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Usually I say "I just want to do this first". Either way works. You guys look into that shit too much, its all about tone and intent. Not nervously asking.
/r/seduction10/01/16 12:33 AM
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I do the, "wait, I just want to try something" and stop them as I say it. Then go for it. Works a charm
/r/seduction09/01/16 11:45 PM
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This post is all over the place. Seriously some people in this Subreddit need to take a fucking reality check.
/r/seduction09/01/16 12:30 PM
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If you're willing to bang her anyway you're still a snake and when she Fucks someone else you'll have had it coming.
/r/seduction07/01/16 07:53 PM
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The single life crisis is real. Grieve, allow yourself a bit of time and get back on it. Those encounters won't make you happy, but they will hopefully help you realise that you don't need that to be happy. You can reinvigorate friendships you didn't have time for before. The newly single life sucks, the recently single life bangs and the comfortable single life is just that, comfortable. Bonus round: try find out what it was that drove them to that, often it's behaviour that drives both ways (f…
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:11 PM
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If you're cool with her Bf and want to be with her you should make her deal with that first. Fucking your mates gf for a lay is a snake thing to do and you don't deserve anything.
/r/seduction07/01/16 02:18 PM
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Yeah I had the golden age about 2 years ago when tinder was new. Numbers off there for texting were goldmines. Nowadays it's much more sedate.
/r/seduction04/01/16 03:42 PM
2

Sign up to Amazon's audible. Pretty much any book that has an audio book is on there. It's cheap (£8 a month) and each month you get a credit for a free book. I just got a 60 hour trilogy for one credit which could have set me back as much as £50. Great for long drives and such too.
/r/seduction31/12/15 12:20 AM
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She sounds pretty awful anyway if she's blurting out racial slurs....
/r/seduction29/12/15 11:22 AM
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Yeah but I can't day game on the shitter.
/r/seduction27/12/15 05:19 PM
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Obviously your main pic
/r/seduction27/12/15 05:19 PM
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/r/cringeanarchy
/r/seduction23/12/15 07:24 AM
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Awful
/r/seduction13/12/15 11:31 AM
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Basically you're pathetic and are projecting your lack of experience and success negatively on her. 10 people is really nothing. Get over yourself
/r/seduction04/12/15 06:21 PM
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Relevant username
/r/seduction30/11/15 09:31 PM
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It came off v badly sorry. And you can't just apply any just random quote no matter how broad to every situation. This was asking for specific advice not for a copy paste of the sidebar
/r/seduction28/11/15 10:19 PM
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Don't try to give shitty recycled advice while prefacing your comment with how you're an impatient dickhead.
/r/seduction28/11/15 09:29 PM
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Internalise etc. Make them feel like its ridiculous that they would consider it an insecurity you're right
/r/seduction21/11/15 01:22 PM
1

For anyone who says hit the gym hard. That is just totally not necessary, I'm a skinny guy, too skinny probably yet girls are attracted to me, your other two points are far, far more important. Be actually interested in what people have to say, feed things from your life into their stories to create that connection, its the easiest thing in the world to find common ground from life experiences especially when you're in your 20s and have actually experienced things, slightly harder to do as a tee…
/r/seduction20/11/15 11:51 PM
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Like how secretly we all love being the little spoon
/r/seduction11/11/15 03:46 PM
1

How old is she? Probably something you should tell her. Usually wouldn't be a problem but in the us with the drinking age will obviously have an effect on how you can interact
/r/seduction08/11/15 07:14 PM
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I'm actually in the UK. Not many of them are flirty or sexual in their profiles, I think this is where people go wrong they try to jump straight into it. They are people like anyone else, I don't want to just ask someone to fuck for no reason so why should they, take some time to chat and escalate then take them out for a drink. All the same rules apply, you wouldn't just straight up ask a girl on the street to fuck you so why would that work on tinder?
/r/seduction06/11/15 11:43 AM
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I'm 25 and had a night the other night with a tinder girl. Student, 18, easily 8/10 maybe a 9. Wasn't hard; Just be confident, seduction works much better with this age demographic than any other because they are just that, young. She mentioned after that I was much better than any of her previous partners. Just remember that these girls are fucking around with literal little boys and take the initiative, show them what they are missing out on. This post sounds callous but laid out bare that's t…
/r/seduction05/11/15 11:53 PM
2

Why is this in seduction? Are you trying to sleep with this girl? In which case playing the super supportive friend is not going to get you there, especially if its insincere.
/r/seduction03/11/15 01:20 PM
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This is a very weird thing to worry about when thinking of talking to girls
/r/seduction16/10/15 06:58 PM
4

