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| 1 | A Quick Guide On Meeting ModelsI am very interested in this topic. I love meeting new people, especially beautiful girls. I'm definitely going to put your advice to good use. Thanks | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Nothing to say during the date?Get interests, read books | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Can these techniques be applied to a straight woman's game with the same results?I honestly think some of the sidebar/inner game stuff could be helpful to a man or a woman. Knowing who you are, what your boundaries are, giving value are attractive traits regardless of what sex they originate from. I do like friendly women, but I think laughing at a lame joke is sort of unattractive. When I'm with a woman, I like to know she's being genuine and not afraid to speak her mind, regardless of my opinions. | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Have fun. Its the tip that everyone is forgetting.I actually have the opposite problem; I have so much fun being social, I start to lose sight of logistics. It depends on your personality. | /r/seduction | 14/07/13 11:53 PM |
| 1 | A little help with body language?The greatest IOI she can give you is that she's standing there listening to you and not doing something else. | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 08:17 PM |
| -2 | How do you approach random women in public places?Excuse me. Do you mind if I tell you something really quickly. I literally just saw you over there, and I thought you looked really nice. Your dress is cool and your hair looks great. Hi, I'm X | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 09:15 PM |
| 2 | None of the girls I know realize how many people I know, would it be a good idea to start getting into a lot of club photos with these friends?This is not where your head should be. Focus on improving yourself. Real value comes from within and emanates from your physical person. | /r/seduction | 10/07/13 08:52 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what else I need, I feel like I'm the best person I have ever been, and yet I can't get any girlLearn to love the process. Becoming a better man is worth the effort regardless of the women. Also, kill that neediness. | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Solid openers on setsHey. How's it going? | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Does anybody in North America use the Daygame blueprint for daygame?There are clearly differences between day game and night game. One takes place on the sidewalk in broad daylight. The frame is entirely different. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a girl, made her like me very much, but now I don't like her anymore. I'm trying to get on with other girls in the same social circle, but I can sense her watching me. Why do I keep feeling sorry for messing with her emotions?Hey, I really like you as a person, but let's just be friends. You're fun to hang out with, and I know we'll have good times together. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, let's hear your go-to 1st and 2nd date ideas that are conducive to lots of kino.This is so true and needs to be said more often. Exciting, interesting, and playful conversation is so much more crucial than brushing her shoulder, giving hi fives, rubbing her back. Talk about something cool (video you saw, anything) and then, oh I live just right down the street, why don't we check it out? Then initiate kino when you're at your place. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if a girl is interested when she's genuinely that nice to everybody?Don't wait too long to physically escalate. Make your intentions clear: you are interested in her romantically, you are not just another orbiter male in her life. | /r/seduction | 01/07/13 05:41 PM |
| 2 | The "What's your job" shit test and why you may be failing it.Just tell them what your job is. It's so stupid to say you're a rodeo clown. Even if you "fail" the "test" who cares? She should be passing your shit tests, not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 27/06/13 08:12 PM |
| 5 | How would you approach a girl in a situation where the music is so loud you probably wouldn't hear each other even if you were shouting in each other's ears?I've initiated make outs this way without ever uttering a word. | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 05:40 PM |
| 2 | When I do a cold approach, girls seem to turn red when I start talking to them. That's a good thing, right?How do the rest of the interactions go? Are you quickly blown out or do things go smoothly? | /r/seduction | 21/06/13 08:32 PM |
| 1 | So what's the etiquette on first dates? Do I pay or is it cool she pays her own way in?This is another thing men put far, far too much importance into. If you go out and give her the night of her life, she's not going to give a fuck that you went dutch. If you take her out to a super expensive restaurant, build no attraction, it doesn't matter if you paid the bill or not. You're going home alone. | /r/seduction | 20/06/13 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Worried about opening? Worry about closing. Closing is where the fun is.I do think people put far to much importance on openers in general. Get their attention, display confident nonverbals, and commence a conversation. You should be worrying about kino, logistics, and other crucial features that will determine whether you close or not. By the end of the night, the girl isn't going to remember the 'perfect' line you opened with. | /r/seduction | 20/06/13 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Can you trust a good looking PUA's advice?I'm a good looking man. I've actually had a girl reverse PUA me; she stopped ME in the street, told me I was very attractive, and asked for my number. What I'll say about being good looking and PUAing is that women are more likely to find alpha traits to be automatically congruent with who you are. If you just meet someone at a bar, and you're displaying alpha behavior, she thinks: of course he acts that way, he's good looking, he has success with women. Whereas a normal looking guy gets: he's a… | /r/seduction | 20/06/13 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Do not try and weasel your way into her life.I think it's fine to open indirect if it's night game. But after building an initial spark of attraction, I switch to direct. | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 05:08 PM |
