decantered Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I'm losing my Dad to the red pill and the right I feel you. My brother, who I have usually had a decent relationship with, is going that way. I’m reducing contact with him.	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/24 06:53 PM
5	Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled? Yep. Still doesn’t mean other people are promiscuous just because they are dating.	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/24 06:52 PM
26	Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled? Because you date someone for a bit, sleep with them, try on the relationship, realize it doesn’t work, and you break up. Most people don’t find a great fitting relationship on the first try. Maybe it takes, say, 6-9 tries.	/r/ExRedPill	24/02/24 11:46 PM
6	I need help having empathy for women The fact that you’re noticing your lack of empathy is an important first step. Keep noticing when it happens. Good job! Edit: typo	/r/ExRedPill	24/02/24 08:08 PM
6	The blue pill provides nothing that leaves me feeling better compared to the black pill or red pill. It’s easier to blame your genes than it is to look inward at your choices and lifestyle. Easier to blame others’ choices than to take responsibility for your own.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/24 05:56 PM
6	Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men are I feel like this sub has gotten a lot of posts lately about “you know, red pill is totally right.” That ain’t exredpill you know? Anyway, OP, I get the impression that you’re not friends with actual real live women, real friends, not “friends while I stew on how she isn’t sleeping with me.” It’s easier to see why your points don’t match with reality when you’re real friends with women and hear their real experiences.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/24 12:34 AM
3	The basic deal. Time to touch some grass. Interact with real face to face humans more often than you interact with people online. You’ll feel better.	/r/ExRedPill	14/02/24 08:53 PM
3	What's the point of ditching the black/red pill when nothing will change I’ve been in relationships and attracted to men who are considered physically unattractive because they were smart and kind and funny. I find it very unattractive when men assume that I want them for their money. So your life wouldn’t change, you’re saying, but you’ll just add in more hatred for women instead. Idk how that improves things for you. Maybe blaming women will save you from having to actually look at your personality and how you interact with the world around you.	/r/ExRedPill	09/02/24 07:34 PM
4	What's the worst redpill logic you used to buy into? TIL men’s restrooms have fewer toilets. I guess I assumed the urinals were like, extra stuff on top of the normal bank of toilets.	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/24 12:45 AM
1	How many of you dated cluster B women? Good point. I like this sub because it’s people who are trying to overcome that. It gives me hope.	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/24 04:29 PM
5	I feel that my "real - self" will not be enough for her There’s this phase in early dating where everyone feels like this. You like each other, but it’s too early to really know each other, and you get kind of dating imposter syndrome. Ignore the alpha male stuff and just kind of be patient with each other, knowing this is a normal, exciting, nerve-wracking step that everyone goes through.	/r/ExRedPill	16/01/24 08:15 PM
3	How many of you dated cluster B women? So shitty that they did that to you. Anyone can accidentally encounter an abuser, and people who abuse are a frequent enough minority in the population that everyone WILL encounter one. You didn’t do anything wrong and there’s nothing wrong with you. We just gotta learn to get out, and it sounds like you did.	/r/ExRedPill	16/01/24 01:43 PM
3	How many of you dated cluster B women? I wonder whether the redpill philosophy that paints women as having unstable emotions actually causes the men who believe that stuff to be more vulnerable to abuse. If that’s what all women are like, then why fight it? Etc.	/r/ExRedPill	16/01/24 04:25 AM
2	Two dates, she mentioned a third, I asked her out, she said no I completely agree about being direct and clear with a date and time. The only “game” that works with me is being treated like a human, and respectfully. And accepting that we might not be a good match anyway. I also totally agree about meeting people in the community, too. I think a lot of guys fall into the trap of treating women on dating apps like free sex workers, which they don’t do in person. It’s really hard to forge a real connection through dating apps anyway, which are ultimately a lo…	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/24 06:37 PM
5	Two dates, she mentioned a third, I asked her out, she said no This isn’t at all my lived experience as a woman on dating apps. Yeah a lot of dudes message, but the messages are most often just beyond horrible and I spend most of my time blocking. But flirting with 10+ men? Could you imagine? Who has the time and mental energy for that? How would that even work? I’d have to quit my job to manage it. Men who are 100% direct and never wishy-washy come off as not very genuine, and make me feel like an object rather than a person. Some directness is lovely, but…	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/24 05:47 PM
14	Disengaging from negative thoughts Look at regular women in your community, not women on the internet. I’m a regular woman, always been a bit overweight. Every job I’ve been in, men have made a bit more money than me for the exact same work. As an average looking woman, I don’t date very often. I’m fine though. I think this is what you wanted. I’m just a person, bro. It ain’t easier for me.	/r/ExRedPill	12/01/24 01:22 AM