM
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Wow, this response is AMAZING! I would think it was written by a male, who is published on the subject. Your insights are spot on. WTF is this supposed to mean..?
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/21 05:30 PM
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Or underweight, unhealthy and low muscle tone i.e skinny fat Skinny fat people are often just as unattractive as fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:09 AM
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This seems like a very wise call you've made for yourself. I think it is worth saying: you don't have to feel bad for wanting to have a whole family. This is not to say that non-mainstream family structures can't create a home, blah blah blah. But it is okay to want to start a family as a whole, nuclear unit. You do not have to feel guilty about wanting all of your children to have one cohesive household unit with both their mother and father. It is what is best for them. You seem like someone w…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/21 04:58 AM
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Seriously, the life expectancy for a man born in 1971 is 67.4 years. This guy probably has 20 or so years left. She could be a widow by 40. If she has children with him, their health could suffer due to his age (or their ability to conceive) and their children would likely watch a parent die before growing up and leaving the house. If she stays with him and has no children, she might regret letting that time pass her buy. I can't imagine becoming a widow at a younger age than my partner was when…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 05:45 AM
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Your preexisting relationship/friendship with this guy would have been helpful details to include in your original post. We can provide more thoughtful advice with a clearer description of the situation. The original commenter makes a pretty good point about you considering your intentions, they only were wrong about you getting to know him vs getting to know him more intimately.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/21 05:33 AM
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I have been feeling so incredibly overwhelmed by the number of items in our home. My SO and I live in a 640sqft apartment in a major city. It is right next to the botanic gardens and is very close to my work. It is also EXTREMELY affordable. These are just a few of the reasons we have stayed here for the last 5 years. I have some feelings of anxiety about the idea us buying a house (and then having a huge asset to maintain, etc) I realize that eventually a house will be necessary (once we procre…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/21 02:17 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/wiki/index You can read for yourself here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/21 08:23 AM
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I would like to add, you might consider seeing a therapist. edit: attempts to make my suggestion a little more tactful.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/21 07:03 AM
6

Seriously, these two look like awkward boy girl twins
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/21 01:57 AM
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Great analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:28 AM
2

Seriously. How about: "If you do not fix it, we will pay someone to."
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/21 02:19 PM
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Those age gaps were never given as examples and are hardly criticized.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:49 AM
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Older men also tend to create children with high incidence rates of genetic abnormalities and pervasive development disorders. They also create widows and leave children without a fathers sooner than a younger man would. ​ Older men tend to have status, wisdom, emotional intelligence and worldliness. Status and wisdom are cool, but this doesn't really address the reasons women select men for the qualities they do. Old men are not as strong as young men, and they cannot support the process of cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:53 AM
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In almost all cases women invent and apply arbitrary traits that men have to be better than them in before they date them. I would hardly call the desired traits arbitrary. They clearly have an immediate and long term function and women seek men out with them for obvious reasons. It's not like most women won't date men who have brown hair, that would be arbitrary. Financial security, physical safety, strong guidance. If I am planning to put myself at risk by giving a man children and leaving the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:24 AM
2

You are comparing apples to oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:54 PM
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I would say FwB is the female version of simping. Excluding it kind of makes it difficult to come up with examples. A women giving herself wholly physically and emotionally just for the desperate hope of a relationship.. simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:39 PM
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Women can be awkward and autistic as guys too. Actual women with ASD hardly behave similarly to men with ASD. They tend to choose a few female friends and engage them socially/mimic their behavior while they learn to demonstrate those behaviors independently. Hence the major gap between men and women's diagnosis rates. Your statement is flawed based on your lack of knowledge/recognition of what true autism presents as in men vs women. The claim that someone can "act autistic" is ridiculous. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:36 PM
1

Thank you for the new perspective. I will look more into your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:58 PM
4

More power to you but you're just going to be met by a brigrade of angrymen. What you wrote isn't what the group represent, at least notanymore. You are stating an opinion or rather, a prediction, as if it is a fact. I almost certainly would not because I would not seek dates in and internet forum. *I am already happily in a relationship with a strong, successful traditional man. (One who is kind and gentle but still brave and dominant and makes a lot of money. Basically, a RP dream man) I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:55 PM
2

