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7	Ditching Friends That was a good read, man. I really enjoyed it. Since you're on the path to the dark side, try looking for the book The Good Psychopath's Guide to Success. I haven't read it yet, but I've heard "good" things from "bad" people about it. My own mother was just telling me tonight that I don't understand how another woman is manipulative. I know I'm getting good when people believe I don't understand what's going on around me. Another book you might like is Trust Me I'm Lying Confessions of a Media …	/r/AlreadyRed	16/11/15 02:10 AM
1	Venkatesh Rao stuff? I just accidentally bought "Be Slightly Evil" off of Amazon. I was trying to use those ebook dollars you get for choosing delayed shipping. I guess it didn't work. Oh well, it was only a couple books. Give me a day and I'll see about how I can get it to you.	/r/RedPillBooks	16/11/15 01:44 AM
4	Diminishing Marginal Returns and it's implications on your self improvement I've seen this argument both ways: you either become a jack of all trades but master of none or you specialize heavily in one or two areas and become an industry leader or expert. It comes down to timing. In a man's 20s, being a jack should be the focus to broaden his horizons, become interesting, and then figure out what he genuinely enjoys doing with his life. For a man in his 30s, he should focus on combining the skills he learned in his 20s in abstract ways that no one else has thought of to…	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/15 03:29 PM
4	Relinquishing the Finances..if I can help it. I'll ask you this one. Do you really want to give up the finances to your husband? Or do you just want to avoid him being upset with you because he overspent on such and such for the month? You say you are a "budget ninja." Well, do you believe in your budgeting skills or don't you? I have a degree in accounting, run my finances like a business, and use Mint.com to track the majority of my expenses online. You could also use PersonalCapital.com if it vibes with you more. Both are free. Spending …	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/15 07:11 AM
6	[Mod] Spam policy and the shameless self promotion issue Your problem is your pricing model sucks and you do nothing to explain what benefits people obtain from subscribing to your work. The content you publish is very high quality and I love how brilliantly you write, but your sales copy is lacking. When you're asking for donations/subscriptions, emphasize what someone will learn from reading your more privileged material. Give them the hook, but not the fish yet. This could be something like "For $1, you have access to buy any of my newer articles f…	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/15 09:13 PM
26	“Such is Our Nature” It takes years to build a stone wall, but only a couple seasons to grow a strawberry patch or orchard. The strawberry patch will grow faster over a shorter period of time, the orchard will take more years to develop. The wolves could attack the bark at the bottom of the orchard trees to stop the nutrients traveling up the tree to replenish the apples. There's the chance they might not. During the years the stone wall is being built, the patch may or may not be barren. It will be more difficult t…	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/15 05:29 PM
4	The Triggerpocolypse! The solution is simple. Launch two simultaneous campaigns: one of which glorifying the Red Pill through "misogynistic" slogans and one of hating on the Red Pill for the horrible language it uses against women. This will create a fictional war between two sides, but the real war existing between the Masculine Will and Feminine Will. SJW's know that the most effective strategy against arguments is to censor opposing information. If the counter argument is ignored, then it does not exist. In Ian Ir…	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/15 06:26 AM
2	TRP: Margaret Thatcher Analysis Could you be a little more specific on the types of laws she pushed through that benefitted women? I just know that she went after the drug scene in raves in the UK leading to a number of riots and that she aligned with Reaganomics. This is mostly from various conversations with friends and colleagues.	/r/askTRP	19/09/15 07:21 AM
3	What kind of psychological tricks do you use to help yourself avoid falling into beta mindsets? Masturbating sends dopamine throughout the brain and you begin to reward yourself continually for no reason. It becomes an addiction for a lot of people. Refraining from masturbating increases your self discipline which translates into other parts of your life where you need strong discipline to push through. You can develop your mental discipline through reading difficult philosophy or working out, but not masturbating also helps.	/r/askTRP	19/09/15 06:19 AM
5	Made out with my old older boss. Now she's acting up Truth. It sounds too much like a date? Then just invite her over to your place. Not a date anymore.	/r/askTRP	17/09/15 02:53 PM
