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I am not a booty call or one night stand My children have never known their father. Wat
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/22 07:42 AM
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I was confused when i first heard the term "ratchet". I am not confused anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/22 01:08 PM
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Personally, i'd avoid them like the plague. Others say, they might be good to hang out with or for hookups. All opinions are universal though in that you never marry one. There's tons of liabilities and problems that you would be inviting into your life. Because now that she got kids, her focus shifts 100% to survival and she'd be looking for a utility man and ATM.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/22 08:53 AM
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They are hoping to trigger men's innate protective instincts. So a guy who's blue pilled might think to himself "i will save her and treat her and the kids good and in return she will love me". What he doesn't know is that he's just a cleanup man to sweep away all her problems. She doesn't really desire him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/22 10:59 AM
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Search for dual mating strategy. In this case she thought she could lock down those bad boys that she really desired if she had their kids. It didn't work out, shocker there. So now that she's gone through some hardship, she thinks she's "matured" and is willing to give a guy she thought was below her a chance to be with her. Because hey, that 9 out of 10 slept with her so you average guy should count yourself lucky to even be close to her. 0 thought about how the man sees it. It's all about her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/22 09:43 AM
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Did some searching... yep. Comes out at around 38-40k a year to sit around a machine for hours and watch it fold papers and shut it down when it gets stuck and needs to be unjammed. Not exactly a confortable living there with a kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/22 08:04 AM
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Further notice how it's "my child" when she wants validation online as being a protective mother and wants her will but it's "our child" when she's trying to guilt trip him and sell him on this bs idea. Basically he's the bad guy at all times. Selfish doesn't even begin to cover it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/22 07:39 AM
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I actually believe her when she says she's not a feminist. Anymore. It happens around the time when the wall approaches and they realize they are going to have to work 20-30+ more years before they can retire and on top of that they usually got kids to take take of. That's when they shift into the "i want to feel weak and taken care of" persona. Too bad for them they can't undo time and their bad life choices.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 09:40 AM
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i like real people i let you see only the superficial meaty part 🤦‍♂️ Cognitive dissonance is a hell of a drug.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 09:22 AM
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She seems like one of those "the universe is going to fix my life" girls. I guess magical space man is going to fall from the sky and give her that "special" connection even though she admits she's hard to connect with and has no time to get to know someone because of the kid. Gotta wonder if she even thought this through for more than a sec.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 11:14 AM
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If the case is not what the other replies mention then i have to ask the hard question which you don't have to answer. Are you a virgin? If no, then you can't expect dating/marriage when giving it up to other men without commitment first. If yes, then you have to understand that in the current post MeToo climate, lots of men are wary of approaching women because it takes only 1 false accusation to ruin his life. Add to that that men don't want to be rejected and made fun of in front of her frien…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 10:18 AM
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The thing she describes is exactly what used to happen 50+ years ago. It was called courting. It reminded me of the scene in Godfather with Michael courting Apolonia. She gets introduced formally by the social group (family) and with the father's permission he asks her out. Funny, maybe i am crazy but i get the idea that this method was widely used because *gasp* maybe it actually worked. But no, women thought they knew better so now they get to enjoy a messed up dating market they created and c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 01:44 PM
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I guess because she's taking care of her kids. Single moms patting themselves on the back for doing what they should be doing and raising the kids that they made the decision to have in the first place... So stunning and brave!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 11:09 AM
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Be loved...riiiiiight. Loved for your wallet maybe. Other men got her womb and her body at it's peak but now you can get her saggy boobs and another man's kids. Complete with her shaming you if you don't step up and save her now that she needs a bailout. What a bargain... Honestly makes me depressed that women like her are commonplace now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 10:22 AM
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Damn, she must have really got played and tossed around by Chad and Tyrone if she's looking to settle down with a safe guy at such a young age. Too bad for her, men have standards for a relationship. Being relatively chaste is at the top. Until more women really understand this, they're gonna keeping shooting themselves in the foot with their lifestyle and then continue to whine about it online. More content for this sub though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 08:44 AM
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Those are the US stats i take it? In my country (Greece) they really started focusing on what they've named as "femicide" now. Basically husband/boyfriend deleting wife/girlfriend. 5 years ago i barely remember any such cases. Then the bug hit and people got cooped up in homes and this stuff rose. They never talk about the woman goading and provoking the man though or them choosing bad boys as you said. There was one case of a woman that got deleted by some karate instructor with priors for dome…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/22 12:17 PM
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The truth is, at that age this woman is already set in her ways and life. There's no changing her mind about anything, building something new with her or anything to invest on. She just wants the man to come fit into her frame now and basically be her beast of burden. The "respect" she mentions is just code for you to treat her like a queen while she treats you like a peasant. No wonder she only gets pump and dump. What sane man would want that much responsibility without any authority?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/22 02:49 PM
