ddrust Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Logistics of living with your parents?	Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/askseddit	ddrust	/r/seduction	31/05/21 03:32 PM
11	A question for the ladies on when men check them out?	Escalation & Calibration	ddrust	/r/seduction	09/04/21 10:24 AM

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4	Shooting your shot at someone “out of your league”? You need to know, she is a human 2 with all the same worries and anxieties as the rest of us. Something crazy about many physically attractive women is that most of them are just as, if not more, lonely as women who are lesser attractive because of how intimidated many of us men feel. I've experienced it many times before, if you treat these very attractive women like a normal person, you might end up lighting up their world!	/r/seduction	20/12/21 04:03 AM
2	Is it just me or for every dating advice there is an opposite advice? I've listened to, and I still listen to, many different dating coaches with different types of advice. I try to take their advice with a grain of salt and I would try some of the advice and see what advice works for me with who I am as a person.	/r/seduction	20/06/21 03:36 AM
2	Knees touching when sitting side by side Oh, the way the original message was, I thought this happened recently..... I wish I could tell you when it changed..... Most likely the first or second time you chickened out..... The best thing to do now is to forget about her..... I know right now it feels like she was "THE ONE" and you feel you won't be able to find anyone better than her, but time passes and wounds heal and you'll find someone else..... I went through a similar experience with a girl, but we never actually dated because I d…	/r/seduction	15/06/21 07:39 PM
2	Knees touching when sitting side by side If you're gonna tell her you like her, make sure you start off by saying, "I've been to (shy, scared, embarrassed about my feelings, or something along those lines), but I do like you." A word of warning, you already indirectly rejected her. Her thoughts of you might have changed because of it. So she might end up rejecting you. If she rejects you, be a man, accept the lose, don't make her feel bad about herself, don't go off screaming and yelling and make an ass of yourself. Accept the result a…	/r/seduction	15/06/21 04:22 PM
2	Knees touching when sitting side by side If you're gonna make a move on a woman, you got only focus on her. Forget everyone else around you. It's just you and her. If you're really nervous, but she is showing interest and you want to kiss her, you could try just telling her. Before I had my first kiss, I literally said, "You know..... I kinda want to kiss you right now." And she responded with, "Well.... Why don't you kiss me?" What I would do, is ask her out on another date and try to make a move. And sometime after your kiss, maybe o…	/r/seduction	14/06/21 12:09 AM
2	Knees touching when sitting side by side Does the "threatening people" know the girl? Were they even a part of your group?.... If not, fuck them. They don't matter. Let them feel jealous and insecure about themselves. And like I noted in my post. The worst thing that could happen is she stops you, which as long as she's not inhibited, like being drunk, if she doesn't want to kiss you, she will politely stop you. But if she is showing enough interest in you, like initially physical contact, then if you go for it, then she'll let you do …	/r/seduction	13/06/21 01:50 AM
1	Knees touching when sitting side by side Yes! Yes! Ungodly amount of YES!!!! Next time your in a moment like that. Look at her in the eyes, give a moment of silence, and go in for the kiss. The worst that will happen is she will say "I'm sorry" or "no thank you," in which case if that happens you just blow it off like it's no big deal and like, "It's ok, you're not ready." But for the description, if she's initiating physical contact, then you 9.5/10 won't be rejected. I went on a first date like 2 or 3 Saturdays ago and I tried going …	/r/seduction	12/06/21 02:18 PM
3	Logistics of living with your parents? The fact I feel ashamed that I'm 29 years old and I still live with my parents. Growing up with the norm that a guy my age who still lives with his parents, who constantly fight and yell at eachother, are stereotyped as "losers."..... I've been trying to change my utlook on myself. I even went on a date recently, but got the "not feeling it" text afterward....	/r/seduction	31/05/21 04:56 PM
1	Dancing makes it way easier I would try to learn some kind of partner dance, like swing, blues, salsa, etc... Something that will let you actually physically connect with a woman, with appropriate touching. It should help get some of that nervousness out with your dancing, but you'll also learn some moves you can use in your own style of dancing. Like, for me, I learned contra first back in college, but I also joined an east coast swing dance club and learned to swing dance. And the thing about contra dancing, alot of the …	/r/seduction	23/04/21 06:32 PM
2	A question for the ladies on when men check them out? ..... I like that answer..... That's a NICE answer....	/r/seduction	09/04/21 12:47 PM
2	Pretty much my first cold approach - a field report. Kick Ass! Now all you have to do is text her and ask her out.	/r/seduction	29/03/21 06:07 PM
2	How do you pursue a sexual relationship with a girl over text without seeming crude and creepy? I'll tell you what my favorite dating coach has told me for years..... You can't develop chemistry, especially sexual chemistry, over text..... It's just impossible..... Chemistry with a woman can only develop in person. So you'll have to ask her out on a date, meet up with her, and build the chemistry. Break the touch barrier: give her a hug when you first meet her, if she tells you about her that is cool then give her a high-five (trust me, it's lame, but works), if she says or does something …	/r/seduction	22/03/21 02:58 AM
1	Girl from 5-6 years ago wants to meet me again but do I look different now? I just looked and I'll tell you some weird truth bro. I'm a bit big myself, I don't really show it, but I currently weigh a little over 300 pounds, I think I hide it with my 6' height. Anyways, I'm a big guy who feels like a fatass, but I still get checked out by women. There's a cute girl at my work who I have caught doing that slow walk by stare down we guys do when we think we are being sneaky about 3 different times, twice while I was in the bathroom..... I was cleaning the bathroom..... I k…	/r/seduction	02/01/21 02:24 AM
1	Girl from 5-6 years ago wants to meet me again but do I look different now? Well, it shouldn't really matter what you look like now, if she wants to meet up with you after all this time, then you obviously were doing some good things in your interactions that made her remember in a good enough light that she WANTS TO SEE YOU AGAIN!!!!!...... Also..... I've seen enough movies to know where this is going...... You should atleast meet your 5 or 6 year old kid. XD	/r/seduction	01/01/21 08:32 PM
2	Don’t judge a dating coach by how many receipts he has I like to listen to about 3 or 4 different dating coaches, because it doesn't hurt to have a few different points of view. And just because someone is a dating coach doesn't mean all their advice will work for every single person. So, there's a little self-editing you have to do on your part as the listener to find out which parts of their advice works for you and which parts don't fit with you as a person with your own ideals.	/r/seduction	29/12/20 07:07 PM
1	Got my first lay from cold approach Right before I had my first kiss, I shyly said, "You know, I kinda want to kiss you right now." And I got a, "Well, why don't you kiss me?" I've been shocked at the kind of results you can get by being upfront with women.	/r/seduction	11/12/20 03:23 PM