It really takes the sting away
/r/seduction13/10/15 09:51 PM
3

Just an aha or haha is fine. No capitals unless it was genuinely a gut buster. Smiley face does just as well. Don't know why the lol just seems incredibly cringe. But seemed to work for you so what do I know.
/r/seduction09/10/15 12:15 PM
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Kill those really cringe 'LLOL's. Fucking, Jesus.
/r/seduction09/10/15 10:38 AM
1

Who hasn't fucked a girl off tinder? Thats literally what it's for. Take your shitty erotica somewhere else. This holds no lessons for anyone except 'I'm great girls want to bang me'. Ass.
/r/seduction22/09/15 02:54 PM
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You're a lucky man.
/r/seduction08/09/15 10:53 AM
1

You don't, sofa is great place to escalate, just as you would on the bed. Once it's obvious it won't matter where you are anyway.
/r/seduction06/09/15 10:43 PM
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This one
/r/seduction24/08/15 12:32 PM
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Just headed to work but I'll come back to you on this later
/r/seduction20/08/15 07:12 AM
2

If worst comes to worst you can always beat them round the bead with the bottle to calm them down. I've found wine bottles have the perfect balance for this
/r/seduction18/08/15 11:49 PM
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You sound like an asshole whos going to lie to girls to get them to fuck you. Thats not what this is all about. If they don't want what you do move on. You wouldn't physically force yourself on them, so why lie to trick them into something they don't want.
/r/seduction18/08/15 06:55 PM
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While you generally have to push, I've had a lot of good reactions from pull as well, set up a Convo so that they are aware you won't do everything, they too have to show value. Not in a way that it means they do all the work, but show them that while you're willing to try, you're not willing to do everything. Sometimes it falls flat, but that's the same with everything. Just keep going, be assertive, but also show that it's not all down to you.
/r/seduction14/08/15 03:15 PM
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I have to add something here in that sircockburn may not be 100% right. Sure she should have told you before if she wanted to be with someone else, but people don't always make the right choices, just like you probably havent at times. Try to think of it in a way that, if she married this guy, then it wasn't that you aren't enough, its just that you and her weren't right and they were. Sure its a shitty situation but the fact that it worked out for them actually reflects much better on the whole…
/r/seduction11/08/15 07:38 PM
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Yeah I've had a lot of disappointments but then same as with approach, rejections no bad thing. You can't be everyone's type!
/r/seduction07/08/15 11:26 AM
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Yeah dude you're just entirely wrong here. Your negative attitude obviously comes through, I've had plenty of great dates off tinder, its easy and can be fit around a working schedule. You're just too wrapped up in your wannabe image of yourself as an alpha male so think online dating is beneath you. Girls probably don't respond or cease communication suddenly because you come across as a total dickhead, like you do on here.
/r/seduction07/08/15 10:19 AM
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The problem is with you not women. You are bitter about your experiences which is understandable but the reason those women were cold and distant to you is because they can sense your general hate, its like a malaise that will follow you. Same for your social and life success. Positivity breeds good things (anyone can get upset or be angry from time to time, I don't mean be a stupid positive asshole the whole time). You have to let go of that hatred, don't turn it on yourself or anyone else, jus…
/r/seduction05/08/15 05:30 PM
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You've cracked the approach and that's what counts. I still don't ever cold approach, I just don't like it but all the other mistakes you made in not closing or numbers are things that can be gotten over it takes time to be comfortable but you've actually done the hardest part. The rest will follow just keep going.
/r/seduction26/07/15 05:04 PM
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Thats fair enough. I meant in general if you fail to escalate then it kills it but good job if you turned that around.
/r/seduction26/07/15 02:54 PM
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I've found if you don't lock the kiss on the first date you're fucked. And that's not about you personally either, sometimes the opportunity really doesn't come up and that's just bad luck.
/r/seduction26/07/15 01:52 PM
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I didn't mean to put a downer on you at all just the whole book struck me as really negative and him putting his insecurities onto these women which is a really shitty thing to do. I also read it ages ago when I had a gf as my friends were talking about it. Maybe the fact that I wasn't looking to take anything from it gave me a different perspective
/r/seduction26/07/15 01:38 PM
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The game is old and famous and contains lots of techniques people are aware of now. Also because Neil Strauss is a total dickhead and hates women and likes to think himself above them the entire thing is based around making the woman feel like they are worth less than you, rather than building a positive bond between you which I think seddit is actually great for giving advice on. Ignore the game it's for insecure losers who need to hook up as a victory. Not people who want to improve their rela…
/r/seduction26/07/15 01:24 PM
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I saw a girl who said "no hook ups". During the date she actually said to me, " this is our first date I'm not going to fuck you" I just looked her in the eye and told her that's what everyone says. She laughed and said yeah you're right, let's get out of here.
/r/seduction26/07/15 01:21 PM
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Just make sure they both don't find out if they were at the same party!
/r/seduction21/07/15 04:54 PM
0

