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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Captain doesn't seem to want to take our relationship to the next level. Should I breakup with him?	ADVICE	deastjames	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/18 10:05 AM

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1	IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED! Aaah I just saw the announcement on Twitter! Thanks to everyone who made this possible 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 02:27 PM
2	Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types? Hi! INTJ 5w6 here. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	04/04/19 11:16 PM
4	Dominant Men Obviously, he's not the type of man who is in it for the long haul. Any kind of effort you put into a man will be put to waste when you choose men who will not commit to you. This is why vetting is sooooo important before submitting to a man. And by submission, I mean allowing your man to take charge of his manly roles and trusting him that he does it well, and not you laying down like a linoleum he can step on.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/02/19 01:29 AM
10	How do you ladies deal with the beta orbiters? I don't. If I'm not interested, I'll cut the interactions altogether.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/19 09:14 AM
2	Valentines...what do I do for him? I’m not the romantic type Omygod that's brilliant! He's definitely the practical type. Thank you so much ladies <3	/r/RedPillWomen	04/02/19 09:16 PM
1	Valentines...what do I do for him? I’m not the romantic type Oh my, my SO's birthday is just a day away from Valentine's so I'm not sure how I'm gonna do this either! I was thinking of buying him things he really needs, like socks. He works sooo hard and barely replaces any of the stuff he actually has. Is that too motherly or is that okay? :( I originally wanted to cook for him but we're on a strict diet and he says he tends to eat too much when I'm cooking haha :D	/r/RedPillWomen	04/02/19 10:24 AM
1	Advice for women Hi, thanks for sharing this. I think this is completely spot on. I'm in a long term relationship with a good man and we are looking to get married soon. I've always been ridiculed for wanting to get married so early (I'm 22, he's 26) and while I feel bad about it, I do know that none of the things women pursue in this day and age will make me happy compared to being a good wife and a mother. I will keep this in mind and pass it along my other female friends. Thank you again, and I hope to read…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/01/19 09:53 PM
1	Red Pill Media? Tonya Leigh from French Kiss Life is good too. Self-helpy, but she offers really solid advice on being more feminine. https://tonyaleigh.com/	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/19 08:59 PM
1	I love him but... This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you for posting this! :)	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/18 08:11 PM
1	Captain doesn't seem to want to take our relationship to the next level. Should I breakup with him? Hey there. I would say he hasn't had a lot of defining experiences as man so his backbone isn't as strong at the age of 26. I'd like to think that the reason why I stayed with him is rooted in my upbringing. I grew up with a strong, single dad who really taught me traditional values and honoring the men in my life, albeit their uncanny imperfections. At this point, with me and my SO.. I guess it's just not a good match. I suppose love is not enough to keep two people together. Maybe I have some …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/18 12:49 PM
1	Captain doesn't seem to want to take our relationship to the next level. Should I breakup with him? Hello. I definitely wouldn't want him to think he's getting free milk but, I suppose that's what's going on in his mind all this time. Then again, I could be wrong. It's still best if I learn to navigate the situation since I chose to be in this spot anyway. I guess it has something to do with age. Guys his age wouldn't really think of settling down and such. He's really scared of getting me pregnant too, and while I do respect that he's not ready, I wouldn't want to get pregnant in my 30s or 40…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/18 12:29 PM
5	Captain doesn't seem to want to take our relationship to the next level. Should I breakup with him? Hello. I'm terribly sorry for the confusion. I was writing in one go, so I'm afraid I haven't really cleared things up. We both work 9 hours, 5 times a week. He earns more than I do. Before we decided to move together, we agreed to split the rent, utilities, and groceries. For months now, I'm paying for everything. It's no big deal, since I'm financially stable and have few investments here and there, but it doesn't feel like a partnership now. I did talk to him about it over the course of our r…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/18 12:20 PM
1	Captain doesn't seem to want to take our relationship to the next level. Should I breakup with him? Hello. I think you're right. He's never met his father and grew up mostly around women. I'm not sure if this has something to do with our relationship dynamic now, but having a father to look up to would help him as a man. I would do my best to encourage him to step up, maybe allocate tasks to him from time to time so he feels like he has a responsibility at home.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/18 10:59 AM
2	Captain doesn't seem to want to take our relationship to the next level. Should I breakup with him? Hello. I had a boyfriend at 13 til I was 18. Only dated again at 20, thus he is my second boyfriend. I do enjoy video games, in fact I work in the gaming industry. I do play, but it gets in the way of doing important things. Other than that, we have not much in common. But I do bring him in to my world and show him stuff I like (art, cinema, conferences). Now that I think about it, he doesn't seem to have a lot going on for him.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/18 10:56 AM