Does High school cost $40,000? No. Many colleges do. Is a High School diploma actually required to do most jobs? Yes. College degrees are not. edit: Also, that depends. Does the person have a GED? What are the reasons they left High School? Maybe it was to support their family. Maybe they had a single parent who was diagnosed with cancer. Does the person work hard? Have they put effort into improving themselves so they can keep climbing the ladder? Life is not so black and white. I would not dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:27 PM
1

My comment is fairly pointed at both the man and woman in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:25 PM
7

I am a woman and I agree with you. Feminism degrades the family and demonstrates to women that they deserve things they have not worked for. It is all socialists/communist as fuck. Men and women are better at different things. Those differences should be celebrated rather than shoved under the rug as if they are wrong to talk about/engage in. My family will be better served with me at home when my children are young rather than working for a paycheck so that other people can raise them. Just for…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:32 AM
9

Your husbands sounds incredibly pretentious. Is he is so attached to the idea that those who don't go to college are any less intelligent than those who do? Or does he just want to be equally as in debt for something he barley uses as his partner? At least your a saving someone with the ability to think for themselves the burden of being with either of you. College can certainly have value (along with $20,000-$40,000 worth of drawbacks), but the notion that someone else is considered below your …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:18 AM
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You have clearly made up your mind about this. Doesn't really seem like you are actually interested in any other narrative than red pill = bad women hating men. I see traditional RP men as men who believe that some things are worth working hard for and conserving. If I were single, I would exclusively seek men who subscribe to these ideals. The goal of the (true) RP man is to be the most physically and emotionally strongest, and most reliable version of himself possible. It is a concept based ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:59 AM
1

I do not struggle with body image issues per say, but I think everyone camn feel down about themselves sometimes. I have noticed that when I go out looking more feminine, even when I don't feel the best about myself. Maybe I am bloated or feel like my skin looks dull, etc. If I take the time to put on just a little makeup (never too much!) and dress a little nicer, lots of men smile at me and talk to me. I feel much more noticed overall. I have a theory that men are so drawn to feminine traits, …
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 04:41 PM
5

Low and slow can help when you are anxious. I actually cook low and slow about 85% of the time just because I can be forgetful and it makes the flavor turn out better overall anyway. Do you have a crockpot? Maybe you could make a slow cook savory dish. Pulled pork? You could put the cut of meat in with stock, check it through the day and then toast some buns with butter and add your favorite sauce. You would have TONS of leftovers which would help give you a little wiggle room as far as confiden…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 04:26 PM
-15

Did you actually read the article? The man was abusive af
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/21 06:50 PM
6

Do you understand the ideals of the sub you've just commented in? This is not female dating strategy and the goal here is not "He got his, I should get mine" Our behavior is guided based on a traditional approach centered on individual action and self improvement. The questions the women of this sub should be asking themselves are: "How is my behavior influencing the situation?" "What have I done to try to help solve this conflict in a thoughtful, caring and gentle manner?" "Are there ways I can…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 04:25 PM
13

In my opinion, the dynamic is totally the male/female instincts pull. Up until this point, both of you have likely spent your time working towards opposite goals in many ways. You have developed complementing abilities. We are told by the mainstream ideals that we should ignore these dynamics and that women should push back against this give and take by taking all for themselves and "having" everything men get to "have." But they don't realize that both parties benefit when the give and take fit…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/21 04:18 PM
14

Maybe OP is Micheal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:04 AM
2

\mild* autist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:02 AM
11

I think an important distinction needs to be made. Have you video chatted with this person? If not have you spoken with them on the phone? Do you have proof they are who they say they are? Have you not met because you have truly been unable to or because they keep putting it off?
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/21 01:25 PM
0

Can you elaborate on how it is false? I am not doubting you, but very interested in your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 06:56 PM
3

I don't think I have given many men a reason for rejecting them. I just tell them I am not interested. I've never been compelled to give them a reason for disinterest. It has never seemed constructive and it's not really any of their business anyway. Although I am not someone who brings up their boyfriend as an out when I am not interested, I have communicated something along the lines of "If I were not already elbows deep in a life with someone else, I would probably take you up on your offer,"…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:02 AM
3