If you can't call them up and specifically say let's have sex then they aren't your fwb
/r/seduction15/07/15 12:46 PM
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This guys comment thread is literally the worst.
/r/seduction14/07/15 11:11 PM
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This.
/r/seduction09/07/15 02:51 PM
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I think the problem is that all of these pua things are aimed at American dudes picking on stupid American girls. None of this would work on any girl of value in London for example.
/r/seduction08/07/15 03:54 PM
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Tbb sounds like that last girl was into it
/r/seduction30/06/15 12:48 PM
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Aha good on you. I genuinely would not expect that to work. The actual message seems really bland, it must just be the approach that she liked.
/r/seduction29/06/15 03:35 PM
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What did you actually say? I'd be intrigued to see your approach
/r/seduction29/06/15 03:20 PM
1

I actually prefer a quick drink, early movie then dinner, as you have something that you can definitely talk about over dinner after the movie. Just a suggestion. I do however prefer the shopping for sister idea if you can stand to go shopping.
/r/seduction28/06/15 08:28 PM
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Yeah well don't try to 'pick her up' then. Have some respect if she's been a friend of yours for a while. If you like her, tell her, she isn't some girl for you to game anymore. If you think it isn't a sure thing and it'll make it awkward then leave it be if you can't handle that. But a one night stand will make it more awkward.
/r/seduction21/06/15 07:59 PM
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Well calling her out for being weird is going to make her uncomfortable whether it's a case of not liking him or whether she doesn't want to just bang a co-worker, and is pushy. I don't think it's a case of not liking him and his game, this isn't some date set up from a bar she knows him fairly well and they've gone out on a date. This to me really doesn't seem like a case of 'gaming' some girl.
/r/seduction19/06/15 10:42 AM
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Yeah of course they do, but if you're out on a date and been hanging out a lot, most people won't just want to jump into bed and potentially make things awkward, this wasn't some office party.
/r/seduction19/06/15 10:38 AM
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Sounds like this. Either that or she doesn't want to just fuck a coworker after one date which is also totally understandable. Sounds like you were being a pushy douche tbh
/r/seduction18/06/15 02:26 PM
1

Yeah for real you potato, you could have literally made any move "here let me help you" and just grab her from behind. You could have even just jumped in the shower if shed left the door open. I've never heard of such an obvious missed opportunity before.
/r/seduction18/06/15 02:21 PM
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Actually had a very similar exp, after the date and I'd stayed at hers I went in too strong. It was genuinely a case of "I'm super busy, I think you're really cool so would like to hang out but not going to chase if you aren't into it as I don't really have time for that". Worded differently of course but it definitely freaked her out. A huge shame because she was cool and if I had left it a couple of days she definitely would have come round to wanting to see me again. Live and learn.
/r/seduction18/06/15 09:03 AM
1

The $1.54 price tag suggests this book isn't totally FREE.
/r/seduction14/05/15 04:12 PM
0

I can see that but I'd say there's a difference between Doing something that puts you out there (humming, eye contact, smiling) and something that a lot of people actively find obnoxious!
/r/seduction06/05/15 12:35 PM
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Up to the smiling part I can get. The sunglasses, phone and shirtless thing is just you acting like a moronic dickhead and not caring what others think or how it'll put them off. That's not confidence its called being a Cunt.
/r/seduction06/05/15 11:56 AM
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What exactly does everyone mean by Kino? Casual observer here, not in on or attempting to be in on pua scene just curious
/r/seduction06/05/15 11:42 AM
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Rekt
/r/seduction02/05/15 02:21 PM
1

I have a French bulldog and half the time they want to meet her more than me. Pro tip. Buy a French bulldog.
/r/seduction30/04/15 08:56 AM
2

The whole tone of the comment wasn't one of mutual respect and agreement on something casual which I've said I have no problem with. It was one of using tricks and a set game plan to take something they may not want to give in that way without making them aware. At no point did he say he would square up with them about what was going down. The whole thing just had a sinister overtone which is what I took issue with.
/r/seduction21/04/15 10:49 AM
4

Just say. I'm not looking for a relationship at all, if you're ok with that then great, if you're not then maybe we shouldn't pursue this anymore. I do think it's wrong to lead someone on with false intentions though just to get your dick wet.
/r/seduction20/04/15 10:58 PM
1

Sorry it does come across as judgemental which I didn't mean to. I've had no strings many times and always made it pretty clear and that's fine and a lot of fun for the most part. Just that this factory production line style of getting laid I think can't help but tarnish any future potential relationships before they've even started.
/r/seduction20/04/15 10:57 PM
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I think op needs to qualify whether he is looking for an easy lay or if it's someone who's interest he wants to keep. While this is a good plan it's generally pretty soulless, and I find that if this cycle of behaviour becomes known amongst your friends and people you may generally meet you'll find a pretty negative reception.
/r/seduction20/04/15 09:30 PM
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