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School of life Code for nagging, bitching, combative pain the ass. I am sure she ran her man out. And now wants to find "love" at middle age. She's better off getting another dog. Hope she didn't get that dog in the divorce too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 09:54 AM
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If you ask if she's a virgin though, she's gonna blow a gasket... Guess that would be too traditional for her. As usual, many want only the good parts of the traditional relationship without reciprocating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 09:42 AM
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She doesn't even come close to being a "warrior". She's more like a zombie just stumbling through life, working some job that she hates because she's got kids without a father now and someone gotta take care of them. I can read the bitterness in her words. She used sex and booze to cope with that void in her heart that will never be filled. Damaged beyond repair. Why does she need a man now i have no idea. Probably needs someone to use as an emotional tampon and punching bag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 10:14 AM
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It's just a term used to defeat youtube censorship as if you write 304 on a calculator and turn it upside down it spells hoe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/22 11:07 AM
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Slang for hoe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/22 07:14 AM
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Spiritual smokes regurarly dreamcatcher on wall Probably a healing crystal, pot addict nutjob. If that's the case then i don't know how much i'd buy that her ex is the problem. She calls him a psycho but says he doesn't want her not the other way around. She's definitely still hung up on him. Maybe he just didn't give her the commitment after seeing how she behaves and doesn't want strange men that she associates with to be around his kids. Could be reading too much on to it . She's a train wrec…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 11:34 AM
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To answer her question, men can do that because women find it attractive and other men want to be it. So both accept it. For women though, like it or not showing a lot of skin is frowned upon by both men for relationships and by other women too no matter what they say. Remember the skirts they wore in the 50s? Remember also how much more respect women got back then? But some "smart" women said we want to free our sexuality, to use it as a weapon and a tool to get attention and stuff from men. Th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 02:44 PM
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- Look at her past relationships and how long they lasted. If her ex treated her bad but she stayed with him for 2 years for example, you have your answer. - Check her friends. Are they single party girls or girls in serious relationships? Her friends are going to influence her behavior a lot. - How into it she is in bed with you. The girl above describes her ex as passionate but her fiance as very very stable. You can tell she settled for him after growing out of her hoe phase.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 09:40 AM
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I thought about the monkey branching because women in serious relationships will usually dress more conservatively in order not to attract attention. But the woman above still wants to dress like a party girl, so she's at least considering keeping her options open. It's the usual case of her wanting you to provide a traditional relationship but still wanting to act like a modern woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 01:54 PM
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Translation: I am an attention black hole and want to keep my options open in case of a monkeybranching opportunity. You also don't get sex because i had my fun and my kids need a walking ATM now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 10:38 AM
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I laugh whenever a single mom says that bs of "strong and independent". She's actually the most dependent of all and at the weakest position. What happens if she has a break-in? She depends on 911 to save her. She's dependent on the government for welfare. Baby daddy for child support. Uber eats etc. because she either can't cook or has no time to do so while balancing job time/children. Nanny/daycare because again no time for the kids. Ironically, she's dependent on random men too because if an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 08:23 AM
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Don't know why they still want to cling to that "strong independent" bs image. It's making her miserable, men hate it and it's not giving her what she says she wants. I suppose it's just the sunk cost fallacy. She dumped all those years/money chasing that career and degrees so now she has to make it work by any means necessary. We are definitely going to see more and more women having that epiphany phase and finding out they were lied to by womanism. Will they wake up eventually and warn others …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 10:25 AM
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shopping morals and values are a must dominant Basically: "i expect you to be a traditional man and provide and pay for all my needs because i am a queen and i deserve it, while i will be modern bringing children from another man and an attitude" Quintessential example of present year single mom who didn't fall far from the tree.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 09:52 AM
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Musings of an Alpha Widow Vol. 1-46, Post post Wall Edition
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 09:27 AM
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I think they also project what they feel when getting rejected on to men. If she gets rejected for sex, her whole world is shaken. We have seen plenty of examples of women not being able to handle rejection. Whereas when a guy is rejected, it's just another day that ends in -y. So she rejected you thinking "i sure showed him, that must hurt" and you're like "meh i wasn't going to get any anyway".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 02:37 PM
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Why do they think men want to know this and that telling them is effective? 1) They conflate their SMV with their RMV. They think because a man will sleep with them and like if she has experience in the sack that he will also give them a relationship. Totally wrong. 2) They don't know what men actually want. They fried their brain on the CC, media brainwashing 24/7 etc. so they're projecting their desires onto men. They like men with sexual experience, status, money, bad boy characteristics so t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 10:54 AM
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I read this fantasy drivel and then i look at the reality and stats and shake my head. Vast majority of criminals come from single mother households and crime has exploded, alchoholism in women has increased a lot along with antidepressant use. More women are becoming homeless, more women than ever are selling themselves online, women are dying from "broken heart syndrome" of being miserable and alone the rest of their life asking the big question this sub represents. More women than ever are co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 10:18 AM
