debatingsquares Archive

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4	What do you do in your free time? I read (sorry but it’s true), mostly fiction. I like rereading books I’ve read before. In a big Murakami phase. I practice calligraphy (drills mostly and then sometimes actual creative art). I used to draw with charcoals but then I moved into calligraphy. I fill up online shopping baskets full of calligraphy supplies and then I usually abandon them. I used to cook. Sometimes I bake. Sometimes I organize things. Sometimes I paint. I plan very intricate remodeling of my house we will likely never …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/19 04:09 PM
1	Would single motherhood really decrease if child support and welfare were abolished? Ok, I have to assume you are trolling me by suggesting that the government get rid of child support and welfare, and actively go in and take those children who would have been provided for in loving homes (some even two parent homes(!)) AND do away with the foster system to put all those children (now many many more than before) in government run orphanages where they are merely fed, clothed and housed (no more). All to spite those people who got need financial assistance to raise their families…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 09:17 PM
1	Would single motherhood really decrease if child support and welfare were abolished? What are you talking about??? Do you know what a foster family is? Why would strangers take care of someone else’s child out of their own pocket? Many foster families have no intention of adopting. And no one wants to adopt older kids with behavioral issues — but they need to be housed, fed, cared for and clothed by some actual humans (the “government” is a concept). There aren’t enough foster parents as is— but you want to take kids away from parents that love them but can’t afford them to give…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 07:31 PM
1	Would single motherhood really decrease if child support and welfare were abolished? Also, why does everyone here seem to think that all single mothers plan on being single and have babies against the will of the potential father? Lots of people were not “single” during conception and birth, but eventually become single mothers when the relationship ends. How would letting the man dump his family and never have to pay for a family he (said he) wanted help reduce the number of single mothers? If a man can just change his mind, and have no financial responsibilities going forwards…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 07:06 PM
1	Would single motherhood really decrease if child support and welfare were abolished? Non-babies are rarely adopted; and when they are, it is because the foster family grew to live them and wanted them to join their family. The foster family you don’t want to exist. How do you think an orphanage is better for children than living with a family which is compensated for their expenses and a little bit for their time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 07:02 PM
1	Would single motherhood really decrease if child support and welfare were abolished? Why does everyone here seem to think that all single mothers plan on being single and have babies against the will of the potential father? Lots of people were not “single” during conception and birth, but eventually become single mothers when the relationship ends. How would letting the man dump his family and never have to pay for a family he (said he) wanted help reduce the number of single mothers? If a man can just change his mind, and have no financial responsibilities going forwards what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 06:59 PM
4	Would single motherhood really decrease if child support and welfare were abolished? So are you advocating for more abortion clinics, abolishing wait times, and forcing men to cover at least half of the cost of the abortion? Because you can’t keep saying “under the law the woman is the only one who has the choice, not the man” if the application of the law renders her choice inert. If she practically speaking can’t get an abortion, then she isn’t “choosing” anything. If she (financially or mentally) can’t afford to spend a week in a hotel listening to how she’s murdering her bab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 06:50 PM
5	Would single motherhood really decrease if child support and welfare were abolished? “Shouldn’t men have some responsibility for the children they father?” “Not if she’s a bitch.” And that is why I set a certain amount of time I can spend on this sub, before I explode.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 06:32 PM
1	Would single motherhood really decrease if child support and welfare were abolished? I’m so confused at what government program can take care of children but that doesn’t pay individual adults to take care of said children (like the foster system, which you said the people who foster should pay out of their own pockets for other people’s children). Orphanages? Would you pay the staff there or are they supposed to pay for it themselves, like foster parents?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 06:28 PM
2	Q4men: what is the minimum threshold of attractiveness that a woman must have in order to be worthy of a middle/ upper middle class man age 25-35 who isn’t hideous? I like you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/19 12:12 AM
1	Is it wrong to choose porn over women? You guys are the only ones who don’t think women are “doing better.” The real life men married to real life women out in the world who aren’t decrying what “looksmatch” they had to settle for, are enjoying conversations and interacting with their 3 dimensional women, who they find funny, smart and interesting and who they— if you can believe it— enjoy talking to!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 06:29 PM
1	Is it wrong to choose porn over women? Or been in a real life long-term adult relationship. Seriously, women have nothing to offer in a relationship other than sex? But I guess if after being in a long term relationship with a woman you find smart, pretty, and sociable, you still prefer porn, stick to the porn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 06:26 PM
1	Is it wrong to choose porn over women? It is hilarious that you think women don’t offer emotional support, because the guy is supposed to be “the rock.” What do you think “pillow talk” is and always has been? What do you think “Hi honey; how was your day?” and listening is and always has been? Women, now and historically, are the emotional outlets for their male partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 06:20 PM
5	What exactly about being college/university educated makes marriages more successful? From the time I’ve spent on womens community apps that are almost exclusively women-centric (affiliated with period tracking apps), I’ve learned several things related to this issue. This is in no particular order: 1) Higher educated women are generally much more choosy about who they want to father their children. They consider the fact that they will be tied to them for the rest of their lives in ways lesser educated women don’t. 2) Higher educated women generally want only one father of their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 05:23 PM
1	Why women make “relationship material” guys wait, but not Chad. You just contradicted yourself. You said “very often the women who give out sex easily are poor LTR material” and then said that the “women [who] mak[e] a guy wait are literally saying the LTR doesn’t excite her as much as the STR guy.” So in the first situation, how fast a woman has sex is indicative of her as a whole person, and in the second, it is indicative of how attracted she is to the person in question. Perhaps it could be that women know that men believe “very often the women who give …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 04:58 PM
2	Q4W : Would you marry a man who won't/can't have children? Won’t and can’t are different. In your scenario? First, I would never marry someone like that anyway because someone who was so concerned about keeping “what was his” in the case of a divorce is not someone I want to build a shared life with. And someone who cares about it so much that THAT was the reason they don’t want kids? Definitely no. If they were normal and just didn’t want kids? No. I want(ed) kids. Husband started rethinking if he wanted kids and we almost broke up over it; as I’ve alw…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/19 03:21 PM