dean15892 Archive

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5	Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple. You need some good (better) male role models, my guy	/r/seduction	20/05/26 10:37 PM
1	I left my date because she wants me to pay yup, that girl is too dumb to get free drinks. Also, if you're her, balance it out. Don't just order for yourself if you know someone else is paying. Order like a dessert and share it. Order stuff that is shareable, so the person footing the bill doesn't feel like they paid for you.	/r/seduction	06/08/25 02:20 PM
2	I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the apps same lol, based on the title of the post, I thought OP was humiliated or laughed at. Then I read the post, and this is literally the most basic rejection you could get.	/r/seduction	19/06/25 04:20 PM
1	I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the apps This is one of the simplest rejections you could have gotten. Based on the title of your post, I assumed she humiliated you or laughed at you. This is a basic rejection and you respected it. And yes it stings, but if you keep doing it, it stings less. Focus on the approach, not the outcome. You're too determined by what she said to appreciate that you did a cold approach. Celebrate that, that is a win. Another thing is, you're too self-centered in this situation. You're only concerned about you.…	/r/seduction	19/06/25 04:18 PM
2	good places where to find women that are dtf? I've heard Hot Yoga being shared a couple times, may try it out	/r/seduction	04/03/25 10:27 PM
1	How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties? Again with the cribbing, and the not listening. You doubt, I live. You doubt what an approachable, confident, sexual man does regualrily, and here you have one telling you exactly what one does. And you doubt. Keep doubting, man. But like I said, this is the BARE minimum. Until you can do this, don't expect a woman. You don't have to do it tomorrow. like I said 6 - 8 months is fine. Take your time. But do it. And yes, every evening. Go outside. You know who's outside - people. You know who gets …	/r/seduction	12/02/25 09:43 PM
3	How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties? If you don't have a job, then don't bother looking for a partner. That was what you asked, right? Why is not having a job a turn off? I told you. So if you don't have a job, you don't have one of the bare essentials to attracting a mate. Work on that first. And stop arguing with me. I've experienced life, you haven't. So listen and act. Jobs outside the home exist, but your intention of making friends and learning how to talk in those jobs is not as likely.	/r/seduction	12/02/25 09:38 PM
3	How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties? Spend every evening outside. No exceptions. I don’t care how or what you do, every day from 5 pm to 9 pm, don’t be home. Go to the gym, join a class, go to the park, go for events. Just go for a walk. Your only objective is to not be home, that is all. You can go sit at the street corner and smoke a joint for all I care, but you need to be outside. So your home feels like home, and not an escape from reality. Hit the gym. If you have the money, get a personal trainer, a good one. They will push …	/r/seduction	11/02/25 11:29 PM
2	How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties? ’m going to answer this comment and no others, because you seem too far gone for a redditor to help and you need professional therapy. Also, I’ve got things to do. You don’t need to provide for her, but you need to appear as though you can provide for her. It’s just how we’re built. Just like how you’re attracted to a woman with certain features who will sleep with you, the woman is attracted to a man who can provide or protect. Now, you can sleep with anyone you want, and a woman can date an un…	/r/seduction	11/02/25 11:29 PM
-10	I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My Game Nailed it	/r/seduction	05/02/25 04:56 PM
0	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves Ahh, so it seems like you know what you need to do. You just would find it easier to complain about it, rather than act on what is necessary. Fair enough, mate. I do wish you well.	/r/seduction	03/02/25 08:33 PM
0	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves I mean, I dunno if your example is meant to be contradictory to OP's post. OP is suggesting to go out and have adventures. But you've chosen Islamic guys in your example, who , if they are following their religion, usually live a quieter life. I don't believe they're out having adventures. They may go on trips and such, but they have chosen a religion that is generally quite restrictive. It's fullfillin in different ways, but not in the way OP is getting at And thats okay, they have the freedom …	/r/seduction	03/02/25 08:17 PM
0	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves If you believe that you're being judged by looks, then you're not going to have those conversations to begin with. If you are having conversations, then you have passed that good-looking check. Now if they want money and you don't have it, they'll move on. But there might be a smaller subsect who are curious to know more about you. And they give you shot, and then decide they don't like you. Now, maybe a few of them are shallow and don't give a shit. But maybe, some of them got turned off by som…	/r/seduction	03/02/25 08:14 PM
2	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves First off , there is now "if I have time" You will never have time. You MAKE time. You MAKE the time to go out. Second, going out does not mean loud and chaotic. You can have peace and quiet outside too. Go to a park or join a yoga class, peace and quiet right there.	/r/seduction	03/02/25 06:27 PM
0	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves OP is talking about excess. Having solo time is great, but it should ideally be at a balance of also having outside time spent with other people, ideally people you like. OP is referring to those who are too caught in their solo time because of fear of stepping outside, to the point where it is a detriment to their personality. Being alone is fun, but spending time with friends and strangers over a bonding activity, is also fun. And people who balance both, usually live better lives and complain…	/r/seduction	03/02/25 06:24 PM
0	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves Learn to talk to people first. maintain a conversation by actually listening and responding, rather than just waiting for your turn to speak. Learn what is interesting about you, so that you can use social cues to navigate the conversation into those aspects. but start with people, women included, but not exclusive.	/r/seduction	03/02/25 06:21 PM