3	What does TRP think about SimplePickUp? I got into these guys when I was younger and they were just starting out. They've been doing it for a few years and their ideas are just getting worse and worse. They come up with little gimmicks they say will get you laid like mixology and their emails are just entertaining nonsense. Their ideas on theory and how the world work are juvenile and you need to be careful about listening to them on that stuff. The Red Pill and certain parts of Tyler's rants on RSD help much more in filling in the bl…	/r/askTRP	15/09/15 06:47 AM
2	Defining (and Destroying) Your Code Very true. And even in the framework of most atheists, they general exchange one dogma of rules for another. It's why I couldn't be swayed because the absence of proof is not the absolution of proof. In any case, it didn't matter because they still followed other measures that controlled their behaviors, so there was no fundamental difference.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/15 04:32 PM
12	Defining (and Destroying) Your Code This is exactly what the Red Pill did to me. I had "morals" and "rules" that I tried to follow. Some were learned in childhood from religion. Others were trained by socialization. No atheist argument could sway me against my religion. In some regards, I still believe in some "creator", but it fits more of a concept that there is a biological drive of life that continually seeks to evolve. Since starting my red journey, I have begun to kill my god. What is my god? Whatever I worship. Do I worship…	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/15 03:06 PM
3	The Daily Beast confirms what we've known would happen all along. I remember there was some post about online dating being better in NYC than LA because everyone was glued to their phones and some other stuff. I can't remember all the details, but the poster said he was having a hard time in LA because he didn't lie about doing movies with big celebrities or something. I'd really be more interested in learning about better American cities. Both for business and job opportunities and the quality of women in the areas.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/15 07:04 AM
6	The Daily Beast confirms what we've known would happen all along. We just don't. At all. We have to move to different areas where the statistical likelihood of finding more fit women is larger. But then we run into massive competition from other guys pursuing these same girls. It's quite a bit of fun really. I've learned to size women up two ways within 1-2 seconds. It gives the most accurate representation when they try to trick me with their clothing. I look at their arms and I look at their stomachs. One or the other or both will give me a decent indicator …	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/15 06:58 AM
5	What is the most efficient way to approach as many women as possible, if I am forced to work at home alone majority of the day? I'd give up, mang. You're full of nonsense.	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 05:10 PM
3	Why is it so incredibly hard to get laid? Don't women want sex, too? I already told you what you need to change. You have no perceived flaws. Shit, have some bullshit flaw. You don't need to have an actual flaw like a gambling issue, but you seem infallible to these girls. You have the body, girlfriend, money, intelligence, basically the pinnacle of what any normal person would strive for. Now, if you want to live a lifestyle closer to the top tier men in the world banging tons of girls with a main chick at their side, you need something that differentiates you o…	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 04:55 PM
2	Why is it so incredibly hard to get laid? Don't women want sex, too? Sure, be the best version of yourself for yourself. All this advice makes you statistically more likely to fuck hotter girls and lead a better life. There's no guarantee anywhere that that will actually happen. To me, when a repeated process is not yielding results, change the process.	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 04:45 PM
5	Why is it so incredibly hard to get laid? Don't women want sex, too? Sounds like you're obsessed with being perfect. You've handled tons of stuff TRP says to get handled, so you probably believe your approaches should work. I mean, you deep down believe things should work with the girl you're talking to when you approach. Then when she rejects your advances, you wonder how you fucked up when you did everything people say to do. You feel like you're being congruent with yourself, but the results aren't congruent with you. I'd say then fuck up. You might even be co…	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 03:33 PM
2	Mother wants me to work,despite...(read details) I don't get why no one is addressing the issue you want addressed. Yes, getting a job is important, and yes Greece sucks economically. Martial arts could potentially make money for you if you got to that point, but you're not there now. Ultimately, you've got to make your own decisions. Living at home with your mother will get you shit until you move out. My mom gave me shit until I moved out and I was working a full time corporate job while going to school and living at home. My parents are sti…	/r/askTRP	05/09/15 04:35 PM
