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Lol 😆
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:31 AM
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She and the hubby could have an open marriage. But if i were you I would just drop it after being rejected. Not worth the risk. And if she’s shit-testing I wouldn’t continue pursuing until she came up to me and started flirting again or explained the shit-testing. I really don’t like it when they shit-test right from the start, it’s way too much work. I’d much rather flirt with someone who shows equal attraction
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:03 PM
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He’s at the gym, he’s loosing lots of sweats :D
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:41 PM
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It happens when I hug a woman I’m attracted to, I just hope they don’t notice it. And I hope that if they do I don’t get scolded for it. They must know by now that it’s not intentional? Atleast when it’s a woman pushing 30 like I am.
/r/seduction18/01/22 02:12 PM
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I think you’re gonna get some coffee one way or another 😆
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:25 PM
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I had the very same issue when I popped my cherry. Only I was “overindulging” in booze. Many redditors are saying stop jerking off to porn, so that’s what I’m gonna do too!
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:53 AM
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Make yourself look as good as possible. Ask around with your friend group what you might need to do to look better. Don’t pop your cherry with a hooker or similar people. And do it with someone who likes you. Way better to do it that way. I lost mine to a woman who found out I was a virgin and in the end it sucked losing my virginity that way.
/r/seduction05/10/21 02:16 PM
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Call me ignorant but where two people meet should be irrelevant. What really matters is how the interactions happen.
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:40 AM
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Like i said. We’re supposed to turn tail when we get a no. I’ve read and heard so many stories about shit shows that ended badly just because the guy couldn’t take a no. How are we supposed to know that they really wanted to say yes but couldn’t? This post just felt like a tease after all that #meetoo stuff. I may have overreacted about this. Even though I’m shy just like OP I still felt upset about it.
/r/seduction10/08/21 04:59 PM
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Yeah, that’s tough shit. After #meetoo and everything around it we’re even more inclined to leave you alone if you say no. And honestly this is how it should have been from the start! Fuck everyone who instill fear on anyone who doesn’t want to fuck them! With that said. I guess you have to shake your shyness if you ever see that guy again. Just tell him you didn’t want to say no but you’re really shy. Nowadays it looks like more people do listen when they get a no. And that is a good thing.
/r/seduction10/08/21 01:26 PM
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Where do people get off on labeling others as below them? And why does it even concern them. If anything it’s more important to work on what you feel about yourself. Cause a stranger on the interwebs sure isn’t gonna have any real impact on yourself expect of course, yourself!
/r/seduction07/08/21 10:31 PM
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Kudos to you for handling it like that! Very classy 😊
/r/seduction26/11/20 09:28 AM
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I don’t really like to think of women as above my league. Sure, there are plenty of women who would be considered more attractive than I am. But if I see someone I like I’m gonna give it a shot, because they’re no more human than I, they’re just pretty. Just like you,I have found that I’m more attractive than I thought for a very long time. And I’m not settling anymore. It’ll just hurt her feelings in the end. Maybe my standards are a little too high. But I’m not gonna date someone I’m not reall…
/r/seduction09/11/20 09:24 AM
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Yeah I know
/r/seduction03/11/20 01:11 PM
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Okay listen to me, I’m a virgin so it stands to reason that I can’t get a woman off right now. But as soon as I get laid I’m gonna go on a fucking expedition, is that clear? Cause I know that there is a clit. And I’m mean to find out how to touch it. I want women to think of me as a fucking sex god. In due time i’m gonna be the one who’s still going strong when the session is over. And it’s gonna be grand. I read about and hear about all the time that women are “always” left unsatisfied. And it …
/r/seduction03/11/20 12:36 PM
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I'm no pro man. But you could find someone who's open to have an open relationship. Or date several at a time. But personally i'd rather have just one that appeals to my needs and wants. I think i would still look at other women when i'm out and about. But i would still love the same woman who's hand i'll be holding at that time.
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:58 AM
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This comment kinda spoke to me. Also, you're funny :)
/r/seduction30/09/20 10:48 AM
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I like touch to an extent. A hand on your back feels really good when someone shows that they care about you. So does an arm around your shoulders when a friend is being chummy with you. I want to do both of these and more. Without being overly sensitive. Cause i wanna be a guy that is obvious about what he feels about people. And i wanna be caring. But it's nice to know that my friends really do like me despite of me barely doing any of that. :)
/r/seduction28/09/20 08:10 AM
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I bet improving the self image is a good way to remove the fear of flirting with women. Which to be honest, is my personal goal. I don't aim to bang a ton of chicks before i finally settle down and marry, but i'm a pervert so i won't mind getting laid every once in a while. What i really want is to be comfortable around women, and to find someone who'll like me as much as i will like her.
/r/seduction04/05/20 08:23 AM
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I also wondered about that. Then again, would anyone ask what time it is if they had a device that showed what the time was?
/r/seduction23/04/20 02:27 PM
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A complete bombshell can still be something i don't want to date. It's not all about the looks. So i shouldn't automatically assume that a woman is "not in my league" And so what if people think that the woman is better looking than me? Should i not have a pretty woman because i'm not handsome? That's for her to say in that case.