Your username is cracking me up
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/21 04:39 PM
3

Unless the male cousin was never going in the first place
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/21 04:38 PM
1

My partner has no problem keeping it up drunk, even when he would get plastered in college. Adderall gave him whiskey dick though.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/21 04:35 PM
18

“No, we’re going to be drinking heavily and I don’t think he should be around that” which made me very uncomfortable. Any other details along these lines?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 09:45 PM
10

tl;dr: A healthy relationship is the biggest priority either way. Do what works best for you and your SO. Make the system work for you! Those who mind don't matter and those who matter won't mind. I see marriage as a tool created to help couples protect each other more and to protect families. My partner (30M) and I (27F) have celebrated our 5th anniversary this month and have been living together quite some time. We are currently in a domestic partnership because we get more out of that than we…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 06:08 PM
2

Do you feel excited about the idea of marrying him or becoming engaged soon?
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/21 11:04 PM
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That is all I can think of reading these comments.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/21 11:04 PM
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Woah, I had assumed the ages were a lot younger. Yeah, this should not be the big deal it is, ya'll are almost 30.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 03:02 AM
1

I agree. I would say that a 95% estimate on almost anything, especially what involves humans, is typically an overestimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:15 PM
3

Ah! Sure, I agree with the sentament.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:10 PM
8

I think 95% of women having orbiters is a fairly gross over estimate. I am a moderately attractive woman in a relationship of 5 years, I get a reasonable amount of attention via flirty acquaintances and strangers I encounter off the streets. I do not have any orbiters, the few I've had over the years I cut loose asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:59 PM
1

If this is OP from a different account, that would have been a very useful detail to include in your post. If this is not OP, I am confused, but if you haven't outlined your boundaries around dating and sex, you should do so. If you have an he is ignoring them, ditch the guy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/21 06:50 PM
3

From our conversation yesterday, I am beginning to think he just wants to fulfill a fantasy or fetish to have sex with a black girl. What did he say that made you think this? None of the things you outlines would leave the impression that these are his intentions. Also, although the way he communicated may have come across crass, it is perfectly reasonable to desire living in an area where your culture matches the people surrounding you a little better.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 04:06 PM
1

He has taken the effort to go on two dates with her.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 04:04 PM
4

Women do not hit the wall at 25. We can typically have children well into and past our 30's.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 12:28 AM
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Hearing loss that could have been prevented by wearing earplugs.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/21 12:58 AM
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OP, that absolutely fucking sucks! I had a very close friend who dated a man with Hsv2. His previous partner had committed infidelity and he found out she had cheated by being diagnosed with Hsv2 three years into a relationship. They met and liked each other and they made it work. He was very responsible with the care of his virus. There are things you will learn to prevent and lessen outbreaks and you will become better about those things as you learn them. Do a lot of digging and ask for advic…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 11:28 PM
4

Agreed. If OP wants to see an improvement, she should consider applying the principles outlined by RP theory in her current relationship or let the guy go.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/21 11:35 PM
3

I like to listen to lo-fi hip hop. I have been loving a playlist titled Alan Watts Chillstep lately!
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/21 12:08 AM
1

Nice!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/21 03:17 PM
4

This is such wonderful encouraging news! I have also noticed how many couples feel that lockdown ruined them and been surprised. It allowed my partner and I to make huge improvements to our relationship!
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/21 03:15 PM
-1

there are some issues that I have to take control of but I also don't want to lose a wonderful partner A good partner does not try to control take control of the others persons life. If your love is conditional and you cannot accept them for who they are, you should move on. You have no right to tell him he cannot take something if it has literally no effect on you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 11:37 PM
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"Steroids" is just testosterone supplementation. If he goes off he will have some major side effects and supplementing with exogenous hormones was probably to treat low testosterone in the first place. He is likely legaly being superscribed it and is better off on it. I'm sure he didn't tell you because telling your GF that you are low test and need to supplement probably feels pretty lame. Testosterone has continued to drop with every generation. Taking steroids to get big is called cycling and…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 11:30 PM
6

Digging this based comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 05:33 AM
1