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She's talking about insecure men while she's completely caked in makeup and filters in her picture. Seriously, she looks like some uncanny valley android or something. Also unrelated but why do they put female guards in male prisons? What did they think was going to happen? These women can't control themselves around the bad boys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 12:34 PM
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It's just pragmatism and being a realist. No misogyny there. I also wish things weren't this way but because they are, you have to protect yourself from getting taken advantage of. You shouldn't compromise your morals no matter what bad names they might attribute to you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 11:22 AM
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Grinds my gears when they put ths positive spin on things that are obviously faults. "She's not crazy, she's quirky! She's not obese, she's plus size! She's not a hoe, she's sex positive!" ffs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 11:45 AM
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It's over i think, she's a ticking time bomb. It won't be long before she will look to get that excitement for Chad back. It will start small, finding faults in her husband, maybe he works too much, not enough attention etc. so she can rationalize her cheating on him in her mind. That's why they say you don't save these kind of women from their pasts. They are broken and they don't want to be saved. They like the misery. Your kindness will come across as weakness and end up backfiring most of th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 02:21 PM
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Just get a dog already if you want someone that neutered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 09:27 AM
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In the calculator if you type 304 and turn it upside down it spells HOE. Code language used to defeat youtube censorship that then stuck around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 12:26 PM
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She's so tired of hookups, but when Chad comes and whispers a few sweet nothings into her ear she breaks her "celibacy" just like that...Honestly the only thing i'd say to her is that you got what you actually deserved. What self-respecting woman let's a random dude she just met cover her hair in his juice? Serious question. You treat yourself like a human sexdoll and expect the man to treat you differently. No. Act like a lady, with standards etc. and get lady's treatment. Act easy and like a 3…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 10:18 AM
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This "looking for friendship" on a dating app is a such a slippery slope. If you will accept she's going to consume your attention and time maybe even your money and you'd be lucky if you get her to reciprocate anything. I can just hear it now: " My car is acting funny. Can you take a look?" "Oh i need to move this couch but it's too heavy. Can you help?" "I need to do this thing but i got my kids. Can you look after them for me?" Don't be in that position.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/22 12:07 PM
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She sealed the deal with the "not your business" when asked about her past. She's going to marry this guy and presumably spent the rest of her life with him (unless it's the usual bait and switch divorce situation) and she's already openly keeping secrets from the start. A serious relationship built on lies. Good on the guy for realizing it and getting the hell out of there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 09:32 AM
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Someone has to really drill it in their heads that 1) being a single mom is going to be a burden to any man (RP aware or not) 2) OLD is primarily for hookups as most serious guys there have left after seeing 0 success and 3) men in that age range are either invisible to them due to their unrealistic standards or have too many options and can just pick and choose who they want. We talk about this kind of stuff here and elsewhere but we are shamed and called names. Unless women are willing to list…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 07:14 AM
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Yes it's exactly what you say. If you don't know him already you could watch Kevin Samuels, he talks about that stuff and i think the 70% figure is pretty accurate from memory. I think it was Denzel Washington who said that if a boy doesn't have a father home, he will find one in the streets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 06:34 AM
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All these tags are connected now. Someone can't be pro BLM without also being pro womanism, anti-gun, pro open borders etc. anything that subscribes to the "liberal" political side. Majority of single moms have to be on the left side. Their very existence relies on it. Communitarian lifestyle i.e. welfare state is the lifeblood of single moms. They have their fun and then want other people to fund their mistakes. The state through the taxpayers acts as the father to their kid. So for it to conti…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 09:21 AM
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Heh, says she wants something real but the first word that comes to mind when i see her is fake. Fake eyebrows, fake eyelashes, fake nails, fake lips, fake personality. Actions speak louder than words. And her actions show she is as far removed from "traditional catholic girl" as possible. It's only now that she's starting to approach that Wall that the "devout good girl" persona comes out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 09:00 AM
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Complete trainwreck. Her child looks pretty grown up so she was definitely a teen mom. Guaranteed no father presence anywhere in her life. She's a kid with a kid. Still got braces on even... I want to feel bad for her situation but just can't anymore. After seeing all the avalanche of these single moms who don't learn from their mistakes but rather try to stick the man with the bill for their bad decisions, any sympathy i may have had is gone. Sucks for the kid though, as it's going to grow up w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 08:43 AM
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That's the problem, they don't realize this. They want to have their hoe phase and then when they get bored/broken find the retirement plan marriage most likely. That's why you should make it clear that's she's just a FWB and will never get something long term out of you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 10:31 AM
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Or living on the taxpayer's expense + child support.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 03:30 PM
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Don't you know by now? Her money is her money but if it is the other way around you're a bad person. Seriously, i've seen articles where if the man puts barriers on her spending or has an account that she doesn't have access too, he is commiting financial abuse which equates to domestic abuse. No joke.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 03:19 PM