1	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves could I ask why they don't like you ? Or why you have come to the realization that they don't like you. If you talk to women every single day , as you say, and if you are so sure they don't like you, then have you considered that maybe the way you talk or convey your thoughts has given them reason to not like yo ?	/r/seduction	03/02/25 06:19 PM
3	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves Its also to imply that women add to your life. Forget about a mate, having strong female friends has been show to enhance your emotions and thoughts. Do it for that reason. It's easy to say "nah, im good, every woman has hurt me", but if you choose to just cut women off, you are effectively cutting a powerful thread of your empathy.	/r/seduction	03/02/25 06:18 PM
4	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves Meal prep on the weekends. Spend 3 hours on a sunday and cook all the food you want and spread it through the week Plan out your chores. Chores don't need to be done EVERY day. Pick two evenings and get all your chores done then. Walking the dog, thats a daily role you signed on for. If you can take your dog with you, then good. Else, you will have to make a pitstop at him. Indoor activities exist. Board games, potlucks, poker, paint nights, all happen indoors. If you can't find one, start one. …	/r/seduction	03/02/25 06:16 PM
3	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves Seconded. Work is work, but if you wanna do stuff outside of work, YOU have to find the energy. If you are mentally drained by work, then get yourself out there and force yourself to do things. Otherwise, you are only letting the corporations win. They want to numb you to life, so you just sit at home on a screen. Beat the system. Make time to go outside and see the world (not even travel, just around your town or city).	/r/seduction	03/02/25 06:13 PM
5	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves You may be referring to a smaller subset of men. Yes, there are men who are genuine introverts, who are asexual, who are on grindr and what not. No doubt. And they are potentially very happy with their life choices. But there is also a strong possibility that there are more men who fit the description OP is talking about. Both sides exist - one side is content with their isolation, the other side is trapped in their isolation. This post is for the latter.	/r/seduction	03/02/25 06:11 PM
2	How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties? thats fair, I should clarify, off grid as in offline. Like, no social media or distractions and such. Make genuine friendships in person.	/r/seduction	02/02/25 08:32 PM
2	How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties? You have to figure your shit out. Having no job and being deemed unemployable, is a huge turn off Why would a woman want you if you haven't proven that you can provide for her, when you can't even provide for yourself. What do you do all day ? Learn a monitizable skill, half the world works online now, you can easily get jobs that let you stay at home while working. Data analysis , art and design, finance, there's so much you can offer. Start the process.	/r/seduction	02/02/25 03:21 PM
2	How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties? Make friends first. You're trying to move too fast. Learn to be social and make friends, and if you're likeable enough, they will set you up	/r/seduction	02/02/25 03:19 PM
1	How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties? The women you want are not attracted to someone with your level of issues. A good woman, the right woman, wants a partner who is working on themselves, and is in control of their emotions. Right now you are are just starting. You need to keep going. Don't do it for a woman, do it for you . Fix yourself - fix your weight, fix your style, fix your sugar addiction. It will take AT LEAST a year (since you are looking for timelines) Go offgrid for a year, work on yourself so dark, discipline is your …	/r/seduction	02/02/25 03:17 PM
6	What is the gym equivalent for females? Any chance they were straight ?	/r/seduction	30/01/25 03:20 AM
29	What is the gym equivalent for females? holy shit, you've jsut convinced to look up hot yoga spots in my town	/r/seduction	30/01/25 03:16 AM
8	What is the gym equivalent for females? Have you considered that you don't look conventionally attractive ? /s	/r/seduction	30/01/25 03:15 AM
1	Old School Tip: The hand test & determining the perfect time to kiss. Indication of interest and Sexy Masculine voice	/r/seduction	15/04/23 09:00 PM
2	Old School Tip: The hand test & determining the perfect time to kiss. you're missing the point Op's advice is for people who can't do what you're saying. being straightforward doesn't work for everyone, you need confidence to pull it off. But if you don't have enough confidence, OP is simply suggest a way they use that can slowly break the barriers step by step, while also giving you small boosts of confidence to keep going. It's also a safe way to test waters and get rejected without actually putting yourself too far out there. If she doesn't want to hold hand, y…	/r/seduction	15/04/23 08:58 PM
2	Old School Tip: The hand test & determining the perfect time to kiss. gettin pussy	/r/seduction	15/04/23 08:56 PM
3	Went to the beach alone. I’m tired of doing things alone. This is amazing!	/r/seduction	04/07/22 04:07 AM
4	Here you're sitting thinking about Push Pull Theory, Escalation Ladders, Inner Game and Eckhart Tolle. Meanwhile girls will literally fuck guys because they are bored, want weed, are lonely, have nothing better to do. This is the correct response. Not all of us want the easy route	/r/seduction	19/06/22 11:43 PM
1	How can I go up to a guy at a party that I wanna fuck? Why are all these not helpful? When you spot him, make a connection. Walk up to him, with a friend, give him a casual hug. Talk for a few minutes, Seay your hair, give him the “fuck me” eyes, gentle arm touching Then say that you’re gonna go socialize ,but hope to “rub into him” Then say “oh sorry,I meant ‘run’ “ (add a smirk) Through the next hour, make your way across the room,but also within his line of sight, so every time you catch him looking, look back After the hour is up, approach him a…	/r/seduction	24/05/22 10:30 PM
0	Your girlfriend isn’t pursuing or wanting to have sex as much, what do y’all do? Not really… it’s only been a few weeks; also , OP seemed to be just getting out of the honeymoon phase, so it seems natural at this point. There is a chance , of course But there’s always a chance she’s ducking someone else	/r/seduction	24/03/22 07:04 PM