I agree, I very much dislike her politically.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:58 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:32 PM
2

What about manbuns
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:30 PM
1

I am so curious about the demographics of the person who wrote this. edit: syntax
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:28 PM
1

Things get a little clunky when you mix old traditional values with this newagey liberal working class landscape. Have you read Two Income Trap?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:08 PM
1

And for many couples, women have far more value to give outside of employment (i.e. raising the children and running the home) if the man has the income adequacy to make it happen. Children with a stay at home parent perform better than their peers consistently all the way through High School.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:04 PM
3

This current post argues that both men and women use it, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:53 PM
1

Sure, if your a dud that no one wants to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:40 PM
4

Your comment is the best Edit: Esp the first sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:24 PM
1

Your claim is that sex is not a need therefore birth control is not either. What about rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 03:19 AM
2

Women can die in childbirth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 02:54 AM
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That sucks!! I am sorry! I am a woman who has never experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:56 PM
4

Be happy and act like it everywhere you go. I would also suggest not to cake your face in makeup or otherwise smear chemicals/crap on it. Wash it, moisturize with something natural like a drop or two of oil or raw shea butter or something. (Dont use something that has a bunch of alcohol or other shit from the store). Don't wash it with soap in the morning, only use water. Most men prefer a nice looking clean healthy bare face over a caked one any day. If you can be beautiful and feminine without…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/20 11:30 PM
2

omg that you for that cutaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:47 PM
1

Maybe it is because ugly men stay home and give up, but ugly women still get out there? So you see more female uggos because they're there to be seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:46 PM
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It really comes down to their health. Unhealthy people are typically ugly and the ugly healthy people can fake it better than the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:43 PM
1

Approaching him is fine, being easy is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:19 PM
8

They should stop having sex with men they barely know. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:18 PM
7

My advice would be to reconsider waiting until your 30 to look for a relationship. You could end up having to settle or feeling like you wasted/ran out of time. Especially if you want to have kids!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 04:16 AM
3

No I do not. Although, I do not believe in God. I did have a 3 year stint where I went to youth group and went on mission trips. It was kind like my explorative years lol. I see an objective truth that your life will happen one way or another, depending on what you choose to do, what the consequences of those choices will be and what coincidences/accidents will happen to/around you. I don't believe that any divine being care about who I choose to marry/procreate with, or that they would put any …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/20 01:22 AM
1

I was 17 by the way, and while I didn't ruin myself with sex, I did have sex with guys I wasn't dating/serious about and felt gross about it after. I was lucky enough to find someone when I was young enough that I didn't go on to reck myself in my early 20's, before I found all of this. I've been with my current boyfriend since I was 22, we have been together 4.5 years. And he has always prioritized my comfort and feelings during sex.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 08:07 AM
1

It is really important the any person you see yourself building a partnership with, makes you feel comfortable. There is always talk about the ideas women are expected to attempt meeting for the sake of men with RP and a lot of that tone is really in reference to the way a wife should treat her husband. And it makes sense, but you have to consider the other piece and that is the man being a good man. The return for not being promiscuous and having a good head on your shoulders is that you are pr…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 08:00 AM
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I don't have advice on how to help but I have similar concerns. I am also scared of this, but in the context of being a SAHM. I am afraid I will feel isolated and depressed at home all day.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 05:57 AM
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This seems like an excellent opportunity to begin understanding where your need to be needed stems from. Taking on a motherly role in your relationship is archetypal, but not always the healthiest thing. Also- if you have any desire for children and go on to have them, this definitely wont last forever. Have you discussed this? Or a potential mutual interest in you being a stay at home mom? You should consider reading about love languages. It seems like one of the major ways you demonstrate love…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 07:13 AM
1

Annnnnd I unfollowed because it has all of a sudden been tiptoeing toward becoming a porn subbreddit. I don't understand the compulsion for women to show their nipples on the internet. Especially with their face in the same photo!
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/20 11:53 PM
1

Do you really think the earth is flat...?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 08:35 PM
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What is the point you are making? That OP shouldn't have done the experiment because the results are already obvious in real life around him..? Like real life high school dating is a reflection of of an online sex app...?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 08:35 PM
2