1	Technological Solutions for the SMP? The gym's a pretty handy technological invention. More women sign up for gym memberships and then never end up really going, so that makes it a pretty dominated male space. I would imagine the same thing would remain true for a women's only gym, unless it's more for older out of shape women mostly interested in chatting and light exercises. Sarcasm aside, most likely things will never be better for the larger male population ever again. The technological advances you mentioned mostly reinforce i…	/r/askTRP	04/09/15 04:31 AM
3	Not done reading the sidebar yet, but one thing is really bothering me, only read my question/observation if you have read ALL of the sidebar and can help me understand it. Like /u/RedPillJax said, it was a generation of men that got us here. The misery men suffer in today's world comes from men at the top recognizing they can get women to consume more, get into deeper debt, and then still get a man to try to help her out of her problems. Then the state made laws forcing men to help out whether the child was theirs or not. The language in the side bar is "violent" against women for two reasons. First, women help propagate this shit in the first place. They don't ca…	/r/askTRP	04/09/15 04:06 AM
3	What part of red pill strategy is not discussed enough? Is it powertalk or is it some other category? No philosophy, theory, or praxeology is ever 100% complete. As long as humans continue to improve in life, such will be the case. Some members just get used to hearing AWALT, societal feminist biases, and rape accusations and want to read about something new. Some guys are looking for that next thing beyond getting more money, lifting more, and being more social.	/r/askTRP	04/09/15 03:37 AM
1	When and how did the brainwashing of males for a pro-feminism society take place and how do we accelerate the reversal of the "White Knight" mentallity"? The solution is to sell their narrative back to them in the form of tampons to carry around for all the girls they run into and apps explaining how to cockblock guys in bar. For the small fee of $3.99 a download.	/r/askTRP	04/09/15 03:33 AM
3	Another proof of the gynocentric society: Tyler the creator banned from entering Australia and UK for his lyrics Music getting banned happens all the time in the UK, and the kids love it. If you're working a record store in the UK, that can be a selling point for an interested customer. Even bad publicity is good publicity.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/15 01:31 PM
1	Government's support for feminism That which you pay for, you'll get more of.	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/15 07:18 AM
5	[Mod] The Red Pill is Sexual Strategy So many good books in that thread. I recently wrote a psychological manipulation guide, definitely check it out. Basically marketing in a nutshell.	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/15 06:57 AM
10	[Mod] The Red Pill is Sexual Strategy I've been doing a lot of thinking on this, and these are my conclusions so far. It's a work in progress at the moment. Moving up the chain within a company has become largely impossible in today's economy. While sociopathic tendencies definitely helped with that elevation in the past, you're unlikely to achieve the same results in today's business world. The only problem I have with the Gervais Principle is that it is modeling a TV show with overblown caricatures. Most people have loser tendenci…	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/15 06:32 AM
11	Reading comprehension, or the lack thereof... I like the references to our ancient Greek philosophers. Lifting was just something they did regularly along with improving their minds every day. This forum is a return to those ancient open forums.	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/15 05:49 AM
2	[Mod] The Red Pill is Sexual Strategy Whatever happened to "Continuous Blue Balls"? That sounds like a great idea.	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/15 05:18 AM
10	It's been said before but... Dilbert (Scott Adams) is such RedPill material. The only time you can enjoy Dilbert is as a corporate employee. I showed Office Space to my buddy who's never worked in a corporate office before. He found it funny, but missed some of the nuances that most drones catch.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/15 08:40 PM
2	Affirmative Action is Good... Except when it isn't My favorite part was when the car honked and the girls cheered.	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/15 03:47 AM
