deadra_axilea Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Served with papers on Friday, only to find out she's requesting full legal custody... Mine tried full legal and physical custody. Ended up 50/50 shared legal and physical custody. Unless there was physical abuse or one party doesn't want custody it's more likely you'll end up in the shared realm. Hang in there.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/09/25 04:43 PM
2	Feeling overwhelmed about with finances and the economy alone post divorce I know I'm not helping alleviate your anxiety. You're not alone though. If you ever want to talk about it, send me a chat/dm.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/25 12:30 PM
2	Feeling overwhelmed about with finances and the economy alone post divorce Are you me? 😅 I want to get into something else, but what the fuck anymore is insulated from AI slop or wild economic swings due to some jackhole who wants to swing his dick around. I'm at a loss. Anywhere I've worked it feels like I've been too good at my job to even be considered for promotions.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/25 04:22 AM
2	Feeling overwhelmed about with finances and the economy alone post divorce Yeah, I don't understand the purpose behind this other than weakening the US to the breaking point. I felt the 2008 downturn in December 2006, got laid off when the big 3 car companies stopped paying vendors. Lost almost $100,000 on a house I had bought a year earlier because I bought at the top of the market and it crashed hard. Have never really recovered financially from that. 😡	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/25 09:54 PM
8	Feeling overwhelmed about with finances and the economy alone post divorce I've been laid off almost 6 weeks. It sucks. Worse when you're laid off because of tariffs and not because of any of your own work. Hang in there.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/25 09:25 PM
3	No posting for anyone to say it but Expect nothing, and when you get nothing you aren't disappointed. If you want to be nice, that's fine, and totally your prerogative, but don't expect anything in return from it. Once a petulant child, always a petulant child. Mine refused to answer any texts I'd send. Didn't matter if it was about the kids or not. All I'd get in return days later was "I know my rights from the court order", or "how unimportant it was for her to respond to me". I contemplated it, and honestly, I'm not engaging an…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/25 02:14 AM
6	Ex lazy during marriage but not after divorce? Ex was a hoarder who, over the years, wanted complete control over cooking, driving places, etc. I just got tired of the bullshit and did nothing. Took me months to clean the literal dumpsters full of trash from the house after she moved out, but now it's more regularly cleaned. Except when my two sons decide they want to make a huge mess. That will be a longer-term goal to incentivize them cleaning up after themselves and not becoming like her.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/25 03:46 AM
3	Who here left due to a sexless marriage? Satisfied Just finalized my divorce. After I confronted her, she finally admitted she didn't love me. This was an over 15-year marriage. Between the lack of intimacy and just plain animosity towards me, I told her I was done. Most of that was a dead bedroom. She'd go 3 to 9 months without having sex with me, and even then, she would complain that all I wanted was sex. What I really wanted was to be loved. To be kissed, hugged, and have a shoulder to cry on. To be vulnerable with. Without fear that those v…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/24 05:43 PM
2	"Is that a real gun!?" Either way, it's gonna hurt like he'll, and you really only want a deterrent. Like Dave says, it'll just pepper em' up. 🤣 https://www.tiktok.com/@no1standupcomedy/video/7285752175022673185?lang=en	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/24 06:31 PM
2	"Is that a real gun!?" I own a German Sport Guns 1911 in .22LR. It's a ton of fun to go target shooting with and cheap to shoot. My gun friends that have AR style rifles and other kit always love shooting it. I never bought it as a defense tool. It was always just for fun. You do you champ.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/24 02:51 PM
2	17yr old son wants to live with me and only visit his mom every now and then. Well, the overnight days with the child, if heavily skewed to one parent, make a drastic difference to how much the support is. Obviously, whatever the judge says goes. If they're paying a ton of child support when they have the child 75%+ of the time, they should go back and have the support numbers adjusted.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/24 11:31 AM
2	17yr old son wants to live with me and only visit his mom every now and then. Not if he has the child the majority of the time. That's not how the formula works.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/24 10:32 AM