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I'm a man and actually really enjoy this sub, share content from it with my gf all the time. I think there are some things that get exaggerated on here (as is the case with most niche subs), but overall yall have a lot of good points. Men need to be held to a higher standard. I truly believe women are doing humanity a favor by refusing to put up with fuckboy nonsense, because doing so will force them to either change their behavior or disappear from the gene pool. Either way it's a win. This sub…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 04:37 PM
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Part of it is that I don't think most men care about cleanliness as much as women, the other part of it is laziness. Why men are this way is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:17 PM
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Best comment I've ever read on here, spot on.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 06:46 PM
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I'm glad you are aware of that, that understanding should help you in the future. My personal opinion: don't segment people up into alpha/beta categories. We all exist on a spectrum and at the end of the day all that matters is whether or not your partner makes you happy.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 02:25 PM
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Sounds like you had a really good girlfriend who put in a lot of effort, you proceeded to fuck up the relationship, and are now backwards rationalizing everything by painting her as a beta so that you don't have to take personal responsibility for what happened.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 02:15 PM
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I know this is a crazy idea to be saying on TRP, but you should've just replied to her message after your date with a positive message of your own. People like it when their feelings are reciprocated, and get insecure when they are not. Or, you know, maybe she's a crazy bitch with a rape fantasy who you should've done a better job of trying to fuck against her objections. Whichever explanation makes more sense to you I guess.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 06:56 PM
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This is the study they are talking about: https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/ The funny thing is that everyone on TRP quotes it, but almost nobody seems to have read the author's conclusions. The authors states that predicting the likelihood of divorce is a complex issue wherein number of partners is only one correlated variable that may very well be spurious (for instance, step-parenting is also correlated with number of s…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 06:35 PM
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So you ghosted the girl you care more about, rather than just try to work through any inadequacies you may be feeling? Aren't you doing yourself a disservice by not trying to be with the girl you feel strongest about?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 05:39 PM
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But that doesn't change the fact that he went out and did work, day in and day out, which is what the quote is about. You can argue the quality of work, but that's a separate matter entirely. I have not read his work so I can't personally comment, but there is a metric fuckton of it, it is critically acclaimed, and he is widely regarded as one of the greatest living authors, so none of your arguments make sense here.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 09:03 PM
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You're getting downvoted because your logic is fallacious. Stephen King's alcoholism and drug abuse did not stop him from cranking out book after book after book. He is one of the most prolific writers of all time and most certainly has been "going to work" for decades now.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 07:32 PM
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Doubtful. Considering the fact that the bottom 25% of men barely hook up with women as it is, there would be little change in the hypergamy dynamic. There would, however, be a large change in the perceived value of males due to a sudden scarcity (even though it would be of largely incel males, it would still be perceived as such). Thus I would expect women to treat the men they are with even better because they don't want the scarce commodity to go away. Also it would probably be much easier for…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 03:29 PM
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Dude, you're a guy, your looks have a relatively small effect on your SMV compared to many other qualities. That self-defeating, fatalist attitude on the other hand...
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:09 AM
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If this is your current situation, why are you starting a thread like this? It seems you are doing just fine.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:27 AM
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If this is your current situation, why are you starting a thread like this? It seems you are doing just fine.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:27 AM
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I don't usually agree with people on TRP, but this is one of the better though out, tempered opinions I've read on here. That being said I still don't think that men define the rules of the sexual marketplace any more than women do, as the marketplace is always in a state of negotiation between the two sexes.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 12:37 AM
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Cancel? There were never plans in the first place! She said maybe, nobody bothered to clarify, so I would have not assumed it was on in the first place. What's not alpha about all of this is dissecting it to death and honestly giving a shit. No plans were made, she says the next day that she wants to meet up when she gets back, why is this even an issue?