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Intelligent and marrying a single mom are completely antithetical. Female delusion calculator gives her a cat enthusiast rating haha. Do these women even know how small the percentage of 6'+ft men are? Guess not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 03:43 PM
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Funny how all these single moms expect you to be an altruist while they act completely for their own self-interest. "Love me for me" ...will she in turn love you for you though? Nope. Only the resources you provide. If she did, she would be with you and have your kid instead of trying to assign you with clean up duty for her bad life choices.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 03:15 PM
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Professional welfare recipient
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 10:41 AM
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It's primal i think. Sexy son hypothesis, basically deep down they want those good genes for their offspring and it overrides any caution about long term problems that come with it. Also they probably think they can lock that bad boy that gives them the "tingles" down through pregnancy, thinking he might change or stick around. Rude awakening for them when he doesn't and then they try to pawn off their kids/baggage to the safe provider guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 09:45 AM
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Sweet old ladies/grandmothers would be the ones. But then, they understood that life is a give and take and you can not have everything. Majority of women are walking around today with that "i deserve the world just because i exist" attitude. No wonder they are miserable when the delusion they build in their heads gets wrecked by cold hard reality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 08:41 AM
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One youtuber i've watched (Darius M) says rightly that these broken single moms are not looking for love, they are looking for help. Once you understand that, things will start to make a lot more sense. She's basically desperate, into survival mode and will pull all the stops to garner that sympathy and hoping for her a man to come and take on the burden of all her issues/baggage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 09:25 AM
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Impulsiveness, promiscuity. If we get further into it, it signifies mental issues. Generally people (especially women) who alter their natural appearance have some form of untreated trauma. Could be absent parents, abuse, the death of a child in her case. Basically their turmoil inside manifests outwardly and in their behavior. If i had to guess, she is another child of a single mother with no father in the picture and she followed her mother's footsteps. Combine that with her child dying and it…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 09:17 AM
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I think it's intentional on some level. She's taking the victim position to garner maximum sympathy throughtout her whole post. When she's explaining why she did what she did it's all "i wanted to be free" and "find myself" and other similar bs. And when the consequences of her actions smack her right in the face, she's all "i was wrong, i still love him" "i am bettering myself now"... Yeah no, she's only sorry she lost that sure thing and for finding out that her value to men in the market has …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 03:50 PM
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I don't even know what to say. That hamster and rationalizations are going into full maximum overdrive. I find it very funny thouh that she says "us not working on our relationship". Just wow. After spending most of the text saying how she didn't want to work on anything and he did nothing but try that, she still makes him out like he's at fault too. The old saying about women and accountability comes to mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 08:48 AM
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I know the "bad boy" persona works but personally i just can't do it. I'd rather keep it moving. Plus in 2021 with a single accussation being able to destroy a man's life, you don't know what sort of bs she might try to pull when she feels like it. But if you got the game and confidence and know what you're doing, sure go for it. Just make it abuntantly clear that you only see her as a FWB situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/21 07:41 AM
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I've read situations similar to yours so many times. They pretty much always end the same way. Girl chases Chad. Chad uses and then dumps Girl or she gets pregnant and he bails. Girl looks to pawn off her baggage/child from Chad to the guys she rejected before. I would say you should expect her to reach out to you in the coming months. Get your karma by rejecting her in turn hehe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 11:14 AM
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Yeah, fact is most women want that mythical Alpha Bux. The problem for them is that these men are rare and they will absolutely get what their value is worth. That means no 43 year old separated leftover women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 11:02 AM
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Women are social creatures. They need and function better as part of a group. This is why for example in highschool a girl's worst nightmare is basically getting ostracized by her peers, commiting social suicide. It's also why they tend to want a more communitarian lifestyle let's say, that values security above freedom. Strength in numbers so to speak.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 10:06 AM
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I don't think they can really stop it at this point. The younger generation are definitely becoming aware. Example, i haven't visited 9gag in years and just went out of boredom recently to check it out again. Top posts and even top comments were talking about similar stuff we talk here. I was surprised by how "based" they actually were. And that site has an international crowd of mostly middleschoolers/highschoolers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/21 09:15 AM
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The ship has long sailed for her. She could still find a man but it won't be in the age range she wants that is a man's peak years. He will be in his 50s maybe divorced, maybe with kids from a previous relationship. That good, hard working devout Christian man that she wants has a wife already that's 10 years younger than him probably. Then we have the fact that she chased her career. We all know what that means. Traits of stubborness, assertiveness, will look down on you if you don't match her …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 07:30 AM
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This "i know what i want" mentality that she's projecting on to you is the reason that's keeping her single. Who cares what she wants? She can want the top of the top man, that doesn't mean she's going to get him. Instead she should adjust her expectations back down to reality. And since men are the buyers and she the seller, she should find out what men want. But i doubt she'll do that. So she will remain another case of "gave my best years to random losers but now that i am older and with bagg…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/21 03:13 PM