| -1 | Why Your Text Game SucksI can't upvote this enough. | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Does facebook affect your game?Facebook is like Napoleon in Asia. A big, big sinkhole, and the beginning of your demise. I've killed attraction via text and fb so many times. It's OK to have a facebook, but don't use it for anything game related. | /r/seduction | 18/06/13 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Seduction advice can help improve your professional life just as much as your sex life. Don't forget that.Awesome observation | /r/seduction | 18/06/13 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Creating Comfort While Keeping Attraction HighThis technique is the opposite of my game. "Comfort" and "rapport" can easily be built through a normal conversation where you display confidence, humor, vulnerability. I don't like to make her feel like she's on an interview. | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 06:58 PM |
| 1 | [Request] How do you greet a girl (physical, i.e. handshake/hug/wave/etc)If you just met her (at bar, club on the street) shake her hand. If you're on day 2, give her a hug. | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 06:53 PM |
| 1 | ~2 years in. 12 more things I wish I knew.Nice write up. | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Using the care-free, have fun, just enjoy yourself, mindset. Not sure what I am doing wrong...(Club/Bar)You need to interact with women. You were around women, but you did not interact with them. The value of dancing does not come from you being really good at it (though it could spark a girl's interest). It comes from the KINO you get to initiate when you're touching/grinding/sweating with a girl. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Club game for introverts...this isn't going to be easyI think people neglect day game when they start out. You get to approach a woman who doesn't have any shields up, give her a compliment, try to get number. You can even end at the compliment if you're just looking to step out of your comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 06:48 PM |
| 2 | first cold approach last night. went terrible.You might think that guys who are good at this have interactions that end well 100% of the time. For me, neutrality/rejection is the norm. Get used to it. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 06:43 PM |
| -3 | How to approach two girls when trying to only get one girls number w/o a wingmanThis. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How to Maintain Attraction en Route?Just fuck in the car. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I can get #closes like a motherfucker, but nobody texts me back. Please help Seddit!You're not spending enough time with them. You're not making enough of a connection. You're just that guy she gave her number to (and there were probably ten of you). When you find a target, hone in, build deeper rapport, change venues, make her have an experience with you. Then when you text her back, she'll be like, oh that's the guy I did X, Y, and Z with and I had a great time. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 09:41 PM |
| 2 | This guide to banter helped me a lotThis guide is rubbish. You want to get good at banter? Go out and talk to girls. Riff with them. Joke around. It's not that hard. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 09:36 PM |
| 12 | Hitting it off with a girl, feeling you could kiss her, but just can't find a right moment? Try this line.I just straight up ask, do you want to kiss me? If yes, kiss. No words, kiss. Firm no, well I never said that you could. | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 08:19 PM |
| 2 | I consider myself a rational, humble, down-to-earth, realistic man. How do I get delusional confidence?There's no such thing as a man without doubts. It's just about being comfortable with who you are. Delusional confidence is not attractive. What is attractive is when you can casually walk up to a girl, talk about things that make you cool and interesting, all while maintaining 0% outcome dependence. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 07:53 PM |
| 1 | The progression of a PUA, from the newbie to the master.Wow. Great. I personally find day game to be harder than night, but to each his own. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 07:49 PM |
| 0 | 6 Things You Can Do Right Now to Get More ChicksThere's some good advice here. I agree that stomaching rejection is a huge part of it, but I don't go into each interaction 'expecting it.' That kind of attitude totally backfires for a person like me. I think about how cool I am and how some ladies are about to <3 me | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 07:47 PM |
| 2 | What is the one activity/hobby/habit that you think makes you most interesting/appealing to women other than Pick Up material?You're primary passion shouldn't be game. You need to have things that are more important than women. I'm first and foremost a writer. Girls love when I read my fiction to them. Also, every so often a girl will text me and I'll just say that I'm working on writing and I don't have time to meet her. This is a great way to make her feel less important. | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 06:16 PM |
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