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:15 PM
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She said maybe. That maybe didn't end up working out. Being all pissy about it and demoting her "ranking" is child's play. For all this talk about being alpha y'all get butthurt about stuff like this way too easily. This is a non-factor and should be treated as such. Only address this if it becomes a pattern.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 09:58 PM
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Sure, let's just assume the worst and decide that she is a lying, manipulative skank. That is what someone who is paranoid of women would say.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 09:56 PM
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So entitled. People have shit to do that doesn't always revolve around their love lives. She is clearly still showing plenty of interest, and if you can't see that I can't help you
/r/askTRP14/01/16 08:38 PM
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wut. she had a legitimate reason why she couldn't make it plus told him it was doubtful in advance and then sent an apology and follow up message the next day. Women have lives too dude jesus
/r/askTRP14/01/16 07:38 PM
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I'm not even talking about that, I'm talking about this little gem: "Oh, but no sex with you, probably ever, but not until she has exhausted every other option and is 35, desperate for a baby and had ridden the cock carousel for 10-15 years. At that point you're supposed to be 'grateful' that you won 'the prize' of her 'love' stank, used-up pussy after she's given all of her prime time years to bar flies, musicians and outlaw bikers." All because she's a 17-year-old girl that doesn't know what s…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 06:49 PM
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Except its not the truth. Some women are like that, but all this AWALT talk is not only intellectualy lazy, but can seriously fuck people up who take it too seriously.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 03:47 AM
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Jesus dude you're talking to a 17 year old. Surely you have to see your advice is a massive over-generalization and horribly jaded to boot.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:13 PM
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Your wife is on the verge of providing you with a child via an extremely painful and anxiety-inducing method known as pregnancy and your response is to play head games and not be her emotional support when she needs it the most. And why? Because the sex isn't the greatest when she's 9 months pregnant. Congratulations, you are a shithead and this post is the epitome of why so many people hate TRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/15 04:17 AM
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Having an "Active well adjusted social life" is a lot different than creating scenarios where the woman you supposedly care about is put in a position of jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 06:58 AM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 06:57 AM
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Sure. But still, why are these other completely valid and important topics completely ignored by TRP? Because they do not care about finding a truly fulfilling relationship with a woman. They take their analysis as far as what will get them laid, and then they abruptly stop. That's why they get such a bad rap, because they do not care to take their thinking any deeper than to what will result in sex. It's sad because I think a lot of the guys on TRP used to really want a solid relationship with …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 12:05 AM
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Fair enough, a lot of people are that way. They are the shitty ones. But that does not mean that such behavior/outlook is the mechanism of attraction for the whole human species. There is, for example, the whole realm of personality-level compatibility, which is something that TRP does not touch on at all even though I would argue that it has a tremendous impact on who we find enjoyable and attractive. The fact that this kind of thing never gets addressed is pretty telling about the whole TRP me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 11:51 PM
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Well seeing as how this is a site with a bunch of anonymous posters who have lives that I know nothing about, all I can really do is read their words and infer what their general mentality is about women. All I have been able to surmise is that the vast majority of men on TRP like to have sex with women but do not see them as being valuable beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 11:21 PM
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As a person who used to hold onto quite a few red pill ideologies, I'd just like to say that is an incredibly skewed view of how TRP comes across. TRP is rarely if ever the place where casual, accepting, and non-condescending remarks on the nature of women take place. I'd venture to guess a minimum of 80% of TRPers have some unresolved resentment towards women, it just oozes out of so many posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 08:10 PM
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Yes but dating significantly younger women can provide that as well when you're in your 30s. You completely missed his point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 07:58 PM
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I think a good point here is that it's sad that you need dread game to keep your woman around. There are plenty of people who are experiencing fulfilling, happy relationships (with hot women too!) who do not need to worry about having anything more than an active, well-adjusted social life. The problem with TRP is that they make it seem like if someone is not "spinning plates" at all times then girls will lose interest. Here's an idea: how about you try becoming a person who is inherently intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 07:32 PM
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I'm sure you deeply care about all the women you are not sexually attracted to, I bet you go out of the way to "notice" them and breathe in their humanity in a way that only a man could /s Geez dude as a guy who subscribed to certain red pill notions back in the day, it is amazing to see how bitchy and misogynistic this community has become in the past five years. Y'all need help
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 03:07 AM
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Isn't everyone's love somewhat transactional? I'm not understanding why a woman's love is somehow more transactional than a man's and I'm very curious to know why you think this way when it seems like men have their own way of being "transactional". The way I see it both sexes have some element of desiring a certain thing out of the opposite sex, and also have some element of enjoying the opposite sex purely for who they are as a person (that is to say, non-transactionally).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 02:45 AM
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