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Read somewhere that the picture is meant to be advertisement for the bad boy whereas the description is for the stable beta man. And that women who say the "done with games" "was used" etc. bit will still give it up easily for a man that gives her the "tingles". From what i've seen from other similar profiles i'd lean towards that being true. In any case, her tattoos are a giant red flag that she is impulsive so no surprise if she says one thing and ends up doing another. That's why you watch th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/21 02:56 PM
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Wait, she has shared custody? Knowing how frequent women get full custody, she might have some other serious red flags for the court not to grant her that. I can only guess, but maybe the man isn't as horrible as she implies? Still though, anyone who's stupid enough to get into this situation is going to have to deal with him, her children and her demands. Don't be this woman's cleanup crew.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 09:34 AM
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Yeah, i think it's like a chain. First you have to be good with yourself, get friends, hobbies etc. before you let someone else in to complement your life. If not then what's going to happen is that one of the two is going to use and abuse the other for emotional validation and end up getting both miserable. Hang in there miss, don't give up the fight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 09:22 AM
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Honestly, why does every single mom dating profile have messy clothes just lying around in the background? But then, i suppose being tidy requires a degree of discipline which is antithetical to being a single mom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 09:32 AM
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if you can't handle that Here we go with the no accountability again. By her own admission she's a raging mental case but instead of i don't know... maybe fixing herself first before she invites another person in her life, no no it's you who is at fault if you cannot handle her. No sympathy for people like this. They actively seek destruction and chaos in their lives and then blame everyone else when their decisions backfire on them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 10:49 AM
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9 to 5 job. And since she hasn't had one in 10 years, i'd say she's getting that nice alimony/child support/government benefits to waste on being an "investor".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 10:08 AM
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Yeah, she's broken. She still craves that emotional rollercoaster. Her husband is just "too safe" and boring for her. Willing to bet big money she will either bring up the talk of an open relationship or just straight cheat on him behind his back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 08:42 AM
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I have to ask the question: she thought she'd be married years ago....then why didn't she? It's always the same thing with posts like this. "I wanted to be a mother/wife/settle down for so long but i am 30-35+ years old now and it hasn't happened yet blah blah". People who actually want something go after it. She doesn't really want marriage, she just fears missing out and feeling like a failure compared to her friends.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 08:31 AM
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Maybe i am cynical and reading too much into this but she seems like a golddigger to me. Or at least that she used to be some monied guy's other woman and he was handling them both. That's how the "3rd party" and "beg to be loved" and "seen/heard" fit i think. She also says: - She's interested in money 2 times and is "very ambitious". - Interested in a "real man". We all know what that means. - Wants to experience love without trust/commitment issues: give me access to your bank account and comm…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 07:35 AM
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Damn, she looks like a blowfish. Puffy face and swollen lips. Plastic surgery maybe? The irony of her anthem. And she wants you to qualify for her when she doesn't even qualify for herself....Good that she's a cat lover already because that will be her future with that attitude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 11:29 AM
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The question post menopausal women like her have to ask themselves (but of course they won't) is: Why would a guy that has all she is describing go for her and not for a 15-20 year younger girl?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 10:25 AM
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I've seen many examples of this type of relationship play out from both sides. She has broken her pair bonding ability completely chasing the "toxic men" and the guy is trying to fix her. It pretty much always ends up the same way. The guy will continue to play the nice guy while she will continue to push him away. Deep down she knows she doesn't deserve kindness. As fucked up as it may sound she knows she is the "toxic men's" plaything and that's what she wants to be. Eventually she will turn o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 09:58 AM
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Men and women are different. The man can play the field if he's able and then settle down later in life. The woman can't without serious consequences later in life. She gets her highest value up front. If she invests the highest value wisely early (marriage minded) she can get the highest value man that she wants. If not, she's going to end up most likely like the woman in this story. It is what it is. There's double standards on both sides.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 03:40 PM
4

This conditional femininity attitude is another big problem. She will be submissive and kind only if you put her on a pedestal and treat her like the kWEeN she is and and and....f off with that. Who are you to set such conditions at 35 years old? Femininity is not something you just turn off and on whenever you want. Either you are or you aren't. And who's to say you won't run away at the first sign of trouble? Very common nowadays. Lose your job, suffer a injury, can't provide as much etc. and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 11:38 AM
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Looks like a typical childless wine aunt. As usual, she could have had all that she's asking for if only she had the foresight to look for that while she was still young and attractive. She chased the career or rode the CC or threw her ex out, doesn't mention, but the point is she squandered everything she could potentially offer a man. The harsh truth for her is that the men in her age range with money to spent can get 10-15 year old younger women. Why would they ever settle for her wrinkling o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 10:47 AM
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Haven't seen it no. But i read the synopsis and it sounds worth watching. Thanks for the recommendation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 11:05 AM
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The basic rules haven't really changed much i think. What's changed is many women's unrealistic standards and sense of entitlement nowadays + family court etc.. A man and woman both used to know that to chase after a top tier catch you had to put in top tier effort. Because that top tier man/woman had lots of options to choose from. Or you could do what most people used to do, like your mother yes, go for a more average person and build a bond with them over time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 03:45 PM