You are the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 08:27 PM
3

Tinder is not real life and most people do not find happiness there. Most people on tinder have insecure attachment and are looking for someone who confirms that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 08:25 PM
1

We want 5. I am 26 and we have been contemplating starting soon. I would be open to more than 5, but I think 5 is a great number. We are planning on me being a SAHM and homeschooling them. I am a teacher and I am a far greater financial value to my family at home. It doesn't make sense to spend $20,000/yr per kid on a good private school when we could spend $20,000 for all five and give them an extraordinary education with individual lessons and enriching experiences. 3 or 4 would be a compromis…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/20 09:46 AM
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It is not a silly reason if you have fundamental differences and you are not attracted to him. If he potentially brings out parts of you that you do not like and he does not make you feel excited, move on. When people talk about moving on for "silly reasons" they are mostly talking about the compulsive hypergamist who is constantly chasing an ideal "perfect man" and how any woman could potentially fall into this trap. It is about valuing a man who loves you and supports you, make you feel safe a…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/20 08:51 AM
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I agree, but aside from the person falling for me, the others have largely had no idea I was taken. We are not married, I don't wear a ring. Also thanks- There is a lot of value in partnership, whether others see it or not!
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 09:31 AM
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I haven't had the same experience, but I have a somewhat similar one. I have noticed that the amount of people who express interest in me has gone up since I have been in a LTR. I have even experienced a person falling in love with me. I hoped and dreamed about men like them demonstrating any interest when I was single, but it was rare at best. Now that I have been in a relationship it feels totally different. I don't wear a ring or anything, but its almost like my relationship can be sensed by …
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 07:52 AM
2

My understanding is that there is the potential for anyone to improve the aspects of their personal coping tools that are inhibiting their experience. Though a key component would be the willingness of anyone looking to change and repair things to be very introspective and recognize what they have to work on. They need to be willing to accept the input of those who observe their behaviors and have an understanding of what work will improve the situation and then put in that work. OP demonstrates…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 12:41 AM
7

People say you can get books from libgen. They say to google libgen, search the site, select and then use the "get" button on the books page. Or so they say.. I haven't tried.. :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 09:35 PM
3

Nice!! It can be really difficult to realize come to terms with these things so bravo to you and your SO OP!!! The best thing you can do, aside from just noticing when you have dismissive reactions, is to learn more about attachment theory, where you insecure attachment stems from and what you can do about it. If you have the means, you and your partner should sit down with a therapist that is experienced with attachment. Both together and individually would be best or just together if that is a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 09:29 PM
2

This! I am in a relationship with an incredible, driven, kind man who has grown (during our relationship) to make a lot of money. Through his wealth he feels confident that he can support us all for the sake of me being a stay at home parent. He is also hopeful that I will choose this, though he has expressed support of the potential for me wanting to return to work if I'd like. Our sex life has fluctuated over the course of our relationship due to stress, hormones, ect but we have always been h…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 07:44 PM
2

Being a spinster is not an absolute choice. You could potentially end up childless if you wait past child rearing age, but people meet and fall in love later in life all the time. (Though they often have more baggage to sort through)
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 07:30 PM
2

It could potentially be an efficient way to filter women out and find reasons to not date them. This is common for people who have dismissive-avoidant attachment styles. They tend to find things about potential partners that demonstrate the reasons why they are better off alone. http://labs.psychology.illinois.edu/~rcfraley/attachment.htm also wikipedia is often useful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 07:05 PM
0

You're not aloud to argue with him anyway. The mods will delete your comment. Hence the ghost town on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 05:59 PM
5

You're right. Most men are also terrible communicators. Divorce seems a lot more likely with two people who don't actually give a fuck about each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:23 PM
6

I thought we were talking about women of value here..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:20 PM
0

Typically people who look happy, are. They may not be 24/7, but if you are actually witnessing someone demonstrate happiness, it is probably authentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:16 PM
0

This is equal in the opposite direction though. Just because you're jaded enough to assume everyone is miserable, doesn't mean they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:13 PM
3

Why anyone would settle for a Fat person is beyond me, if i just wanted some platonic company for the next 20 years, i'd go live with some of my extended family members. This made me laugh out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:08 PM
2