4	What do you do with all the information on TRP? I'm finding the answers I've always been looking for and answers to questions I haven't yet asked. I'm not a Don Juan yet, but I'm getting closer each day. The Red Pill subreddits are the only places I find information that's more relevant to men and how to specifically be a man in different situations. Using the information from TRP, I focus my life in the direction I want to go in. These are only tools, and there are many tools TRP offers. You have to decide when to use them and how to use the…	/r/askTRP	18/08/15 11:06 PM
1	Set is automatically isolating for me? Yeah, that PUA strategy works best with a wing to distract the rest from your target, even the girl you opened. Might as well go for your intended target.	/r/askTRP	06/08/15 12:41 AM
2	Manager asked me to work full-time, but I kind of want a new job, can't decide. Business is business. Give no shits about them, would an employer be loyal if they needed to make cutbacks?	/r/askTRP	06/08/15 12:34 AM
2	drugs and confidence.. My recommendation is odd. What I would do is try using it without being social. I've never done opiates, but I've done other drugs in my past, so I'm familiar with the changes in confidence when going out. After being used to it by yourself, really meditate about your feelings even if it's tough sitting still. Stop separating yourself into drug you vs sober you. You're you regardless of your state of mind. Yes, drugs lower inhibitions through chemical changes in the brain, but if you were charmi…	/r/askTRP	05/08/15 05:13 PM
1	How to be aggressive and dominate without being labeled bitchy or in my feelings Should that make any difference at any age? I'm still working on building myself up. Should I really be using dread on new clients, girls, and friends?	/r/askTRP	05/08/15 05:01 PM
1	How did you make friends and build your social circle after college? Awesome! I've been looking for a way to break into new circles. I just didn't know where to look! Thank you so much. Would you say that I could apply "stereotypes" to this a lot to find certain people? Such as golf outings for meeting millionaires or something. I'm not specifically looking for rich people as much as I'm looking to diversify my network and expand it.	/r/askTRP	31/07/15 04:42 AM
2	What do you do for self improvement? I work on music, read, go out once a week, work on my diet, work out, prepare food for the week. I'm thinking of implementing a new rule for myself where I do 2-4 unique things a month. This could be taking a random trip to another city or trying something new like rock climbing or martial arts. The key is to push yourself outside of your comfort zone. I'm too comfortable as it is and that's a problem I have to work on.	/r/askTRP	19/07/15 06:53 AM
2	Got a couple of questions today. Just wanna clear these all out at once so I can learn more deeply how to improve myself ATM. I would say you need to physically escalate throughout these shit tests. Maybe even amplify them to infinity and keep going. Don’t be the one to break the tension. You should be maintaining that you can be more comfortable in tension than her. Snapchat? Idk, it’s silly. It’s nice for online dating, but doesn’t have too much real application apart from showing off cool shit you’re doing to increase SMV. I tend to not care about that stuff, so I don’t focus on it. I have it, but I rarely use it. W…	/r/askTRP	19/07/15 06:49 AM
21	My 72 y.o. grandma attempted to leave her husband for Nigerian scammer Reminds me of that scene in Superman Returns where Lex convinces an old lady to bail him out of jail and then swindles her children out of their inheritance by getting her to sign everything to him. In my BP days, I thought shit like that didn't happen.	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/15 04:36 PM
1	I missed out on sex/love in my younger years and I want to sleep with a lot of hot girls to make up for lost time, how can I make my goal a reality? What /u/favours_of_the_moon said is true. It will get better with time. Here's some action steps you can take right now. Check out /u/OmLaLa's posts about online dating and apply his strategies. You basically put in a lot of effort to talk to as many girls as possible while you minimize your efforts for each individual girl. Keeping in mind AWALT, many women respond similarly. Check out /u/GayLubeOil's post about online dating. His advice is more about perspective, but has some good tips in it a…	/r/askTRP	25/06/15 04:32 PM
8	Observing a Flock of Wild Betas I dunno, that sounds rather smart. Gyms make a large portion of their money from women that don't go to the gym. They sign up for memberships around holiday seasons for different reasons, then never go back. They don't cancel for years for whatever reason and the gym equipment isn't damaged because it wasn't used as much. On the other side, you have people doing ineffective workouts that will never get them that good body. Easier workouts would keep most betas around because they're more likely …	/r/TheRedPill	25/06/15 03:56 PM