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Yeah, being a responsible adult= oppressive patriarchy in present times. Crazy world we're living in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 09:33 AM
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when they are put in a situation Again with the passive language. Last time i checked it was a crime to be forced to do something sexual you didn't want to. No, you put yourself in situations like that. You are afraid to say no because you know if you do, the guy you actually want that has options, is not going to wait around for you. Stop shifting the accountability. Either you are an adult that has agency in your actions or you don't. Can't have it both ways whenever it's convenient.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 09:13 AM
49

She's not for the streets. She's for the sewers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 11:22 AM
9

To find out how she really feels turn it around. Would she still say the guy made a "mistake" if he was the one that was cheating? Or would she call him every horrible name imaginable and say she shouldn't reconcile with him and that he's using her and she can do better etc. My guess is the second.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 06:58 AM
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Fake eyelashes, heavy filters, makeup, looks to be wearing contacts too...what does she really look like under there i wonder... 23 years young Forever a teenager i suppose. That's how you end up pregnant and on dating apps begging for someone to bail you out. You're supposed to get wiser with age you know. Last sentence = i act like a bitch normally but if you pay for all my stuff, i might throw you some starfish sex if i am in the mood or order you some food online every once in a while. 😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 06:52 AM
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Daddy issues i imagine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 12:42 PM
15

Seriously what is it with these single moms, why are they all exactly the same? Fat, tattoos, attitude, think they are hot shit... Nightlife Functioning alchoholic and serial CC rider... another single mom classic!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 07:40 AM
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Read between the lines and it makes sense. My guess is she did something seriously wrong and knows it in hindsight. She wants sympathy now though and revealing the real reason would get her criticism instead. Basic lying by omission. A man like she describes doesn't just up and leaves one day wihout a significant reason. He probably thought on it long and hard and just went through the motions without saying anything until he couldn't anymore. That's why she felt blindsided by him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 07:27 AM
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Sometimes i wonder whether women like this realize how basic they actually are in 2021. I mean, i know better but she must be living in some special kind of delusional bubble to not see that she is single mom #448668 complete with "unique snowflake" attitude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 01:22 PM
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the right person This is the problem right here. I read somewhere about a poll or a study where it asked men and women if they would settle for a partner who had 80% of what they were looking for. Surprise surprise, men overwhelmingly said yes but vast majority of women said no. 80%! She had to keep chasing that perfect man instead of you know making it work with an average guy and get what she says she wants. Her fear of missing out and feeling like a failure must be going crazy right now. 2 wa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 01:49 PM
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less than what i deserve Ah shit, here we go again... brang out on dates The only thing she deserves is to go back to elementary school.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 09:47 AM
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Seen similar stories like this one too many times. The guy sounds like a genuinely good guy. Took care of her, dated her, wined dined, guaranteed waited for sex even i'd bet. And then he finds out the truth about her. The realization that he wasted all his time, effort, money on her while she got with random dudes for wayyyy less. It must feel like getting stabbed in the heart. As for the pos commenters, if you have to actively hide something from your long term partner that means you know it's …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 07:24 AM
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She's not looking for a replacement daddy but also not looking for just hookups???.....Ahhhh yeah the usual..she's looking for a walking talking ATM. Take care of her and her kid without getting anything in return. And judging by how triggered she got, expect to be the punching bag for her emotional outbursts. RUN for your lives men!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 03:06 PM
12

The fucking entitlement of this woman. She literally looks like that laid off journalist meme, 0 femininity and pregnant with another man's kid and yet expects a top tier man to take her as she is. Her last sentence is just pure narcissism fuel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 02:37 PM
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Yes, it's everywhere. The ultimate modern female heroine for these people just acts like a spoiled teenager basically. Listens to no one, thinks she's always right, hyperemotional, argues just for the sake of it, gets free shit without having to work for it. No wonder many women act like this when these are the supposed "heroes" of today.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 09:56 AM
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Men don't say "i deserve" because most of us have to live in reality. Nobody owes you anything and if you don't perform, you will probably die in a ditch somewhere. Women can live in fantasy because they got lots of safety nets to save them from their bad decisions and shame anyone who might try to break them free from their delusion. That's the reality. I personally think "i deserve" is one of the biggest red flags actually. It just reeks of pure narcissism and entitlement. Women like the above…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 09:36 AM
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- " I am not like the other girls" = is exactly like all the other girls - "Strong" = arrogant, entitled - "Independent" = Collecting child support and/or government assistance - " I deserve" = The reason she's not going to find what she wants
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 06:19 AM
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Damn, i really feel for the guy. I wonder if him having a shitty childhood made him instinctually not wanting to turn like his father so he ended up overlooking the girl's red flags. The getting pregnant while on pill may have been an indication that something's not exactly right. And these sheltered women often times end up having an overlong rebellious phase way past their usual in their teenage years and destroy their lives as a result.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 02:46 PM
