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I had the exact opposite problem in med school. I was 21 and everyone else was around 27-28. Age is only a big deal if you make it a big deal. It took me a while to really understand that. If the girls care that you're older then that's their problem. Or just don't talk about your masters. it's a frat party, talk about alcohol and how fucked up you guys are.
/r/seduction09/09/17 10:49 PM
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" I know I can do whatever the fuck I want regardless of what you feel." - That's not something a friend says. He seems to be feigning empathy by "saying" he's considering your feelings. He's saying that YOU'LL be crushed if something happens between him and that girl and then he continues to pursue said girl. He's not considering your feelings and rather trying to get confirmation that he can pursue this girl guilt free. He prolly has a bunch of insecurities. You can try talking to his other fr…
/r/seduction04/03/17 04:37 AM
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It might not be the best idea to try to strike up a conversation when someone is heavily concentrated on something. Library, gym, working, etc. These kinds of situations tend to lead to awkward encounters. Not to say you cant, but maybe next time just wait and "bump" into her when she isnt as preoccupied or if she makes eye contact first. just so she is aware of your presence.
/r/seduction20/05/16 12:43 AM
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It might be a good start to improve your own mental health before you consider a relationship. Go to some counseling, talk to family and friends. Or maybe just focus on passing school and not worry as much on getting girls. Your own well being should come first
/r/seduction08/05/16 10:14 PM
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With all these dating apps and shit, everyone is just looking for instant gratification. It sucks to see our generation heading in this direction. But with the internet and phones and all other social media apps/devices, most people don't even need to leave their homes anymore. Its just enabling introverts to be even more introverted
/r/seduction08/05/16 05:17 PM
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Tinder is full of fake accounts, I wouldnt read to far into these I wanna fuck right now accounts. If the girl wants a long term thing and you dont then that doesnt have any reflection on you. If you want to break up with these girls for not wanting to keep it casual then do you boo. Otherwise, make an effort and see where it goes. Life isnt one big porno. Girls arent gonna sleep with you if you just say a witty line. They may want to (some may even do it), but the majority will want to wait. Ma…
/r/seduction08/05/16 05:12 PM
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You're 18 man. I respect that you are able to recognize and try to fix your situation, but you're so young. Just show genuine interest and be open to new things. But most importantly, do things for yourself and don't be in your head all the time. You may think they are losing interest when they may not be and that may cause you to pull away. Also try talking to women just to talk to them and not have it lead anywhere. Lastly, having a good friend group really helps, talk to them. You haven't eve…
/r/seduction08/05/16 05:00 PM
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Yves Saint Laurent really gets the girls going. Little pricy but girls appreciate that extra effort
/r/seduction06/12/15 11:55 PM
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I mean im the worst with first impressions in that respect, but once people get to know me they seem to really like me. I cant get past that first impression part tho
/r/seduction18/10/15 06:08 AM
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no i never said that i consider myself hideous, its just my own depression creeping (as well as my experience) telling me that this girl cant be interested in me. it doesnt make sense because I have know that people do like me but only as a friend. Experience has taught me that the girls I talk to either arent interested in me/have a boyfriend or they do but i never get to go on the date cuz they flake on me and then message me saying sorry the next day. Although the only positive experiences i …
/r/seduction18/10/15 06:06 AM
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I dont really have a problem talking with girls. the problem comes when at the end of the night i still dont believe that she is interested in me more than a friend unless she tells me so herself. Its not really a problem if she likes me like that or not, but I cant wrap my mind around the idea that she is genuienly interested in me
/r/seduction18/10/15 12:31 AM
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i mean all the experiences i do have is of girls coming on to me or me flirting with a girl and she has no interest or she does, but she flakes when he do decide to meet up (the flaking is literally 100% of the time)
/r/seduction18/10/15 12:29 AM
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The post may be deceiving a bit but I'm actually ok with myself. I've been taking Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and its really been helpful. However, the only thing I still cant wrap my head around is the idea that someone could actually be interested in me. I've used positives/negatives plus evidence from my past and present, and my self-confidence in this area alone is absent unless the girl literally comes up to me starts something
/r/seduction18/10/15 12:27 AM
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Being in a similar situation, I can honestly say to you that if you're not in a good place with yourself then there's no way that you could handle being with someone else. If you're looking for reassurement from other's about yourself that's not really gonna help. I'd tell you to get in a good place for yourself (counseling, working out, doing shit to put yourself in a better place). If you feel worthless, then you're not really gonna show what you can offer to anyone else. I'd also tell you to …
/r/seduction11/06/15 05:46 PM
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