deathbecoming Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	How hard it is to find a decent man? I am starting to get really upset. Right? Like maybe we should be flattered that LVM aren't interested... but then the flip side is that no HVM (for me, anyway) are speaking up either. Ugh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/03/22 12:00 AM
5	How hard it is to find a decent man? I am starting to get really upset. I'm in the same boat. I dumped my loser bf in early 2019 and have been unwillingly single since. If you don't know someone through friends, the only option where I live is OLD. And all the men are garbage, or text for a few days and then ghost. It's frustrating and heartbreaking and lonely and humiliating. I agree with a lot on this sub, but it's fucking awful to read about all these other girls just having men try to date them constantly, when not even LVMs seem interested in me. And I'm the on…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/22 11:16 PM
30	Has a man ever left you or started abusing you when something negative happened to your looks? Not obvious abuse, but emotional neglect, sure. One of my exes. I used to wear a full face of makeup to cover pretty intense cystic acne. After a little over a year of dating, and moving in together, I talked with my dermatologist and we decided to try a break from makeup. Within a few weeks I also cut off about a foot of my hair, just because I wanted to. Around this time he just stopped acting attracted to me. We still had a fairly active sex life, but he was not longer affectionate outside of…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/22 12:00 AM
5	PSA Holiday Gifts that both of you use does not count as a gift! It's one of my favorite stories, for sure, because it demonstrates how awful he was while being hilarious in hindsight haha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/21 10:08 PM
104	PSA Holiday Gifts that both of you use does not count as a gift! This reminds me of the squatty-potty my EX bf of 1.5 years at the time got me for my birthday. I opened it in front of friends at the party I threw for myself and was like, wtf. When I left him I took the damn thing with me because like, it did work. XD	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/21 04:14 PM
17	Is she high maintenance tho? genuinely... This might be about my ex. Like, actually. After 20 m of this EXACT crap (literally, he got me a squatty pottie for my birthday), I realized I was his fuckbuddy roommate. Meanwhile, I have a date on Saturday with a guy who asked about allergies because he wants to make sure the restaurant he picks has enough options for me. I'm excited :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/21 10:57 PM
11	EXPLAINING WHY 50/50 IS BAD FOR YOUNGER GENERATION OF WOMEN (TEENS) My favorite explanation is asking them their routine for preparation. How many products do they use in the shower, after the shower, on their hair, on their face, for their makeup? How much did that cost? What about clothes? How much did your date night clothes cost? Can you wear those to work (men usually can)? What's the cost-per-wear? Did you spend time or money on anything else, like waxing, hair appt, birth control, mani-pedi (these are largely women-only expenses)? Now, how much do you mak…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 10:22 PM
38	Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s) You know, I never really thought of it like this. Women accept men who have "dad bods", but men don't accept women who aren't IG models. Women push for acceptance of "dad bods" largely out of a desire to spark a similar normal body appreciation in men, but men just take it to mean that they can be fat and lazy and still get a super hot, in shape, full-effort woman. Wtf. i hate it here.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/21 11:30 PM
1	Ask WHY a guy likes you - and pay attention to the answer. Holy shit. This was always how my ex would respond! Damn. Yup.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 01:50 AM
12	And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t. yuuuuuuuuup. My ex told me he didn't like me as a human being and then let me dump him two months later so he could get all the sympathy votes. (I was living with him and needed to figure my shit out hence the time it took for me to literally escape)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/20 02:07 AM
13	Friendzoned men - what are your experiences? This!!! My ex would say the SHITTIEST things about his "friends", and when I would ask why he still hung out with them it was always because they "brought something to the table". They were landscapers who offered free help and tips. They had loads of D&D shit to bring to game nights. They were had a sailboat and gave free rides/lessons. They drank a lot and always brought free booze and snacks to gatherings. Men cant befriend men without taking advantage of men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/20 05:52 PM
4	Friendzoned men - what are your experiences? I had a close male friend in high school tell everyone we were dating but I broke up with him to gain sympathy. This was supposedly done when people asked him if he liked me. We never dated and I never dumped him, but I sure as hell stopped speaking to him after that. It was frustrating because people were saying stuff like "if you were more approachable maybe he would have asked you out for real", totally ignoring the whole point of the situation - he lied about an entire made up relationship w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/20 05:48 PM
7	Have you ever ended a relationship because you realized his Dreamgirl wasn’t you—it was an ex or one of his friends? This, yes. My ex always did his best to make me feel controlling and bitchy for him still being friends with his exes (he had many, three in the 2 years before I knew him. I know, I know.), but when I asked him how he would feel if I were still talking to and messaging my exes? Well he was offended I would even consider the idea. It's all about control.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 10:52 PM
8	Have you ever ended a relationship because you realized his Dreamgirl wasn’t you—it was an ex or one of his friends? Honestly, I have no idea. I think she didn't really like him, she just didn't like the idea of sharing him. And I think he realized that she had changed from the girl he knew in HS, but he was still so attached. It was a relationship that none of our mutual friends understood.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 10:48 PM
12	Have you ever ended a relationship because you realized his Dreamgirl wasn’t you—it was an ex or one of his friends? This wasn't the MAIN reason I ended it with him, but a contributing factor. His childhood "best friend" Emily, aka, crush, always had him on her backup plan. Whenever they talked about growing up in their super small hometown, he would always say how Emily was the prettiest girl in town, the most popular girl in their high school. She is very pale with long curly reddish hair. He always said how Anne of Green Gables was his biggest childhood crush. He also said all the time how he had a massive …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 03:27 PM
32	Oddly specific but soooooo spot on Dude. Same. 29, no bed frame, no furniture other than a futon and dresser, hyper critical of any woman. I aspire to his ill-deserved level of extraordinary confidence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/05/20 03:40 PM
18	Lesson learned: if you are lonely, it's better to adopt a pet than adopt a hobosexual LVM The one about remembering to iron their flannel was... accurate. Beyond the fact that he ironed his flannels and was a beer snob with his friends but bought Bud Light for our date nights, he would always remember exactly what to get as gifts for his friends and coworkers, spending time and money on their gifts, even choosing to drive home to Maine instead of fly so he could pick up his best friend some Maine hard cider. He once gave me men's LL Bean pajama BOTTOMS (no top lol) for Christmas beca…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/20 09:57 PM
31	The Fact They Even Have To Ask... For my exes 29th I got him a grill, all the equipment, and threw him a massive party. For my 25th, three months later, he got me a squatty potty. We lived together and he had been wanting one. He didn't even make me dinner. When I left him I took the damn squatty potty.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/20 03:19 PM