Either way, get off instagram and go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:07 PM
2

Methinks the ladies doth protest too much. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:05 PM
1

Considering the fact that a physically absent father is also an emotionally absent, I would assume the latter. Especially since the would likely be little financial contribution from them. Then again, if the emotionally absent father fucks the kid up, that is worse than just doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 05:38 PM
1

They're better off finding someone who has some actual experience with LTR's and can help them adjust into a relationship and demonstrate what a good partner looks like. They don't need to be literal virgins to not be hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 05:11 PM
3

everyone ageing who are looking to settle down its all there already
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 05:09 PM
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My boyfriend has never stared at other women during times/places I would notice. He respects me far too much. Our relationship is not a locker room. He also expresses pity toward women who feel the need to undress on the internet for attention and doesn't use social media other than reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:31 AM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 05:16 AM
0

tl;dr Men and women are opposites and (in whatever way you subscribe to) made/evolved to pair up and continue the species. If you would information that is less anecdotal, check out Jordan Peterson's lectures on youtube. (You may not like what he says, but he knows more about this than you.) ​ Procreation drives our species. Although it may be possible with two woman, it is typically far more simple when pursued between a man and a woman. I like the idea of my children having a mother and a fath…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 05:50 PM
1

This is so spot on it is incredible. A natural consequence of online dating is encountering these duds. All my (also female) friends who use dating apps are constantly faced with total losers. I keep telling them they will keep finding this outcome until the look elsewhere. Comfortably watching from a LTR with someone I knew for 3 years before dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:52 AM
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This isn't exclusive to men though. I am a woman who has had a very similar experience. Lost some weight and really started caring for myself. I stopped wearing make up, my face cleared up and I grew my hair out. I have not changed the way I dress (aside from going down a couple sizes) and I am a very sporty, natural woman. Both men and women seem to enjoy my presence much more and I have far more positive experiences as I move through the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:01 AM
1

I followed way back then because of this! :) Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 11:34 PM
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Feminism perpetuates the two income trap.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/20 02:52 AM
3

Your kids will be better off if you let your brain finish growing before you have them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 02:35 AM
1

Have you tried CBD? My bestie has extraordinary anxiety and she skirts it by using CBD gummies when she is feeling like she could lose herself a little. She feels so much better 20 mins later and another one in a few hours prolongs the effects for her. She feels safe taking them wherever she is (work, bike ride, ect.) because they are not psychoactive. It is a GREAT option if you're looking for a last ditch effort! Also, something that will help your overall value is the sole belief that you are…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 07:33 PM
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26F Very petite and a reasonably feminine woman living in the city. I receive a lot of attention from men, regardless of how I am dressed. I never wear makeup but I care for myself physically and hygienically. I am pretty natural in many ways, long curly hair, fullish eyebrows, I don't shave my armpits and I have never seen a reaction from anyone who has noticed. (Not to my face at least) They are not inappropriate comments or anything most of the time, its more an adoration/appreciation. Especi…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 10:47 AM
3

There it is though... they are bitter. It is not the men who are drowning in pussy wasting their time posting about their feelings on high n-counts because it doesn't matter to a lot of them. My boyfriend and I met because of another guy in his fraternity and there was a wide array of men there. Most of the guys have high n-counts including himself and they do not seem to concern themselves with this. I NEVER hear any of them bring it up and I'm sure most of them don't care, nor do they ask such…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:55 AM
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To second u/Tek_Analyst, I am also curious about your ex's childhood experience with caregivers ect. I am currently studying Developmental Psychology and plan to get my family therapy credentials along with some other mental health endorsement stuff. One of my main areas of interest is how adverse childhood experiences that are non sexual in nature manifest into sexual dysfunction. In the name of science, thank you for sharing. You are strong, you are powerful! It sounds like you should keep thi…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 07:09 PM
2

OP doesn't seem to understand much about pervasive development disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 06:01 PM
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Yikes! Edit: I should say more than just "Yikes!" OP: I am sorry, I would probably be totally freaked out if my BF did that! I don't have any informative or profound answers about why he might have done that. How long have you been together?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 07:01 AM
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