/r/seduction22/04/20 09:07 PM
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Unfortunately, girls work that way. There's proof that you are dating material and you're constantly walking around with the proof right next to ya! And unfortunately some of them don't see that as a sign to back off. Those girls will gladly steal you from your girlfriend. So watch out. Or don't, your choice
/r/seduction21/04/20 02:10 PM
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I'm 26, i hate chasing, i think we should just hang out and/or talk if we're into each other. I don't wanna sit around and pretend that i'm busy, just to get her interested in me. And neither should she. Maybe this isn't how the world works, but this is how i feel
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:33 AM
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I feel like this goes hand in hand with a different post i saw on here. It stated that a man should focus on his hobbies and not girls. Hobbies before hoes? Because girls like a man who can manage without a woman. They don't want to feel needed etc. well that suits me really. I'd love to talk to girls more than i do now. But i'd feel amazing if girls came to me every once in a while. But i'm sure i'll figure out that dating enigma at some point 😜
/r/seduction17/04/20 05:27 AM
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I’d imagine. That one guy they can’t tame or something. Sounds kinda cool to me at least.
/r/seduction25/02/20 05:57 PM
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This actually sounds like a healthy option for me, in terms of communicating with women. But what about the striptease part? I get that you’re supposed to be horny in there. But holy shit! I doubt I could make it without going crazy or embarrass myself. But maybe that just shows that I need more confidence, and experience.
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:13 PM
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I have long thought that if I want to get laid I probably shouldn’t slut-shame the girls that either did sleep with me or didn’t. Some guys decide to slut shame when they don’t get what they want you know? I’d just be working against myself and it’s retarded. That’s what I think
/r/seduction22/02/20 09:33 AM
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Same
/r/seduction12/02/20 11:40 AM
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I think I said at the end that I should handle it in a realistic way. This is just wishful thinking from a guy who’s a total boob with some of the social aspects of life, flirting especially. A lot of my comments on this sub has been whiny, I just realized. Reddit to me, feels like a really good place to vent. But like you said, thinking like this isn’t gonna end well. I know that.
/r/seduction06/02/20 09:50 PM
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I handle it awkwardly. I have a friend who gives me similar compliments occasionally. And I just smile and say thank you
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:38 PM
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I’m basically where you are right now. I’ve learned a lot and grown a lot since I graduated from school. But I still feel shitty sometimes. And I still feel like I’m doing something wrong. And I can over analyze like you do. Sometimes I think I can be happy once I get a lasting relationship. My friends who’ve had experience try to convince me that I won’t be. I think you and I are alike in a lot of ways. And man! I feel your pain. I keep running into issues that feel to big to take care of. And …
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:03 PM
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Fair enough. It’s become clear to me that I have issues with social cues. Thank you for explaining it to me. I was lost but now am found:D
/r/seduction06/02/20 02:47 PM
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Short, and to the point. Thanks!
/r/seduction06/02/20 02:44 PM
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I’ve heard before that girls put out ”traps” for us. “I told him no, but I wanted to say yes” Personally I think this is fucking retarded! I don’t wanna play any games and I don’t feel like walking on a thin line just to seduce a girl. It doesn’t feel worth it to me. Why can’t we just hang if we like each other. And see where it leads from there? Believe it or not I actually love women. And I don’t wanna be single the rest of my life. So I’ll just have to learn all these social cues. Even if I t…
/r/seduction06/02/20 11:49 AM
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Well she sounds awesome :)
/r/seduction23/01/20 05:32 AM
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I think this is so great! Did she somehow know that you didn’t know what to do? I love that she took it in stride and decided to lead on for you. I would love to meet a woman like that. Because I don’t know what to do either. The date doesn’t have to end just because the guy isn’t experienced in dating. Or because he isn’t alpha and don’t know how to/don’t want to lead. I’m not assuming anything about you or judging you. This is how I feel about it. Anyway, I’m happy for you :)
/r/seduction22/01/20 09:31 AM
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I don’t encourage being unhealthy. I was just trying to cheer him up. Maybe I did that in the wrong way, I didn’t think about my comment very long cause I just wrote and posted it.
/r/seduction20/01/20 11:30 AM
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I can buy this. I met a female friend yesterday and she told me: I heard you were interested in one of my kittens. And I said yes! Excitedly. And added, I would love to have a cat, because I love cats! Although I don’t have the money for it, and I’d prefer if it could go out on it’s own. And she seemed to like that I said that. I think it was because I was honest. There might be more to it. But it made me happy :)
/r/seduction20/01/20 09:38 AM
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I’ve heard that girls actually prefer if you’re a little chubby. It’s cuddly and they find it attractive in a boyfriend. And you might be more handsome than you think. That woman smiled back, that wouldn’t happen where I live. Unless you’re a swede too, then I’m insanely jealous XD
/r/seduction20/01/20 09:21 AM
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Holy shit that’s corny XD. Cool that it worked for you! I’m jealous, cause I have similar issues.
/r/seduction20/01/20 09:15 AM
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If your would-be girlfriend decides to leave you because you suck at it, that would just be retarded. Because no one is good at the beginning! Plus she’d only be mad/dissatisfied because even she don’t know how to get herself off. And in that case, it’s high time she discovered how. But I get your worry. Because I’m in the same boat
/r/seduction09/01/20 07:54 AM
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