deceptek0n Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Why body language matters [a short essay]		deceptek0n	/r/seduction	20/03/13 07:33 PM

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4	Is anybody awkward at clubs/bars ? It's not my element, so I'm not there. If I do go to a show or something, I'm there for the music and not for people, which probably makes me look more approachable and attractive. If you arent having a good time, it's hard to make it look like you are. If you don't look like you're having a good time, you're going to be less charismatic. Also, I feel that those loud environments work for people who can manage building up attraction through physicality (and alcohol) alone. AKA, traditionally pre…	/r/seduction	03/10/15 07:21 PM
1	How do you transition from general chit chat to expressing your interest and building attraction? being an asshole is a no no, but i think what they really mean is that you should be playful. dont bullshit anyone, especially the girls you meet if you ever want them to respect you. i play around with girls all the time, just like I pal around with my buddies (note: ladies can also be buddies). I crack jokes, call them out when they're bsing (in a light-hearted manner of course), and make fun of them in light/non-offensive ways. the only difference is that sometimes when I do it with a girl an…	/r/seduction	05/08/15 10:26 PM
1	What about drugs? you are getting way too angry way too quick about little details that ultimately come down to personal preference and are inconsequential to the main point, which is a point you apparently agree with me on lol. sure, live your life and dance to any song you want. you think i dont dance when i feel like dancing? you dont have to be thirsty for approval to not want to deter everyone around you from interacting with you. Are you gonna tell me that some drunks AREN'T aggressive and sloppy? Or that y…	/r/seduction	05/08/15 10:15 PM
1	What about drugs? its a crutch. a dangerous crutch at that. just like every drunk thinks he can dance, every dude on molly thinks that girls totally into him when she isnt. High risk of making a fool of yourself. trust me, no one looks as cool as they think they do when they're on any of that shit. stick to alcohol, and if you can manage it, stick to being sober. I honestly prefer sobriety over any other state when picking up girls because I am in full control of myself. and also, how do you plan on following up …	/r/seduction	05/08/15 06:03 AM
3	This subreddit is stressing me out the main point to take away from this subreddit is to be confident. WHATEVER you are, just fuckin own it. So a few girls dont want to blow you. Are you gonna cry about it, or are you gonna wake up and realize "i'm an awesome dude and just because this chick doesnt want me, there are others that do." get out there, make eye contact, be yourself, and your victories will come. the moment girls stop being a big deal to you is the moment you'll start getting them. TRUST ME. but uh... you're 16 so... …	/r/seduction	05/08/15 05:54 AM
14	How do you transition from general chit chat to expressing your interest and building attraction? What works for me is just being open, honest, casual, and comfortable. If I think she looks good in that dress, I'm going to say it, and I don't make a big deal out of it. I don't look for a reaction or try to build on it, I just put that out there mid conversation (when the timing is right, of course.) "You know for whatever its worth, you look gorgeous in that dress." bam. simple. done. Conversation moves on and now she knows that I am attracted to her. Maybe if I make her laugh and can see sh…	/r/seduction	05/08/15 05:27 AM
-6	What is a good first message to send? I usually try to open up with a genuine compliment and a question that allows for a bigger conversation. Typically something based on what she put in her profile. Like if she mentions music, movies, or anime, I'll open up with "You have beautiful hair! What are some of your favorite bands?" "Lovely curves! What are your favorite movies?" "You look really cute in those glasses! Whats your favorite anime?" it sounds cheesy, but honestly it works for me almost all the time. My main point with the w…	/r/seduction	05/08/15 05:13 AM
10	Dear Zachary - A Documentary about the ultimate pussypass. [1hr 30min] I dont care about spoilers. I came in the comment section specifically looking for a big spoiler so I didnt have to waste my time with this houe and a half documentary for something im not sure i entirely care about. if you dont want spoilers, why are you in the comment section lol	/r/PussyPass	31/12/14 06:00 PM
7	Most guys won't really understand this because it is so basic or elusive obvious i think you're missing the point here. While yes he mentions "bad boys" (whatever the fuck that means amiright?), he's clearly more focused on security vs insecurity discussion here. If you are secure in who you are and do not derive your security from the validation of women, isn't it safe to say you will appear much more attractive to them? I also thinks this applies to ladies, too. I don't even like talking to women if they can't teach me something new. Part of being secure is being your own …	/r/seduction	16/04/13 03:57 PM
1	What a lot of beginners don`t seem to understand, I know I didn't. BE the man you want to be. i think if you're trying to improve yourself for the sole purpose of impressing women, you have a lot more to worry about than how cool you look in those jeans. love yourself and others will follow, but don't do it for them. do it for you.	/r/seduction	16/04/13 03:46 PM