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She can get a relationship easy. Her problem is that she can't get it with the guy she actually want. She engaged in that culture and now that she found out that that top percent guy, that most women like her go for, has tons of options and won't settle for her, she laments her fate. She could, you know, do some introspection and maybe maybe lower her standards or be willing to sacrifice (gasp!) something to get what she says she wants but...good luck with that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 09:12 AM
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As Basic as can be. She's got all the usual tells: single mom, overweight, tatoos, attitude, entitlement, post wall, got kid from bad boy but now wants real honest man. It's like... they are made in a factory somewhere then released into the wild for us to poke fun at heh. Sometimes i just find it not funny but sad that this the state of many women in 2021. Being carbon copies of one another.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 08:46 AM
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Yeah, these women honestly think they live under oppressive patriarchy in the West. In a way it's a learning experience in what real oppression looks like. The sad thing is they probably won't learn anything from that. If it doesn't directly affect them, they don't realy care. I came to the conclusion that feminism is the real misogyny and every day that opinion gets reinforced further in my mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 11:06 AM
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It's the opposite actually. Think yin-yang for example. Feminine yin represents chaos whereas masculine yang represents order. Both are needed in balance of course. But judging by all the profiles featured on this sub it's not the men that brought destruction to their lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 10:56 AM
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This whole making friends first thing is extremely deceptive. You just know she's going to use you as an "emotional tampon" and handyman without providing anything in return. " My exes were horrible" "Can you loan me some money for rent?" "My car is acting up can you take a look?" This and more is what you should expect to hear if you get involved. And her spending your money if you ever get serious with her. She made the same mistake twice already. Don't be her cleanup crew.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 10:44 AM
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So she doesn't have her own place so you'll need to move her to yours presumably. But what about the kid, where is she going to live? *Cue argument about that with family* *cue baby daddy drama/snide remarks about you/family drama* *cue whining that baby daddy not doing enough and you have to step up and help and fight blah blah* Why would any sane man want this ensuing clusterfuck in his life??? Did she think about that? No. Her whole profile is just i want, i want, me, me ,me. Don't just run a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 10:19 AM
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Bonnet banger kween in her natural habitat 🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 10:42 AM
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Lard ass single mom Disney princess script is in the works though I'm sure. The way pop culture and Disney is nowadays i woudn't even be surprised.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 01:07 PM
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What percentage of net tax payers are women? Not that many and when compared to men it's even worse. In my country (Greece) the vast number of taxpayers are households/families so i can't say how many as there aren't that many leftovers/unmarried women. I was trying to make the case in my comment that the feminists don't mind draining so much from those they claim to care about. Kinda like how they scream about one female to be made CEO while the vast majority live miserable and unfullfilling li…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 12:52 PM
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I am convinced at this point that "Netflix" on profile bio translates to: " I am lazy and boring and like to sit on my ass all day collecting government assistance and/or child support". It's not even funny how many times i've seen this in single mom profiles. That and Disney. She probably lives in that dream world, waiting for prince charming chad to come rescue her from the consequences of her bad decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 12:12 PM
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As per usual these women tell on themselves if you only listen. Everything she says she doesn't want is what she has already indulged in. I doubt she didn't see the red flags in the people she dated, she just chose to ignore them. Now at 38 wants that "true love". She's thin and attractive i will give her that but also broken beyond repair. I am sure she has that image of the perfect man in her head comprised of characteristics of all the men she dated before. Unfortunately for her that perfect …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 08:41 AM
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Haha, i was referring to higher earning ones having to pay for those just milking the state but your answer works just as well. Sadly true that the biggest wealth transfer from men to women happens through the divorce process.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 08:21 AM
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Funny that the womanists railed about women not being baby and sex machines and that's all many women are now. Along with a major drain on resources of even the women who are actual net taxpayers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 07:49 AM
13

Maybe i am cynical but i see her calling herself undateable as reverse psychology to draw in a certain more low self-esteem type of man. She's not bad looking but 4 kids should be a strong warning to every man that she's not looking for you as a person. She's looking for you as a stepfather. She's looking for your wallet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 07:32 AM
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A common theme: women who mention that they want excitement and mental stimulation, usually are some of the most vapid, boring and self absorbed people around. She's been on 30 dates yet nobody is good enough for her. The only common denominator in all this is her. The commenter tried to give her a dose of reality but i suppose living in a dream world is better than doing a little introspection on her part. The fault's always on the other side.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 07:05 AM
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Case in point, Afghanistan. I am not condoning all the brutality that happened there but we should take pointers on what will happen when shit truly hits the fan. Men with guns that have nothing to lose will just come and take stuff. And no amount of "equality" or "fairness" is going to stop them. Kinda like the barbarians at the gates of past ages. And with the wedge being as deep as it is between the sexes today, i doubt that many decent men will risk their lives in defense of the modern women…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 09:19 AM
