deamonkai Archive

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7	My dudes.... My exwife did this to a point. Her income potential was equal to mine, and intentionally had her hours underpaid paid her employer (CFO helped to fix the books as he and her were friends). Sadly, I got stuck with all the debt and she gets away with it. It sucks, but narcissist women … damn. At the end when my therapist and I swapped from trying to fix me to save the marriage to “uh, let’s get your head straight to get out of this mess”… getting out alive was my only concern.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/25 11:33 AM
4	Today was my official divorce. Brother, arise. You are now anew It won’t all be rainbows, But in the end: Alone you are not. Rise, for you are born again.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/25 12:29 PM
7	Can you file a complaint with the court over the opposing counsels ineptitude? Sadly, it’s a valid tactic. Her lawyer is trying to squeeze you into giving her what she wants.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/25 04:34 PM
1	Am I moving on too quick? Seriously, you have to realize what works for you. Therapy helped me.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/08/24 09:26 PM
12	Wife originally told me she wanted a divorce because she is not “feeling” it anymore now she is saying she wants space and wants to hold off on the divorce Um, I’m sorry to say this: lawyer up right the hell now. She’s got her friends and flying monkeys telling her what to do. I wish I could say it will be easy, but she’s about to show her true self. And that self is every red flag you ignored. That was me almost 3 years ago.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/24 03:20 PM
7	Are you doing better than your ex? Depends on the perspective. Money wise? No. She’s getting greater than half of my paycheck while she was siphoning money from my ex father-in-law until and after he passed. She has a full time job making nearly as much as I do. She’s living the dream to the point of taking my mother out in expensive dinners. However, I’m happier because now because I don’t feel like a complete failure of a husband because I didn’t give her everything she wanted, when she wanted. I can say “no” now and not feel a…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/24 05:15 PM
4	I'm about to get destroyed Record that shit, send it to your lawyer. And for the love of god, do not respond to her gestures, just record and relay. She’s trying to get you to slip up so she can claim abuse. Do not let that happen.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/07/24 01:12 PM
4	How much net worth did you lose? 3/4. My ex made sure to base valuations of assets at the time before a market recession.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/24 05:57 PM
14	Did you sleep with your x-wife after the divorce? Dude. No. FFS.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/24 04:16 AM
1	Divorce with kids is crippling, A death sentence to men. Yep.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/23 10:17 PM
6	Guess what: she wants me back Then you did the right thing. She made her own bed. Enjoy your life my friend.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/23 04:51 AM
1	Wife wants a second child and I don’t. She threatened divorce over this. That’s a “bye, Felicia” moment my friend.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/23 06:13 PM
2	Feel sorry for my ex Well first, take care of you. It is easy to go down the rabbit holes and reminisce on things. I’m not saying don’t do that but know that is the past. If she’s not taking care of herself that is not your responsibility to fix. Your child? Yes. Your ex? No.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/23 08:01 PM
5	Feel sorry for my ex Dude. Empathy is one thing. She’s trying to draw you back in. 🚩	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/23 07:53 PM
5	Papers filled, now she wants to work things out. I know I’m only repeating what everyone else is saying, but if your shields are raised, that means something deep down for you. Listen to it. That little piece of you wanting it to work? Stop it. It’s not healthy.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/22 02:17 AM
1	Ok, going through it. Brother, you will get through this. You will be okay, and truly… better.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/22 10:54 PM