5	Changes To Mental Language As You Embrace Masculinity So much of this resonates with my own story as well. Thank you for the post. I have noticed lately that my own thoughts are becoming more masculinized, and it feels right in my head for after years of being a depressed teenager and an awkward, shy child. I definitely believe that Thoughts --> Words --> Actions. These three things help internalize the concepts in TRP, and it makes it difficult to fully grasp it all without all three. Do you have any recommendations on books to read for the stock …	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/15 01:03 PM
2	What are your thoughts on male dating market value? I'm assuming OP is referring to this. http://therationalmale.com/2012/06/04/final-exam-navigating-the-smp/	/r/askTRP	03/06/15 06:04 PM
3	What are your thoughts on male dating market value? You're looking at the graph like the HB10 is getting with a 10/10 guy. I'm on my phone, but I can send you the link to Rollo's article about it later. He explains what the numbers mean, but in summary, the HB10 has the most number of guys chasing her at 22-23 and the 10/10 guy (assuming he worked on improving himself all his life instead of becoming a couch) has the most women chasing him at 35-40 (post-wall women included). There's other biological factors, but that's the jist of it. I think it…	/r/askTRP	03/06/15 05:53 PM
1	Happiness is internal So, basically I just hold better frame. I have noticed that my frame has improve more with TRP than what I learned with PUA. Am I getting caught up thinking I need to learn more game?	/r/TheRedPill	01/06/15 08:00 PM
0	What do you guys do on Friday or Saturday nights? What's your style like? What mindset are you in? I don't mean to derail from fashion, but how did you get into the DJ scene to get gigs and were you playing gigs as a musician too? I'm trying to break into that, but I've only had a few gigs due to friends and family. Mostly getting my feet wet. Also, back to fashion, how much did you work on creating a "DJ image"?	/r/askTRP	01/06/15 07:22 PM
2	Happiness is internal Man, I wish I could relate to this. It's like you're describing how water will only quench a thirst and is a regular thing that shouldn't be the be all end all of life to a man who's been without a drink in the desert for months. I keep thinking it must come down to a strong sense of self, a good amount of game, and having your life in order. Being honest with myself, I'm still working on undoing the nice guy paradigms I used to operate under and still do to some extent. There's actually a physi…	/r/TheRedPill	01/06/15 03:26 PM
1	How does making a career and not marrying go together? Is that something you can actually say without proof? I get that socially most people will avoid bringing it up, but would that be something an employer would look up in a background check?	/r/askTRP	26/05/15 05:35 AM
-1	How to deal with loss and defeat, to grieve, to be generous This post sucks. You seem to have learned a lot from your dog. And what did your dog do? He sacrificed his own comforts for yours and anyone else's. His "loyalty" is exactly the kind of thing we avoid in TRP. You need to go back to the drawing board and read more. Stuff like The Book of Pook, The Rational Male, The Manipulated Man, and Illimitable Men are good places to start. Preaching sacrificial loyalty is foolhardy, this is nothing more than feminine centric thinking where I would be giving …	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/15 05:30 AM
1	Solo-Approaching a Group of Women? Are you really the Pookmeister? Or just quoting him?	/r/askTRP	01/03/15 06:20 AM
2	mood fluctuations and being more posative Exactly. You don't build a house by moving bedrooms around. You begin by laying a foundation and setting up a sturdy wood frame. You have the tools, all you need to do is start using them. Use them every day. Even when you don't feel like you made as much progress as the previous day, you stay lubricated.	/r/askTRP	11/01/15 05:11 AM
2	mood fluctuations and being more posative Your bad mood comes from several factors: your environment, your perception of yourself, and your perception of your own life. You know you can succeed with everything you have in front of you, but are you applying yourself the way you think you need? Ignore the distant future of happiness. Focus on now. Move forward now. Figure out the most immediate next step you should be taking right now. If you need a job, then either begin applying for jobs or begin working on skills for a job you'd want. …	/r/askTRP	10/01/15 07:32 AM
2	Too much work and economic stress increasing beta traits - the sweet spot between freedom and struggle I hear what you're saying, but I think you're wrong. If anything, more difficult and stressful times only emphasize who's willing to work harder and smarter. It's just an excuse when people say they don't have any time. When it's something you want to do, you'll make time for it. And in the case of lazy people, they'll make time for TV every evening just because they don't want to face the reality that they could be doing something more productive. If I lack the energy every evening, then I need…	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/15 07:49 PM