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Her whole profile just screams "raised with 0 discipline". Product of a single mom household i bet. Special little snowflake here destroyed her life with her poor impulse control and now that she's done with the "boys" wants that real man™ to submit his application for her consideration. You know if it was a man in her shoes, everyone would just call him a loser at life but this woman just expects to receive a bailout after fucking it all up by her own admission. And on top of that she believes …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 07:31 AM
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Step daddy season I've seen this a lot and from what i could piece together, this has to do with the gas prices skyrocketing and the general shortages with the winter season on its way. Single moms are going to go out in force trying to find that bailout provider. I feel bad for the kid but as always it is not the single men's job to save these women from their bad life decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 06:30 AM
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I consider myself alpha Another "i am the prize" woman... Sorry lady but at 39 and a single mom on a dating app you smell pretty strongly of desperation. You should already have that serious man you're looking for by that age. But i guess chasing the career (i guess where her "alpha" comes from) and riding the carousel was more fun. Now the future man has to pay way more than the man who you got the child from. No thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 12:51 PM
23

As always gotta read between the lines no drama argumentative,bossy one name stands play on a first name basis one night stands which she probably had a lot of confused individuals men who won't commit to her Add to the above the 3 kids+grandkids that judging by her other red flags (tatoos,piercings) might not have fallen far from the tree and you will have to pay for one way or another (money,time, attention etc.) and it all equals to RUN for your lives men!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 09:43 AM
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Seems like this girl lives in her own reality. I am getting Manic Pixie Dream Girl vibes from her. Except it's not like in the movies. In real life such a girl would be all sorts of trouble. She will paint her hair and do stupid shit when bored because she's so "wacky". Will sleep around and party because life's a "trip" or something. Good luck telling her to do anything. She's like a toddler running around breaking stuff and any guy that gets with her will have to deal with her impulsivity and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 09:08 AM
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Always funny how the "want a good Christian" bit always comes after she has had children out of wedlock and is way past her prime.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 10:11 AM
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/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 10:04 AM
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She looks like the girl you picture when you think STD.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 09:51 AM
3

Yeah, it's incredibly easy for women to win at life. All they have to do is what you mentioned above. Exercise some self-control. Don't chase Chad, keep their body count really low or 0, find a decent man and work to keep the relationship going with him. It baffles the mind how so many of them don't seem to get this until too late. But i suppose we are now seeing the resulst of decades of sex "liberation" and that "sTrOnG iNdEpEndEnT QuEeN" bs movement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 07:18 AM
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I absolutely loathe when they put their kid's face on their dating profile. First, why would she not want to protect her kid's identity? But then i remember the second reason i hate it. It's incredibly manipulative. It's meant to tug at the innate men's protective instincts. "Look at this cute little thing, don't you want to protect it and its poor mother???" Single moms like this are the worst of the worst. And she's a "recovering" alcoholic who still drinks...... by age 20... The government as…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 06:35 AM
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I want Must accept Must accept What is she offering? Another man's kids, bitchiness and the chance the pay for her and her mega chin. Run for your lives men!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/21 06:27 AM
13

The passive language though...everything was done to her, she didn't have any agency in her actions, no decisions on her part...just those super "evil" men and that invisible omnipresent patriarchy boogeyman who hides around every corner waiting to eslave women. Women like this are too far gone. They will never accept even a modicum of responsibility for how their lives turned out. Just leave them and their cats alone to live in the hell they created for themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/21 08:45 AM
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You might say that but the epidemic of single moms and most women disregarding the responsible man for the tingles of the "childish" bad boy suggests otherwise. The bad boy/criminal/drug dealer doesn't have to clean after himself and on top of that women will give birth to his child too. Of course, i think we should all be responsible adults but should and what happens in reality doesn't always coincide.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 02:29 PM
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"Real man" in the minds of these garden tools = treat me like a queen and pay for all of my past mistakes The funny thing is that even if they actually find a guy like this, as we saw way too many times, they lose attraction for him for being too "safe" and they go back to chasing after the "boys"... Make it make sense!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/21 08:47 AM
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Looks like she has BPD so it might be a cry for help. But no man should deal with her until she gets therapy. I've seen lots of stories here and elsewhere where the man goes through hell trying to fix the girl and it ends up either of 2 ways. Either his life is destroyed in the process along with hers or she actually does get better and she dumps him and runs after Chad again. "Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved" as the lyrics go.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 10:55 AM
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I thought she might take accountability there for a second but then she had to call the men she chose boys. The implication being that they were just immature jerks, basically removing all accountability from herself. Now only Real Men™ need apply and spoil her of course... What these single moms never seem or want to understand is that they hold no power anymore. They are beggars trying to be choosers. The man will have to invest wayyy more into her than she can give him back. And yet she keeps…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 08:03 AM
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Astrology Honestly, run. Even if she didn't have the kid, that shows she is impulsive and doesn't make her own decisions but bases them on what her daily horoscope might say. Even if she ends up finding a man, she will probably break up or treat him like shit and then blame it all on the zodiac. Oh, i am a Scorpio and this how we are blah blah
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 09:46 AM
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